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Tips --- How To Avoid A Sting

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There is this lady on my local escort forum who doesnt want to advertise openly on the site ( doesnt want to pay the fees ?) but she says she wants to start escorting. Do I take her at face value and arrange a booking or should I take some steps to protect myself and if so, what steps should I take that would be effective without scaring or pissing her off ? I dont want to be 'exposed'. She will only do outcall visits. I want to do this.

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Hallo

I understand why she doesn't want to advertise...but she can't get much work, can she?

In any case, is this to your home? I would meet her somewhere before, either train station or pub in order to be sure she is genuine. If she is, she wont mind doing this. I have done this a few times, and haven't included it in my time as I want to prove I am real and trustworthy! Good luck!

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Did she approach (PM) you for this booking ? If so, perhaps you're not the only one she mailed.

I'm sure this sort of thing happens on many forums if PM limits on new members doesn't apply

Or is she a regular poster on the forum and you mailed her ?

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Hallo

I understand why she doesn't want to advertise...but she can't get much work, can she?

In any case, is this to your home? I would meet her somewhere before, either train station or pub in order to be sure she is genuine. If she is, she wont mind doing this. I have done this a few times, and haven't included it in my time as I want to prove I am real and trustworthy! Good luck!

Thanks !

Her member's page on the forum allows her to put a link to her new website, which is fairly primitive. When I first opened the link, it had no photos ( now has only 2- blurred ) but had a date on it going back to last Aug :o . I queried this with her and she said she was only putting the site together and very quicly she had changed the date apperaing on the site so it now gives a 'todat' feel when you open it. I dont want to question her too much -- she is in her mid 20s.

It will be a hotel outcall and she has said she is happy to talk to me on the phone . I suppose I could also meet her in a bar etc beforehand but if she wants to mislead me then there is not much I can do, no ? How can I really gauge if someone is genuine ? I dont want the local newspaper barging into the hotel room ! :eek:

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Did she approach (PM) you for this booking ? If so, perhaps you're not the only one she mailed.

I'm sure this sort of thing happens on many forums if PM limits on new members doesn't apply

Or is she a regular poster on the forum and you mailed her ?

She has only recently joined the forum and has just made a couple of posts.

No, she did not approach me -- I noticed her name on the forum and sent her a pm .

I have no doubt she has been in pm with others too.

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I don't suppose you really can guage completely whether somebody is genuine. If you're that worried about being exposed then don't punt. However, i'm not sure there are that many local Newspapers who would set up so elaborate a sting (unless of course you happen to be a premiership footballer, FTSE 100 CEO or politician).

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I don't suppose you really can guage completely whether somebody is genuine. If you're that worried about being exposed then don't punt. However, i'm not sure there are that many local Newspapers who would set up so elaborate a sting (unless of course you happen to be a premiership footballer, FTSE 100 CEO or politician).

... or a prominent member of the clergy.

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There is this lady on my local escort forum who doesnt want to advertise openly on the site ( doesnt want to pay the fees ?) but she says she wants to start escorting. Do I take her at face value and arrange a booking or should I take some steps to protect myself and if so, what steps should I take that would be effective without scaring or pissing her off ? I dont want to be 'exposed'. She will only do outcall visits. I want to do this.

Go on your gut instinct is my advice. If that says go ahead then have a chat on the phone and if still keen arrange to meet in the hotel bar if she is prepared to do that which without a room number i know some WGs wont do, and proceed from there.

I would say its not often i have read about WGs on punting forums stinging punters, its certainly never happened to me, but obviously there are no guarantees in punting and especially meeting newbies to you involves a degree of risk. I hope it goes well if you go ahead. :)

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Go on your gut instinct is my advice. If that says go ahead then have a chat on the phone and if still keen arrange to meet in the hotel bar if she is prepared to do that which without a room number i know some WGs wont do, and proceed from there.

I would say its not often i have read about WGs on punting forums stinging punters, its certainly never happened to me, but obviously there are no guarantees in punting and especially meeting newbies to you involves a degree of risk. I hope it goes well if you go ahead. :)

Thanks Smiths. I have asked a few, what I think are fairly basic questions and things are starting to tumble I think. :( Let's see what happens.

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My tip is dont book the hotel room until you have spoken or better still met her.

