Gemma Harris

Can You Teach An Old Dog New Tricks?

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Many times I see WG's say that they want older men as they are more respectful, more considerate, more skilled lovers...........and the punters convince themselves this is just so!

Is this REALLY the truth? Or what the older punters tell themselves to justify shagging girls young enough to be their granddaughters? :P

My regulars range from 21 -82 and the 21 year old is far more better at sex than some of his older peers,

I find with many older guys they are set in knowing what works......"I have been doing this for 30 years it gets them off every time" - really? or does it just make the girl fake faster?

While the cute cheeky 21 year old has been an avid learner, he knows exactly how to please me, he has listened and been willing to learn.

Sex with punters can go from being a little bumpy to down right painful to amazingly pleasurable, (the biggest surprise orgasm I ever had was sitting on the face of a 70+ yr old)

I just think that the younger lads get a bit of unfair dismissal when it comes to age limits, take'em in and teach them a trick or two while they are still willing to learn!

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No...older men GENERALLY (not always) come quicker and don't go for hours like younger ones.

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Many times I see WG's say that they want older men as they are more respectful, more considerate, more skilled lovers...........and the punters convince themselves this is just so! Is this REALLY the truth? Or what the older punters tell themselves to justify shagging girls young enough to be their granddaughters? :P My regulars range from 21 -82 and the 21 year old is far more better at sex than some of his older peers, I find with many older guys they are set in knowing what works......"I have been doing this for 30 years it gets them off every time" - really? or does it just make the girl fake faster? While the cute cheeky 21 year old has been an avid learner, he knows exactly how to please me, he has listened and been willing to learn. Sex with punters can go from being a little bumpy to down right painful to amazingly pleasurable, (the biggest surprise orgasm I ever had was sitting on the face of a 70+ yr old) I just think that the younger lads get a bit of unfair dismissal when it comes to age limits, take'em in and teach them a trick or two while they are still willing to learn!

As ever it all depends on the individual. I dont feel the need to justify punting with WGs of 18, i just do so if i wish to, i am 46. I am definitely set in my ways sexually and experienced many things beyond my wildest fantasies thanks to punting, so i know what i like and exactly how i like it which does make me reticent to experiment. I am more open with a regular to experiment than a newbie to me and its always great fun to be surprised by a WG in the way she does something which is unique in my experiences.

I see punters of all ages at parties and i see no difference in terms of respect or technique with many but of course its not me experiencing their technique, so what do i know. ;)

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It varies, whilst I hate to generalise or stereotype but younger men are more arrogant are less respectful and think they know it all, often it is all about their pleasure! Older men are usually more experimental and want to learn or try new things, maybe because they have been with the same woman for a long time and are also confident in their sexuality- for example men who want to try anal play or have a strap on used on them are (in my experience) all above 30, mainly over 40. Many younger men are all 'but I'm not gay!' if such a thing is mentioned to them. *rolls eyes*

English escort girl- I don't think older men come quicker, again generalising, its the younger lads that tend to pop at the sight of a naked pair of tits whereas older men have usually learned to control themselves! Although younger men will be more able to go again, but I thinks that's about biology rather than anything that can be controlled!

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Agreed Lydia - I tend to generalise....I do prefer older men as they are USUALLY more respectful and come once and prefer to chat as well...whereas the younger ones TEND to want to do it again and again which to be honest wears me out.

I am probably in agreement with you but just didn't express it very well!

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in many areas of my life (at work, yachting and punting, i realise that the more i learn, the more i dont know.

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It's often been said to me that younger men are brash and we older men are more respectful - it could be the younger men are simply out to show the wg how good they are whereas the older men are only too grateful to have women provide services, particularly women who are considerably younger than many of their clients. But, then again, maybe that isn't the case either, maybe it's all about generalisation and the acceptance of old mores without really examining them.

I never considered the possibility of paying for sex when I was younger, there was plenty to be had free of charge and from women of all age groups; at times avoiding it was the problem - there's not only 'dirty old' men out there I can assure you!! However, having once had sex on a 'pay as you go' basis I never again seriously thought of doing it any other way - pity I didn't try it when it was being handed out like Smarties - buying a brewery just to have a pint when you want one can't be economical, it just takes someone to point it out and who better than a quality wg !! ;)

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No...older men GENERALLY (not always) come quicker and don't go for hours like younger ones.

Really? Ok: I am generalising too: but most of the older guys (when I say older: I mean at least past 60-ies) do require quite a lot of work to get them hard, at least for a second round. On other hand: guys in the 20-40ies, are erect permanently. Again, I am only generalising.

Socially: I never felt any generation gap during conversation, whatever guy is 20 or 87 (my oldest client, thought he looked about 112, and I know he is not, because people dont live that long)

I did find though, that older guys are less skilled then more new generation. They also tend to give you some awkward and rather odd sex talk during the action: (similar to narration to the porn in the 70ies, Yuk!).

Only based on experience: its between 25 and 60 for me. To far out of this brackets: the more possibility to deal with an inadequate people, which should not see escorts for various reasons.

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Only based on experience: its between 25 and 60 for me. To far out of this brackets: the more possibility to deal with an inadequate people, which should not see escorts for various reasons.

uh? i am 55 so presumably OK in the sack but in 4.5 years time i will overnight become crap. how does that work then?

far too much generalisaton on this thread i feel.

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As a guy in his late twenties i can tell you there are plenty of those in my peer group of both sexes who in their own minds know all there is to know about sex and that noone is going to teach them anything, if only the young fools knew ^_^

Communication as always is key, age matters less than a willingness to listen

From the other side personally I've known enough women who are happy enough to be very passive and expect the guy to work it all out, now I dare say most of us have a fairly decent idea of our way round the female body, but the individual intricacies can only be found either by a long drawn out process of trial and error or by being guided by the lady in question.

Best you can do is try to tell/show the guy what works for you and hope that he's smart enough to use that, those too set in their own ways are the ones who will lose out in the end.

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No...older men GENERALLY (not always) come quicker and don't go for hours like younger ones.

I thought I was fairly typical that in my 20's I had a hair trigger that needed careful management to prevent a premature end whereas in my 40's (and now alas, just into my 6th decade), I have a lot more stamina and control.

Maybe it's just me then.

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Socially: I never felt any generation gap during conversation, whatever guy is 20 or 87 (my oldest client, thought he looked about 112, and I know he is not, because people dont live that long)

Only based on experience: its between 25 and 60 for me. To far out of this brackets: the more possibility to deal with an inadequate people, which should not see escorts for various reasons.

uh? i am 55 so presumably OK in the sack but in 4.5 years time i will overnight become crap. how does that work then?

far too much generalisaton on this thread i feel.

Ha ha, CP, don't feel aggrieved, think yourself lucky, what about the guy aged 87? What's the chance that after his punt he was sectioned and locked away in Broadmoor? No doubt that would teach the poor old bugger to get ideas below his station ..... or his waist! Always be thankful for small mercies. :D

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