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So, You Accidentally Discover The Girl's Real Name.....

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......what do you do?

During a recent punt, the third with this lady, she was showning me some of her 'work' in her real life, and on one of the documents, I spot her mobile number, but more's to the point her real name was next to it ! I recognised it as the number I call her on.

So back at home I Google it, and up comes a whole range of social networking site links to this lady, plus loads more telling me what this girl does away from escorting, and has serious aspirations as a highly qualified professional in her field. I'm not naming the field as someone may add 2+2. She's utterly charming, ultra discrete in her demeanour, etc, and to see her in the street, you'd never guess she escorted.

Like her, I am a model of discretion and would never disclose her name to anyone, even with a set of jump leads running from a car battery to my testicles, but I thought it was virtually an unwritten rule for an escort to have a second phone. This lady has everything, including escort bookings on her smart phone.

I'm shocked and puzzled as lose your phone, and the secret life could be exposed. It's such a risk.

Any one else come across this situation?

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this is a secret you take to your grave. not sure about googling her when u got home.

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Are you a private detective by any chance ? Why would anyone do this sort of thing , google her name ?

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......what do you do? During a recent punt, the third with this lady, she was showning me some of her 'work' in her real life, and on one of the documents, I spot her mobile number, but more's to the point her real name was next to it ! I recognised it as the number I call her on. So back at home I Google it, and up comes a whole range of social networking site links to this lady, plus loads more telling me what this girl does away from escorting, and has serious aspirations as a highly qualified professional in her field. I'm not naming the field as someone may add 2+2. She's utterly charming, ultra discrete in her demeanour, etc, and to see her in the street, you'd never guess she escorted. Like her, I am a model of discretion and would never disclose her name to anyone, even with a set of jump leads running from a car battery to my testicles, but I thought it was virtually an unwritten rule for an escort to have a second phone. This lady has everything, including escort bookings on her smart phone. I'm shocked and puzzled as lose your phone, and the secret life could be exposed. It's such a risk. Any one else come across this situation?
I have a number of times and been told first and surnames without asking. I never mention it again when it happens and like you would never tell anyone else, i expect discretion and am discreet. I look on it as the WGs business what phone she uses so not something i would give an opinion on unless asked. Edited by smiths

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Are you a private detective by any chance ? Why would anyone do this sort of thing , google her name ?

Curiosity. Pure & simple. In a previous role I did undertake work of an investigative nature and suspect I've never lost the trait.

It certainly wasnt meant with a sinister or stalking intent. And I know curiosity killed the cat!

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I really think you should have resisted the temptation of Googling the lady. There is a very fine line between an interest in and admiration for a WG and stalking. I am not suggesting you would follow her or sit outside her place of work but these ladies put a lot of trust in us to behave ourselves and let us into their personal lives and intimacies for one hour or so. We are not their boyfriends or famly and we need to remember that. You may well be a nice guy but there are plenty of creeps around who are not.

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It might be an idea to let her know, as she may not realise she is giving so much away.

So many men don't realise their real names come up on emails and whatsapp and I always send them a message bring their attention to this.

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This is a thread very similar to those we've had in the past "Discovered my boss/colleague/friend's wife's uncle is a punter/wg". Advice is usually to leave well alone, forget about it and obliterate from memory.

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Just forget it and move on.

I have know the real names and identities of two ladies and have even been friends on Facebook, but no mention of punting!

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......what do you do?

During a recent punt, the third with this lady, she was showning me some of her 'work' in her real life, and on one of the documents, I spot her mobile number, but more's to the point her real name was next to it ! I recognised it as the number I call her on.

So back at home I Google it, and up comes a whole range of social networking site links to this lady, plus loads more telling me what this girl does away from escorting, and has serious aspirations as a highly qualified professional in her field. I'm not naming the field as someone may add 2+2. She's utterly charming, ultra discrete in her demeanour, etc, and to see her in the street, you'd never guess she escorted.

Like her, I am a model of discretion and would never disclose her name to anyone, even with a set of jump leads running from a car battery to my testicles, but I thought it was virtually an unwritten rule for an escort to have a second phone. This lady has everything, including escort bookings on her smart phone.

I'm shocked and puzzled as lose your phone, and the secret life could be exposed. It's such a risk.

Any one else come across this situation?

I guess it is natural to be curious - but you could just move on and do nothing. Though if this lady is using the same mobile for escorting and her other career purposes she is being naive. If you are ready for it, and you want to do a good turn, then tell her that she ought to change her escort phone. You'd have to admit to googling the number - she may be mad at first, but probably will thank you later.

