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So, I've Tried Fs A Couple Of Times Now.....

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....... and I have to say that I haven't been blown away- which has surprised me.

I wrote a while ago about 'upgrading' from FBSM and finally did it to see what would happen. My first FS experience came from a massage girl on the other site who was very cute and we got on quite well. After a very sensual massage, I turned over and was ridden to orgasm. Nice, a bit mechanical, but then again, she advertised herself as a massage girl first and foremost.

Then I tried a massage girl in a shop that I knew quite well, but never had received FS. The FS was done on a creaky massage table, the poor girl seemed to want to just close her eyes during the whole thing and didn't seem to particularly enjoy it. I paid the money and left.

I then tried a more courtesan experience. The girl was beautiful, not quite what I expected in that she seemed gentler and more shy than her profile suggested, but still lovely. This was a bit more GFE, nice kissing and relaxing. But not the mind-blowing experience I was after.

My problem with both of these experiences is that I felt emotionally disconnected. I could tell that they weren't that in to me and it bugged me. One of the greatest feelings in my relationships is the feeling that your partner is also enjoying it as much as you are.

Am I choosing the wrong girls? Or maybe I'm one of those guys that punting just isn't right for? Would really appreciate your opinions.

Thanks

Bob

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How old are you? Are you choosing ladies that are way older, or younger, than you? Do you tell them that you are inexperienced? Do you take your time with them?

A lot of questions, I know, but if we are to help you need to tell us a bit more.

Without any further info, I would suggest you approach a more mature lady, tell her your history, book for at least an hour, and let her work her magic.

It may all turn to rat sh1t but it's better to try something than walk away.

Good luck. ^_^

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....... and I have to say that I haven't been blown away- which has surprised me. I wrote a while ago about 'upgrading' from FBSM and finally did it to see what would happen. My first FS experience came from a massage girl on the other site who was very cute and we got on quite well. After a very sensual massage, I turned over and was ridden to orgasm. Nice, a bit mechanical, but then again, she advertised herself as a massage girl first and foremost. Then I tried a massage girl in a shop that I knew quite well, but never had received FS. The FS was done on a creaky massage table, the poor girl seemed to want to just close her eyes during the whole thing and didn't seem to particularly enjoy it. I paid the money and left. I then tried a more courtesan experience. The girl was beautiful, not quite what I expected in that she seemed gentler and more shy than her profile suggested, but still lovely. This was a bit more GFE, nice kissing and relaxing. But not the mind-blowing experience I was after. My problem with both of these experiences is that I felt emotionally disconnected. I could tell that they weren't that in to me and it bugged me. One of the greatest feelings in my relationships is the feeling that your partner is also enjoying it as much as you are. Am I choosing the wrong girls? Or maybe I'm one of those guys that punting just isn't right for? Would really appreciate your opinions. Thanks Bob

A punt wont ever match a loving relationship so knowing that i dont compare punting which i do for the sex and the emotional connections i get from love. A good WG will offer you a great service and the GFE is the acting of a girlfriend but it is an act ultimately. The very best punts i have had have been when we clicked but i never expected a emotional connection from punting, in fact i see it as an advantage not to have an emotional connection and all that involves, just no strings, no expectations, come and go. Only you can decide what you want out of punting but if its more than a massage or sex you might be forever disappointed.

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fucking and love making are two very different things -

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Hi guys, thanks for your responses.

I'm 32 and have only slept with 2 girlfriends before. The first couple of girls I booked were in their early twenties, the last girl I booked was about my age.

If a mature lady might be a good next step- can anyone recommend someone? Maybe oriental?

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If a mature lady might be a good next step- can anyone recommend someone? Maybe oriental?

We need to know where you are in order to help.

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Sorry guys, I'm in Central London...... thanks again

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Am I choosing the wrong girls? Or maybe I'm one of those guys that punting just isn't right for? Would really appreciate your opinions.

Thanks

Bob

It does seem that you really need to find ladies who do enjoy escorting, you will be able to tell that from field reports etc, and obviously recommendations the guys can give you. Also, you may see a lady who others find an amazing 'connection' with who just doesn't click with you (neither of your fault). Sounds like you want to do quite a bit more research before your next punt, because you do obviously want a deeper sort of experience, and that may take a little while to find the right lady for you. This is why lots of punters have a regular (or regulars), as the 'relationship' does somewhat deepen over time, or prefer dinner dates, or longer meets, to build up a rapport first, but as the blokes have said remember that it is a transaction at the end of the day.

