Victoria Kavanagh

Weighty Issues

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Inspired by the recent posts I've decided on posting a question that has been bugging me for a little while now. Basically, I am in the process of losing weight. Before I used to be an 8-10 and this is where i'm aiming for again. As I was with an agency at the time, when i gained weight through my thyroid packing up, I never really noticed much difference in client's opinions as the topic was rarely brought up, if only a mere couple of times.

Now, in the shoes of Independency, I realise people are more open in giving their views and for someone in my shoes, I find it helpful in wondering how a lady is liked to be seen by various opinions on this board. Now this is what brings me to my question...

As a punter, do you find it would it bother you if the escort you see makes a dramatic change in her weight or is the fact she gives you a great service not even make you think about this?

Hopefully this won't cause WW3 lol, and many thanks for any replies that are given.

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prob. a drop in weight no bother to me ; the opp might be an issue -- depends on the gain i suppose lol.

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I think it probably makes little difference to most of your regulars.

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I'm not sure I can be of much help but do want to you wish you luck! Lots of exercise, lots of water and don't get bogged down with watching your weight! I love going to the gym but get bored with the gym floor so have 4-5 different types of classes that I love doing, mainly because they are dance related.

I think it's been discussed a fair bit about how everyone has different tastes and speaking from personal experience my regulars love it when I put a little bit of weight on! Probably because it goes straight to the right curves! ^_^

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I'm not sure I can be of much help but do want to you wish you luck! Lots of exercise, lots of water and don't get bogged down with watching your weight! I love going to the gym but get bored with the gym floor so have 4-5 different types of classes that I love doing, mainly because they are dance related.

I think it's been discussed a fair bit about how everyone has different tastes and speaking from personal experience my regulars love it when I put a little bit of weight on! Probably because it goes straight to the right curves! ^_^

Thank you for the luck and encouragement hun, looking forward to see where I end up LOL

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Thank you for the luck and encouragement hun, looking forward to see where I end up LOL

You're welcome, been there and got the t-shirt but to the wrong extremes for the wrong reasons! Feel free to drop me a pm any time if you need encouragement! :)

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Nope. Wouldn't make any difference to me. The only thing I can think of is that if you see someone after you have lost a lot of weight, and they haven't seen you for a long time, you may need to make sure they know that the weight loss was intentional.

Sounds daft, but as someone who has lost a lot of weight in the last few years (by diet and exercise), when I ran into someone I had not seen for a couple of years, after a while they commented that they thought at first my weight loss was due to serious illness and not due to getting healthy, it wasn't until I mentioned my diet regime that they realised they had jumped to the wrong conclusion.

All the best with your weight loss programme. PM me if you wish for a few tips I can share.

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I have been seeing some of the same clients for over a 9 yr period on and off, I started as a size 8/10 and after my poorly back went up to a size 14/16, now I am back to a size 10 and funny enough there are some asking me please to not lose any more! I dunno I tend to think maybe size attracts initially, charm and wit keeps them there no matter :cool: haha, come to think of it it was the ones that booked me when larger are asking me not to lose more.........maybe there is something in that?

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Inspired by the recent posts I've decided on posting a question that has been bugging me for a little while now. Basically, I am in the process of losing weight. Before I used to be an 8-10 and this is where i'm aiming for again. As I was with an agency at the time, when i gained weight through my thyroid packing up, I never really noticed much difference in client's opinions as the topic was rarely brought up, if only a mere couple of times. Now, in the shoes of Independency, I realise people are more open in giving their views and for someone in my shoes, I find it helpful in wondering how a lady is liked to be seen by various opinions on this board. Now this is what brings me to my question... As a punter, do you find it would it bother you if the escort you see makes a dramatic change in her weight or is the fact she gives you a great service not even make you think about this? Hopefully this won't cause WW3 lol, and many thanks for any replies that are given.

If it were from a say size 10 to a size 18 it might be an issue, if from a size 10 to a size 6 i doubt it would. After previously losing 5 stone in six months against medical advice i know all about dieting, i wish you well with it. :)

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If it were from a say size 10 to a size 18 it might be an issue, if from a size 10 to a size 6 i doubt it would. After previously losing 5 stone in six months against medical advice i know all about dieting, i wish you well with it. :)

5 stone in six months?!!!?

