MinxyLydia

Offering To Pay More

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I just took a call from a guy I had seen once before who wanted to see me asap, I couldn't see him as have an appointment booked and have other stuff to do but could see him later. He then offered to pay double to see me NOW, I still said no and he offered to pay triple because he was so desperate to see me. I still refused. Mainly because I'm not bumping someone else and I took his offer with a huge pinch of salt anyway.

Got me thinking- men, will you offer more money to see a girl you really want to see? Ladies, how do you take these offers? I'd be worried that someone paying that much more than my usual rate would expect a lot more and try and convince me to do things I don't do because he would think he was entitled to...

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Got me thinking- men, will you offer more money to see a girl you really want to see?

If you're asking about bumping I'd think if you would bump some one else for me you'll bump me sooner or later. Not the sort of person I'd like to associate with.

If you're asking about the biscuit question better a girl you like who costs more .

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In a word, no.

As is stated on many profiles the ladies' rate is the ladies' rate, I won't try to negotiate that down and I'm certainly not going to pay over the going rate, if the lady is busy on a given day fair enough, I'll try again the next time the ducks are all nicely lined up.

Hasn't happened yet that I know of but the first time a lady bumps (especially if last minute) a comfirmed booking from me in favour of a guy offering more money it will be the last.

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I just took a call from a guy I had seen once before who wanted to see me asap, I couldn't see him as have an appointment booked and have other stuff to do but could see him later. He then offered to pay double to see me NOW, I still said no and he offered to pay triple because he was so desperate to see me. I still refused. Mainly because I'm not bumping someone else and I took his offer with a huge pinch of salt anyway.

Got me thinking- men, will you offer more money to see a girl you really want to see? Ladies, how do you take these offers? I'd be worried that someone paying that much more than my usual rate would expect a lot more and try and convince me to do things I don't do because he would think he was entitled to...

I find it quite insulting. It seems to me that the thinking is:

"I know you have someone else booked in, but as a hooker you are all about cash, so if I offer you enough you'll do what I want, it's not like you'd really care about letting the other guy down"

A polite no, followed by a not so polite no if pushed.

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I find it quite insulting. It seems to me that the thinking is:

"I know you have someone else booked in, but as a hooker you are all about cash, so if I offer you enough you'll do what I want, it's not like you'd really care about letting the other guy down"

A polite no, followed by a not so polite no if pushed.

Oh but Amanda, we know from these here boards that many men think we are all about the money!

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I just took a call from a guy I had seen once before who wanted to see me asap, I couldn't see him as have an appointment booked and have other stuff to do but could see him later. He then offered to pay double to see me NOW, I still said no and he offered to pay triple because he was so desperate to see me. I still refused. Mainly because I'm not bumping someone else and I took his offer with a huge pinch of salt anyway.

Got me thinking- men, will you offer more money to see a girl you really want to see? Ladies, how do you take these offers? I'd be worried that someone paying that much more than my usual rate would expect a lot more and try and convince me to do things I don't do because he would think he was entitled to...

No I don't take these offers, I usually ask how would they like it if I bumped them for a better offer?Also I very much doubt they'd turn up with the promised extra, and have a feeling it's just a lure to try and 'persuade', and I'd wonder what else they think they could persuade you to do for a 'bit extra'.

It's not professional, I do however also wonder at the opposite situation - where a guy offers a lot less than your advertised rate, when you are already booked, or at a time you aren't available asking you to fit him in. Not sure how this works either!

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I've never taken these offers up. I understand we do this for money but it's a hideously arrogant attitude to assume throwing money at a problem solves it. If I've made a commitement to see someone, I'll honour that over anything else. If someone desperately wants to see me, they will be flexible around my plans and we'll work something out (which is usually how I end up doing a lot of early morning bookings around 6am because I'll offer it as a alternative if I already have plans the previous evening).

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No I don't take these offers, I usually ask how would they like it if I bumped them for a better offer?Also I very much doubt they'd turn up with the promised extra, and have a feeling it's just a lure to try and 'persuade', and I'd wonder what else they think they could persuade you to do for a 'bit extra'.

Exactly Strawberry! It's creepy too- it's not as if there is a shortage of girls round here, I know I'm good, but not *that* good to be worth 3x my usual rate over one of the many women around here!

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Its nice to know that there are honest escorts around who dont think its all about money. Keep it up ladies.

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I agree with all the lovely ladies who have already posted. I would be really p*ssed off if an escort bumped me so as to earn more from another guy. Your rates are your rates; no discounts and no jacking up either. :)

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I just took a call from a guy I had seen once before who wanted to see me asap, I couldn't see him as have an appointment booked and have other stuff to do but could see him later. He then offered to pay double to see me NOW, I still said no and he offered to pay triple because he was so desperate to see me. I still refused. Mainly because I'm not bumping someone else and I took his offer with a huge pinch of salt anyway.

Got me thinking- men, will you offer more money to see a girl you really want to see? Ladies, how do you take these offers? I'd be worried that someone paying that much more than my usual rate would expect a lot more and try and convince me to do things I don't do because he would think he was entitled to...

Simplistic answer from me.. is no. I do wonder if the man was trying to control you some way. Paying double.. triple is a bit silly.. unless he had/has ulterior motives in offering this.

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If a punter offer you double or even treble money, to see you now, but you have already got a punter booked in, why not take the punter that is offering more money, and the punter, who waiting, give him a reduced price, say half price

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If a punter offer you double or even treble money, to see you now, but you have already got a punter booked in, why not take the punter that is offering more money, and the punter, who waiting, give him a reduced price, say half price

Good idea but what if (a) the punter offering more doesn't turn up after all, (B) the other punter doesn't appreciate being mucked about and goes elsewhere, © the other punter can't make any other time but because you've mucked him about decides to never see you again?

