Sarah Summers

The 'punter' Game

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When I started out as a working girl, I used to play this game to myself when I was out and about. I would look at some men and think 'he's a punter'.

Why? Because he looked at me in a certain way? Because he looked at women in general in that certain way that men do when they might fancy a woman? How daft is that! Don't all men do that if they think their other half is not watching them?

A few years later and I do not play that game anymore because I have no clue at all. My clients don't look like anything other than themselves.

I think we all play the 'hooker' game too. You know the one... 'she looks like a prostitute'...

Why? Because she wears short skirts and sexy shoes? Maybe she wears a lot of make-up? So do loads of women.

The reality of this is that most working girls look less like the stereotype than any other woman because they play it down in public and don't want people to know what they do. I know I do.

Perception of something is always spoiled when misinformation and perhaps a little knowledge come into play - oh and attitudes too.

Any thoughts?

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I've never looked at a gent thinking they looked like a punter but often look at them wishing they were! ;)

I think with WGs they can have an air of confidence and class about them but then that could go for women in many different roles!

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i try -- i say try --- not to judge and pass judgement; personally, i would find it difficult to identify; many a classy lady escort too (mature Chloe for example; i'd never blindly think she worked as one ).

shock/horror ! lol.

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When I started out as a working girl, I used to play this game to myself when I was out and about. I would look at some men and think 'he's a punter'. Why? Because he looked at me in a certain way? Because he looked at women in general in that certain way that men do when they might fancy a woman? How daft is that! Don't all men do that if they think their other half is not watching them? A few years later and I do not play that game anymore because I have no clue at all. My clients don't look like anything other than themselves. I think we all play the 'hooker' game too. You know the one... 'she looks like a prostitute'... Why? Because she wears short skirts and sexy shoes? Maybe she wears a lot of make-up? So do loads of women. The reality of this is that most working girls look less like the stereotype than any other woman because they play it down in public and don't want people to know what they do. I know I do. Perception of something is always spoiled when misinformation and perhaps a little knowledge come into play - oh and attitudes too. Any thoughts?

I stick to knowing who is definitely a WG by booking then punting with them. If i see an attractive to me woman outside punting i might have a good ogle but i am not thinking is she a WG, i am thinking what an attractive woman.

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This touches on a topic which has been mentioned here a few times - that of how WG's dress ( and possibly behave?) outside their work environment. In my experience if you put 10 girls in civvies in a line up and asked someone who had never met any of them what their jobs were, I'm willing to bet that they wouldn't have a clue. Yes, when I was younger and naive, I used to think that WGs walked around in corset, fishnets and heels outside work!!

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As Sarah said, you can't define a punter, they come in all shapes and sizes, ages, races, classes, professions etc.

I am beginning to think that all men pay for sex at some point!

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On previous threads asking this same question both ladies and clients have stated

they can spot a wg/punter when out in public etc.

I don't believe this for a moment.

It is impossible in my view. As a woman if I am out and about I see men looking at women

all the time.... yes... all the time :D whether they are trying to spot pros or they are clients

themselves.... is anyone's guess.

I have met... like myself.... ladies who look perfectly average in the way they dress and conduct

themselves when in public..... who are of course wg's.

My belief is that the girls who dress provocatively are less likely to be wg's ..... you see we play out our own fantasies

within our meetings and get to dress in all the sexy skimpies.... so have no need to exhibit ourselves

when in Sainsburys or the high street.

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It's often young girls that dress like streetwalkers.

Serious escorts, working from hotels, tend to dress like business women, which is exactly what they are.

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It is not how attractive they are it is about how sexy they are, you can find some WG are plain Jane but my god they are so sexy and horny because of they way they walk, talk, hold their head, it is not the looks that make a good punt, but how horny the girls can be. The best punts that I have had are the plain jane types who demons in bed

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it is not the looks that make a good punt, but how horny the girls can be. The best punts that I have had are the plain jane types who demons in bed

x2. Hit the nail on the head. Ive seen some stunning wg's in my time but the best werent necessarily the prettiest. If anything I find it more horny and a turn-on when a girl next door type is pure filth in between the sheets...the only downside being Im unlikely to er,last very long....