Care to share your secret?

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A dramtic weight gain or loss.. I would advise the lady went to see a Doctor. As clearly something would be a problem with such a vast shift in weight either way.

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5 stone in six months?!!!? Care to share your secret?

A low-fat, virtually no saturated fat, low carb, low salt crash diet, 4-6 litres of water a day pissed out 3 stone in 3 months. Basically i eat lots of Ryvita, Sardines which was my only fat of any consequence, carrots and other vegatables, lots of apples and oranges. Wheat biscuits with virtually fat free milk for some Fibre along with the Ryvita. My GP said it wasnt the right way to lose weight. The last 2 stone took a bit of shifting. When i got to just under 12 stone which was my correct weight i felt terrible and it was winter and i was freezing feeling the cold like never before. I then decided to put back on a couple of stone and felt a lot better. I have steadily put weight back on since. :)

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, come to think of it it was the ones that booked me when larger are asking me not to lose more.........maybe there is something in that?

As a punter, do you find it would it bother you if the escort you see makes a dramatic change in her weight or is the fact she gives you a great service not even make you think about this?

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They obviously like how you look now. If you change they might not. One thing to understand is losing weight can change how you look totally. Your face . Your hips etc. Even your feet.

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I can’t see this making much difference to many, Victoria. Appearance may be the initial hook for us guys, but service and personality are what takes us back a second time. Of course there has to be an element of physical attraction too, but I am sure you will gain at least as many new regulars as you lose.

Nothing to worry about, Lady!

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A low-fat, virtually no saturated fat, low carb, low salt crash diet, 4-6 litres of water a day pissed out 3 stone in 3 months. Basically i eat lots of Ryvita, Sardines which was my only fat of any consequence, carrots and other vegatables, lots of apples and oranges. Wheat biscuits with virtually fat free milk for some Fibre along with the Ryvita. My GP said it wasnt the right way to lose weight. The last 2 stone took a bit of shifting. When i got to just under 12 stone which was my correct weight i felt terrible and it was winter and i was freezing feeling the cold like never before. I then decided to put back on a couple of stone and felt a lot better. I have steadily put weight back on since. :)

Classic crash diet rebound, however sounds as if 12 stone is too light for your frame - BMI/recommended weights can be very misleading in that way.

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Inspired by the recent posts I've decided on posting a question that has been bugging me for a little while now. Basically, I am in the process of losing weight. Before I used to be an 8-10 and this is where i'm aiming for again. As I was with an agency at the time, when i gained weight through my thyroid packing up, I never really noticed much difference in client's opinions as the topic was rarely brought up, if only a mere couple of times.

Now, in the shoes of Independency, I realise people are more open in giving their views and for someone in my shoes, I find it helpful in wondering how a lady is liked to be seen by various opinions on this board. Now this is what brings me to my question...

As a punter, do you find it would it bother you if the escort you see makes a dramatic change in her weight or is the fact she gives you a great service not even make you think about this?

Hopefully this won't cause WW3 lol, and many thanks for any replies that are given.

As long as her photos accurately reflect her size and I know what I am getting into, I am able to make an informed choice about whether I wish to see her. If a girl I have previously met is now smaller or if she is now bigger, I need to know about it before I see her again. Too many girls in the past have put on considerable weight and not updated their photos for fear that their client might not book or hoping they won't notice.

For me persnonally, size is not a big issue if she has the sex appeal to go with it.

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One also has to consider the implications of drastic weightloss, ie sagging flesh and stretch marks. There is only so much the body can accommodate in this respect.

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A low-fat, virtually no saturated fat, low carb, low salt crash diet, 4-6 litres of water a day pissed out 3 stone in 3 months. Basically i eat lots of Ryvita, Sardines which was my only fat of any consequence, carrots and other vegatables, lots of apples and oranges. Wheat biscuits with virtually fat free milk for some Fibre along with the Ryvita. My GP said it wasnt the right way to lose weight. The last 2 stone took a bit of shifting. When i got to just under 12 stone which was my correct weight i felt terrible and it was winter and i was freezing feeling the cold like never before. I then decided to put back on a couple of stone and felt a lot better. I have steadily put weight back on since. :)

I was thinking "bloody Hell, I wish I had Smiths willpower" till I read the last sentence. However, as Strawberry points out, your frame is probably meant to carry 14 stones. I trust you feel fit at the weight you now carry.

