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Have You Ever Dated A Wg?

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Just wondering if any punters on here have entered into a relationship with a WG.

I'm fairly new to punting so haven't, but am curious about what people think.

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Sure, it happens, and has been discussed on here before but it's not common.

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Yes and no. I have become friends with quite a series of WGs over the years but found it worked best not to mix their business with my pleasure and any sex was in the workplace as a punter. One covered 20 years or so off and on.

The leisure meets were not dates in most people's minds I realise but they were hugely enjoyable and not hampered by any awkwardness about physical proximity, taboo subjects etc.

And yes, they probably wouldn't have touched me with a bargepole in terms of their free choice of sexual partners.

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Just wondering if any punters on here have entered into a relationship with a WG.

I'm fairly new to punting so haven't, but am curious about what people think.

A relationship? With a WG?

Don't be daft. WGs aren't real women. Honestly, the very idea! :o

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Just wondering if any punters on here have entered into a relationship with a WG.

I'm fairly new to punting so haven't, but am curious about what people think.

I have. It's a rather long and complicated story as you might expect and, possibly, a reflection of the fact that I'm relatively inexperienced punting-wise- less than 2 years in which appears from reading this board to be a period when punters are more susceptible to getting emotionally involved.

It does, however, pass many (maybe all, I'm not keeping score) of the tests that are frequently cited here when trying to separate emotional fact from punting fiction.

What is it you want to know?

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I have. It's a rather long and complicated story as you might expect and, possibly, a reflection of the fact that I'm relatively inexperienced punting-wise- less than 2 years in which appears from reading this board to be a period when punters are more susceptible to getting emotionally involved.

It does, however, pass many (maybe all, I'm not keeping score) of the tests that are frequently cited here when trying to separate emotional fact from punting fiction.

What is it you want to know?

Well at the moment I'm considering asking out my favourite WG.

How did you go about telling them that you wanted to see them outside work? And how did you find it, was it an unusual experience or just like any othr relationship?

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A relationship? With a WG?

Don't be daft. WGs aren't real women. Honestly, the very idea! :o

Top quote! Is true some people on here seem too think WGs are from out of space or something! What someone does for a living within reason is neither here nor there too me,I like many people have dated girls who do all different kinds of work,

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Well at the moment I'm considering asking out my favourite WG.

How did you go about telling them that you wanted to see them outside work? And how did you find it, was it an unusual experience or just like any othr relationship?

To put my sensible head on for once, how do you think she will respond to you asking her out?

If she says no, would you be able to bring yourself to ever see her again professionally? Or would it be too uncomfortable for you?

You might find yourself not being able to have any fun times with her anymore

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Well at the moment I'm considering asking out my favourite WG.

How did you go about telling them that you wanted to see them outside work? And how did you find it, was it an unusual experience or just like any othr relationship?

Are you planning to ask her to give it all up for you? X

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I've seen a lot of threads on here about this subject but ask yourself : do you really want to meet her family ? if she's a lot younger than you her parents could well be younger than you as well, meet here extended family ? brothers / sisters etc who probably don't know she's a WG so you are going to have to be ever careful what's being said, if she has kids are you going to gladly be an unpaid baby sitter while she's out at work ?

If you're happy with all of the above and more go ahead, life is full of choices.

I pay for a WG time to NOT have a relationship with her !

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I've seen a lot of threads on here about this subject but ask yourself : do you really want to meet her family ? if she's a lot younger than you her parents could well be younger than you as well, meet here extended family ? brothers / sisters etc who probably don't know she's a WG so you are going to have to be ever careful what's being said, if she has kids are you going to gladly be an unpaid baby sitter while she's out at work ?

If you're happy with all of the above and more go ahead, life is full of choices.

I pay for a WG time to NOT have a relationship with her !

Why do you assume a young women with a tribe of kids who'll expect a babysitting service?

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Well at the moment I'm considering asking out my favourite WG.

How did you go about telling them that you wanted to see them outside work? And how did you find it, was it an unusual experience or just like any othr relationship?

Well, firstly, bear in mind the thrust of Amanda's post- your friend is a person, not (just) a working girl. So the usual rules apply- how would you do this in your "normal" life? And be prepared for rejection, just as in normal life.

In my case? I'm such a stud that she asked me out. Well, ok, that's not quite true: she likes dancing, hadn't been at all whilst in London* and, on punt #3, asked me if I'd take her somewhere to dance the following day. Meant I got her real number. LOTS of chasing later including 1 further booking and an overnight ( the line "I want to see you not [insert working name here]" eventually worked wonders) and we were off. Basically, I made it very clear I was interested in seeing her but that if I had to continue paying then I would.

Effectively the day after the overnight, the relationship started although she says that she didn't really think about it until about 4 days later when we both polled up at a friend of hers.

It's been the most amazing adventure and one day I'll have to write the whole thing up- life's for

Living and I've certainly had my share in the last 12 months

*she had actually tried previously but had been badly stitched up taking a recommendation from another punter. Proof positive, if needed, that some men can be utter arseholes

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To put my sensible head on for once, how do you think she will respond to you asking her out?

If she says no, would you be able to bring yourself to ever see her again professionally? Or would it be too uncomfortable for you?

You might find yourself not being able to have any fun times with her anymore

This is the $64,000 question. There was a period (post dancing, before next meet) when my lady was particularly unresponsive such that I was fairly sure I wouldn't see her again (I could have just booked via the agency and turned up but that would have been fuckwittery of the highest order).

Not happy times. Be prepared for such an outcome.

