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Looking through some unread emails, I came across an email from an escort I saw once (and never will see again) wishing me a Happy New Year. She sent the same email to what I presume to be her entire client contacts list so every recipient can see everyone else's email address.

What is even more surprising is that a fair number of her clients are not only using their full names, including surnames, but are also obviously using work email addresses.

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Looking through some unread emails, I came across an email from an escort I saw once (and never will see again) wishing me a Happy New Year. She sent the same email to what I presume to be her entire client contacts list so every recipient can see everyone else's email address. What is even more surprising is that a fair number of her clients are not only using their full names, including surnames, but are also obviously using work email addresses.

How very unprofessional of her and utterly stupid of the punters to correspond using their real names and/or work email addresses.

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its just an oversight. I have had guys leave their number so i can call them back if a particular girl has a cancellation. Often its gone to voicemail with hello this is mark/ian/john baggins/green/smith etc of blahblah construction ... errrr I once even got the lovely message....hi guys, if you are trying get hold of john and janice smyth please leave a message :o

all names have been changed :cool:

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Some could of got Spammed I suppose, but just goes to prove the need for punting phones and punting email addresses.

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its just an oversight. I have had guys leave their number so i can call them back if a particular girl has a cancellation. Often its gone to voicemail with hello this is mark/ian/john baggins/green/smith etc of blahblah construction ... errrr I once even got the lovely message....hi guys, if you are trying get hold of john and janice smyth please leave a message :o

all names have been changed :cool:

(to protect the stupid)

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if spamming put the adresses in the bcc. not rocket science,

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Some could of got Spammed I suppose, but just goes to prove the need for punting phones and punting email addresses.

Indeed, basic common sense that some clearly havent got.

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Looking through some unread emails, I came across an email from an escort I saw once (and never will see again) wishing me a Happy New Year. She sent the same email to what I presume to be her entire client contacts list so every recipient can see everyone else's email address.

What is even more surprising is that a fair number of her clients are not only using their full names, including surnames, but are also obviously using work email addresses.

Please name and shame so the membership can avoid her indiscretion.

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Please name and shame so the membership can avoid her indiscretion.

I am guessing that as the clients must have contacted her at some point using these email address's she probably assumed they were safe to use as she had emailed them on them before.x

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I am guessing that as the clients must have contacted her at some point using these email address's she probably assumed they were safe to use as she had emailed them on them before.x

Its the same logic to me as a WG not ringing or texting me out of the blue which was discussed on a recent thread. She would have my phone number but unless its been agreed between us i wouldnt like being rang or texted out of the blue. To me cold contacting a punter without his express agreement which the OP clearly didnt give is unprofessional. So her assuming if its not been discussed is wrong in my opinion. In this case on top of that the OP can see other peoples names and work emails so her discretion shown is appalling.

Edited by smiths

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I had a large high street store do this to me once. The mailed everyone who had contacted their customer service email address with a sales mail shot and didn't use a maling app or bcc.

There were many apologies, vouchers and unwritten pleas for discretion.

That is relatively harmless compared to this though. Imagine if you knew someone on he list!

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I'd rather have a cold call from a working girl than some pr*ck asking if I want double glazing!

Edited by raylondoner

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I'd rather have a cold call from a working girl than some pr*ck asking if I want double glazing!

Best line ever mate :P

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Looking through some unread emails, I came across an email from an escort I saw once (and never will see again) wishing me a Happy New Year. She sent the same email to what I presume to be her entire client contacts list so every recipient can see everyone else's email address.

What is even more surprising is that a fair number of her clients are not only using their full names, including surnames, but are also obviously using work email addresses.

It's what some girls do- it's what some guys do. It's par for the course. Bin the email and never think of her again. What else can you do?

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Looking through some unread emails, I came across an email from an escort I saw once (and never will see again) wishing me a Happy New Year. She sent the same email to what I presume to be her entire client contacts list so every recipient can see everyone else's email address.

What is even more surprising is that a fair number of her clients are not only using their full names, including surnames, but are also obviously using work email addresses.

I once received a joke from a client who did exactly the same - there were approx ten escort names, other friends, his wife and family included in the list! I never saw him again but my thought was very much at the time that this would not end well.

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It's what some girls do- it's what some guys do. It's par for the course. Bin the email and never think of her again. What else can you do?

Its not par for the course at all in my opinion, WGs who are professional dont cold contact punters in my experiences. They realise the possible consequences to the punter. In this case its even worse as she has included other punters details in her email to the OP, the fact these punters were so stupid to disclose personal details doesnt make her actions any better in my view.

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Its not par for the course at all in my opinion, WGs who are professional dont cold contact punters in my experiences. They realise the possible consequences to the punter. In this case its even worse as she has included other punters details in her email to the OP, the fact these punters were so stupid to disclose personal details doesnt make her actions any better in my view.

Agreed! It is not par of the course and incredibly stoopid! The more I read some of the stories on this site I really do feel some girls should not be in the industry!

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Another reason not to leave contact details.

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Its not par for the course at all in my opinion, WGs who are professional dont cold contact punters in my experiences. They realise the possible consequences to the punter. In this case its even worse as she has included other punters details in her email to the OP, the fact these punters were so stupid to disclose personal details doesnt make her actions any better in my view.

It is par for the course. I get emails from punters who send block mails out to me and other girls. I do not respond. I send them to SPAM. It's not worth getting your knickers in a twist over. I am sure we all know who the good guys are.

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It is par for the course. I get emails from punters who send block mails out to me and other girls. I do not respond. I send them to SPAM. It's not worth getting your knickers in a twist over. I am sure we all know who the good guys are.

This thread wasnt about a punter sending emails to a WG though. This indiscreet behaviour could have dire consequences for a punters life. Discretion is everything in punting in my opinion. I expect it and ensure i am discreet when visiting.

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I don't think she ment to be indiscreet. I think she just was not technical and didn't realise that sending the email in that manner would allow everyone to see each others email addresses. Give her a break she's only human.

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I don't think she ment to be indiscreet. I think she just was not technical and didn't realise that sending the email in that manner would allow everyone to see each others email addresses. Give her a break she's only human.

As much as you may want to, she works in an industry where the utmost discretion is paramount! And that applies both ways.

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Please name and shame so the membership can avoid her indiscretion.

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It is par for the course. I get emails from punters who send block mails out to me and other girls. I do not respond. I send them to SPAM. It's not worth getting your knickers in a twist over. I am sure we all know who the good guys are.

It's par for the course for a working girl to send out a mass email to her clients with no regard for the potential damage that mail could do even only seen by the intended recipients? (never mind if any outside party got their hands on a copy) for someone using a totally seperate email address no worry but how's John Smith of Smith & Jones Industries (made up example) going to be feeling when he sees his address on that that mail, especially given recent examples of what the gutter press are willing to resort to to sell papers.

I don't think she ment to be indiscreet. I think she just was not technical and didn't realise that sending the email in that manner would allow everyone to see each others email addresses. Give her a break she's only human.

She shouldn't be sending it at all without the express consent of the client.

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