Fred74

Advice On Seeing An Escort After They've 'retired'

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Hi guys,

I've always been uncomfortable with full on relationships (due to bad choices) and found my outlet through punting where I can find the parts of relationships which make me happy.

I started with escort agencies, through reviews and reputation and found myself in a situation where I would visit a particular girl regularly (it has been for a long time) and because I was paying her to be, or she was being genuine, we got along really well, and made me feel great.

She has recently taken herself off the website and gave me her number.

I'd like to continue seeing her, just a little concerned about broaching the cost aspect with her. As she was on an agency website she was considerably on the expensive side. I don't want to come across insulting.

Just wondering how I could go about discussing it and also how much would you be expected to pay for someone who advertised on a site for £200/1hr.

Thanks, hope you're having a great Christmas.

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If it's a case of needing to budget just be honest with her

I had a regular wg I saw (until she had kids) and for the 5 years I saw her she put up with the various rates I paid her (when I was flush anything up to £500 varying to a minimum of £200)

If you are well off and she knows you are - then she may well tell you do one - depending on how busy she is

On an slightly unrelated note - however much you currently like your fave wg - you will find others down the line who you'll click with almost as much. So don't take it too hard when she inevitably leaves the biz.

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Give her a ring, book a session and casually raise the question. If you think she isn't worth the money then move on, if she is worth it (and presumably she isn't going to ask for more) then carry on paying as you have been. She is entitled to ask for what she feels she is worth, the market will decide if that is too much. I have seen posts on here before from providers who have upped their prices, lost some clients but not actually reduced their income and were very happy with the situation.

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I don't think that there is any way round the fundamental matter of asking her.

As you have been a regular client, she may agree to a discount but, in the end, it is just a value judgement on your part.

As powellvj1 says, you are bound to find other wgs with whom you will get on really well.

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It doesn't sound like she has retired, it sounds like she's going indie and hoping to take some of the clients she had at the agency with her, including you!

Can't you just call her and tell her you want to make a booking and need to know what her rates are now she is independent?? Is it a difficult question to ask a WG?? Some girls may charge a little less when working indie as they don't have to pay the agency cut of 33-50%, but of course they may be incurring other expenses in travelling and paying for hotels, etc.

If the market rate for a girl of her quality is £200, there's every chance she'll be expecting that as an indie and keeping what would have been the agency cut for herself to compensate for the hassle of arranging all her own bookings.

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Hi guys, I've always been uncomfortable with full on relationships (due to bad choices) and found my outlet through punting where I can find the parts of relationships which make me happy. I started with escort agencies, through reviews and reputation and found myself in a situation where I would visit a particular girl regularly (it has been for a long time) and because I was paying her to be, or she was being genuine, we got along really well, and made me feel great. She has recently taken herself off the website and gave me her number. I'd like to continue seeing her, just a little concerned about broaching the cost aspect with her. As she was on an agency website she was considerably on the expensive side. I don't want to come across insulting. Just wondering how I could go about discussing it and also how much would you be expected to pay for someone who advertised on a site for £200/1hr. Thanks, hope you're having a great Christmas.

Has she told you she has retired or are you assuming she has is the first question, as Venturer says she may simply of gone Indie or to another Agency. Just ring her to establish the facts and mention you would like to see her again and what is her set-up now with that and say how much money should you bring. There is no expected amount to pay, its what she or the SP who offers her work charges.

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Just wondering how I could go about discussing it and also how much would you be expected to pay for someone who advertised on a site for £200/1hr.

How much I'd expect to pay is immaterial. What's important is how much she expects YOU to pay.

There's only one way to find out. Give her a ring, say you want to book her and ask her what her new hourly rate is. I you can afford it fine, if not it's time to search for a new girl. Best of luck.

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I am pretty certain she will accept less, it depends on how she views you, and how frequently you visit. In my experience "retired girls", will heavily discount, depends on their domestic situation. Its obviously got to be worth her while,,,,and as other posters have pointed out there are loads of other girls about. If she does like you, she wil foregoe the agency cut, if she doesnt, that speaks volumes

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I am pretty certain she will accept less, it depends on how she views you, and how frequently you visit. In my experience "retired girls", will heavily discount, depends on their domestic situation. Its obviously got to be worth her while,,,,and as other posters have pointed out there are loads of other girls about. If she does like you, she wil foregoe the agency cut, if she doesnt, that speaks volumes

How can you say "pretty certain" when you don't know the wg involved?

A wg will see a punter as a client - anyone in customer service has clients they are fond of and enjoy dealing with - doesn't men they are going to discount their prices for them

Just because a wg goes independent doesn't mean she is going to cut her prices automatically - she'll just get to keep the full payment made. The possible downside for her is that without advertising she'll miss out on new punters and eventually most of her regulars will get bored of her.

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How can you say "pretty certain" when you don't know the wg involved?

A wg will see a punter as a client - anyone in customer service has clients they are fond of and enjoy dealing with - doesn't men they are going to discount their prices for them

Just because a wg goes independent doesn't mean she is going to cut her prices automatically - she'll just get to keep the full payment made. The possible downside for her is that without advertising she'll miss out on new punters and eventually most of her regulars will get bored of her.

If you bothered to read the whole post, you will see that as long as certain desiderata were met, she would probably discount, I would also add, that it would depend on her maturity, some wgs view buying a packet of twenty fags rather than ten, as long term planning. But thats why so many can never leave the business. The word pretty in this context is used as a qualifier.

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August 2012 will see the 10th anniversary of my first punt, (I stress paid for punt rather than sexual congress for the first time!). The lady concerned retired around 5 years ago.

I would dearly love to see that particular lady again since she was perfectly lovely. In my mind I imagine accidentaly bumping into her in the shopping centre and having had a pleasant chat over coffee to persuade her to join me for luncheon. I'd not be so gross as to expect a shag just like that. It would be wonderful to see that she was happy and content in her life now.

Goodness, what a fluffy am I?

Uncle Pokey

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What is retirement and what is not?

I had the phone number of a girl given to me when she retired, saying she would like to see me either socially or maybe in bed. We had always met in a certain hotel and she knew I would be there about monthly at the time.

It was very strange the first time I called, as i had no idea what the deal would be. I didn't even know if sex would be on the agenda. The she said 'How long do you want' and I replied 'Have your rates gone up or down'. She stayed 3 hours, took payment for 2. fair as we chatted a lot, which was exactly how our meetings had been before she retired. I don't use the hotel anymore, and her phone number appears to belong to someone else now.

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It's obvious she wants to see you again so give her a call. Ask her what made her leave the agency. Following on from that you will get the drift of whether she has retired or re positioned herself in the marketplace.

She would have had to pay the agency a percentage so her new fees may well be less. Only by having this conversation will you find out the truth, but be prepared for her to say that her fees haven't changed, and if she was at the top end of the price range, consider moving on.

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A £300/hour agency girl is probably paying £100 ish to the agency. If you agree £200/hour indie she's still taking home the same.

Make of that what you will.

Oh, and just ask her, given you're no longer through an agency what will the rate be. It's not insulting to discuss money with a WG.

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