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Text Messages From Girls You Have Visited

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A couple of times during the year I have forgotten my punting phone and used my regular phone. Being aware of this, I've only contacted girls who are regularly mentioned and highly regarded on this board - and indeed are considered 'stars'.

Tonight, whilst I am sat watching telly with t'other half and my 12 year old, my phone beeps. It's a message (a 'WhatsApp' message, similar to an SMS or iPhone iMessage) from a well known Asian girl saying '(her name): how r u?' My son glances at the phone and says 'who is xxxxxx?' I replied 'I'm not sure - I don't know the number who it's from - it must be a wrong number'.

I think I got away with it - although it must mean she has had my number idly in her phone for months. Then, when family TV was done, I've went to my study, and had guite a nice text chat with the girl. However, I did make it plain that I was saving money after an expensive Xmas, so hopefully she'll lose interest and that will be the end of this. Perhaps I am a cynic, but I have only seen her once, months ago (she was fab btw).

Anyway, it raises two questions:

1. Has anyone else received similar texts? (let's not identify the girl publicly, but PM OK)

2. On a much more general (and perhaps selfish) note: Does anyone worry that their number is stored away on escorls' phones? I'd hate to think of the implications if, God forbid, something nasty happend to a girl.

Oh, and Happy New Year!

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1) No, being a single chap affords me plenty of freedoms ;)

2) Not at all. As per number 1. If I was that fussed or worried about it I'd have a second PAYG phone for punting purposes.

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This is one of the points that gibert2 highlighted in his " how to get a girlfriend " thread . Lots of girls will store your number for future when work is a bit scarce . The one you got would be to alert you to the fact that the wg is available in the early new year when punters are at rest.

I don't find it a problem myself ,but many guarded punters think it is unprofessional . If I am impressed with a girl I give her my business address and my only mobile number.

I have sent you a pm .

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1) No, being a single chap affords me plenty of freedoms ;)

2) Not at all. As per number 1. If I was that fussed or worried about it I'd have a second PAYG phone for punting purposes.

But most PAYG can be tracked to a person. And if you only topped up with cash etc, then it would look even more suspicious!

Don't get me wrong, I am not being paranoid and I would be keen to help if anything untoward happened. I'm just aware of the issue and the potential implications.

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I get them frequently, but it's with my agreement and I have nothing to hide so it's cool with me.

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I get them frequently, but it's with my agreement and I have nothing to hide so it's cool with me.

Yes, there's a couple of girls I have a 'text agreement' with too. It was just the way this pne came out of the blue that surprised me.

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This is one of the points that gibert2 highlighted in his " how to get a girlfriend " thread . Lots of girls will store your number for future when work is a bit scarce . The one you got would be to alert you to the fact that the wg is available in the early new year when punters are at rest.

I don't find it a problem myself ,but many guarded punters think it is unprofessional . If I am impressed with a girl I give her my business address and my only mobile number.

I have sent you a pm .

Thanks. That thread by Gilbert2 has to be up in the top ten thread ever. Along with your 'Not Your Usual Bangkok Trip Report'.

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But most PAYG can be tracked to a person. And if you only topped up with cash etc, then it would look even more suspicious!

Don't get me wrong, I am not being paranoid and I would be keen to help if anything untoward happened. I'm just aware of the issue and the potential implications.

If you buy a PAYG phone/Sim in cash and only use it when ringing or texting a WG to arrange a punt and turn the phone off/take the Sim out the rest of the time, it would take some doing to trace you. Why do you say topping up in cash would look suspicious, countless people do so, its not in the slightest suspicious.

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A couple of times during the year I have forgotten my punting phone and used my regular phone. Being aware of this, I've only contacted girls who are regularly mentioned and highly regarded on this board - and indeed are considered 'stars'.

Tonight, whilst I am sat watching telly with t'other half and my 12 year old, my phone beeps. It's a message (a 'WhatsApp' message, similar to an SMS or iPhone iMessage) from a well known Asian girl saying '(her name): how r u?' My son glances at the phone and says 'who is xxxxxx?' I replied 'I'm not sure - I don't know the number who it's from - it must be a wrong number'.

I think I got away with it - although it must mean she has had my number idly in her phone for months. Then, when family TV was done, I've went to my study, and had guite a nice text chat with the girl. However, I did make it plain that I was saving money after an expensive Xmas, so hopefully she'll lose interest and that will be the end of this. Perhaps I am a cynic, but I have only seen her once, months ago (she was fab btw).