Punting is not for everyone though, but I would say don't throw in the towel just yet, you have only had 2 FS experiences, so there is still hope!

Good luck x

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I completely understand Bob's disillusionment. I've been punting for a bit more than a year now with a handful of wgs and with few more masseuses. Most of the massages have been just ok or even lousy, but I've found one girl, who gives an amazing fbsm with an erotic vibe and an interpersonal connection that drives me wild. I think it's partly because she's genuinely a lovely girl and we click, because she knows what's erotic and sensual, and in addition because her intention is to give me honest pleasure.

So far the wgs giving fs have pretty much been quite either completely ignorant how to read another person or just haven't really cared about giving me pleasure - just doing a mechanical unfeeling service. Perhaps I could even accept that the girl is passive and just provides a mechanical sexual thing, it is a commercial transaction in the end, and in fact the idea of the girl only as a sex toy is quite intriguing in itself - but most of the girls have been very moody, constantly distracted and altogether not even providing the sexual service properly. And I've done my research well - these have been some of the girls praised in this forum.

I won't give up the fight yet and I'm quite sure I'll find my fs regular as well in the end. But I have to say that after starting the punting career in Thailand a couple of years ago, I have been fairly disappointed with the London punting scene. Or am I only too demanding, really?

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Do your research very carefully and very thoroughly, look for a mature indie with her own place.( The most expensive is not necessarily the best.) Be quite open with her about your needs/experiences - and treat her well.

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....... and I have to say that I haven't been blown away- which has surprised me.

I wrote a while ago about 'upgrading' from FBSM and finally did it to see what would happen. My first FS experience came from a massage girl on the other site who was very cute and we got on quite well. After a very sensual massage, I turned over and was ridden to orgasm. Nice, a bit mechanical, but then again, she advertised herself as a massage girl first and foremost.

Then I tried a massage girl in a shop that I knew quite well, but never had received FS. The FS was done on a creaky massage table, the poor girl seemed to want to just close her eyes during the whole thing and didn't seem to particularly enjoy it. I paid the money and left.

I then tried a more courtesan experience. The girl was beautiful, not quite what I expected in that she seemed gentler and more shy than her profile suggested, but still lovely. This was a bit more GFE, nice kissing and relaxing. But not the mind-blowing experience I was after.

My problem with both of these experiences is that I felt emotionally disconnected. I could tell that they weren't that in to me and it bugged me. One of the greatest feelings in my relationships is the feeling that your partner is also enjoying it as much as you are.

Am I choosing the wrong girls? Or maybe I'm one of those guys that punting just isn't right for? Would really appreciate your opinions.

Thanks

Bob

well i think these girls sound pretty good, fancy passing off some info?

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A punt wont ever match a loving relationship so knowing that i dont compare punting which i do for the sex and the emotional connections i get from love. A good WG will offer you a great service and the GFE is the acting of a girlfriend but it is an act ultimately. The very best punts i have had have been when we clicked but i never expected a emotional connection from punting, in fact i see it as an advantage not to have an emotional connection and all that involves, just no strings, no expectations, come and go. Only you can decide what you want out of punting but if its more than a massage or sex you might be forever disappointed.

True, the emotions in punting are not the same as in a loving relationship. Nevertheless, it is possible to find a WG who you can develop that elusive chemistry with. Whether it's 100% acting or not, it can still give you the feeling of warmth and affection - even if it's just for an hour.

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Have you considered Dolly Mopp who has plenty of favourable reports on here.

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True, the emotions in punting are not the same as in a loving relationship. Nevertheless, it is possible to find a WG who you can develop that elusive chemistry with. Whether it's 100% acting or not, it can still give you the feeling of warmth and affection - even if it's just for an hour.

Agreed.

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Have you considered Dolly Mopp who has plenty of favourable reports on here.

Excellent recommendation.

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I would advise you to book a lunch/dinnerdate, spend the meal building a connection & then get naked with her.

Sorry, but "You buy me drink, me love you long time" is NEVER going to be a British girl's response. If we like you, we like you - but that sort of fakeness isn't for us.

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Hi guys, thanks for all of your suggestions. I've spent time with a few more ladies, including a dinner dates, and I have come to the conclusion that punting is not for me right now. I think I should be spending my time at the moment finding the future Mrs Pringle- I'm 32.

Might be back in a few years, you never know.

Thanks again.

Toodle pip!

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