Guest English Girl Sophie

I Am So Annoyed!

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Someone put a reverse booking on the "other site" a few months ago. I replied, always personalising my response. We conversed via email and I gave him my no. so that he could check I was genuine blah blah and I like to have a quick chat before.

It was some way from me, an outcall so all the time wasted would have been mine.

Heard nothing so wrote it off.

I replied again this week to the same man, who wrote that reverse bookings never bring up genuine girls (HALLO? ME!!!) and that he was indeed looking for one.

He then sent an email stating that he was fed up with the system and that all girls are timewasters and not real. He accuse dme of being a bunch of blokes laughing at him....

I responded...would I bother to write protesting my innocence if I was? And why would I offer to travel if I wasnt genuine? I even suggested we meet at the station.

I am just annoyed as it seems he is the timewaster...I am not sure why I am irritated....but to tar everyone with the same brush I feel is ridiculous.

Yes, that site does bring up some odd bods and time wasters but really, that doesnt include me!

Perhaps I need to be like that to get more business, but I trade on being a "nice" person which believe it or not (men on here) a lot of customers like...and yes they pay £150 for it.....which for the £60 brigade that seems horrendous, but....

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Perhaps you were out of his price bracket ? I expect it's hard, but best not to take these things personally. There's plenty of weird people out there on the interweb and escort sites seem to attract more than their fare share.

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I wouldn't get hung up on whether price was an issue.Sophie - your page on the other site is very clear on that, gives all necessary info and feedback is good.

Muist confess have never used reverse bookings but wonder if the nature of that skips getting basics like where are you? whats your rate?

Trust me on this, the guy's a timewaster

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Sophie I understand your frustration but the reverse booking system is what it is.

For example I posted a reverse booking for a 2 hour meet, I had 57 bids of which only 20% approx were worth considering, for a whole host of reasons the others I rejected.

As Willbred says price may well of been the issue I had bids ranging from £150 to £350 for the 2 hours. I do try to reply by email to each one if I reject them but at 57 I just couldnt be arsed!!

On a positive note I have had some cracking meetings from there and some I have seen again without putting in a reverse booking

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I have sucessfully used Reverse Bookings, ocassionally I have had to cancel due to last minute changes in circumsatnces.

I try to be fair to every lady and treat ladies as human beings, everybody has feelings.

All the best Sophie.

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Someone put a reverse booking on the "other site" a few months ago. I replied, always personalising my response. We conversed via email and I gave him my no. so that he could check I was genuine blah blah and I like to have a quick chat before. It was some way from me, an outcall so all the time wasted would have been mine. Heard nothing so wrote it off. I replied again this week to the same man, who wrote that reverse bookings never bring up genuine girls (HALLO? ME!!!) and that he was indeed looking for one. He then sent an email stating that he was fed up with the system and that all girls are timewasters and not real. He accuse dme of being a bunch of blokes laughing at him.... I responded...would I bother to write protesting my innocence if I was? And why would I offer to travel if I wasnt genuine? I even suggested we meet at the station. I am just annoyed as it seems he is the timewaster...I am not sure why I am irritated....but to tar everyone with the same brush I feel is ridiculous. Yes, that site does bring up some odd bods and time wasters but really, that doesnt include me! Perhaps I need to be like that to get more business, but I trade on being a "nice" person which believe it or not (men on here) a lot of customers like...and yes they pay £150 for it.....which for the £60 brigade that seems horrendous, but....

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The bunch of men accusation makes it sound as if he's either been chasing the wrong profiles, or is paranoid, or is being defensive. Either one or all of those three.

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Thanks for all your comments...it was me going on about price to you lot...what annoyed me is the fact that he was going on about the fact that girls arent genuine when I blatantly am. I dont expect a reply if I am not chosen, but to email me and say he wouldnt be going ahead because all escorts are trying to rip him off is stupid. Anyway, I am over it now!!!!

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I would expect a reply if not chosen if only so that you know when you can take bookings. I think its extremely rude not to contact the wgs who reply to your reverse booking with a simple thanks but no thanks. I have had guys ignore my reverse booking request in the past so I made alternate arrangements for that day only for them to email on the morning of the booking to say, okay, will see you in london at 12...err. Then have the nerve to get stroppy with me because I couldnt do the booking. The fact is that guys sometimes email the girls they are interested in then if it falls through try emailing another girl who answered the booking and make out like they were intending to book you the whole time when in fact they have been waiting for someone they fancy more than you to respond.

Why should the sp have to wait indefinatley for a reply or get shit from someone because they assumed they were not wanted so make alternate bookings the evening before the reverse booking is due to happen. The bids dont come in one great swoop of 40, they pop up one by one, just look at the profile and send a quick note. Its just lazy not too, but then the entire reverse booking system is a bit of a lazy one anyway I think, the guys dont have to go to any bother of researching, the girls come to them so I guess it stands to reason that most probably wont bother to reply if they are not interested. I do wonder how many negative feedbacks are left by guys who have just gone for the cheapest bid and possibly didnt even bother to check out a girls profile to see if she was actually their cup of tea or not

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Indeed Chloe...when I have been "chosen" and met the customer, they often say that a lot of girls just click send and don't read the booking etc. I take the time to reply personally (as of course it should be) and only to those I actually would see.