Anyway, it raises two questions:

1. Has anyone else received similar texts? (let's not identify the girl publicly, but PM OK)

2. On a much more general (and perhaps selfish) note: Does anyone worry that their number is stored away on escorls' phones? I'd hate to think of the implications if, God forbid, something nasty happend to a girl.

Oh, and Happy New Year!

I have been called and texted before by a small number of SPs out of the blue offering me a discount or just soliciting my business, it always means that provider will never get my business in future. I require discretion when punting and its very unprofessional for a SP to cold contact a punter in my view. If he has previously given permission then thats different obviously, i have no problem agreeing with a WG to contact me if an arranged punt has to be cancelled for example. I am not worried about my number being stored away because if it came to it i know i have done nothing wrong.

If you have anything to lose, a partner or family for example its always best to have a dedicated punting phone or Sim in my opinion and only ever use that for punting. Happy New Year. :)

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I have had this happen to me many times. Thankfully I have punting PAYG phone so it’s not too bad.

However single or not would you really want a WG to have your personal number think about it, one day the other half could have your phone. You may use it as a business phone and she could trace you to it and find out all sorts of personal details about you.

And no matter what we say or think a PAYG can fairly easily be tracked down to a person or location. The technology they have at their disposal is phenomenal. Mr Devine did a post a while back where he listed some things they (police) would and could do to find you.

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ive never even considered a punting phone.

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It's utterly unacceptable for girls to send unsolicited text messages, especially when they've made a big thing about not picking up calls from withheld numbers. I think I've mentioned before about a girl who wouldn't stop sending me text messages, despite my asking her to stop. Result: I always withhold my number and if the girl doesn't like it, tough, I take my custom elsewhere.

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Anyway, it raises two questions:

1. Has anyone else received similar texts? (let's not identify the girl publicly, but PM OK)

2. On a much more general (and perhaps selfish) note: Does anyone worry that their number is stored away on escorls' phones? I'd hate to think of the implications if, God forbid, something nasty happend to a girl.

Oh, and Happy New Year!

Even if your number is stored on the wgs phone, your privacy should never be compromised.

I recently upgraded my private phone to an iphone and discovered the world of whatsapp.

There are only a couple of gentlemen whom I have met that have access to my private number. We contact each other regularly, but this is done with prior agreement.

You say you had a nice conversation afterwards and hinted you had no funds for punting. Did you at any point mention you would prefer she did not contact you as you have family around you? Did you tell her she nearly got you in hot water when your son read the message?

If she is indeed a *star* on this board, she's is going to see this thread, realise it's her you are talking of, and be rather embarrassed by her indiscretion [let's face it, there aren't that many Asian girls posting on this board and I can only think of one such 'star']

I remember pointing out to one gent in particular that his REAL name was coming up on whatsapp. While I knew his real name, I suspect not everyone did. He wasn't aware of this and changed it immediately.

Do be careful with whatsapp if you are using your personal phone for punting gentlemen.

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It's utterly unacceptable for girls to send unsolicited text messages, especially when they've made a big thing about not picking up calls from withheld numbers. I think I've mentioned before about a girl who wouldn't stop sending me text messages, despite my asking her to stop. Result: I always withhold my number and if the girl doesn't like it, tough, I take my custom elsewhere.

While I understand where you are coming from, supposing something happens and the girl needs to contact you to cancel, delay, etc?

E.g. Supposing her family/friends turned up unannounced soon after you confirmed you were on your way? Not only would your journey be wasted, but she'd be in bother too.

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My objection is not so much to that, but to girls breaking a contract of trust by storing numbers and using them to send out-of-the-blue 'special offers', or simply remind punters of their existence. I'd much rather miss out on the occasional appointment (as, I guess, people must have done pre-mobile phone days) than have to explain away an unsolicited text message to someone I know who picks up my phone.

Some (by no means all) girls use pretty strong armed tactics to extract numbers from punters. While I understand the need to filter out time wasters, they must understand the potentially serious, in some cases life-changing, consequences of a text message being seen by the wrong person. Which is why I choose to eliminate the problem altogether by always, and without any exceptions, withholding my number.

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@ jasmin,

No it's not that one . The one he speaks of doesn't read or post on P'net. The " star " asian wg doesn't have time for message forums like this as they are too busy working.

They only get alerted to odd posts on here by their regular customers and the posts are explained / translated, the girl just laughs and gets on with her job .

