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Spanking Ladies Bottoms !

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At a recent get- together with the lads ( all of whom punt btw ) the topic of sex came up ( well, whaddayouknow !) . There was genuine surprise expressesd at the amount of ladies, both civvy and indeed escorts, who called for and enjoyed having their bottoms spanked as part of their enjoyment of the sex act.

Certainly there are both men and women who go in for fetishes/bdsm but the spanking discussed was not seen as being a particular fetish as such but was something often enjoyed by these ladies as part of normal sexual intercourse. There was a consensus that not alone did many women ( including escorts) like some spanking but they liked it done with some force. Nobody really understood why many women like this.. Does anyone understand ? :D

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It's erotic and adds spice to any sexual play :-)

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At a recent get- together with the lads ( all of whom punt btw ) the topic of sex came up ( well, whaddayouknow !) . There was genuine surprise expressesd at the amount of ladies, both civvy and indeed escorts, who called for and enjoyed having their bottoms spanked as part of their enjoyment of the sex act. Certainly there are both men and women who go in for fetishes/bdsm but the spanking discussed was not seen as being a particular fetish as such but was something often enjoyed by these ladies as part of normal sexual intercourse. There was a consensus that not alone did many women ( including escorts) like some spanking but they liked it done with some force. Nobody really understood why many women like this.. Does anyone understand ? :D

I have many times been asked to give a good spanking to women WGs among them, it was a turn-on for them obviously and i was happy to oblige, but i dont like being slapped myself. ;)

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Yes I love my arse being spanked very hard! haha :P only from the right person and he has to be an extremely dominant male lol can not stand wimpy men they

do nothing for me in the bedroom dep and I find myself bossing them about :cool: xxx

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I have many times been asked to give a good spanking to women WGs among them, it was a turn-on for them obviously and i was happy to oblige, but i dont like being slapped myself. ;)

yes Smiths big turn on lol :D:lol:

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Somewhere in the back of my mind I have the idea that I once heard that a firm spanking causes the clitoris to become more engorged (purely as a physiological reaction, not a psychological one) and so can make the sexual experience more intense for many women.

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I've done it a couple of times to woman and they haven't said anything to the contrary.

Always cautious in case she takes offence and the session is pretty much over after that.

Seems like it's a bit close to something out of a porn movie for me so I've no idea if the girl would ge any pleasurse from it as I link porn with faking.

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Well, Miss Cupcakes- I must remember that for our meeting tomorrow!

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When engaged in doggy it's hard to resist - and that's speaking as a sub guy!

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At a recent get- together with the lads ( all of whom punt btw ) the topic of sex came up ( well, whaddayouknow !) . There was genuine surprise expressesd at the amount of ladies, both civvy and indeed escorts, who called for and enjoyed having their bottoms spanked as part of their enjoyment of the sex act.

Certainly there are both men and women who go in for fetishes/bdsm but the spanking discussed was not seen as being a particular fetish as such but was something often enjoyed by these ladies as part of normal sexual intercourse. There was a consensus that not alone did many women ( including escorts) like some spanking but they liked it done with some force. Nobody really understood why many women like this.. Does anyone understand ? :D

It is naughty and spice up the things. :P

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I do like it...I suppose it's a control thing....and when escorting I can let myself go. A bit of hair pulling too is good.

BUT...funnily enough I am a chicken and I don't like it too hard. Someone got carried away the other day and whacked me one and I nearly cried!! So.....I'll got for chicken S and M please.

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I don't find it erotic, some clients clearly like doing it. I bristle, but the good outweighs the bad in this job, so I accept it.

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I am one more spanking than spanked. I like it and it is fun but being spanked I find unsexy. Lots of girls that I punted with love it. Very few are against.

The difficult part is for the spanking to be hardcore enough to be meaningful but not crossing a line. Bit like comedy. Perhaps I'm the Frankie Boyle of spanking, or maybe just the Jimmy Carr.

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And I'm deffo spanking Miss Cupcakes next time i see her. Didn't know that was one of your things N :) (switches on 'dominant' mode)

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Glad I'm not alone in loving giving a beautiful, pert, round ass a good spanking

Am not into whips, paddles or table tennis bats though, they do nothing for me especially since im not really at all into causing pain, it absolutely has to be hand on rump to get my loins rising

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Totally depends for me. a random spank out of nowhere doesn't always do a huge amount for me and anything too hard and repetitive just gets hurty in a non good way and will result in a telling off from me. A man who knows how to spank properly can be a huge turn on, especially if the context of the session is right, e.g. a roleplay session.

I personally prefer a whip or paddle, but never with someone I don't know and do not offer it as a service- I don't get how girls can offer a fully submissive service with strangers.

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I'd rather be spanked (by a woman)

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Good thread.

A girl I've been seeing regularly encouraged me to spank her a while back - not something I'd wanted to do but enjoyable. Over time she has made it clear she likes being spanked harder so I've upped the intensity to a level that I would have never thought is enjoyable, but there's no doubt she does. Definitely adds spice to a session. I'd always be very tentative about doing it as I know my own strength.

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I do like it...I suppose it's a control thing....and when escorting I can let myself go. A bit of hair pulling too is good.

BUT...funnily enough I am a chicken and I don't like it too hard. Someone got carried away the other day and whacked me one and I nearly cried!! So.....I'll got for chicken S and M please.

So, more M&S than S&M then really.....?

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there are 2 parts to this

1. a few slaps on the arse diring other activities,

2. a formal spanking involving the girl bending over or being over the knee.

I reckon any spanking need lots of caressing of the bum between slaps, and maybe a naughty hand wandering where it shouldnt!

and should one spank a barebottom, a knicker clad one or over trousers/skirt.

or start over skirt, then flip it up for more over the knickers, before they finally come down for the bare bottom part.

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I always start off with a few light slaps - if the reaction is positive it gets harder ;o)

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there are 2 parts to this

1. a few slaps on the arse diring other activities,

2. a formal spanking involving the girl bending over or being over the knee.

I reckon any spanking need lots of caressing of the bum between slaps, and maybe a naughty hand wandering where it shouldnt!

and should one spank a barebottom, a knicker clad one or over trousers/skirt.

or start over skirt, then flip it up for more over the knickers, before they finally come down for the bare bottom part.

There's a huge "literature" on the subject. Spanking and knicker wetting seem to be the major theme of books in the Nexus and Black Lace labels - porn or fanyasy material for women. I am sure they know their market and sell hugely.

Check out Lynn Paula Russell. Her book "A sexual Odyssey", describes the attraction being a spankee has for her, and also how she likes to be spanked as well as a large collection of her drawings.

I've had lots of spanking fun with tips from her stuff

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There's a huge "literature" on the subject. Spanking and knicker wetting seem to be the major theme of books in the Nexus and Black Lace labels - porn or fanyasy material for women. I am sure they know their market and sell hugely.

Check out Lynn Paula Russell. Her book "A sexual Odyssey", describes the attraction being a spankee has for her, and also how she likes to be spanked as well as a large collection of her drawings.

I've had lots of spanking fun with tips from her stuff

I saw some English spanking films on porn satellite stations and the women were being slapped hard with paddles as well as hands plus canes which left a very visable weal mark on the womens arse, i found it not to my tastes. I also saw a number of in public English knicker wetting films, watching paint dry was preferable to me than them.

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