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Does it make a difference to you if you make a booking with someone you have 'met' on here, either from conversations in the chatroom or on the boards here?

Do ladies feel more nervous about meeting someone from here, especially a prolific poster or FR author?

Gents, do you like to book women you have engaged with on here because you have gained an insight into their personality from their chat or posts? Do you do this but not reveal who you are on here?

To both, does it make you more nervous or worried they may post about you? Do you get concerned that any spark you have had might not materialise in ''real life'.

Ladies, if a guy from here had provisionally booked you but never confirmed or let you know he couldn't make it would you PM him or mention it if your paths crossed again in the chatroom? Same for chaps, if a girl let you down would you name and shame her or mention it again?

Just wondering...

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Does it make a difference to you if you make a booking with someone you have 'met' on here, either from conversations in the chatroom or on the boards here? Do ladies feel more nervous about meeting someone from here, especially a prolific poster or FR author? Gents, do you like to book women you have engaged with on here because you have gained an insight into their personality from their chat or posts? Do you do this but not reveal who you are on here? To both, does it make you more nervous or worried they may post about you? Do you get concerned that any spark you have had might not materialise in ''real life'. Ladies, if a guy from here had provisionally booked you but never confirmed or let you know he couldn't make it would you PM him or mention it if your paths crossed again in the chatroom? Same for chaps, if a girl let you down would you name and shame her or mention it again? Just wondering...
I had all good or better punts with the 14 or so WGs who were or are still members on here. Certainly reading their posts was informative but it wasnt a decisive factor or i wouldnt of punted with Tia Sassoon who was regarded by many as a big head and show-off and who had been rude to me, later apoligising saying she mixed me up with a punter called Mr Smith. In reality she liked to talk a lot but was a good WG in my opinion. I always gave my nick on here as at that time i was doing FRs so wanted to run that past them, plus i felt it would be rude not to mention my nick as i would be recommending them to others. I prefer to punt anoynmously now but had lots of fun and it was nice to meet so many lovely ladies who posted on here. :) Edited by smiths

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Does it make a difference to you if you make a booking with someone you have 'met' on here, either from conversations in the chatroom or on the boards here?

Do ladies feel more nervous about meeting someone from here, especially a prolific poster or FR author?

Gents, do you like to book women you have engaged with on here because you have gained an insight into their personality from their chat or posts? Do you do this but not reveal who you are on here?

To both, does it make you more nervous or worried they may post about you? Do you get concerned that any spark you have had might not materialise in ''real life'.

Ladies, if a guy from here had provisionally booked you but never confirmed or let you know he couldn't make it would you PM him or mention it if your paths crossed again in the chatroom? Same for chaps, if a girl let you down would you name and shame her or mention it again?

Just wondering...

The last point you make about not being able to make the booking.. either side here.. a lot of things can happen and not be able to get in touch.. either side.. so to name and shame either party would be wrong.. until the facts were available.. example could be a car crash.. family memebr taken ill.. I'd say wait until the full facts are known before taking any step.. at times life can suck and no way to get in touch.. time is needed and not a knee jerk reaction to something that could not be helped.

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I had all good or better punts with the 14 or so WGs who were or are still members on here. Certainly reading their posts was informative but it wasnt a decisive factor or i wouldnt of punted with Tia Sassoon who was regarded by many as a big head and show-off and who had been rude to me, later apoligising saying she mixed me up with a punter called Mr Smith. In reality she liked to talk a lot but was a good WG in my opinion. I always gave my nick on here as at that time i was doing FRs so wanted to run that past them, plus i felt it would be rude not to mention my nick as i would be recommending them to others. I prefer to punt anoynmously now but had lots of fun and it was nice to meet so many lovely ladies who posted on here. :)

Out if interest why did you change your mind and start being anonymous, or that too nosey a question?!

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Out if interest why did you change your mind and start being anonymous, or that too nosey a question?!

There was an indiscreet incident which i dont wish to go into but showed i had been discussed about to a WG i didnt know in a way i didnt like, so anonymous is what i now prefer.

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I would like a client who posts on the boards to identify himself when booking. If I don't like him, I should be able to decline to see him. I feel that allowing me to make an informed decision is courteous.

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Gents, do you like to book women you have engaged with on here because you have gained an insight into their personality from their chat or posts?

Some ladies attract attention with how they write. That makes me interested in checking out websites etc. It's like catching a glimpse of curly hair across the room. It draws the eye and makes me want to know more.

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Gents, do you like to book women you have engaged with on here because you have gained an insight into their personality from their chat or posts? Do you do this but not reveal who you are on here?

I do look at what I can glean of a ladies personality as part of my selection process, postings and conversations on this board do form a part of that and it works both ways, there are ladies who post here who I would and have booked based off their writings, there are others I would not based on theirs, I don't doubt the same applies the other way, I don't reveal too much about myself personally for discretion, but personality wise I'm a WYSIWYG and I would hope that that is reflected in my postings

To both, does it make you more nervous or worried they may post about you? Do you get concerned that any spark you have had might not materialise in ''real life'.

I don't see a need to be nervous/worried, it's a free country and people can say/post whatever they like about me, as long as it's true and accurate I don't particularly care, howerver, the fact that it is a free country means that if things are posted about me that are not true and accurate I am allowed to set the record straight.

Ladies, if a guy from here had provisionally booked you but never confirmed or let you know he couldn't make it would you PM him or mention it if your paths crossed again in the chatroom? Same for chaps, if a girl let you down would you name and shame her or mention it again?