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I guess it is natural to be curious - but you could just move on and do nothing. Though if this lady is using the same mobile for escorting and her other career purposes she is being naive. If you are ready for it, and you want to do a good turn, then tell her that she ought to change her escort phone. You'd have to admit to googling the number - she may be mad at first, but probably will thank you later.

Agreed 100%

I've lost count of times when gentlemen have their real names on their emails and whatsapp. They are very grateful when it's pointed out.

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I agree with Jas rather than just forgetting about it and moving on (you stalker you) I would let her know that she has given away info she is probably not aware of and just be more careful in future.

Personally I do not give a toss who knows what about me, I know there is a lot of secrecy in this business but anyone can find out my real info addy etc if they really wanted to......then what?

Edited by Gemma Harris

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I agree with Gemma - then what? The OP asks...what do you do? NOTHING! Perhaps mention it to her if you see her or via email (her professional one!)...why would you want to do anything with the info....?!Do let her know. Someone was using my photos on another site when I had removed any of my face anywhere and a customer told me. I was very happy he did, but he was concerned as he knew I wanted to ensure the most discretion possible (as possible as that can be in this business). Feel lucky she shared this personal stuff with you!

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Personally I do not give a toss who knows what about me, I know there is a lot of secrecy in this business but anyone can find out my real info addy etc if they really wanted to......then what?

Then we see threads like this one - in some cases, sadly.

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indeed...that's why I say the minimal now. The original post worries me in that why is this a question for the customer?! Surely discretion should work both ways. To post about it smacks oddness.

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Then we see threads like this one - in some cases, sadly.

For ME what they going to do? Report me to the boss of my other job who just happens to be me?

The papers would not give a flying fark about me, I am not newsworthy, I do not have responsibility to anyone but myself.

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For ME what they going to do? Report me to the boss of my other job who just happens to be me?

The papers would not give a flying fark about me, I am not newsworthy, I do not have responsibility to anyone but myself.

Oh I appreciate that, Gemma. I was more making a general comment. I do understand that keeping things compartmentalised and clandestine will be more necessary and important for some yet far less so for others. I hope I didn't cause any offence; none was intended. Likewise to Taggart, I wasn't trying to suggest you would be indiscreet in any way with the detail you learnt.

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Tell her what you know so she can take the necessary action. Then stay away before she has you marked down as a stalker.

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Discretion is an emotive subject. One person's idea of discretion can be a million miles away from mine or yours.

As far as I can see he was not asking for advice on this matter!

Maybe he should tell the girl that she is leavng herself wide open to being outed, but that's up to him. If it were me, I would want to be told especially if I were new to this industry.

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When it happens to me I forget her real names as soon as possible and make a point of never calling her by them.

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Discretion is an emotive subject. One person's idea of discretion can be a million miles away from mine or yours. As far as I can see he was not asking for advice on this matter! Maybe he should tell the girl that she is leavng herself wide open to being outed, but that's up to him. If it were me, I would want to be told especially if I were new to this industry.

He did ask "what do you do?" though so threw open the question which i assume he was interested in hearing posters thoughts on. My idea of discretion is not to concern myself with how a WG operates, she should already be aware of that so i give her the credit of being aware unless asked my opinion, but yes i agree we all view things in our own way.

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OP I hope you phoned the lady in question and advised her that she needs to be careful, you are the soul of discretion and that she should not show those pics to anyone else.

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There was one lady, a regular but now long retired, who was quite offended when meeting her again after I had been overseas for a while, I used her professional name.

I'm also a fairly frequent customer of another ex-reg who discussed her "retirement" plan as a matter of course in our last few naughty meetings.

We all live in the same glass house - don't throw stones!

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Have to agree with the advice given so far. The girl needs to be more discreet and use a separate mobile for the WG job. A couple of regulars whose first names I happen to have been told, both have their faces all over social networking sites. That does concern me as they make every effort to be discreet in their professional life??

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If a WG trusts someone enough to tell them their real name that's one thing, but if someone goes out of their way to discover their true identity it is starting to get creepy. With modern phones technology could accidentally reveal this if girls are not careful.

An Android phone looks through your directory and tries to match email addresses to Facebook and Linkedin accounts and phone numbers to other whatsapp users. As long as WG's keep their private lives away from their business contacts this shouldnt be a cause of concern for them.

Unfortunately if someone wants to trace your identity, they will, and you have yourself a stalker. All you can do is minimise the opportunity.

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