Victoria Kavanagh

Who Wants To Live Forever?

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Was talking to a long term regular of mine on the phone not so long ago. Never known this guy to ask for anything, a caring, compassionate man with always a smile on his face, despite his cronic health troubles. Kind of puts a few people to shame I know outside of work but I'm not going to divulge into that. This morning was a call, indicating that things could be getting worse for him having found something else that is to threaten his life, if life for him wasn't already bad enough.

Before the judgement begins, I will indicate that he didn't soley ring up to tell me this news but was to make a booking for later this afternoon, the conversation just turned to this when i enquired on the gentleman's health. I must admit, been a bit of a soft touch, I have shed a few tears at the thought of what he told me as let's face it, nobody likes to hear bad news, do they? I can only hope that is can be sorted for him. Been a regular of mine, I can't help but get somewhat attached and feel concern for their well being as many tend to open up to me i find, almost like im seen as a companion as well as an escort to them.

I bring this to the attention of the board as I wonder if I should tell him to not comeback for a while till he finds out what his happening or should I continue to see him, at his request when he calls to book?

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Not being a wg, but from my point of view, i would continue to see him. He obviously is wanting your company, and you may one thing that is helping him and keeping him going.

I feel that if you were to tell him not to comeback till he finds out what is happening, he will feel bereft at loseing something he feels is helping him take his mind off what is happening to him.

For as long as he wants to see you/is able to.. then i think you should see him, but also think about what you want, and how things would make you feel if you either continued to see him or not.

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I will be happy to continue seeing him if he wished, as you typed very kindly it will help him. I feel it has been misworded by me as what i am 'trying' to get across, but failing in process, is i hate to think he is already struggling or it is painful for him and he is putting on a brave face. I wouldnt want to give anyone pain unless it was their fetish. You are right though, i should leave it to his choice on how he feels and stop thinking he needs time to think on it. Its his life, his body and he will know how he feels.

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God forbid, if I had something serious / life threatening but I was still able to visit a girl where we had both got close, I would very much want to do so. You sound like a very caring sort of person.

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As long as you don't have any problems about seeing this gentleman I think you should accept his bookings.Things are obviously bad enough for him and to be turned away would compound them.

As Wilbred said, you sound a very caring lady and I'm sure his visits mean more to him than just the physical acts.

DG

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Was talking to a long term regular of mine on the phone not so long ago. Never known this guy to ask for anything, a caring, compassionate man with always a smile on his face, despite his cronic health troubles. Kind of puts a few people to shame I know outside of work but I'm not going to divulge into that. This morning was a call, indicating that things could be getting worse for him having found something else that is to threaten his life, if life for him wasn't already bad enough. Before the judgement begins, I will indicate that he didn't soley ring up to tell me this news but was to make a booking for later this afternoon, the conversation just turned to this when i enquired on the gentleman's health. I must admit, been a bit of a soft touch, I have shed a few tears at the thought of what he told me as let's face it, nobody likes to hear bad news, do they? I can only hope that is can be sorted for him. Been a regular of mine, I can't help but get somewhat attached and feel concern for their well being as many tend to open up to me i find, almost like im seen as a companion as well as an escort to them. I bring this to the attention of the board as I wonder if I should tell him to not comeback for a while till he finds out what his happening or should I continue to see him, at his request when he calls to book?

The comfort you offer him may well be very important to him so i would advise still seeing him if you havent an objection to doing so. :)

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Yes, if your seeing him doesn't upset you too much. The time and affection you can give him just now will be invaluable to him. But, you must consider how much his visits stress you, and if you cannot take the stress let him down as gently as you can.

You are obviously a very caring lady and I'm sure he would appreciate your being honest with him

God luck in whatever you decide to do.

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given myself a couple hours to calm after the initial news and have allowed him to book this afternoon. As i mentioned earlier, the gentleman has never treated me in anyway to make me feel i should spur him. I am grateful to those who have took time out to reply to my situation and thank you for your advice and kind words from the male mind xx

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given myself a couple hours to calm after the initial news and have allowed him to book this afternoon. As i mentioned earlier, the gentleman has never treated me in anyway to make me feel i should spur him. I am grateful to those who have took time out to reply to my situation and thank you for your advice and kind words from the male mind xx

I hope it goes well Lady Victoria. :)

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Also hope it goes well for you Lady V. Putting myself in his shoes, talking with someone outside one's normal environment, but with whom you have some previous rapport, can be very helpful in gaining a better perspective on things. But given the seriousness of things I hope you also are strong enough to deal with it. It does put you between a rock and a hard place. Good luck.

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Was talking to a long term regular of mine on the phone not so long ago. Never known this guy to ask for anything, a caring, compassionate man with always a smile on his face, despite his cronic health troubles. Kind of puts a few people to shame I know outside of work but I'm not going to divulge into that. This morning was a call, indicating that things could be getting worse for him having found something else that is to threaten his life, if life for him wasn't already bad enough.

Before the judgement begins, I will indicate that he didn't soley ring up to tell me this news but was to make a booking for later this afternoon, the conversation just turned to this when i enquired on the gentleman's health. I must admit, been a bit of a soft touch, I have shed a few tears at the thought of what he told me as let's face it, nobody likes to hear bad news, do they? I can only hope that is can be sorted for him. Been a regular of mine, I can't help but get somewhat attached and feel concern for their well being as many tend to open up to me i find, almost like im seen as a companion as well as an escort to them.

I bring this to the attention of the board as I wonder if I should tell him to not comeback for a while till he finds out what his happening or should I continue to see him, at his request when he calls to book?

You seem a very caring person Victoria.I think you should go ahead and see him as long as he want to see you.