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A low-fat, virtually no saturated fat, low carb, low salt crash diet, 4-6 litres of water a day pissed out 3 stone in 3 months. Basically i eat lots of Ryvita, Sardines which was my only fat of any consequence, carrots and other vegatables, lots of apples and oranges. Wheat biscuits with virtually fat free milk for some Fibre along with the Ryvita. My GP said it wasnt the right way to lose weight. The last 2 stone took a bit of shifting. When i got to just under 12 stone which was my correct weight i felt terrible and it was winter and i was freezing feeling the cold like never before. I then decided to put back on a couple of stone and felt a lot better. I have steadily put weight back on since. :)

The problem with GPs is they all bang on about the BMI when in all reality this is an utterly useless model. You should just follow a decent diet get some regular excercise and you will find your natural body weight.

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Victoria

I remember very well when you were with the agency and your profile pics showed you

at a slim size 10...... your pics stood out because of that hair colour too! Your reputation

has always gone before you and your following is no doubt a gud'n!

I know the agent updated the photos when you got a little bigger which was fair and the right

thing to do. Since you went indie you have again shown anyone on the lookout.... how you

really look now. Potential clients can't really ask for more honesty.

I think there is a lady in the Yorkshire area who used to be very large and she lost loads of weight... then put new pics

on her site and the difference was quite dramatic. It isn't just the men who look through galleries!

I know, being in your part of the country, you are very popular and just like the rest of us... we can't

be to everyone's taste. Guys who want young lapdancer types won't be booking me and men who want

a beanpole may not be booking you.... if looks/age are all they go on of course!

Your existing clients will still be your clients and they may have continued booking you since you were much

slimmer and all the way through your different stages of weight . What you have now done though..... ;) ..... is

let us all know that you are on a diet to get smaller.

You can't let us down now...... we want to see new photos in a few months.... :)

Whatever you do ... don't starve yourself.... just take it slowly.

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Whatever you do ... don't starve yourself.... just take it slowly.

Very sound advice.

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Two years ago as now I was a fraction under 18 stone, and decided to do something about it. I lost 3 stone in a few months but stalled and couldn't get below 15st.

Christmas 2010 I put a few pounds on and through 2011 have climbed back to 16st.

I need to lose some again, 14st would be perfect for me. BMI says I should be 13st but I reckon I'd look anorexic.

DG

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Classic crash diet rebound, however sounds as if 12 stone is too light for your frame - BMI/recommended weights can be very misleading in that way.

I agree with the BMI comment. According to it, I should be 2 stone lighter than I got to after my own marathon diet (2 years).

When I got to within a couple of stones of my target weight, I went to see my GP as I wondered if I should try and get to BMI 'ideal' weight. His advice was not to, and that he felt theat the BMI figures were not to be taken at face value. He agreed with the target weight I has set myself, although, according to BMI, this is just in the 'overweight' category.

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From a purely health perspective BMI should only be treated as a guide. The British Heart Foundation and others now focus instead on waist measurement being a more significant measure of potential health risk.

For the details look here: http://www.bhf.org.uk/heart-health/prevention/weight.aspx

In essence it says women should ideally have a waist measurement no more than 80cm (32"), and for men the equivalent recommendation is a limit of 94cm (37"). At the risk of upsetting people, this doesn't refer to your trouser waist size, but the circumference at belly button level.

It isn't easy to hit and maintain that target, but if you want to minimise health risks due to obesity related conditions then it is at least worth considering imo.

In real life there are of course many other considerations, and it can be all too easy to slide into becoming a body fascist :eek: Losing weight should be attempted in a way that is sustainable, and diet should not rule your life.

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If it was a regular I wouldnt care less but it depends on the punter..some are more bothered about others.Personally ive always preferred curvy woman rather than slim toned ones so if they were slim and then became a bit curvier,I'd be in heaven anyway :)

If anyone is thinking of losing weight..dont do it for looks or short term, do it for your health.That also means no extreme dieting etc It doesnt work!Gradual lifestyle changes is the way forward,its all good going gym everyday for a month but if you cant maintain that then its pointless!

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