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First Ever Punt - Loved It!

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So to cut a long story short, I am an young man of frankly pretty limited experience (Third Base, to borrow an Americanism) and as such decided to treat myself to an evening of excitement with one of the more sophisticated ladies of the night.

It was certainly more than enough to satisfy my curiousity and despite my initial nerves she put me completely at ease. I felt like I had caught up on a hell of a lot of excitement in a short space of time and learned a lot in the process.

I was pretty wary of the glossy photo's on the agency website, especially seeing as her face was blurred but I decided to take the chance and I have to say she was stunning in person. The "professional" photos had done her a great disservice in my opinion.

Being that she was well out of my league in the real world, I was pretty sure that I would come embarassingly quickly but I actually found it really difficult to come. I was able to get really close during OWO but when we had sex (with condom), even though it felt amazing it just wasn't getting me to orgasm. We tried 3 or 4 positions and it was a lot of fun, but we went back to oral+handjob which did the trick.

I was wondering if other guys find it difficult to climax during intercourse with a condom, especially when you were less experienced?

I think part of the issue was that she used quite a bit of lube for the sex, and obviously oral is very slippery too. Whereas I am used to having much more friction as I dont use lube when I masturbate. Even though it felt great, I was genuinely concerned I wasn't going to come before the end of the session.

I know lasting a longtime is probably not something I should be unhappy about, but I did feel slightly dissapointed that I wasn't able to come while inside her. Is it simply a matter of your body getting used to the difference?

Whilst I do not intend to make paying for sex a habit, I have no regrets and I thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

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Glad you enjoyed your first visit.

In my experience a lot of men find it hard to come in a condom, and in some cases without. Think it is mainly due to nerves or not being used to having the little fella in a plastic bag!

Even experienced men often have sex (with condom) then finish off by hand or mouth without.

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So to cut a long story short, I am an young man of frankly pretty limited experience (Third Base, to borrow an Americanism) and as such decided to treat myself to an evening of excitement with one of the more sophisticated ladies of the night.

It was certainly more than enough to satisfy my curiousity and despite my initial nerves she put me completely at ease. I felt like I had caught up on a hell of a lot of excitement in a short space of time and learned a lot in the process.

I was pretty wary of the glossy photo's on the agency website, especially seeing as her face was blurred but I decided to take the chance and I have to say she was stunning in person. The "professional" photos had done her a great disservice in my opinion.

Being that she was well out of my league in the real world, I was pretty sure that I would come embarassingly quickly but I actually found it really difficult to come. I was able to get really close during OWO but when we had sex (with condom), even though it felt amazing it just wasn't getting me to orgasm. We tried 3 or 4 positions and it was a lot of fun, but we went back to oral+handjob which did the trick.

I was wondering if other guys find it difficult to climax during intercourse with a condom, especially when you were less experienced?

I think part of the issue was that she used quite a bit of lube for the sex, and obviously oral is very slippery too. Whereas I am used to having much more friction as I dont use lube when I masturbate. Even though it felt great, I was genuinely concerned I wasn't going to come before the end of the session.

I know lasting a longtime is probably not something I should be unhappy about, but I did feel slightly dissapointed that I wasn't able to come while inside her. Is it simply a matter of your body getting used to the difference?

Whilst I do not intend to make paying for sex a habit, I have no regrets and I thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

I rarely come inside a WG in the condom as i prefer it by hand, by OWO and/or Cim. Chances are you will settle into it in time, practice makes perfect. ;)

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Sounds like an ideal 1st time. Well done. I certainly wouldn't worry about difficulties in cumming. The WG got you there in the end. I am sure that future encounters will find you more relaxed and you'll acheive your desire. Welcome to the boards.

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Glad you had a good time!

When I first started having sex, aged 20, I also found it difficult to cum - in fact, I never came with my first g/f at all. I think this was partially some physical discomfort (I had a very tight foreskin, and she had a tight little snatch) but also mentally I never fully relaxed with her.

Thankfully I was much more mentally and physically compatible with my next g/f, and after a couple of times where I still couldn't get to the finish line I finally experienced the joy of ejaculating inside her. So I thought fuck it, and married her.

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Hi Sweexy, welcome to P/N and congrats on your first punt.

Condoms are the necessary evil to us, there's nothing like making love to a GF or spouse "au natural" but health and safety dictates that protection must be worn when punting.

I often find it difficult to cum in a condom while having sex these days, I don't seem to remember having the same issues all those years ago when I was a featherlite carrying young, free and single sex god (not :blink: ). On top of this, I sometimes take 10mg Levitra (on prescription) and then I'm almost guaranteed not to cum at all, by any means, for hours.

