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Do Customers Look At A Favourite Girl's Feedback And Get Put Off (jealous?!)

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I was just wondering if any customers look at a girl's feedback and get jealous....it may sound odd, but someone said that they were put off that other men were writing positive things about me and made them not want to come and visit me again!!!

Is this common? It's a bit random but I do like to get to know customers and perhaps they really do feel like it's a GFE...!!

I don't lie and say I don't see anyone else (of course) but they seem to have got it into their head that they are the only one.

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on fear of sounding really stupid: yes, sort-of.

Look at it as a compliment to the girl.

I've had the odd small twang of jealousy reading feedback where my all-time-fave regular was described.

mainly because the description was dead-right correct.

And another review, recently, of another good regular gave me the feeling: "that guy was soo lucky..."

In general, I'd rather describe positive reviews of a regular as confirmation of my opinion: "She is That Good."

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I was just wondering if any customers look at a girl's feedback and get jealous....it may sound odd, but someone said that they were put off that other men were writing positive things about me and made them not want to come and visit me again!!! Is this common? It's a bit random but I do like to get to know customers and perhaps they really do feel like it's a GFE...!! I don't lie and say I don't see anyone else (of course) but they seem to have got it into their head that they are the only one.

Jealous, thats not an emotion i feel in punting or out of it for that matter. What a WG does when i am not with her is her business. Its obviously the case that she would be punting with other people as its her job. A WG having feedback helps me as a punter, the more the merrier.

Any punter who does feel jealous should wake up and smell the roses in my opinion, that kind of thinking unless mutual isnt healthy for them.

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Put simply - the answer is no.

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Jealous, thats not an emotion i feel in punting or out of it for that matter. What a WG does when i am not with her is her business. Its obviously the case that she would be punting with other people as its her job. A WG having feedback helps me as a punter, the more the merrier.

Any punter who does feel jealous should wake up and smell the roses in my opinion, that kind of thinking unless mutual isnt healthy for them.

+1. Spot on, but just occasionally a girl can have so many feedbacks on A-W (250+ ?) that it makes me wonder if she could be jaded or impersonal. A girl is unlikely to reach that number of FRs so P'net doesn't cause similar concerns.

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True juzz, so it may put you off booking someone in the first place, but do you ever check someone's field reports and think anything of it?

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I simply look forward to meeting her again seeing that the other men enjoyed her as much as I did ;)

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I think it would depend on what was actually written..

Shes not my girlfirend, wife, whatever and I know shes probably the same with me as every client who comes through the door. so Id fully expect that other punters are going to write similar FR of "she was fantastic, did all the advertised services, treat her right gents!", blah blah....

But if I read a FR on a girl ive seen before, had a good time, and the FR is along the lines of "I rammed her in doggy, grabbed her hair, shoved my thumb up her arse and rode her like fukcin seabiscuit calling her a Dirty F%^king girl" then, I admit, I can get more than a bit peeved off...

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True juzz, so it may put you off booking someone in the first place, but do you ever check someone's field reports and think anything of it?

I do check field reports... but try to add balance when I read. So several similarly negative things from well respected reporters would put me off, but positive or negative things from suspect reporters wouldn't influence unduly.

Sometimes I read others' field reports on girls I've seen and think 'oh yes, that rings true', but it doesn't cause envy or jealousy. I see punting as a business transaction, even if I get on with the girl really well. There have been times where I have gone out for drinks or food with a girl, but I don't do it in any form of romantic or emotional way.

On the odd occasion where I have been really attracted to a WG (and I don't just mean physically) I have avoided seeing her again, because punting for me is to fulfil a physical rather than emotional need. I think that the someone you mention in your OP was probably attracted to you more than just physically, hence the envy/jealousy.

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No, I don't get jealous when I see positive comments by other men formy favourite WGs. I'm pretty ambivalent about it; if they say she's good, then it's nothing I don't already know, and if they say she's bad, then that alone won't change my mind.

Would seem a bit strange to be put off by the kind of thing that probably brought the girl to your attention in the first place.

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On the flip side when I got a negative feedback on the other site- totally fabricated because I contacted him to complain about the used syringes he left in my bathroom (yes, really!) I had several really sweet messages from guys I had seen to say what an idiot this guy must have been and was I OK. I was quite touched at their concern and that they were keeping an eye on my profile!

