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Bbw Requirements?

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Just a simple question for you all.

At what size does an escort classify as a BBW?

I'm a size 16, at a grand height of 5 ft 3 (yes probably larger than i should be, but i actually don't care that much right now), but Ive seen ladies at a size 14 advertising themselves as BBW's, even though they were 5 ft 8 and taller.

Guess i wanted to know when curvy stops, and BBW kicks in, and whether i should change my "curvy" description to BBW?

Thanks in advance! ^_^

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Just a simple question for you all.

At what size does an escort classify as a BBW?

I'm a size 16, at a grand height of 5 ft 3 (yes probably larger than i should be, but i actually don't care that much right now), but Ive seen ladies at a size 14 advertising themselves as BBW's, even though they were 5 ft 8 and taller.

Guess i wanted to know when curvy stops, and BBW kicks in, and whether i should change my "curvy" description to BBW?

Thanks in advance! ^_^

Now listen here lady!

You define yourself in any which way you want. The term 'BBW' has been turned into something of an insult not just to the ladies who call themselves 'BBW' but to other ladies who are curvy/have big boobs/big bums... it seems to me that the term is bandied about so much - no-one knows what to call herself any more.

If we say we are curvy (which i am) then some men say we are fat. It seems a lady can't say a single thing about herself but some guy ( and some women too) comes along and calls her fat/obese or BBW meaning it as an insult.

If you have a gallery and your build is represented accurately, then that is testament to what you are like. The guys can make their own minds up and you can call yourself anything that suits you... more importantly than what suits others

Sarah - fat in some places but not in others :)

Welcome to the forum btw.......

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If some stranger in the street shouts 'Oi! fatty' and without turning round you KNOW they mean you - BBW. If you know without turning that they must mean someone else? Not BBW.

Hope that helps :D:P:D

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If some stranger in the street shouts 'Oi! fatty' and without turning round you KNOW they mean you - BBW. If you know without turning that they must mean someone else? Not BBW.

Hope that helps :D:P:D

I know you are just being funny, but I don't think the subject matter is. It's time people had a bit of respect for other people's views. Why should some guy come on here and slag off a massive proportion of the female population who are perfectly happy being the size they are - so much so, they define themselves as BBW so they guys who love BBW can see them.

I'm not BBW, but I know ladies who are. i get fed up of reading shite on these forums, upsetting us and slagging us off ( not here). I have recently been called vile and it made me cry. We are here for fun and a bit of love - not to be treated like something he (they) stepped in this morning.

Pah

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Sarah, I've had a lifetime of this. I've been fat since I was 15 and it took me twenty years to realise I could market that. Now, I laugh. All the way to the bank!

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Like anything that includes the word 'beautiful', it's all in the eyes of the beholder.

If you're beautiful, can shut off my air supply by sitting on my face, and block out the sun by smothering my eyes with your boobs, and I still come back for more then you're a BBW to me RRL. :D

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Hi Ravishing, welcome.

The BBW is a tricky one, it's been debated many a time and noone has a conclusive answer that suits all.

I thought the general standard was a size 16, but you will see girls advertising on BBW sites and calling themselves that who are smaller. I have been called BBW and called not quite a BBW so who knows! Some men will choose a girl based on her feedback, services, location, because she sounds fun or intelligent in her profile. Some fancy Asian girls, some skinny girls and stick with that, some will vary in what they want on a regular basis. Just remember you can't be all things to all men, If you go with the BBW thing you enter a niche which can be lucrative, however you may put off the guys who equal BBW with fat = yuck. be honest about your sizing, use flattering but recognisable photos and you can't go wrong!

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I can't answer with a mathematical answer as it's quite subjective. It's a question of overall image that will most likely draw different answers from different punters.

Another factor is whether curvy is shapely curves or includes folds and rolls of saggy fat. I'm not being "fattist" here, just searching for a way to explain and apologise if it sounds offensive, none meant.

I had a punt a while ago with a lady advertising herself as size 12, I think she was quite mistaken! I would only guess she was size 18 but she had a very saggy tummy which wasn't attractive (to me). There were other considerations which are far too intimate to post here. Her photos weren't accurate either.

Again, I have nothing against the bigger lady or punters that like the bigger lady. I do like a curvy and womanly lady though! All I ask is that ladies describe themselves accurately. A BBW tag isn't needed for this, a dress size and a few photos is all we ask.

Ultimately you have to decide if you "want" to be known as a BBW, depends whether you want Google to send BBW searches to your website as much as anything.

DG

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This is very subjective. I think BBW seems to cover everyone who not early 20s and is not a skinny rake. In Voluptious magazine some of the girls are carrying some weight and some of them have a "good frame" or are as the guys at the cafe would describe "structurally sound." I'm not sure where the boudary lies. I remember reading a profile from some lass in the north who noted that she had "fat in the right places." That sounded positive to me.

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yep, size 16 sounds about right; no hard and fast rules though .....

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