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@ Karl,

Then you can't be doing very much punting. If you call an agency and most indies with a witheld number They generally don't pick up.

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I agree, unsolicited texts are unfair to the punter. I like texting as a form of communication, but I only reply to texts sent, that way you can assume that it's safe to do so. Like most WGs, I have a separate phone for work - entirely because I don't want unsolicited calls/texts to my private phone, so I work on the assumption that the punters feel the same about it.

Having a punting phone is a good idea, but on the other hand may be more incriminating if discovered. After all, a dodgy text could be a genuine error, I got a 'happy xmas' text off someone called Renee who I didn't know from Adam this year :-)

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Frankly, sending text messages touting for business reeks of desperation. Apart from that it really isn't fair on men who who want to be very discreet. The rule is you only ever contact a client if you need to change or cancel instructions and then in discreet words that can easily be passed off as a wrong number should wife/kid/boss find it! I thought that was pretty high on the list of rules for Working Girls!

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@ jasmin,

No it's not that one . The one he speaks of doesn't read or post on P'net. The " star " asian wg doesn't have time for message forums like this as they are too busy working.

They only get alerted to odd posts on here by their regular customers and the posts are explained / translated, the girl just laughs and gets on with her job .

That part confuses me :blink:

Even those who are 'too busy working' have time to read forums surely? They must have time to answer emails etc? The internet is easily accessible by mobile phones and it only takes a few minutes to read threads.

Where there's a will, there's a way during lunch break/dinner/bedtime/filing nails/reading a book/on the tube/taking a break from a long and boring assignment...

There's 'busy' and there's 'overworked'. Many of us have careers away from escorting, as well as families to look after. I'm just showered, dressed and waiting for someone. It's taken me all of 5 minutes to read the posts and respond to yours.

As for your comment on the girl laughing something like this off and getting on with her job, that would be a disgraceful attitude for an escort to have. Particularly in a situation like the OPs where he could have been in real trouble with his partner had he not bluffed his way out of this situation.

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[snip]The rule is you only ever contact a client if you need to change or cancel instructions and then in discreet words that can easily be passed off as a wrong number should wife/kid/boss find it! I thought that was pretty high on the list of rules for Working Girls[/snip]

I agree - and I rate(d) this girl as a true professional - thats why I was so surprised that (i) she texted at all and (ii)she put her name on the message (though to be fair I wouldn't have known who it was from otherwise).

@IndianDelightJasmin: As WorldPunter says, she doesn't post on here - but she's highly regarded. So no, its not who you think! BTW, I think WhatsApp just displays the name from your contact list - correct me if I'm wong.

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I have recieved many texts from her and not one with her name to it . This would be a mistake on her part and she would not know her name was displayed.

I have around 20 asian girls / agencies on my only phone in my address book . Why not just tell those around you never to go into your mobile . It's that simple really and practice what you preach and never pick up other family members phones . Many problems have been started over this intrusive action .

If I get hit by a bus out on the street , I hope to god it kills me there and then and when the traffic police check my mobile to contact my next of kin lets hope they automatically dial to letter A the first on the list . I would like her to know why I don't make bookings anymore.

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@ jasmin, I don't know why you have to bring " overworked " into your post ?

As far as I can see he only punts around Milton Keynes , and there are not that many asian ladies in that area . And he is busy from what I read on his Fr / posts .

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If I get hit by a bus out on the street , I hope to god it kills me there and then and when the traffic police check my mobile to contact my next of kin lets hope they automatically dial to letter A the first on the list . I would like her to know why I don't make bookings anymore.

Haha *grin*. Have you come across the ICE idea for mobiles. You create a contact called ICE (In Case of Emergency). You could just add all your girls/agencies to it.

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Frankly, sending text messages touting for business reeks of desperation. Apart from that it really isn't fair on men who who want to be very discreet. The rule is you only ever contact a client if you need to change or cancel instructions and then in discreet words that can easily be passed off as a wrong number should wife/kid/boss find it! I thought that was pretty high on the list of rules for Working Girls!

Girls who come into this country from overseas don't follow " the rules " They come here to work and make money . This reminds me of the old thread by Bill Goldberg in praise of asian girls . He was banging his head against a brick wall trying to get it over to english /uk based wg the huge difference in service and attitude to the work .

I believe most girls here don't want to accept that their sisters from abroad can come into their country and show them how it should be done .

Asian girls do not sit at their laptop or phone , firing back posts about the subject . They just get on with it .

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