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How Do I Check Whether Bb Is Not Available?

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I have seen a profile on the purple site in the past where bb has been listed, then removed for a while, then relisted.

I never book anyone who advertises bb, but how do I check that it's not offered if it's not advertised or stated anywhere on the profile.

An escort i would like to book does not have it listed but I can't remember if it's the one who listed before then taken off. I can't ask if its offered or not because the escort will think if a client asks it means he's looking for it, then I'll get blocke, ignored.

I can't tell her that I won't book you if you previously had it listed, she'll simply say it's not her, but obviously i'm not going to know.

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no you are not

for the future you can also put them on your blacklist so they dont come up in searches if you dont want them to appear.

but i reckon many on ** dont know what BB means, esp the foreign ones.

I am afraid you have to live with this. you have no way of knowing if any girl, wg or not, is shagging BB. I think you have to wear a condom and hope thats enough, or become a monk

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true it's impossible to know if a wg is doing bb outside of escorting, but at least if it's stated that it's not offered, know it's not going to attract punters who specifically look for it.

thanks, i'll have a look at the blacklist feature, that's a lot of profiles then..

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a lot of the polish ladies i notice automatically just input bb on offer ; they don't whittle down the field criteria .

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Could be described as a "copy and paste error." I don't think any working girl in her right mind would ever offer bare back.

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I have decided to black list anyone on Another Website if their profile ever mentions BB. That means that my blacklist there is very long but it also means that the blacklisted ladies register as such so I can avoid making an inadvertent appointment.

It can be tricky but you have to persevere.

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i don't black list ; could indeed be an oversight .

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i don't black list ; could indeed be an oversight .

Better to be safe than sorry.

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Better to be safe than sorry.

no thanks; risky business lol .

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no you are not for the future you can also put them on your blacklist so they dont come up in searches if you dont want them to appear. but i reckon many on ** dont know what BB means, esp the foreign ones. I am afraid you have to live with this. you have no way of knowing if any girl, wg or not, is shagging BB. I think you have to wear a condom and hope thats enough, or become a monk

Indeed a blacklist is the thing to do. I do think some foreign WGs think BB actually means OWO but they or whoever does their profiles should grow a brain cell in my opinion and do some basic swotting up on the commonly used terms and abbreviations in the UK BEFORE posting up a profile. I avoid such WGs anyway just in case. The other term used on enjoys list unprotected sex is hopefully understood by all.

Its when a WG who doesnt advertise BB but offers it out of the blue at a punt that i feel somewhat annoyed. Fortunately its only been on a few occassions where they have said "because i like you i want you to fuck me BB", always an immediate passion killer and signal to leave, i wonder how many punters take such an invitation up.

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Could be described as a "copy and paste error." I don't think any working girl in her right mind would ever offer bare back.

Some WGs certainly offer BB as has been confirmed by the few punters on here that have posted they indulge in it with WGs. Whether they are in their right minds to is a good point, they certainly arent in my opinion either not caring about themselves let alone others, not being smart enough to know about safe sex or purposely trying to infect others, whichever it is i want nothing to do with them. As purple site profiles show many dont even charge a premium for BB penetration so there isnt even a financial advantage over a non-BB punt. I daresay Mr Natural will be along to say the chances of getting HIV AIDS is very small, i am concerned about getting any STI myself, all for a BB shag, its certainly not a risk i would take for the reward on offer.

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For eference on the other side...Bareback relates to oral sex without, to find out if the escort is offering bareback sex, scroll down the likes list to the bottom, where you will find a like for unprotected sex

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For eference on the other side...Bareback relates to oral sex without, to find out if the escort is offering bareback sex, scroll down the likes list to the bottom, where you will find a like for unprotected sex

The problem is it doesnt to some EE WGs that i have punted with who know Bare Back means penetrative sex without a condom and use the term OWO correctly. So some know and some dont which just makes it very confusing.

I agree about unprotected sex as i posted above, this i hope is understood by all WGs. :)

Edited by smiths

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For eference on the other side...Bareback relates to oral sex without, to find out if the escort is offering bareback sex, scroll down the likes list to the bottom, where you will find a like for unprotected sex

That is not at all the case. I always click on bareback in non-enjoys column and a number of WGs come up who enjoy oral without and CIM. Barebackl means unprotected penetrative sexual intercourse.

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For eference on the other side...Bareback relates to oral sex without, to find out if the escort is offering bareback sex, scroll down the likes list to the bottom, where you will find a like for unprotected sex

That is not only nonsense, it is dangerous nonsense. 'Bareback' on the purple site means bareback sex. Some non-English women may misunderstand and tick the box when they don't offer it but the overwhelming majority of SPs who tick 'bareback' do so because they are offering bareback vaginal and/or anal sex, as a look at their profiles/FAQs/FRs will often confirm.

Edited by DanLeno

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Three girls in this area (all with very similar profile text and registration date) have just appeared on That Site, and are offering bb. Reading their profiles makes it clear that they know what they are saying.

Another woman has at least three profiles, one personal offering bb, another with an 'agency' offering protected, and the third with neither ticked.

I reject over 50% of the profiles appearing nowadays because they offer bb or do not clearly state that they don't offer it. Not all, by any means, are non-UK. Seems to me that it's getting far more prevalent, Because I am very keen on ro (as well as for lots of other reasons) I only consider the people who make it clear that bb is not an option.

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Three girls in this area (all with very similar profile text and registration date) have just appeared on That Site, and are offering bb. Reading their profiles makes it clear that they know what they are saying.

