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Flirting With An Escort

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I just cant flirt with an escort, on the boards, in private message , even on a booking -- well perhaps I just refuse to. I would just feel a bit of an eejit. I certainly have no difficulty in paying compliments ( I love to ) and in having a bit of fun and a laugh, a slag but I feel thats completely different to saying or implying things of a sexual /personal nature to an escort in the same way in which you might do so to a girl friend in civvy street.Am I wrong, am I too conservative, too dry -- should I lighten up and get a life ? Maybe escorts like it ? :)

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Flirting?! I don't know the first thing about flirtation. It goes right over my head.

Do what makes you happy!

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Some people find flirting easy.. others and seems to me you don't find it easy.. All you really need to be is yourself and go with the flow... I suppose in hindsight you can learn how to flirt but if you don't feel confident doing so.. Just do what you feel comfortable with doing.. Not right or wrong either way

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Your lovely as you are Cumadgo :):P

Flattery will get you everywhere MissC. :)

What would I do now, this second, to be able to............................ ah, forget it !! :D

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e to an escort in the same way in which you might do so to a girl friend in civvy street

Does this mean you only flirt with GFs?

Friendly flirting with any and all. Why would you treat anybody differently?

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Some people find flirting easy.. others and seems to me you don't find it easy.. All you really need to be is yourself and go with the flow... I suppose in hindsight you can learn how to flirt but if you don't feel confident doing so.. Just do what you feel comfortable with doing.. Not right or wrong either way

Well you are right there.There is nothing worse than someone trying to flirt when they are not happy doing so-- end up sounding like a complete fool. I think to flirt you have to believe that the receipient wants to hear it.!

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Does this mean you only flirt with GFs?

Friendly flirting with any and all. Why would you treat anybody differently?

I do flirt but only a tinchy winchy bit with some friends who are girls, yes ! I would never flirt in such a way as to embarrass my SO tho'.

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I just cant flirt with an escort, on the boards, in private message , even on a booking -- well perhaps I just refuse to. I would just feel a bit of an eejit. I certainly have no difficulty in paying compliments ( I love to ) and in having a bit of fun and a laugh, a slag but I feel thats completely different to saying or implying things of a sexual /personal nature to an escort in the same way in which you might do so to a girl friend in civvy street.Am I wrong, am I too conservative, too dry -- should I lighten up and get a life ? Maybe escorts like it ? :)

I see nothing wrong with a bit of flirting on the open forum as long as it doesnt become blatant cheerleading or brown nosing the former being against the rules of course. Its not a question of right or wrong, its a question of what you fill happy doing. I try to keep my nose extracted from arselicking but sometimes fail misearably, such is life. ;):D

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I see nothing wrong with a bit of flirting on the open forum as long as it doesnt become blatant cheerleading or brown nosing the former being against the rules of course. Its not a question of right or wrong, its a question of what you fill happy doing. I try to keep my nose extracted from arselicking but sometimes fail misearably, such is life. ;):D

I know, when you fancy the knickers off some lady its very difficult to avoid descending into some ass-licking. One has to be very vigilant -- I'll keep an eye out for you Smiths and pull you up as soon as I see you going down that slippery slope ! :D

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I know, when you fancy the knickers off some lady its very difficult to avoid descending into some ass-licking. One has to be very vigilant -- I'll keep an eye out for you Smiths and pull you up as soon as I see you going down that slippery slope ! :D

I will put you to the test on that Cumandgo. ;):D

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I have been known to flirt with some of the female members on here but like to be told if its to cheesy :eek:

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Flirting should come naturally! you either have it or not. It would feel awkward to do something your not comfortable with

or almost alien I would imagine. I think there are different types of flirting.

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Typical example of someone that can not flirt for the life of him is Hugh Grant, but he has an endearing mannerism

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Typical example of someone that can not flirt for the life of him is Hugh Grant, but he has an endearing mannerism

It got him into a bit of trouble on the strip in L.A.-- he looked so cute in that mugshot tho' ! :D

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I will put you to the test on that Cumandgo. ;):D

You could live to reget that Smiths ! :D

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Typical example of someone that can not flirt for the life of him is Hugh Grant, but he has an endearing mannerism

Oh nonesense MsCC. Playing the bashful schoolboy cleverly is a very calculating way of getting women on board - it may not be smooth "medallion man" type flirting but if you don't think it is flirting something tells me you are too easily won over by the little boy act.

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I was taught on sex site forums such as this one, that flirting is like touting, so I stay well clear of anything like that always over a forum.

I also if sent a PM via a forum will not correspond back in anything which may be misconstrued as a flirty message back, so those who have PMed me you now know why I was a bit stand offish!

In real life I have been told I am a natural flirt, but I do not agree.

I think I am just chatty and tactile and some folk read more in to my way of just being nice.

In the paid sex scene, I know I like to seduce my gentlemen, so if that is classed as flirting, well yes I am pretty good flirt in this world!

As I always say.......it's not what you do......it's the way that you do it ^_^

Lucy :)

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On the female side: some WLs are natural flirts or very good actors.

For the male side, can only speak for myself, but during a good meeting, I play the game of flirting with the WL, but I only continue if she responds. With some, we both play it on and on and it works wonders for the meeting.

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I just cant flirt with an escort, on the boards, in private message , even on a booking -- well perhaps I just refuse to. I would just feel a bit of an eejit. I certainly have no difficulty in paying compliments ( I love to ) and in having a bit of fun and a laugh, a slag but I feel thats completely different to saying or implying things of a sexual /personal nature to an escort in the same way in which you might do so to a girl friend in civvy street.Am I wrong, am I too conservative, too dry -- should I lighten up and get a life ? Maybe escorts like it ? :)

I'm useless at flirting as well - I'm too self-conscious and I just don't have the confidence for it.

It's not something I can do in an appointment either. It just feels like an uncomfortable role play for me.

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A bit of harmless flirting doesn't hurt anyone its all in the fun of what we do.

Shelly

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A bit of harmless flirting doesn't hurt anyone its all in the fun of what we do.

Shelly

Hiya gorgeous ! :wub: --- Well. c'mon its just Valentine's ! :D

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Hiya gorgeous ! :wub: --- Well. c'mon its just Valentine's ! :D

Not yet, another 47 minutes to go according to my clock.

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Hiya gorgeous ! :wub: --- Well. c'mon its just Valentine's ! :D

mmm mmm now thats what I call flirting :-)

Shelly

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Not yet, another 47 minutes to go according to my clock.

Not yet, another 47 minutes to go according to my clock.

Lol it was early but nice.

Shelly

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