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With all the nastiness over the past few days...

...it doesn't affect me in the least. My family knows, my friends know, my neighbours know. Clients, due to family circumstances, cannot stand up and be counted. From starting this thread, I'd like to know similar vampires who adopt the same approach. I've always been supported and pleasantly surprised by how nice people are, even elderly neighbours, after knowing what I do to earn my blow out at the local Indian restaurant on Sundays and saving for a deposit.

Some clients adopt this approach: "Not even my best friend knows I do this". I think, your friend has probably seen some of my duo partners in the past. Guilty pleasures.

"Why would a nice, educated girl like you....".

Balls. I've done my time in various roles, and this escorting suits. I lasted 3 months in an office before I resigned in disgust. To topic, my Father said recently, "Er...how does this...affect you?", and I went, "It affects me fine....what are you really worried about?".

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With all the nastiness over the past few days...

Hi May. I'm just 'in' from taking a couple of folks to the airport here, and see your posting . . . I can't quite read between the lines . .. is this 'outing' something personal, or the whole HH / Punternet thing?

Anyway . . . good to see you back. And hope to consume calories with you soon, as you know

GM

(would have sent a PM, but you box is full. Fnarr fnarr

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May, it could be an entirely different situation but almost everyone who knows me knows what I do to avoid becoming sufficiently frustrated from a lack of sexual activity to consider yet another marital disaster.

Furthermore, having decided upon this way of life I wouldn't swap it to have a partner getting old with me, and thereby providing a constant reminder of how old age is overtaking me. I joked the other day that another set of bones as old as mine in my bed would have Time Team interested, but the humour stemmed from serious thoughts.

I must add that the enjoyment of freedom and fun beats anything I knew during years of marriage(s).

I can understand your father's question and why he asks it, but he sounds to be well adjusted to you doing your thing, and as for office jobs, they are just a long, dreary path to the grave. I wish you happiness and success in your chosen career and hope many generations more, men and women, are similarly able to escape the drudgery conventional life holds for them.

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With all the nastiness over the past few days...

...it doesn't affect me in the least. My family knows, my friends know, my neighbours know. Clients, due to family circumstances, cannot stand up and be counted. From starting this thread, I'd like to know similar vampires who adopt the same approach. I've always been supported and pleasantly surprised by how nice people are, even elderly neighbours, after knowing what I do to earn my blow out at the local Indian restaurant on Sundays and saving for a deposit.

Some clients adopt this approach: "Not even my best friend knows I do this". I think, your friend has probably seen some of my duo partners in the past. Guilty pleasures.

"Why would a nice, educated girl like you....".

Balls. I've done my time in various roles, and this escorting suits. I lasted 3 months in an office before I resigned in disgust. To topic, my Father said recently, "Er...how does this...affect you?", and I went, "It affects me fine....what are you really worried about?".

Hey babes...I am too 'out and proud'

the only thing that pisses me off is when my sister calls me her 'walking cash machine!!!'

evey one has been supportive and great. I have had some nasty comments but usually in the heat of the moment in an arguement.

i let jus wash over me as the only people who say them are the same ones who ask to borrow money when they need it lol

xxx

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With all the nastiness over the past few days...

...it doesn't affect me in the least. My family knows, my friends know, my neighbours know.

That is a nice position to be in, it must be a nightmare for the ladies who are constantly looking over their shoulder, their life becomes one constant lie. :D

Everyone knows I am a punter, I am not ashamed, if anything I am proud of my "hobby".:D

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I can understand your father's question and why he asks it, but he sounds to be well adjusted to you doing your thing, and as for office jobs, they are just a long, dreary path to the grave. I wish you happiness and success in your chosen career and hope many generations more, men and women, are similarly able to escape the drudgery conventional life holds for them.

An acquaintance - not friend, I do have boundaries - friend once, but she's now gone beyond loopy. Estate agent by the way.

"Er....yes. Um, well that flat I got"

"Darrrrling, tell me!"

"Well, you do know I ski off piste?"

"I knew, I know".

Brilliant!

Blether on for a bit.

"Well, yes, all good".

"Well, darling, I knew a girl who used to be a CROUPIER in a casino, and she soon found the right way".

Oh.

When fully appraised of what I did, finally, she burst into tears and bought me Knut Hamsen's "Hunger".

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With all the nastiness over the past few days...

...it doesn't affect me in the least. My family knows, my friends know, my neighbours know. Clients, due to family circumstances, cannot stand up and be counted. From starting this thread, I'd like to know similar vampires who adopt the same approach. I've always been supported and pleasantly surprised by how nice people are, even elderly neighbours, after knowing what I do to earn my blow out at the local Indian restaurant on Sundays and saving for a deposit.

Some clients adopt this approach: "Not even my best friend knows I do this". I think, your friend has probably seen some of my duo partners in the past. Guilty pleasures.

"Why would a nice, educated girl like you....".