I wouldnt have a clue who is a punter or wg just by appearance. i punted in my early 20's fairly infrequently but I dont think anyone would have a clue from my appearance.a young student punter is not your typical....a middle aged or older guy in a suit walking around with a young pretty girl might arouse suspicions but it could be his daughter or niece...you just cant tell!

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It is not how attractive they are it is about how sexy they are,

and their ATTITUD that makes them better than ther girl in the street

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The funniest thing for me is when my other half declares a girl/woman looks like "a WG", - hair, clothes, make up, whatever can trigger it.

She's obviously blinkered by the stereotypical streetwalker look that may be portrayed in a TV drama and doesn't have a clue that any respectable looking lady she passes in the street could be a popular WG.

I don't deny having thoughts of "I wish you were a WG" on occasion! To echo Cole77, quite often I'm attracted to the subtly attractive plainer lady rather than the drop dead gorgeous stunner.

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Years and years ago I was on the tube, on my way to a massage parlour near Mornington Crescent (yes, punting was really sad in the seventies!). A couple of stops before I got off I suddenly became aware of a chap sitting opposite me and thought immediately, "He's off for a punt!" It was the look of furtive guilt that he gave off. We both got off at the same stop, and I followed him up the stairs. Out of the station, I followed him as he turned left, and, sure enough, he went straight into the massage parlour. I hung around for a bit before going in, but it nearly put me off going. Dear God, did I look like that too?!

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Years and years ago I was on the tube, on my way to a massage parlour near Mornington Crescent (yes, punting was really sad in the seventies!). A couple of stops before I got off I suddenly became aware of a chap sitting opposite me and thought immediately, "He's off for a punt!" It was the look of furtive guilt that he gave off. We both got off at the same stop, and I followed him up the stairs. Out of the station, I followed him as he turned left, and, sure enough, he went straight into the massage parlour. I hung around for a bit before going in, but it nearly put me off going. Dear God, did I look like that too?!

Yes it was your brother.

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As Sarah said, you can't define a punter, they come in all shapes and sizes, ages, races, classes, professions etc.

I am beginning to think that all men pay for sex at some point!

weve done thos one before

i reckone many have tried, both as WG's and punters

just look how many girils come and go from parlours, agnecies and the purple site. and i bet many bloked have had one or 2 when things were bad in their civie sex lives, praps when they had very young kids.

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I don't think you can tell anything from an individual. A couple together is another matter. I often play the game of "spot the punter-and-escort pair".

I was once at Sadler's Wells opera, just the place a wealthy guy might take an expensive WG at the start of a four-hour "date". Next to me in the stalls was a good-looking American bloke of around 28, and next to him was a Chinese girl. Her English was poor and it was obvious they had only just met and had nothing at all in common. The fact that she was dressed far more formally than anyone else showed that she had never been to the opera before, at least in this country, and didn't know what to expect. Shortly before the curtain rose he kissed her briefly on the shoulder. To me he looked like an American visitor to the UK who had booked a girl from an agency, and the agency had fobbed him off with someone quite unsuitable - though the girl was clearly trying hard to do everything right.

On another occasion I was at the Barbican. A couple of rows back from me was a little wizened Englishman of around 55, rather untidily dressed, next to an elegant looking lady of about 35 from somewhere in Eastern Europe. The little man was holding forth loudly and knowledgeably about the country the lady was from, which he evidently knew extremely well, and she was agreeing enthusiastically with what he said. Again it was quite apparent from what they were saying that they had only just met and didn't know each other at all.

Whereas I am 90% certain that the couple in Sadlers Wells were a client and an escort, I would only give 50% likelihood to the couple in the Barbican despite their incongruity together. She could, for example, have been a member of an academic delegation from Eastern Europe and he could have been an English university staff member who had been given the task of entertaining her for the evening. At the same time it seems equally possible that he was a punter who had booked a lady for the evening from a country he was particularly keen on.