When you finally settle down one day and trust a partner enough to dispense with the condom you'll find a whole new experience but please don't consider paying for this type of service (the despised BB), always wear a condom when punting. I know you didn't mention otherwise but I'm just emphasising it.

I hope you continue to have great sexual experiences and why not make a habit of paying for sex? That's what most of us do and thoroughly enjoy it (most of the time)!

DG

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Good to hear it went well! I generally find that if the wg performs owo and especially if I CIM the first time, then to cum the second time is very very hard...its takes a marathon effort on both the part of girl and myself to make it happen..but owo+handjob usually does it!

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Glad you had a good time. There are a lot of people who much prefer the foreplay more than full sex, its whatever does it for you.

Shelly

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The condom - on at the end or off? When I started, apart from having one or more bouts of PE usually as soon as the condom went on, I used to generally finish inside the lady with (obviously) the condom on. More latterly, I have enjoyed sex in different positions but taken the condom off to finish with HR or OWO / facial depending on my mood / the lady's preference. My regular just loves to watch me ejaculate (as indeed I do!!)

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Sounds like you had an excellent experience, glad you enjoyed yourself.

Welcome to PN.

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Apologies for the impromptu eye test folks - here it is with a larger font!!

The condom - on at the end or off? When I started, apart from having one or more bouts of PE usually as soon as the condom went on, I used to generally finish inside the lady with (obviously) the condom on. More latterly, I have enjoyed sex in different positions but taken the condom off to finish with HR or OWO / facial depending on my mood / the lady's preference. My regular just loves to watch me ejaculate (as indeed I do!!)

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I dont have problems cumming in a condom but its really difficult for me to cum from OWO or HR. Glad your first punt went well coz if the first one was not satisfactory it puts most people off.

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Welcome OP and I hope you have a happy punting hobby.

I expect your reluctance to climax was caused by nerves. We were all nervous virgins once so there is no shame there.

Practice makes perfect. Give it another 50 or 60 punts and you will be coming like a train :rolleyes:

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Cheers for the responses guys,

First off, just to be 100% clear, I would never be tempted to seek out BB but I appreciate the reminder all the same :).

Diamond Geezer - when I say "not make a habit of it" I meant from a financial point of view not a moral one, I can imagine it can be quite an expensive hobby once you get into it. I think it is something I would do "now and then" rather than regularly once per month or something. Apologies if it came across as me implying it was a "bad habit" that wasn't what I meant, more like when you get a taste for something expensive and then you want it all the time not just on special occaisons. Hope that made sense, If I had a lot of disposable income I'd be doing it all the time :D.

Willbred - She took the condom off when we went back to oral/handjob but was using a lot of lube and quite loose with her hand. I guess she was trying to be quite gentle with me, I reassured her she wouldn't hurt me and told her to just go for it and that did the trick.

Again, thanks for the feedback it was good to chat about the whole thing with like minded individuals, my mates in RL are pretty conservative so not something I would be able to discuss with them.

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And where is RL when it's at home. I know I should look it up but I am feeling lazy.

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I am very releived that others have problems coming inside a condom. 1 or 2 ladies I see, seem to have the knack of giving me the right sensations to get me over the top. But sometimes, however attractive, sexy, expert or energetic the lady is, I just don't get any sensation and I can't fathom out why this should be. I do think that some artificial lubes reduce sensation. I am now over retirement age and don't have the virility of my 40s & 50s. I do take some viagra (prescribed) to help maintain the erection. But I still love being with a beautiful and sexy lady and hope to continue the experience. I would be interested to hear some of the ladies thoughts and experiences, especially with older clients and what is the oldest client they have seen?

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And where is RL when it's at home. I know I should look it up but I am feeling lazy.

RL is internet speak for Real Life.

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I am very releived that others have problems coming inside a condom. 1 or 2 ladies I see, seem to have the knack of giving me the right sensations to get me over the top. But sometimes, however attractive, sexy, expert or energetic the lady is, I just don't get any sensation and I can't fathom out why this should be. I do think that some artificial lubes reduce sensation. I am now over retirement age and don't have the virility of my 40s & 50s. I do take some viagra (prescribed) to help maintain the erection. But I still love being with a beautiful and sexy lady and hope to continue the experience. I would be interested to hear some of the ladies thoughts and experiences, especially with older clients and what is the oldest client they have seen?

I love lube so for me its an essential and i take my own with me to punts, i never punt without it.

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Cheers for the responses guys,

First off, just to be 100% clear, I would never be tempted to seek out BB but I appreciate the reminder all the same :).