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If a punter offer you double or even treble money, to see you now, but you have already got a punter booked in, why not take the punter that is offering more money, and the punter, who waiting, give him a reduced price, say half price

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As a rule I tend to just stick to seeing one gentleman a day.

My availability is always clear to be viewed.

A few months ago some wise guy messaged me to ask if I was available that evening for a wine dine and sixty nine type of meet.

I said no as I already had a booking.

He said he wanted to book me for 5 hours and could my other booking beat that.

I said no as it was a two hour booking, but that was just fine for me, and also the gentleman had booked me a while ago and I was not one to sack my original booking off just because someone else was offering me more money to be him.

We ended up exchanging a few messages, his becoming increasingly tedious in my opinion as he was annoyed at my insistence that I would not meet with him what ever he offered me.

He was arrogant to say the least in that he thought I could be bought off by more money.

Not the type of gentleman I would want to meet probably anyway.

This is not the norm I hasten to add.

Most guys in this world tend to be respectful I find.

Lucy :)

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Personally I think it's very arrogant of someone to think that their needs are that much more important than anyone elses and money can get them what they want at all times.

I know it usually can get them what they want, but sometimes they need to know that reality isn't all about money

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I find it quite insulting. It seems to me that the thinking is:

"I know you have someone else booked in, but as a hooker you are all about cash, so if I offer you enough you'll do what I want, it's not like you'd really care about letting the other guy down"

A polite no, followed by a not so polite no if pushed.

…I understand we do this for money but it's a hideously arrogant attitude to assume throwing money at a problem solves it. If I've made a commitement to see someone, I'll honour that…

My thoughts exactly, Ladies. Funny enough I have just this scenario mentioned on my FAQs page and the answer is NO. I don’t like the attitude of throw enough money at someone and they will eventually forget about ethics.

Exactly Strawberry! It's creepy too- it's not as if there is a shortage of girls round here, I know I'm good, but not *that* good to be worth 3x my usual rate over one of the many women around here!

It is creepy isn’t it! It screams control to me and that’s worrying. Makes me wonder if he’s used to getting his own way by chucking money around and wouldn’t understand “No”. Either that or he’s full of crap. Bad or bad.

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Personally I think it's very arrogant of someone to think that their needs are that much more important than anyone elses and money can get them what they want at all times.

Of course it is - but there are a lot of very arrogant people around. I encounter a few every time I drive around London when it is at all busy. And they are n't paying money for their advantage - they just think that they should get where they are going quicker than everyone else.

So really I would be amazed if they did not try to pull this stunt.

I imagine most WGs who are good at their job/business would behave as our members here do as they are largely about providing sex (or whatever intimate pleasures) in a way that is not stressful to the customer.

I only ever had 1 regular who messed me about - I persuaded a parlour girl to see me privately and she cancelled at the last minute about 3 times because of an interfering boyfriend. It really did my head in.

Hopefully chancers like Lydia's get the WGs they deserve.

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I have a tendancy to be a liitle impatient at times and when horny have definitely been known to think with my dick! But trying to bribe a girl to bump a client never. I feel almost normal.

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I have a tendancy to be a liitle impatient at times and when horny have definitely been known to think with my dick! But trying to bribe a girl to bump a client never. I feel almost normal.

How awful! Go and do something deviant quickly!

I was wondering whether anyone would confess to doing this because they were thinking with their willy rather than their head...

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Good idea but what if (a) the punter offering more doesn't turn up after all, ( :cool: the other punter doesn't appreciate being mucked about and goes elsewhere, © the other punter can't make any other time but because you've mucked him about decides to never see you again?

You KNOW that is exactly what would happen, which is why we (I) should always be professional and stick with the original plan. No brainer.

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I imagine most WGs who are good at their job/business would behave as our members here do as they are largely about providing sex (or whatever intimate pleasures) in a way that is not stressful to the customer.

What bollocks! This thread must be manna to those that think that this site is full of fluffies controlled by pro$$ies – their term – not mine! You’re not going to get a lady come on here and say "Yes, I’d take the extra money" now, are you? But you can bet a large proportion of girls would. I’m sure there are hundreds of guys who have been dropped by a WG who’s gone for a better offer!

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What bollocks! This thread must be manna to those that think that this site is full of fluffies controlled by pro$$ies – their term – not mine! You’re not going to get a lady come on here and say "Yes, I’d take the extra money" now, are you? But you can bet a large proportion of girls would. I’m sure there are hundreds of guys who have been dropped by a WG who’s gone for a better offer!

All I've done is report exactly how I do things, is there anything wrong in that?Does the view that ladies are hardly going to admit to doing anything else mean my post is invalid, not to be believed and therefore a waste of time?

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All I've done is report exactly how I do things, is there anything wrong in that?Does the view that ladies are hardly going to admit to doing anything else mean my post is invalid, not to be believed and therefore a waste of time?

You’re missing my point, Strawberry. I wouldn’t impugn the comments made by any of the ladies who’ve responded to this post, but Czechmate’s comment about ‘most WGs’ is a little naïve to say the least. Surely you must agree with that?

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You’re missing my point, Strawberry. I wouldn’t impugn the comments made by any of the ladies who’ve responded to this post, but Czechmate’s comment about ‘most WGs’ is a little naïve to say the least. Surely you must agree with that?

But then you’ve said...

…You’re not going to get a lady come on here and say "Yes, I’d take the extra money" now, are you? But you can bet a large proportion of girls would. I’m sure there are hundreds of guys who have been dropped by a WG who’s gone for a better offer!

which I’m assuming you can’t back up with research either? Touche! :P

Edited by Lara Brooks

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