Another woman has at least three profiles, one personal offering bb, another with an 'agency' offering protected, and the third with neither ticked.

I reject over 50% of the profiles appearing nowadays because they offer bb or do not clearly state that they don't offer it. Not all, by any means, are non-UK. Seems to me that it's getting far more prevalent, Because I am very keen on ro (as well as for lots of other reasons) I only consider the people who make it clear that bb is not an option.

Sounds a little OTT to me, just because a girl doesn't mention bb at all you black list her!! Just to fuck with your head in that case there was a post or two on one of the bb threads saying someone had been offered it by a girl who stated in her FAQs that it was not on offer. You can never be sure what a girl does. She may not want to advertise it and she may think that saying she won't do it rules out all the riskiest clients but offers it to regulars who she feels comfortable with. Fair enough to avoid those who openly offer bb, bit going any further is a little OCD in my opinion.

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so to summarise

we are not sure if some girls understand what bare back means

and we are not sure that some who dont mention it in their profiles dont offer it

and anyway some girls amy be doing bb sex with non punters when not working.

so its simple then. assume all girls do BB and act accordingly, i.e. use a condom.

if you cant cope with this then find another hobby.

and this isnt meant the dis any girls who are scrupulous about not doing unprotected sex. I am sure they should assume all their punters practice BB sex just in case.

Edited by Coventrypunter

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On the list of 'I enjoy the following' there are three options relating to unprotected sex.

Barebare (which I have always taken as bareback sex, not bare oral)

Unprotected sex

penetration (protected).

So you're looking for girls who leave the first two unticked and the last ticked.

I can see why a careless girl or one who doesn't have good English could get confused, but really anyone worth their salt would check they haven't ticked/not ticked the wrong thing and find out what everything means! If she can't work out what bareback means does that mean she won't understand terms like fisting or rimming? Unless you ask specifically when you book you could still be disappointed about not getting a service you wanted.. anyway I digress.

Until I read these forums I assumed when a man asked 'Do you do bareback?' he wanted it and would be cautious about accepting his booking because I thought he might pester for it once he was here even though I would give a firm NO! answer. Now I know better I'm less judgmental!

We all have to make the choices that work for us. All practices carry some risk so we decide what we want to do as clients and providers. People fib so we never really know the truth anyway. We have to make our own decisions and hope for the best!

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Call me naive but I can't understand what all the fuss is about. This BB thing is so cloak and dagger anyway

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Some girls will say they never do it, but do it with regular clients. I wonder how you would feel if you found out your regular girl was doing it BB with other guys?

Some girls are perfectly honest and say they do it, and some girls will not do it at all.

If you use a condom, what difference does it make?

I am sure I have seen lots of men who prefer BB and get it when they can, but with me it's always covered. It makes no difference to me what they do with other ladies..

No use worrying about something that is completely out of your control is it?

Edited by Sarah Summers

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If you use a condom, what difference does it make?

If you use a condom for all services then it might be OK. But many guys enjoy OWO. There is a minimal risk associated with OWO. That risk is one which many clients and SPs feel, after consideration, is small enough that they are willing to take it. But OWO with a woman who offers BB with other clients has an elevated risk. Many guys are less willing to take that elevated risk and therefore prefer to avoid BB providers all together. For the same reason they want to know who does and doesn't offer BB so they can make an informed decision.

Similarly guys who enjoy RO, rimming, DFK and other standardly uncovered services would feel the elevated risk from those services done with a BB provider is one they want to avoid.

So just wearing a condom with a BB provider would not be sufficient protection for many guys.

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If you use a condom for all services then it might be OK. But many guys enjoy OWO. There is a minimal risk associated with OWO. That risk is one which many clients and SPs feel, after consideration, is small enough that they are willing to take it. But OWO with a woman who offers BB with other clients has an elevated risk. Many guys are less willing to take that elevated risk and therefore prefer to avoid BB providers all together. For the same reason they want to know who does and doesn't offer BB so they can make an informed decision.

Similarly guys who enjoy RO, rimming, DFK and other standardly uncovered services would feel the elevated risk from those services done with a BB provider is one they want to avoid.

So just wearing a condom with a BB provider would not be sufficient protection for many guys.

OK Thanks for that. Never thought about it that way.

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If you use a condom for all services then it might be OK. But many guys enjoy OWO. There is a minimal risk associated with OWO. That risk is one which many clients and SPs feel, after consideration, is small enough that they are willing to take it. But OWO with a woman who offers BB with other clients has an elevated risk. Many guys are less willing to take that elevated risk and therefore prefer to avoid BB providers all together. For the same reason they want to know who does and doesn't offer BB so they can make an informed decision.

Similarly guys who enjoy RO, rimming, DFK and other standardly uncovered services would feel the elevated risk from those services done with a BB provider is one they want to avoid.

So just wearing a condom with a BB provider would not be sufficient protection for many guys.

thats all very well, dan. but how do you know????

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thats all very well, dan. but how do you know????

Well, there is no such thing as certainty in this world. If you want to avoid BB providers you have to research, use your judgement, err on the side of caution, and hope. Obviously, it is also important to look after your own sexual health with regular check-ups. But you can never be 100% sure you have not met some secret BB provider. Those who remain nervous would have to make sure all services (not only penetrative sex) are covered and avoid all services that can't be covered. People have to make their own judgements about what risks they are willing to take and, since their decisions can impact others, should be honest about what those judgements have been in the past and what they are now.

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