Balls. I've done my time in various roles, and this escorting suits. I lasted 3 months in an office before I resigned in disgust. To topic, my Father said recently, "Er...how does this...affect you?", and I went, "It affects me fine....what are you really worried about?".

May, what do you mean by "all the nastiness over past few days"? I do hope, its regarding HH "representation" and nothing more personal then that to you? Sorry, I sometimes fail to read between the lines also of your post.

Its of course easier for me, because I don't live in the country of my birth, but its still my home now for a number of years, and I suppose I am more westerner now, than a "sovok" ( slang for the an ex commie, lol), and most of the folks back home hate me for it. :D

My close family knows about this sideline work. My mom did from the start (we always was very close). My stepfather found it, when I accidentally sent him email from my @wwwescort.co.uk address.

Yes, I was an idiot, but I nothing to be ashamed. He did tried to raise the subject about my "escorting" few times before, but he can read me very well, and knows that its not something I am going to talk about with him.

That was about 6 years ago and since then he never mentioned it, and it did not impacted our relationships in anyway since. (as far as I can tell of course).

I do know however that he looking on my website occasionally, as my mother seen him doing it, and he did tried to talk to her about it, under the concern of the "safety for our daughter", but of course we know its just a cover up and he meant a moralistic issue of it.

Sorry for a long post. As far is it stands today: I am not ashamed if other close to me people will find out my sideline work, but I will worry if people who knows my family and friends will found out. That is my serious concern!

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An acquaintance - not friend, I do have boundaries - friend once, but she's now gone beyond loopy. Estate agent by the way.

"Er....yes. Um, well that flat I got"

"Darrrrling, tell me!"

"Well, you do know I ski off piste?"

"I knew, I know".

Brilliant!

Blether on for a bit.

"Well, yes, all good".

"Well, darling, I knew a girl who used to be a CROUPIER in a casino, and she soon found the right way".

Oh.

When fully appraised of what I did, finally, she burst into tears and bought me Knut Hamsen's "Hunger".

Sorry, May, I cannot respond in full because I am unable to understand your post. Put it down to my age, because I too blame my age on everything that I can't appreciate. Best wishes all the same.

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Sorry, May, I cannot respond in full because I am unable to understand your post. Put it down to my age, because I too blame my age on everything that I can't appreciate. Best wishes all the same.

Nothing to do with age, just the May Meta-Language being arsey and difficult, unintentionally. I am full of shite and talk it fluently! Not to worry BaB x

Re Xenia's post - initial worry, your stepfather - what do they think this industry involves? I know for a fact that my great grandfather owned a brothel. But, end of day, YOUR kid? Suuuuurely not?

Family concern, one thing when you're doing someting off-piste, hypocrisy another thing, self-doubt - kills you. Keep Calm and Carry On!

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May, what do you mean by "all the nastiness over past few days"? I do hope, its regarding HH "representation" and nothing more personal then that to you? Sorry, I sometimes fail to read between the lines also of your post.

Its of course easier for me, because I don't live in the country of my birth, but its still my home now for a number of years, and I suppose I am more westerner now, than a "sovok" ( slang for the an ex commie, lol), and most of the folks back home hate me for it. :D

My close family knows about this sideline work. My mom did from the start (we always was very close). My stepfather found it, when I accidentally sent him email from my @wwwescort.co.uk address.

Yes, I was an idiot, but I nothing to be ashamed. He did tried to raise the subject about my "escorting" few times before, but he can read me very well, and knows that its not something I am going to talk about with him.

That was about 6 years ago and since then he never mentioned it, and it did not impacted our relationships in anyway since. (as far as I can tell of course).

One client asked me, do you marginalise yourself deliberately? Me, "What....Eh?". Being rooted in a different culture, like you Xenia, it's all a bit odd. Mother from the UK, but the amount of times...

"Hullo! Where ye frrom?"

"Er, round the corner".

"Nawwwwww. I mean, where ye parents from?"

Fuckit I'm eskimo. I'm from Wales. I'm from the Maldives. Out and proud to the point I can walk away when questions get asked, yes, because answering does become a hassle, and...why do they want to know? So they can categorize and stereotype me again?

My first personal fling, when I was escorting. One weekend. I was ill with flu. He was a doctor. Had a nosebleed. "Aha! I knew it!". What, *sniffle sniffle*. "YOU'RE ON COKE!". Don't need this thank you. Yes, i'll tip my head back. Yes, you're sorry. Fine. Get me more tea.

We staggered on for a few weeks, he realised I wasn't an alkie, drug addict, and whatnot....I was just morally bankrupt. Which meant my fanny not his alone.

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I keep my activities so far back in the closet that they live somewhere beyond Cair Paravel :D!

I doubt whether a public airing would do my marriage much good and hence I do everything I can to avoid any accidental leakage. As a wise man once said, "three people can keep a secret - if two of them are dead" :D.

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