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(light) Sex Games With A Submissive Wg

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hi,

I will be meeting a submissive lady in a couple of weeks and I am looking for some fun games/tasks for her to execute to get things going in our 2h session.

The scenario will probably be a master-slave setup in which she will execute all commands I give her.

We are not planning to go into BDSM, so ropes or nipple clamps,.. are not what we are looking for.

Any creative ideas would be much appreciated.

AtillaThePunt

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hi,

I will be meeting a submissive lady in a couple of weeks and I am looking for some fun games/tasks for her to execute to get things going in our 2h session.

The scenario will probably be a master-slave setup in which she will execute all commands I give her.

We are not planning to go into BDSM, so ropes or nipple clamps,.. are not what we are looking for.

Any creative ideas would be much appreciated.

AtillaThePunt

If you have no relevant experience I feel this punt could go disastrously wrong for both of you. She should be warned about your lack of experience, I think.

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hi,

I will be meeting a submissive lady in a couple of weeks and I am looking for some fun games/tasks for her to execute to get things going in our 2h session.

The scenario will probably be a master-slave setup in which she will execute all commands I give her.

We are not planning to go into BDSM, so ropes or nipple clamps,.. are not what we are looking for.

Any creative ideas would be much appreciated.

AtillaThePunt

My advice would be to check out this site first.. https://fetlife.com/

I am also getting the vibe that you are not experienced in this and the site would help you to get the information that might help you.. I would also tell the girl that you lack experience or it could be a total disaster for you both.

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My advice would be to check out this site first.. https://fetlife.com/

I am also getting the vibe that you are not experienced in this and the site would help you to get the information that might help you.. I would also tell the girl that you lack experience or it could be a total disaster for you both.

Give her bottom a good spanking -- seems generally acceptable !! :D

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hi,

I will be meeting a submissive lady in a couple of weeks and I am looking for some fun games/tasks for her to execute to get things going in our 2h session.

The scenario will probably be a master-slave setup in which she will execute all commands I give her.

We are not planning to go into BDSM, so ropes or nipple clamps,.. are not what we are looking for.

Any creative ideas would be much appreciated.

AtillaThePunt

After the qualifications posted I hope you will return and tell us how it went, if only to prove us wrong.

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Thanks for your feedback all!

I understand your concern when reading through my initial post once more.

To clarify: The lady I will meet, doesn't like to take the initiative herself, but likes to be told what she should do. I was thinking of a role play in which she would be doing what I told her, but without actually doing anything serious. (hence no ropes etc)

Tasks I was thinking of were:

- stripping/lapdance

- crawling on hands and knees toward my cock.

- licking my fingers/cock,..

but all of that in a very fun, light spirit. It would be nice to have some tasks that she will fail executing, so I can punish her. (she does like a spanking)

I hope this takes away some of your worries.

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I feel a little easier now but for heaven's sake agree limits and some form of safe word at the start.

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Why don't you have an in-depth converation with her beforehand (and after you have made the booking) to find out more about her likes and dislikes and to float role-play ideas?

I have found that it is better to see a submissively-inclined WG over several visits. She gets to know and trust you and reveals more of her desires. I have been quite surprised (and pleased) with one of my regulars who has gradually let me do things to her that would have been a 'no-no' on the first couple of visits.

Lot to be said for regulars!

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I agree that you should talk to the girl in depth as previous posters have mentioned.. You will I feel need to build trust over a time.. That is the only way to go.. of course all of this has to be consensual to you both.. I'm a little happier that you are not going to be involved in anything heavy in regards BDSM.. Talk it through together and I know you will get more out of it.. Both of you will.

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Why don't you have an in-depth converation with her beforehand (and after you have made the booking) to find out more about her likes and dislikes and to float role-play ideas?

I have found that it is better to see a submissively-inclined WG over several visits. She gets to know and trust you and reveals more of her desires. I have been quite surprised (and pleased) with one of my regulars who has gradually let me do things to her that would have been a 'no-no' on the first couple of visits.

Lot to be said for regulars!

I think this what the OP is trying to get at -- what type of things. I can understand that you may not feel inclined to share this stuff on an open boars and in that case maybe you might pm him ( and me as well, as I am planning on the same thing !! ). Problem is that where the submissive person is the escort, it is difficult to see her setting out a list of t' activities' she might enjoy in advance of the booking. Different I think when the submissive is the client.

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I'd see her as just another punt first time round, maybe with a light spank, bit of hair pulling and telling her to get on her knee etc.....

IF you enjoyed it - when the punt is finished talk to her - ask what if anything she enjoyed and what she would be prepared to take further

Sex and submission is all about communication for it to get really really exciting

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I agree with most of the above- sub/dom play does require communication and trust between both parties and as a rule the best sessions come over a period of time when each others boundaries are understood.

Roleplay is a great way to start I think- pick something that works for both of you- whether it be a blackmail scene, teacher/student or indeed any kind of authority figure using power over another.

With regards to tasks for her to fail-

Dead lions- you know that game we played as kids- make her lay or stand very still and if she moves punish her- make it harder by teasing her by touching her in her erogenous zones or making her stand on one leg!

Depending on her maths ability and yours make her recite her 6,7,8,9,or 12 times tables (maybe whilst pining her down or pulling hair) - if she gets it wrong or pauses make her start again, punish as required.

Get her to call you sir or master or lord (or whatever you fancy being!) and each question should end with sir (or whatever) - punish if she forgets.

get her to thank you after anything you do- she sucks your cock- she should say thank you sir afterwards, if not punish!

Are these the kind of things you mean?

Give me a PM if you want more ideas or roleplay scenarios!

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Oh, i have more...

After the spanking give her bum a nice rub. Don't lie or cheat- of you say 10 spanks stick to it. Those small signs of care and affection will reassure her and make her more trusting of you. Once you get to know her (as I say I strongly believe a truly fulfilling D/s relationship whether client/escort or with romantic partners comes over time) you may be able to deviate and change the 'rules' as suits you.

Also look for signs of her sexual pleasure. See how wet she is- tell her to sit on floor, open her legs and show you her pussy for example is a dominant act but also gives you an idea!

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Lydia,

This is exactly what I was looking for. All similar suggestions are welcome.

Thanks

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