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Here's another one. I was travelling back from Brighton to London by train one morning. On the opposite side of the carriage was an English businessman of around 45 talking to an extremely beautiful girl of around 20, who I would guess was from South America. He was droning on and on about cars and what he was going to buy and the advantages of this car over that car. He was boring. Meanwhile she was smiling sweetly, paying close attention and throwing in little comments to show that she was following what he was saying and agreeing with it.

What were they doing together? Travelling back from an overnight in Brighton? If I had been a beautiful girl like that, he would have had to pay me a lot of money to put up with him.

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I am sure that, as far as the clientele of punternet is concerned (and more particularly those who pontificate on these forums (fora?) - myself included), there is one common trait: we do take our hobbies/professions quite seriously. However don't let us fool ourselves that we are typical of the average punter/wg. There are all sorts out there.

If I played Sarah's game I would not have the foggiest idea why the man on the tube had a smug expression on his face (had he just read a really interesting articel in IT Weekly?). Or whether that lady was a professional (please tell me she is and I can get her number). But that's a big part of punting - just as the ladies when walking into a hotel room are excited by the idea of sex with a stranger (OK, and the money too), so too (in my case) am I enthralled by who is coming in through the door. Damn it, if I was forty years younger, female and unattached I would seriously consider giving it a try! With apologies to any WG who finds that condescending in any way.

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A couple of years ago I went to a test match with 4 other mates. Outside the ground a local parlour was dishing out flyers. The girls dishing out leaflets looked at the 5 of us.... and promptly walked past my four friends, and gave me a leaflet. As far as I know the others don't punt... or maybe they hide it better.

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A couple of years ago I went to a test match with 4 other mates. Outside the ground a local parlour was dishing out flyers. The girls dishing out leaflets looked at the 5 of us.... and promptly walked past my four friends, and gave me a leaflet. As far as I know the others don't punt... or maybe they hide it better.

were you wearing your punternet tie?

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were you wearing your punternet tie?

Not sure what it was. Probably wrongly I took it as a compliment ("Here's one old geezer that looks like he still likes sex").... maybe more likely it was "That old perv has been eye-ing up our short skirts".)

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Outside the ground a local parlour was dishing out flyers.

Never heard of this. Very enterprising of them. Out of interest, what did the leaflets offer (a discount perhaps?). I could imagine a fair few cricket lovers getting mighty offended at having a leaflet advertising OWO and Anal shoved into their hands. Also, I wonder if your wife believed how you came by the leaflet when she found it in your pocket later :D .

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Never heard of this. Very enterprising of them. Out of interest, what did the leaflets offer (a discount perhaps?). I could imagine a fair few cricket lovers getting mighty offended at having a leaflet advertising OWO and Anal shoved into their hands. Also, I wonder if your wife believed how you came by the leaflet when she found it in your pocket later :D .

It was outside Edgbaston, flyer advertising "Blue Ice, high class nightclub" or some such. Call it "punt sense".... whatever.... but my gut reaction was that it was unlikely that anybody would be thrusting a night club brochure into my decrepit hands. (I'd have it was obvious that I was unlikely to survive a vigorous dance, but might survive a "massage".) So logged name for future research (often go to ground to watch cricket, so might be useful if rain stops play sometime), and binned flyer. (Disposing of incriminating evidence is now done without thinking).

Next time I had ten minutes to spare on computer.... a quick search confirmed my initial reaction.

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I've seen many a woman I wished was game ..... or on the game, and once or twice I've sat in the pub and wondered what it must be like for a wg waiting for her next customer not having a clue as to what he was like - from there it's been fun imagining the next woman through the door was one I would be forced to have sex with if she had the money - and from that I know I could never do the job!! :lol::D

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I've seen many a woman I wished was game ..... or on the game, and once or twice I've sat in the pub and wondered what it must be like for a wg waiting for her next customer not having a clue as to what he was like - from there it's been fun imagining the next woman through the door was one I would be forced to have sex with if she had the money - and from that I know I could never do the job!! :lol::D

That's a thought a few guys should consider before getting too critical about some ladies.

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