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Many of us have been down this old road and it's not all it's cracked up to be. The transformation from ultimate punting fantasy to farting under the duvet and snoring like a hog is the depressing reality.

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Many of us have been down this old road and it's not all it's cracked up to be. The transformation from ultimate punting fantasy to farting under the duvet and snoring like a hog is the depressing reality.

That depends on whether:

1. You really like the girl and would like to know her better. Maybe it will lead to something wonderful

2. You're a shallow twat who wants arm candy and sex on tap.

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To put my sensible head on for once, how do you think she will respond to you asking her out?

If she says no, would you be able to bring yourself to ever see her again professionally? Or would it be too uncomfortable for you?

You might find yourself not being able to have any fun times with her anymore

Are you planning to ask her to give it all up for you? X

The lady I wish to ask out is over 10 years older than me (I'm a teenage punter)

I also know from my chats with her that she has dated clients before, so it's not out of the question.

I can deal with rejection quite easily, I'm not besotted with her or anything, but I do really like her, and I don't think I'd stop seeing her if she said no.

And no, I don't expect her to give up her career and wouldn't want her to.

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The lady I wish to ask out is over 10 years older than me (I'm a teenage punter)

I also know from my chats with her that she has dated clients before, so it's not out of the question.

I can deal with rejection quite easily, I'm not besotted with her or anything, but I do really like her, and I don't think I'd stop seeing her if she said no.

And no, I don't expect her to give up her career and wouldn't want her to.

Like the song says age ain't nothing but a number. That said...

If she does say no, it's possible SHE might also stop seeing you. She may decide particularly as a younger punter you could become too attached and potentially cause problems down the line, and so sever 'ties' with you.

You say you're not besotted with her or anything and wouldn't expect her to stop working, but perhaps that's easy to say now. Right now you like her as a person and fancy her. Down the line once in an actual relationship you could fall in LOVE with her. You might feel very different in that situation reading field reports where some random man talks about his cock in her various orifices, what she did and how much she "liked it". That's not to say many working girls don't have longterm partners who are comfortable with and accept what their career is; but not everyone can deal with it.

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You have to do what you have to do as for each WG/punter it will be different, but I would be seriously peeved if a good regular decided to ask me to be his girlfriend. I have made the mistake of blurring the lines in the past when I had just started working, but never again. I would rather date people from civvy world and deal with the issues of telling them I am a WG there - but that is just me, each to their own. As others have said, if she reacts badly to your 'proposition' you may not be able to go back to what up to now has been a fantastic working relationship. Or you might marry the woman of your dreams and have 12 kids and a few jack russells and a fairytale ending.

Good luck with your choice. x

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I had a bit of a thing with an escort recently, but I hadn't actually punted with her (we met online), so that is perhaps a different situation - perhaps a bit easier since there's no transition from punter to lover.

It failed after a couple of months, but that was due to her various personal problems, rather than anything to do with her choice of career. It certainly wouldn't put me off trying it with another girl, in fact I'm quite attracted to the idea, partly because I'm not overly keen on the idea of having to hide my punting past from my partner, and obviously you would imagine the likelihood of a horrified response to be far lower with a girl from the industry than someone who has no knowledge of it. I'm also chronically shy, but for some reason getting naked with a girl seems to be a pretty good icebreaker (although I've yet to try it out in bars and clubs - maybe that's my problem...?)

A fair few of the girls I've seen have been out with clients before, and several are married or in long-term commitments with them. That's before you consider the number of girls who may have quit the industry to be with their partner. Initially, it seems unlikely, but you just have to remember that many (most?) people meet their partners in the workplace, so in that sense it's no different to everyone else!

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Why do you assume a young women with a tribe of kids who'll expect a babysitting service?

Well with her crack cocaine addiction she won't want to spend money on a babysitter.

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I really fancy my regular WG and have dropped a couple of hints but she's ignored them so it's pretty clear the relationship is strictly professional. So, I only see her when punting, but that hour is fantastic!

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I really fancy my regular WG and have dropped a couple of hints but she's ignored them so it's pretty clear the relationship is strictly professional. So, I only see her when punting, but that hour is fantastic!

Don't spoil a good thing by asking her out. She may stop seeing you if you do. If you have dropped hints and she has ignored them then I would not push it :)

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I had a massage about 6 years ago with a really nice girl, wasn't expecting any "extras" but was offered at the end of the massage, we got a lot lot carried away together and i just said "how do you fancy carrying this on later", to which we met up and we saw each other for 2 years, she stopped "working" after about a month after we met and the only reason we split was she left to look after her ill mother, we still meet for coffee to this day

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Don't spoil a good thing by asking her out. She may stop seeing you if you do. If you have dropped hints and she has ignored them then I would not push it :)

Yep...already figured that out. Too much of a risk. She is lovely though. :wub:

Saving the pennies for the next visit. :P

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I'm single now, but while I'm doing this I don't plan on having a 'civvy street' relationship. Reason - I think most guys would be unhappy finding out their gf is an escort, and I don't want to get attached to someone, tell them, and be rejected. There's also the risk they'll out me to all and sundry.

If I met someone through escorting, who knew from the beginning, that throws up it's own set of problems. Presumably they'd want to punt with other girls. What if that made me jealous? Totally hypocritical, I know, but jealousy can never be rationalised. What if one of us decided they wanted to be monogamous and live happily ever after, and the other didn't.

So at the moment the plan is stay single, I've got my friends to talk to and my clients to shag, what more do I need? :)

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