This is a tough one, for certain as far as let downs go my view is if I've had my time wasted or I'm out of pocket that's a let down, youn only get one of those outside of a seriously valid reason, naming and shaming though is a minefield, especially on a certain purple website, hence why I take all the feeback systems with a pinch of salt these days, for the potential hassle involved unless it involved a situation where either I was looking at a physical confrontation or it was an clear cut pisstake I'd not bother.

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Oh dear, I need to be nicer when I post so that more people message me I think! I only come on here to give my two penneths worth, but perhaps I should be more polite...!

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Oh dear, I need to be nicer when I post so that more people message me I think! I only come on here to give my two penneths worth, but perhaps I should be more polite...!

Some people like girls with opinions :)

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I've met a girl who posts intelligently on here was absolutely delightful company, having some contact prior to the meeting definitely enhanced the experience, I'm very keen to repeat if she'll have me.

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I've met a girl who posts intelligently on here was absolutely delightful company, having some contact prior to the meeting definitely enhanced the experience, I'm very keen to repeat if she'll have me.

Phone her up and ask her then.

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I have corresponded with a few ladies after meeting them but have not sought out a meeting just on the basis of chatting on here.That may change in the future.

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I think it is great to be able to book someone you have chatted to, makes for an easier punt.

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I'm drawn to intelligent women, so their forum posts will lead me to check out their websites/profiles etc and if all is good i.e. I find them physically attractive, and they are in my area, and reasonably priced, then why not.

Sophie, no WG should hold back her opinions. Of course a presence here is a marketing tool, but you are better off being honest in my view. It won't put off the more sophisticated punter.

I have punted with three WG's off the board. I instinctively liked them before I ever saw a picture, and had great punts with all three. In each case I told them who I was beforehand, not because I was looking for special treatment, but so that they could check my FR's and posts, if they were interested. Of course in all three cases there were the usual pre-punt butterflies about whether we would get on and find a 'spark'. In each case the apprehension was unfounded, but there is always a slight risk.

I'm comfortable in my own skin and confident that none of them would post negatively about me or our encounter without talking to me first. Two of the three still post here. At the same there's no reason why on some general forum topic that we cannot publicly disagree strongly while still liking each other.

None of them let me down so I haven't had to deal with that yet, but I think I would have to be honest, after giving them the opportunity to explain what happened.

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I'm drawn to intelligent women, so their forum posts will lead me to check out their websites/profiles etc and if all is good i.e. I find them physically attractive, and they are in my area, and reasonably priced, then why not.

Sophie, no WG should hold back her opinions. Of course a presence here is a marketing tool, but you are better off being honest in my view. It won't put off the more sophisticated punter.

I have punted with three WG's off the board. I instinctively liked them before I ever saw a picture, and had great punts with all three. In each case I told them who I was beforehand, not because I was looking for special treatment, but so that they could check my FR's and posts, if they were interested. Of course in all three cases there were the usual pre-punt butterflies about whether we would get on and find a 'spark'. In each case the apprehension was unfounded, but there is always a slight risk.

I'm comfortable in my own skin and confident that none of them would post negatively about me or our encounter without talking to me first. Two of the three still post here. At the same there's no reason why on some general forum topic that we cannot publicly disagree strongly while still liking each other.

None of them let me down so I haven't had to deal with that yet, but I think I would have to be honest, after giving them the opportunity to explain what happened.

Hear, hear.

Actually, I have exchanged a couple of messages with a lady who posts on here in order to give her the opportunity to decide whether or not we should make a booking. I also mentioned to her the names of ladies I have met / reviewed who she knows, to help her decide.

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I always assume thereis a world of difference between the personas here and the persona in a meting. Here, I suspect people can be more honest and realistic. In a meeting we are in a fantasy and the wgs are more desperate to please us- sorry our money. Plus the guys are in shag mode and on a different planet

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Unless they said who they were on here how would you know?

:D

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My best paid-sex encounters have been with women I have got to know on here from their posts and the chatroom, at least 6 WGs that I can think of. It just makes it a bit more personal, less like a mere bodily function.

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You can never be certain if you will get on with the escort -- 'click' is even a step further. I have only met 3 ladies from here.The first one was out of context as such and therefore I felt it best not to say anything about here, the second lady I just did not fancy and therefore I kicked to touch ( I refuse to explain how ) but the third lady I did confide in and I had a wonderful time -- it was like meeting a film star, only much better ! :D

Overall yes, I would prefer to mention the connection because that is prolly the main reason why I have chosen to see her in the first place but it would depend on the circumstances.

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I met someone from here recently without knowing who they were until we were post coital chatting. Was like meeting a minor celeb - I got all excited!

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I met someone from here recently without knowing who they were until we were post coital chatting. Was like meeting a minor celeb - I got all excited!

That's all wrong, he's the one supposed to get excited! You are supposed to lie back and think of England! :D

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Some people like girls with opinions :)

Opinions are fine and indeed welcome, as long as they're well presented noone whether working girl or client should be afraid to express their views on a subject

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Oh dear, I need to be nicer when I post so that more people message me I think! I only come on here to give my two penneths worth, but perhaps I should be more polite...!

Lol, it works both ways you know. I only have to say Hi, this is Tarquin and the phone goes dead!

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I am not overly keen on meeting those who I know off any sex site forum I type on.

I prefer guys who see me type my drivel on forums not to approach me via the forums, and if they do by other ways not to tell me who they are if they have seen me on a forum.

I have male forum buddies, who will never become sexual buddies as then I feel it would spoil our on line friendship.

I like to type my opinions on these type of forums, but do not use them as a forum of recruitment of the men to grace my doorstep.

I also feel that if I know who someone is off a forum, that it may effect my time with him and I will not be as natural as I usually am, knowing that in the back of my mind that he has the power to praise or slay me on a forum review.

I know what I mean there, but I am finding it hard to express in words of type.

Lucy :)

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