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Sarah Summers

Are You A Potential Rapist

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When we read hysterical rubbish in the media regarding this hobby of ours, I sometimes wonder about the mentality of the authors.

I have heard this said recently and have read it in the past - and no doubt some of you will have too, that being able to visit prostitutes will stop some men from committing rape.

I find this to be a really weak and pathetic argument to support prostitution and kind of makes us look even cheaper than we already do in the eyes of society.

Do we really need excuses for what we do. I always thought that a visit to me was a positive thing and not a last resort .

What do people think about this? If there were no prostitutes, would men turn to rape? How do you as a man feel about this. i find it to be quite insulting actually. Anyone who believes junk like this must think men are inclined to be like this en masse !.

I hate stereotypes don't you?. I am currently taking tablets to avoid being labelled :)

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right-wing media drivel. and left-wing too lol. now, enforced prostitution -- a different kettle of fish entirely of course.

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There are some women who regard all men as potential rapists. While there may be some punters who fantasise about rape, and possibly some who have raped women I would guess that the large majority find punting sufficient to meet their sexual urges.

I know this can be an incendiary subject (and I have a close relative who was attacked but managed to fight the guy off) and it will bring out the worst in some people but I trust that the topic will be treated as Sarah intended it to be when she posted.

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There are some women who regard all men as potential rapists. While there may be some punters who fantasise about rape, and possibly some who have raped women I would guess that the large majority find punting sufficient to meet their sexual urges.

I know this can be an incendiary subject (and I have a close relative who was attacked but managed to fight the guy off) and it will bring out the worst in some people but I trust that the topic will be treated as Sarah intended it to be when she posted.

I do not think any man who punts, thinks "I am a rapist so I had better punt instead". Thanks for your coments both of you x

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....and thank u Sarah for starting the thread. civility on punternet. at last ! lol. j/k/

yep, i agree with the last comment Sarah.

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When we read hysterical rubbish in the media regarding this hobby of ours, I sometimes wonder about the mentality of the authors. I have heard this said recently and have read it in the past - and no doubt some of you will have too, that being able to visit prostitutes will stop some men from committing rape. I find this to be a really weak and pathetic argument to support prostitution and kind of makes us look even cheaper than we already do in the eyes of society. Do we really need excuses for what we do. I always thought that a visit to me was a positive thing and not a last resort . What do people think about this? If there were no prostitutes, would men turn to rape? How do you as a man feel about this. i find it to be quite insulting actually. Anyone who believes junk like this must think men are inclined to be like this en masse !. I hate stereotypes don't you?. I am currently taking tablets to avoid being labelled :)

No i am not a potential rapist. Most of the media has its anti-prostitution stance along with femi-nazis and until that changes it will be more of the same, easy targets and easy journalism where they dont bother investigating the truth as the stereotype suits there agendas.

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You seem to be highly philosphical today Sarah!....I agree. I once heard a criminal psychologist state that the motives behind rape could be very complex and to a degree individual to the rapist and that sexual gratification for it's own sake was seldom a factor. Having said that sex does involve all manner of fantasy/ role play and some of the extremes of role play could get classified criminal if it were not between consenting adults......but I dare say that the view that visiting prostitutes helps prevent rape is about as crdible an argument as vanishing cream on a pregnant belly could help with the abortion.

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How wrong is it to say that about us guys. We do it because we enjoy the buzz and excitement. I've been hooked on a lovely girl for about a year now and could never have feelings like that. We get on well I buy her gifts and spoil her. Escorts are human and deserve to be treated so and hope this doesn't scare them off thinking guys could be rapists

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I do not think any man who punts, thinks "I am a rapist so I had better punt instead". Thanks for your coments both of you x

I hope I didn't imply that, Sarah. If so I apologise. I meant to say that rape is a very complex crime and the guys who do it have many different motives, most of which are totally foreign to the majority of people (male and female) on a site such as this.

The urges felt by rapists probably cannot be satisfied by anything else but the awful crime itself. Those of us with a "normal" sex drive can satisfy that by punting.

Not sure if I have made myself any clearer but I hope so.

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I very much doubt those who want to force sex would be interested in consentual sex as a substitute, with any woman. And I don't think the vast majority of men would even consider raping a woman if they couldn't visit prostitutes, it's not the same thing at all!

But some who see prostitution as 'bad' are quite happy to lump it together with other bad things to increase the shock value.

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I very much doubt those who want to force sex would be interested in consentual sex as a substitute, with any woman. And I don't think the vast majority of men would even consider raping a woman if they couldn't visit prostitutes, it's not the same thing at all!

But some who see prostitution as 'bad' are quite happy to lump it together with other bad things to increase the shock value.

Couldn't have stated it better myself !

It's lazy, uninformed, prejudicial conclusion jumping that lumps porn, prostitution, rape and violence towards women together all in the same basket

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and then there is the other argument that any men who do not have a normal monagamous relationship is a perv and therefore a kiddy fiddler or rapist.