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+1. Spot on, but just occasionally a girl can have so many feedbacks on A-W (250+ ?) that it makes me wonder if she could be jaded or impersonal. A girl is unlikely to reach that number of FRs so P'net doesn't cause similar concerns.

The amount of feedback a WG might have doesnt bother me, Barbie reached 224 FRs on here before they were taken down for whatever reason. Shanelle of St Albans who i have punted with is closing in a 100 FRs over years but is still offering a tip top service.

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I was just wondering if any customers look at a girl's feedback and get jealous....it may sound odd, but someone said that they were put off that other men were writing positive things about me and made them not want to come and visit me again!!!

Is this common? It's a bit random but I do like to get to know customers and perhaps they really do feel like it's a GFE...!!

I don't lie and say I don't see anyone else (of course) but they seem to have got it into their head that they are the only one.

Sounds like this guy has got the idea that you have more than just a professional connection, have you crossed personal boundaries with him that would give him this idea or is it all a figment of his overactive imagination??

Maybe he's just human and found himself emotionally attracted, feels a bit stupid about it and this is his face-saving way of retreating from you.

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The whole concept of field reports is fairly new to me.

The first time I read one on a girl I had seen a few time, I was a little let down. like 'oh , she did that for him too?!'

I soon got over it.

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I'm not really a jealous type at all but do occasionally feel a slight 'twang' (just a little one- and it's only temporary) if it's concerning a girl im really particularly fond of and attracted to

I know it's completely silly, I know that this whole game is a paid for fantasy, but I feel it's simply a little bit of human nature rearing it's head now and again, and it's something inevitable and involuntary, regardless of how level headed and aware one may be.....id put it down to biology and instinct ruling the head, albeit very briefly

It's never, ever put me off seeing a girl again though, and those completely illogical feelings soon vanish anyhow !

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I think it would depend on what was actually written..

Shes not my girlfirend, wife, whatever and I know shes probably the same with me as every client who comes through the door. so Id fully expect that other punters are going to write similar FR of "she was fantastic, did all the advertised services, treat her right gents!", blah blah....

But if I read a FR on a girl ive seen before, had a good time, and the FR is along the lines of "I rammed her in doggy, grabbed her hair, shoved my thumb up her arse and rode her like fukcin seabiscuit calling her a Dirty F%^king girl" then, I admit, I can get more than a bit peeved off...

You should try reading that about your wife ! But these clients do like to exaggerate in field reports whether it is the services they had or their own sexual prowess......or so I am told.

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I'm not really a jealous type at all but do occasionally feel a slight 'twang' (just a little one- and it's only temporary) if it's concerning a girl im really particularly fond of and attracted to

I know it's completely silly, I know that this whole game is a paid for fantasy, but I feel it's simply a little bit of human nature rearing it's head now and again, and it's something inevitable and involuntary, regardless of how level headed and aware one may be.....id put it down to biology and instinct ruling the head, albeit very briefly

It's never, ever put me off seeing a girl again though, and those completely illogical feelings soon vanish anyhow !

There's a wide range of punters, from the tormented souls who constantly fall for WGs to those who can treat a punt solely as a workaday business transcation. The difference is in the passion that individual punters bring to the table (bed?). The word implies 'suffering' (from the Greek). Those who are naturally more pasionate will feel and suffer more and will learn to deal with it. Personally I'm with Bill on this. We know it's fantasy and we sometimes shouldn't start to get involved - but there's a natural instinct to do so. It's part of the DNA. I think the day that I start to see punting as just a sex act will be the day I retire!

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I have booked seven ladies to date and have always enquired if the lady would like a review. With one exception the answer was a clear "yes". The one "no" was becasue the lady did not wish to increase her profile beyond her existing level. The main point of writing a (positive) review is to try to help the lady to maintain or increase her turnover and that is inconsistent with any feelings of jealousy when the lady later sees other clients.

All of the ladies who expressed an opinion preferred a review which was not highly detailed. My very first lady (the no review one) used the expression "Let's see if the chemistry is right". So, I research carefully to see if this is likely to be the case with a new lady and this seems to have worked well, to date. Therefore I should not be surprised if the chemistry should prove right for the lady and other clients because it did with me.

I plan (in general) to see two of the ladies on an alternating basis with the intention of not becoming overly attached or dependent upon any one lady. Yes, I am fond of and attracted to both of them but have to let it stop exactly there.