New pro$$ies think its an easy life making loads of tax free money and for some it is but all to often many bottle out for numerous reasons

Meet her for a coffee in a public place then you can see how things progress

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Thanks Smiths. I have asked a few, what I think are fairly basic questions and things are starting to tumble I think. :( Let's see what happens.

You have got good advice here. Good luck and please let us know how it shapes up. :mellow:

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Post topic on your forum "Has anyone met (insert girls forum handle)" and see what replies you get?

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You have got good advice here. Good luck and please let us know how it shapes up. :mellow:

I'm gonna do this ! :o

May the good Lord have mercy on my soul ! :mellow:

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I'm gonna do this ! :o

May the good Lord have mercy on my soul ! :mellow:

I'm sure that The Vicar and Reverend Dick will do their bit for you!

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There is this lady on my local escort forum who doesnt want to advertise openly on the site ( doesnt want to pay the fees ?) but she says she wants to start escorting. Do I take her at face value and arrange a booking or should I take some steps to protect myself and if so, what steps should I take that would be effective without scaring or pissing her off ? I dont want to be 'exposed'. She will only do outcall visits. I want to do this.

If you want to do this go for it, follow your gut instinct, As you have said you really want to do this it, can only go one way or another. Have fun.

Shelly

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If you want to do this go for it, follow your gut instinct, As you have said you really want to do this it, can only go one way or another. Have fun.

Shelly

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I saw the no.13 everywhere today --- freaky ! :eek:

The lead up has been great fun I have to say ---- fingers crossed ! :P

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Lol number 13 isn't always unlucky :-) I have my fingers and toes crossed for you.

Shelly

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Lol number 13 isn't always unlucky :-) I have my fingers and toes crossed for you.

Shelly

Oh yeah ? She has just cancelled !! :angry:

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Oh yeah ? She has just cancelled !! :angry:

Sorry to hear about this.

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Sorry to hear about this.

Yes being honest I was disappointed.As always I had no plan B. When I book a lady, thats the only lady I want to see, which attitude has its advantages but also its disadvantages . The escort has assured me her excuse is absolutely genuine and merely wanted to postpone the booking to another date -- but really, its hard to know what really happened.. Anyway, the good news is that being Valentine's Day, I felt the urge to spread the love, put my nose to the grindstone and came up with a plan B , which I am delighted to say went like a treat. So all's well that ends well ! :D

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Yes being honest I was disappointed.As always I had no plan B. When I book a lady, thats the only lady I want to see, which attitude has its advantages but also its disadvantages . The escort has assured me her excuse is absolutely genuine and merely wanted to postpone the booking to another date -- but really, its hard to know what really happened.. Anyway, the good news is that being Valentine's Day, I felt the urge to spread the love, put my nose to the grindstone and came up with a plan B , which I am delighted to say went like a treat. So all's well that ends well ! :D

Good to hear. ;):D

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Yes being honest I was disappointed.As always I had no plan B. When I book a lady, thats the only lady I want to see, which attitude has its advantages but also its disadvantages . The escort has assured me her excuse is absolutely genuine and merely wanted to postpone the booking to another date -- but really, its hard to know what really happened.. Anyway, the good news is that being Valentine's Day, I felt the urge to spread the love, put my nose to the grindstone and came up with a plan B , which I am delighted to say went like a treat. So all's well that ends well ! :D

Cumandgo: why you did wanted to book her particularly? She was not an escort as such, only was playing with an idea and posting on the forum. Was it only because, you wanted to get into her g-strings, because you thought she was new and uncorrupted by this business? Surely must have been quite a choice of more then a few reliable girls which you could arrange appointment with?

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Cumandgo: why you did wanted to book her particularly? She was not an escort as such, only was playing with an idea and posting on the forum. Was it only because, you wanted to get into her g-strings, because you thought she was new and uncorrupted by this business? Surely must have been quite a choice of more then a few reliable girls which you could arrange appointment with?

Yes.

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Cumandgo: why you did wanted to book her particularly? She was not an escort as such, only was playing with an idea and posting on the forum. Was it only because, you wanted to get into her g-strings, because you thought she was new and uncorrupted by this business? Surely must have been quite a choice of more then a few reliable girls which you could arrange appointment with?

Yes.

Xenia, I have thought a few times about my above reply to your post . It was silly and stupid and written after a few drinks and I aoplogise for it. I have no wish to corrupt anyone, let alone a young lady escort.

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You should have stuck with your first answer.

I'll pick young & fresh over old & jaded every time, as I'm sure would most people.

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