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Second Visit Better Than The First?

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Do you guys find if you meet a girl and return for a second time the second punt is better, worse or the same?

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Well it sort of goes without saying that if you're back for more then the first time was good .... In which case yes, in my experience it gets better every time

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Would agree, I find it nice when there's something there that makes you think " I want to see her again"

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Third punt is usually the best, your a semi regular and you are both more relaxed.

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Do you guys find if you meet a girl and return for a second time the second punt is better, worse or the same?

It usually is as for me to return means she must of been good or better and the second time she knows a bit more about what makes me tick sexually which is built upon in future punts making them better and better till i got bored or she moves on.

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I think a good sign is if you back for a second time after a couple of months and they actually remember you !!

Must admit a couple of girls I have seen in the past the more times you go if you click the better it is.

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Just coming up to my 20th punts with two of my fave ladies.

Yes it just gets better and better. (The record keeping just gets harder lol)

Uncle Pokey

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repeat visits are always better. you dont have to break the ice.

piss off time is when a lady you enjoy seeing stops this. always a wrench :(

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As noted above, it gets better I find, saw a girl about a year ago first vist ... Amazing... Second visit even better.... Third vist was off the scale....

Stupidly, stopped after that, not sure why, brain couldn't cope with the ever increasingly amazing experience, figured somewhere along the line I'd be disappointed, guess I quit while I was ahead...

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Generally I click fairly well with most ladies first time but the experience usually improves on subsequent visits. I tend to spread my visits over time so even on the 5th, 6th visit or more, it still seems quite fresh. If you find a good one, then hold on to her!

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1st- 5 visits get to know each other, maybe another 4 visit will allow the girl to relax and be more frre, after that I would guess a true PSE/GFE+

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Just coming up to my 20th punts with two of my fave ladies.

Yes it just gets better and better. (The record keeping just gets harder lol)

Uncle Pokey

Logic would suggest, therefore, that the first punt was pretty awful – or that you’re terribly easy to please, Uncle!

I’m a fan of repeat visits and in answer to the OP’s question, no, the second punt isn’t always better – some I’ve had have been downright awful! But if you proceed to a third or fourth then that must be because you’re pretty happy with events.

I don’t subscribe to the idea that they get better and better though. However, if you can establish a rapport with a lady – you know what she enjoys and she you – and you see her regularly, then some visits can indeed be mind-blowingly good. I had a 32nd visit to a lady about 6 weeks ago and when I left after 2½ hours I was almost incapable of walking, let alone driving!

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1st- 5 visits get to know each other, maybe another 4 visit will allow the girl to relax and be more frre, after that I would guess a true PSE/GFE+

sort of ....

if you get a good vibe, go for 2nd visit,

some fail miserably to repeat a good performance (but it is rare).

if second visit is better then first, then continue and see how it develops.

Third visit is generally point of decision: if things still go up (in quality, you dirty minds) you have a winner.

If she starts to take you for granted, time to move on.

just a few JRC remarks:

always keep the boundary, always pay. (although you may get m8s r8s after a while)

keep your distance, dont fall for her (and pay attn that she doenst fall for you, real or fake).

dont divulge your other personal life (years onwards, things may turn..)

dont discuss other girls or punters (although both may be curious, especially if you also regularly meet on the board and you read eachothers reviews and posts).

A good regular can last for years, even when she goes "under the radar".

Now go out and Enjoy!

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depends. often the 2nd -- and subsequent -- is less anticipatory and exciting. depends on the lady and connection .

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Yes, subsequent visits get better and better as you both get to know what you both enjoy in, or close to, the bed. I think the most visits I made to the same lady was about 12 over 4 years or so.

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Yes, subsequent visits get better and better as you both get to know what you both enjoy in, or close to, the bed. I think the most visits I made to the same lady was about 12 over 4 years or so.

Just out of interest, what stopped you after that?

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Just out of interest, what stopped you after that?

I moved on to punting with indies instead of at parlours.

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depends. often the 2nd -- and subsequent -- is less anticipatory and exciting. depends on the lady and connection .

Their wouldnt be a subsequent punt if they didnt get better and better with me, i would be punting elsewhere.

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I find the second and subsequent visits get better, and I tend to visit a small number of ladies regularly, only trying new ladies when one of my regulars moves away or I'm travelling.

Obviously if you have a crap punt the first time then there is no point in going back, but if you click with the lady then the sex can get better when you get to know each other.

Also, I tend to like a certain specialist service that not all ladies are good at, and it's nice not to have to explain it each time...

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the second punt isn’t always better – some I’ve had have been downright awful!

I am sure you are right, but I've never had a bad 2nd punt. I only repeat a visit if the initial punt was a 9/10 or better and invariably that is down to a lady's attitude for me. I have found that a good attitude on the first punt is invariably repeated on the 2nd. Admittedly, familiarity can occasionally breed contempt but I find it normally takes more than a couple of visits for us to get bored of each other lol.

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Had a 'bad' first punt recently (6/10) & upon reflection it was mainly my fault (knackered after doing gym - v hot PT there who is MASSIVELY motivating me to train my butt off lol!!). Anyway, re-visited & it was easily 9/10 - DFK, CIM, A, OWO, gr8 massage, gr8 conversation, gr8 attitude, blahblahblah - all there from my first visit just that she was having to do the tango solo lol!!!!!!!!!!

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