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There's a wide range of punters, from the tormented souls who constantly fall for WGs to those who can treat a punt solely as a workaday business transcation. The difference is in the passion that individual punters bring to the table (bed?). The word implies 'suffering' (from the Greek). Those who are naturally more pasionate will feel and suffer more and will learn to deal with it. Personally I'm with Bill on this. We know it's fantasy and we sometimes shouldn't start to get involved - but there's a natural instinct to do so. It's part of the DNA. I think the day that I start to see punting as just a sex act will be the day I retire!

To be pedantic, passion comes from the Latin passionem (suffering, enduring) rather than the Greek pema.

As I said above, I prefer punting without romance or passion. A dollop of lust is good though...

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I was just wondering if any customers look at a girl's feedback and get jealous....it may sound odd, but someone said that they were put off that other men were writing positive things about me and made them not want to come and visit me again

That sounds quite bizarre. If a punter can't accept that a WG will see other men and enjoy herself just as much (if not more) with those men, then punting is probably not for him. It sounds like he is a clingy type and you may well be better off if he doesn't visit again eeg.

I think it pays to comparmentalise things whilst punting. Thinking too much about other men with your favourite WG might not be healthy, especially if you are passingly friendly with her. Personally, I don't have a problem with it at all (I am excellent at compartmentalising my life though). Whilst a punt is about so much more than simple sex to me, it is obviously a business transaction and that is the way that both partyies should treat it. After all, very few people agonise over who else their plumber/hairdresser/accountant/etc might be doing work for this month lol.

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To be pedantic, passion comes from the Latin passionem (suffering, enduring) rather than the Greek pema.

As I said above, I prefer punting without romance or passion. A dollop of lust is good though...

I think it depends which dictionary you have. Many quote the Greek πάσχω as the source (hence Easter in Greek is πάσχά). However I bow to your better knowledge and will try ardor in future. PS I agree that lust by the dollop will enhance any punt.

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But these clients do like to exaggerate in field reports whether it is the services they had or their own sexual prowess......or so I am told.

Many do. I remember reading a long and detailed FR on a previous favorite of mine a couple of years ago. It described in graphic detail a lengthy tie and tease session with this young lady and described very vividly the number of orgasms he gave her using his bag of toys.

When I asked the WG about the session described in the FR at our next meeting and if It had really been that good, she simply said "It was nothing like that. Ok, he tied me up, put a blindfold on me and shoved a bloody rabbit up inside, but to be honest I spent the whole booking worrying about how I could check he'd put a condom on before we had sex. In the end, I insisted he took the blindfold off so I could check and he got annoyed with me for spoiling the mood. It was about as sexy as doing the laundry".

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To be pedantic, passion comes from the Latin passionem (suffering, enduring) rather than the Greek pema.

As I said above, I prefer punting without romance or passion. A dollop of lust is good though...

You could be missing out on something here juzz

I distinctly remember one of my greatest all time punts, seeing Champagne (now retired) of asianselection, on a freezing cold, dead of night, December booking a few years back.

I'm completely with you when it comes to 'romance' and punting, but the clawing, biting, gasping, writhing, unfettered passion of that session melted the snow on the roof and made it one of the most memorable punts i've ever had

She really was one of the best girls on the London scene and my number 1 choice for several years. She always seemed to be so open, and into it just as much as you were. Her physical bodily responses were real and obvious. Like Maria you felt she gave herself to you completely, just for that hour you were with her. Except Champagne had an open vulnerability that I havent sensed from any other wg I've ever been with.

A perfect blend of GFE and PSE. With her, it almost always felt like the frantic hormone fuelled, early stages of a relationship, do it anywhere, everywhere and at every available opportunity, sex.

Lust and passion are pretty closely linked though, dont you think, Juzz ?

We could just be using different words to describe the same thing ?

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Lust and passion are pretty closely linked though, dont you think

Totally agree with this Bill. Sexual passion and romantic passion are two completely different animals. The latter has no place in a punt. The former is almost a prerequisite for an excellent encounter (for me at least).

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@Bill; @Northwinds: I read Bill's post and was mentally preparing my reply until I read the last para. The Northwinds summed it up even better, so this part of my post is now totally redundant! :)

@Lord Byron: My Greek is very poor, unless you are talking about the sexual position *grin*. I don' know how to promounce all those squiggles, but next time I see a girl I'll take your recommendation and definitely will try ardour.

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