I know only to well what the company of a nice lady means to you when you have health problems. It often brightens your day and gives you somthing to look forward to,especially when you don't have a lot of contact with others.

If only people outside of the world of escorts could see and understand this,instead of condeming.

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Reminds me of the old zen story of the man chased by a lion falling over a cliff. As he hangs by a crumbling stone over a thousand foot drop, the lion above him, he sees a few strawberries growing in the cliff face. He takes them and eats them with joy.

I'm sure this guy will take and relish your services and if he's got a bucket list, I bet "sitting here quietly mumering woe is me" is not on it.

As Dylan Thomas said "Do not go gently into that dark night, but rage, rage gainst the passing of the light"

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given myself a couple hours to calm after the initial news and have allowed him to book this afternoon. As i mentioned earlier, the gentleman has never treated me in anyway to make me feel i should spur him. I am grateful to those who have took time out to reply to my situation and thank you for your advice and kind words from the male mind xx

I can only repeat what the other guys have said.

It sounds like your gentleman is a very lucky man indeed to be able to spend time with you.

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I think you should keep seeing him, as long as it is not affecting your own mental well being.

Psychiatrists have to under go years of training and have very clear guidelines and support structures that allow them to talk about things like this without it getting to them.

Hopefully you can take the positives from the situation and feel good that you are easing the suffering of a fellow human being.

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I certainly don't want to live forever. To quote Swinburne:-

I thank with brief thanksgivings, whatever gods may be;

That no man lives forever, that dead men rise up never;

That even the weariest river winds somewhere safe to sea.

(Apologies... that won't be exact, because I'm quoting from memory. But it sums up my feelings pretty well.)

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I bring this to the attention of the board as I wonder if I should tell him to not comeback for a while till he finds out what his happening or should I continue to see him, at his request when he calls to book?

Anything that make's this chap's life a bit more bearable has to be a good thing V. Glad to hear you decided to keep on seeing him.

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Men don't just punt for sex ( I include myself in this ) but also for the company that the encounter gives. Obviously this sitaution is very delicate, but I think he needs someone to talk to. Maybe he is not partnered with anyone, maybe he is, but he does need someone at this time and maybe you are that person

I can remember two regulars of mine who both where very close to their fathers and both of them them died while I was seeing them, On one occasion I did have sex with the WG but it felt wrong to me, although she let me carry on - I did not enjoy it. The other time I paid for a full hour but no sexual contact took place as I could not do it, seeing that she was so unhappy. The ladies in question where both working in Soho in the early nineties. I think these stituations run both ways, and I would be very happy to give personal support to any working girl in similaer circumstances.

Keep in contact with this man, and find out what is happening.

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Men don't just punt for sex

Keep in contact with this man, and find out what is happening.

Very good advice. It sounds like this guy needs a shoulder to cry on, and ear to bend and Lady Victoria sounds just the person to provide them.

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Men don't just punt for sex ( I include myself in this ) but also for the company that the encounter gives. Obviously this sitaution is very delicate, but I think he needs someone to talk to. Maybe he is not partnered with anyone, maybe he is, but he does need someone at this time and maybe you are that person

Agree with this... I saw a girl yesterday, and (unusually for me), I just wasn't in the mood for sex. We mainly kissed, cuddled and talked, and I left very happy.

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Men don't just punt for sex ( I include myself in this ) but also for the company that the encounter gives. Obviously this sitaution is very delicate, but I think he needs someone to talk to. Maybe he is not partnered with anyone, maybe he is, but he does need someone at this time and maybe you are that person I can remember two regulars of mine who both where very close to their fathers and both of them them died while I was seeing them, On one occasion I did have sex with the WG but it felt wrong to me, although she let me carry on - I did not enjoy it. The other time I paid for a full hour but no sexual contact took place as I could not do it, seeing that she was so unhappy. The ladies in question where both working in Soho in the early nineties. I think these stituations run both ways, and I would be very happy to give personal support to any working girl in similaer circumstances. Keep in contact with this man, and find out what is happening.

Some men do though, all they want is a Pump, dump and leave, its a case of emptying their sacks at a quicky keeping the chat to an absolute minimum. Not my bag but i have read posts by some punters who only require a shag, end of.

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For us older guys the best ladies are those that let us take their time, and who are aware that we often want a bit more than a "quick shag". Thanks to all of the ladies who understand us, like Lady Victoria understands this guy. Good luck to them both.

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Need I say more:

Edited by Zzzorro

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Was talking to a long term regular of mine on the phone not so long ago. Never known this guy to ask for anything, a caring, compassionate man with always a smile on his face, despite his cronic health troubles. Kind of puts a few people to shame I know outside of work but I'm not going to divulge into that. This morning was a call, indicating that things could be getting worse for him having found something else that is to threaten his life, if life for him wasn't already bad enough.

Before the judgement begins, I will indicate that he didn't soley ring up to tell me this news but was to make a booking for later this afternoon, the conversation just turned to this when i enquired on the gentleman's health. I must admit, been a bit of a soft touch, I have shed a few tears at the thought of what he told me as let's face it, nobody likes to hear bad news, do they? I can only hope that is can be sorted for him. Been a regular of mine, I can't help but get somewhat attached and feel concern for their well being as many tend to open up to me i find, almost like im seen as a companion as well as an escort to them.

I bring this to the attention of the board as I wonder if I should tell him to not comeback for a while till he finds out what his happening or should I continue to see him, at his request when he calls to book?

Cheer him up with a freebie- might be his last...seriously a bit of good fortune can be a tonic.

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czechmate, you might appreciate this.

Nice voice, and totally amazing legs which seem to go on forever, and the rest of her ain't half bad either. .

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