I think the dead tree press with its stupid attidudes and shrinking circulation is becoming increasingly irrelevant. I havent bought a newspaper for yonks.

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and then there is the other argument that any men who do not have a normal monagamous relationship is a perv and therefore a kiddy fiddler or rapist.

I think the dead tree press with its stupid attidudes and shrinking circulation is becoming increasingly irrelevant. I havent bought a newspaper for yonks.

Indeed, a normal monogamous relationship. In reality whats normal for one person isnt necessarily so for another. Normal in this context means socially acceptable and sticking to the status quo of the past. The point is things have changed, some peoples views have moved on and evolved and they wish to live their lives free of dogma and religious thinking. Some now dont want to conform like in the past but within the law wish to live the life that suits them, be it gay, bi, shagging around or punting. Its a pity the few influence the media as they do not allowing an honest even handed debate. I live my life the way that suits me.

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well i visit wgs because i like it. simple as

anyone doesnt like sex or naked women?

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I find any belief that the actions of a handful of derranged nutjobs defines every individual of the same "group" to be laughable at best, the specific idea that just because I'm a bloke I somehow cannot control myself and would inflict something as serious as rape on another human being I find deeply offensive.

As Paul states there are are women out there who believe that we're all potential rapists, thankfully they are a very small (albeit very vocal) minority who to be blunt I won't be shedding any tears over never knowing the pleasure of their company.

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I hate stereotypes don't you?. I am currently taking tablets to avoid being labelled :)

I get the feeling I've missed a (subtle?) joke.

What sort of tablets stop you being labelled? :confused:

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well i visit wgs because i like it. simple as

anyone doesnt like sex or naked women?

Yes me !!

I visit wgs purely for the conversation and free drink at the beginning of the booking

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I get the feeling I've missed a (subtle?) joke.

What sort of tablets stop you being labelled? :confused:

pink-coated ones ! ;) lol.

...or sugar-coated .

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well i visit wgs because i like it. simple as anyone doesnt like sex or naked women?

I am not fussed. :rolleyes:

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By the laws of statistics, some punters maybe rapists or have raped in their lifetime..however I would think its a very small number and whoever said or wrote that prostitutes stop men from raping..well they either didnt take their pills or have taken a few too many.

Rapists are rapists...I dont know what drives them but how that can be linked to prostitution is beyond me.It makes you wonder how some of these idiots can be given a platform by the media to speak/write utter nonsense,but such is life. 'Normal' decent men,no matter how horny they get would not resort to raping a woman since human reasoning would tell them its wrong.

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Yes me !!

I visit wgs purely for the conversation and free drink at the beginning of the booking

and me ! !

I visit wg purely to check out their accommodation and whether the bathroom is clean , I can give the free drink a miss if they give WS

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Thank you Sarah. I am very glad that a female has started this topic.

Am I a potential rapist if I didn't have access to working girls? No. I will mostly play with my self or try harder to pull. Rape is violence not sex. I have mentioned this is a previous thread last year acout Andrea Dorken and her warped views on men. I personally like sex as a pleasureable pursuit, so the idea that I could be arroused while forcing myslef onto a woman who dosn't want me is alien to me and probably most of the men on this site.

The word rape comes from late Latin (14th Centuary) the verb RAPERE to take or seize, i.e. to steal waht is not yours, and the modern Italian rapinare means to steal - the noun is rapina. So rape really is the crime of taking that woman who dosn't want you

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"All men are rapists" is incorrectly attributed to Marilyn French in hernovel "The Women's Room" Feminists don't agree with this quote. Is like saying "Everyone is a potential murderer" Is a fairly silly quote, both are in truth. All have the potential be whatever, generally is just left as thoughts in the particular persons head and is rarely acted upon. Stereotying anyone or anything is a bit silly.

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I thought this was something the rad femmes (dittany et al) say, the happy hooker is a myth and us 'ladies' would never chose this profession if it was not for economic reasons, while this is the truth for some, for the majority of woman I know in the industry have/had a very successfully well paid career outside whoredom but CHOSE to do this for not so much the money but the time it affords to pursue other interests.

As it is an economical choice and we are all desperate for the reddies, their reasoning is that we do not want to fuck these guys, although it is consensual it is tantamount to rape as the men are taking advantage of our financial needs.

Also does this then mean that those guys that seek out the barely legal girls in school uniforms means that there are less paedophiles raping children?, - not it is all bollox, if a guy wants the power of rape or kids he will go out get it, he would not be interested in anyone willing and or of age.

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Depends what you mean by rape. No body, or barely anyone, has a problem with prison rape. Infact it's commonly joked about and nothing is done about it and most of the public see it as some form of 'justice'. Men are more likely to be raped in prisons in the US than women are in public.

I'm not a rapist and physically don't think I could be due to my diminutive stature.

Although when I've had a bad punt I do question my hobby and I've personally known someone who HATED the job but only did it to pay her bills and support her daughter. It made me question a lot.

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