The fact that this man has put me amongst the girls who do just click to everyone is the thing that has annoyed me.

I am sure I am not the only one who takes the time to reply properly, I am not saying i am different from everyone else.

But you are right, if someone has bothered properly to write to you, then a quick email saying no thanks takes a minute.

Funnily enough, I have had that too when someone rang me and said, "see you in an hour then" when no contact was made for 3 days previously. I wasn't free. Some men think (and only some!) that we sit in waiting constantly for men to visit us. I do have a life besides this and other customers!

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Personally, I think it's rather nice that Sophie took the time to provide the client with a personal reply.

I wish ladies who had replied to my reverse bookings had (a) taken the time to read what my requirements were (services/age/area) rather than as Sophie says, click to anyone in the distant hope...

Several ladies had emailed, and I replied back when I didnt select them. That said, I've also had offers which I just didnt fancy at all, so took none up, so in some respects some ladies might accuse me of timewasting, but if no one floats my boat.....

Courtesy costs nowt, does it? Dont worry Sophie, there's plenty more clients. Just block the out and out timewasters.

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Ha ha Taggart well said. If I were you, I wouldn't reply to the "clickers" either. Nice that you would have replied to someone who did bother.

All the best!

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If I place a reverse booking I only reply to

a. those who have made an effort to personalise their reply

b. those who meet the criteria but don't get selected

c. those who do get selected

for the rest, ie all the people who don't meet my criteria, probably about 95%, I don't bother replying, why should I?

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If I place a reverse booking I only reply to

a. those who have made an effort to personalise their reply

b. those who meet the criteria but don't get selected

c. those who do get selected

for the rest, ie all the people who don't meet my criteria, probably about 95%, I don't bother replying, why should I?

Because as the person setting up the booking you are requesting interested parties to respond, basic manners dictate dont you think

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Because as the person setting up the booking you are requesting interested parties to respond, basic manners dictate dont you think

When I post a reverse booking stating for example incall required for 2 hours between 13-15 on Tuesday in Manchester size 10 max, D cup min, age range 25 to 30, and get 95% of replies from people who are not even close to the criteria, I view all those as time wasters which is what they are. Having wasted my time logging onto ** to read a bid that bears no resemblence to what I have specifically asked for I am not going to waste any more time by saying, gosh thanks for bidding Bella, when Bella only does outcalls on a Thursday in Sheffield, is a size 18, a B cup and admits to being 45!

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When I post a reverse booking stating for example incall required for 2 hours between 13-15 on Tuesday in Manchester size 10 max, D cup min, age range 25 to 30, and get 95% of replies from people who are not even close to the criteria, I view all those as time wasters which is what they are. Having wasted my time logging onto ** to read a bid that bears no resemblence to what I have specifically asked for I am not going to waste any more time by saying, gosh thanks for bidding Bella, when Bella only does outcalls on a Thursday in Sheffield, is a size 18, a B cup and admits to being 45!

Sorry but still of the firm belief that most guys only bother replying to the girl they want to see. I applied to god knows how many reverse bookings and only ever received answers from the guys who actually wanted to see me. I not once received a reply from someone who didnt want to see me. I only ever applied to those who's requests I fitted exactly and I always put a personal message in the additional information box, I never ever just ticked and sent. I decided to stop when the penny dropped that if someone couldnt be bothered to do their own research and find a suitable girl for themselves then they were unlikely to be the sort to ever reply out of manners when they would be getting nothing out of the reply personally. Those that did reply and did have a booking inevitably had lied on their request for anyway which also put me off a lot. Luckily I didnt rely on these bookings but only submitted a bid for bookings on a day off anyway, so the booking would just have been a bonus.

Perhaps its because I told them my usual fee and then how much I would be happy to go down to, tbh if you actually look through the rb's the prices a lot of guys are offering is ridiculously low.

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You would be surprised what reverse bookings "flush out", it is an excellent way of finding some new gems that you may not have previously considered. I also notice that you are often offered face pics and the like. Also I normally do hours in Manchester £300 - 350 so I am not asking many to discount

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You would be surprised what reverse bookings "flush out", it is an excellent way of finding some new gems that you may not have previously considered. I also notice that you are often offered face pics and the like. Also I normally do hours in Manchester £300 - 350 so I am not asking many to discount

I'm not surprised you "flush out" a wide range of bids if you are offering £300/hr :D .

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I agree with Chloe. and Spanner although that sounds contradictory! I would reply to the personalised responses, that's what annoys me when I do match and I have taken time. I wouldnt reply to the "hi babe choose mes",.

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Usual rules apply as far as I'm concerned, good manners allow for all manner of problems to be sorted, whereas arrogance, bloody mindedness, indifference etc can only lead to bad feeling! In this respect, punting is no different to the rest of life's activities. :)

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I think the average women is more used to saying no to a random guy then the other way around.

I bet some guys don't want to even say " Sorry I've picked somebody else"

Lets also be honest. Most guys have foot in mouth disease. Many will say something stupid. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.

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You would be surprised what reverse bookings "flush out", it is an excellent way of finding some new gems that you may not have previously considered. I also notice that you are often offered face pics and the like. Also I normally do hours in Manchester £300 - 350 so I am not asking many to discount

Sorry I meant to say 2 hours.

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