Diamond Geezer - when I say "not make a habit of it" I meant from a financial point of view not a moral one, I can imagine it can be quite an expensive hobby once you get into it. I think it is something I would do "now and then" rather than regularly once per month or something. Apologies if it came across as me implying it was a "bad habit" that wasn't what I meant, more like when you get a taste for something expensive and then you want it all the time not just on special occaisons. Hope that made sense, If I had a lot of disposable income I'd be doing it all the time :D.

Willbred - She took the condom off when we went back to oral/handjob but was using a lot of lube and quite loose with her hand. I guess she was trying to be quite gentle with me, I reassured her she wouldn't hurt me and told her to just go for it and that did the trick.

Again, thanks for the feedback it was good to chat about the whole thing with like minded individuals, my mates in RL are pretty conservative so not something I would be able to discuss with them.

Being able to chat with like minded people is one of the advantages here so dont be a stranger. ;)

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I think this is short term enfatuation / starrey eyedness. It's like the first car you drive or motorcycle you ride. It seems amazing at the time. If you see some other girls you'll probably find that they have qualities that are different and also great. If you find a girl you click with it's possible the physical sex won't be as good but it will feel better (if that makes any sense) because of the connection.

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...I do not intend to make paying for sex a habit...

Yeah that's what we all thought when we started...

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RL is internet speak for Real Life.

I guess you can tell how old I am now :eek:

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So to cut a long story short, I am an young man of frankly pretty limited experience (Third Base, to borrow an Americanism) and as such decided to treat myself to an evening of excitement with one of the more sophisticated ladies of the night.

It was certainly more than enough to satisfy my curiousity and despite my initial nerves she put me completely at ease. I felt like I had caught up on a hell of a lot of excitement in a short space of time and learned a lot in the process.

I was pretty wary of the glossy photo's on the agency website, especially seeing as her face was blurred but I decided to take the chance and I have to say she was stunning in person. The "professional" photos had done her a great disservice in my opinion.

Being that she was well out of my league in the real world, I was pretty sure that I would come embarassingly quickly but I actually found it really difficult to come. I was able to get really close during OWO but when we had sex (with condom), even though it felt amazing it just wasn't getting me to orgasm. We tried 3 or 4 positions and it was a lot of fun, but we went back to oral+handjob which did the trick.

I was wondering if other guys find it difficult to climax during intercourse with a condom, especially when you were less experienced?

I think part of the issue was that she used quite a bit of lube for the sex, and obviously oral is very slippery too. Whereas I am used to having much more friction as I dont use lube when I masturbate. Even though it felt great, I was genuinely concerned I wasn't going to come before the end of the session.

I know lasting a longtime is probably not something I should be unhappy about, but I did feel slightly dissapointed that I wasn't able to come while inside her. Is it simply a matter of your body getting used to the difference?

Whilst I do not intend to make paying for sex a habit, I have no regrets and I thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

Congrats on crossing the threshold! Welcome to the brotherhood of man.

On this issue of having difficulty coming with a condom inside....I would guess its nerves, but I might ask if you masturbate a lot? If you do...be careful, and I offer you a cautionary tale.

I'm mid forties, been with partner long time...and never once have come inside her (no condom). And the girlfriends before that, for at least ten years, same. Last time was maybe late twenties. Seems years of bjs and hand jobs and beating off (and eventual DBMS and then punting) took their toll, and now I need fairly intense stimulation to physically get off, the kind I hear a lot of on this board. And you know what? It sucks. And I do think too much external stimulation is really a big part of why that has happened. Even waiting a few weeks now isn't enough to reverse it (as it felt like it could have in my thirties, when it didn't matter because I wasn't trying to get anyone pregnant, quite the opposite actually)?

And so...I would say you tried this once, you did it and it was a good experience. Now, leave it behind and start going after girls in your classes or at bars and fumbling around making mistakes (safely of course). I ink you could get hooked on this hobby and end up with unrealistic expectations that hurt your future relationships a bit, or might not live up physically to the expert attention punters get used to...I'll probably get flamed for saying this, just want you to have max fun in life and save punting for the 'blues' or dry spells of normal dating. Once you are down and settled, hey, people have all kinds of relationships....

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I was wondering if other guys find it difficult to climax during intercourse with a condom, especially when you were less experienced?

I think part of the issue was that she used quite a bit of lube for the sex, and obviously oral is very slippery too. Whereas I am used to having much more friction as I dont use lube when I masturbate.

Yes, I have... it sound like your problem maybe due to the masturbation "death grip", as described here by the excellent Dan Savage:

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=14968

Try using lube when you masturbate, and/or a different technique, or the loss of sensation will get worse. Alternatively you could try one of the male sex toys on the market like the fleshlight or tenga flip.

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