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Communications; How Many E-mails A Day?

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Just how many e-mails a day do you ladies get on this and other sites?

Reason for asking is that is my conjecture that many are time wasting and looking for pocket shuffling opportunities.

Yesterday, a featured lady took my fancy and we exchanged a flurry of e-mails; she knew that I couldn't get to meet her unless she did a tour, I knew that she was genuine from her reliable replies.

If you ladies get hundreds a day, I can understand why you delete and not reply. Or do you recognise a pattern or poster?

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Very good topic this. A flurry is ok as long as either party doesn't expect the other person to drop everything, to be sat replying constantly and instantly. Usually in this situation the booking is arranged, done and dusted within the day though.

A booking may genuinely take several emails to set up, discussing dates, time, perhaps a few lingerie ideas. On the other hand I will get suspicious, and may end the conversation if emailing starts to become a back and forth, one question per email, can you tell me exactly what will happen, where will we get naked, can I undress you, will you undress me, can I give you O, where will we have sex etc etc. Just to be clear, because once in the past whilst expressing a similar view point here someone thought I meant I didn't like emails which express how someone would like the booking to go. No what I'm talking about is seperate, discreet emails asking one question at a time, which go on and on. This sort of thing will have me running for the hills, as it usually indicates a timewaster OR someone who is going to be very demanding on all sorts of counts.

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Very good topic this. A flurry is ok as long as either party doesn't expect the other person to drop everything, to be sat replying constantly and instantly. Usually in this situation the booking is arranged, done and dusted within the day though.

A booking may genuinely take several emails to set up, discussing dates, time, perhaps a few lingerie ideas. On the other hand I will get suspicious, and may end the conversation if emailing starts to become a back and forth, one question per email, can you tell me exactly what will happen, where will we get naked, can I undress you, will you undress me, can I give you O, where will we have sex etc etc. Just to be clear, because once in the past whilst expressing a similar view point here someone thought I meant I didn't like emails which express how someone would like the booking to go. No what I'm talking about is seperate, discreet emails asking one question at a time, which go on and on. This sort of thing will have me running for the hills, as it usually indicates a timewaster OR someone who is going to be very demanding on all sorts of counts.

Thanks for the compliment.

I suppose it also like general e-mails/Skype/Facbook, etc; some are regular and reliable users, others hardly ever check, or even, switch their PC on?

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Mine can vary from as low as five to up to 50/60.

I will reply to all, as that is just common courtesy.

I tend not to get many from guys trying to mess me around or do the wank type of message.

You get to spot a bullshitter via e-mail as easily as over the phone with a bit of discernment.

It can be very time consuming at times to reply to all, but as in any good business, these things just have to be done.

Lucy :)

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Mine can vary from as low as five to up to 50/60.

I will reply to all, as that is just common courtesy.

I tend not to get many from guys trying to mess me around or do the wank type of message.

You get to spot a bullshitter via e-mail as easily as over the phone with a bit of discernment.

It can be very time consuming at times to reply to all, but as in any good business, these things just have to be done.

Lucy :)

Agreed, its courteous.

There is also the auto reply, I gather, where on can give one's telephone number? This strikes me as good practice and helps to build a picture of the ladies integrity.

From a Punters point of view, we don't know what you ladies get to see, though I have suggested a couple of times, that one of us could set up a profile and report accordingly.

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Agreed, its courteous.

There is also the auto reply, I gather, where on can give one's telephone number? This strikes me as good practice and helps to build a picture of the ladies integrity.

From a Punters point of view, we don't know what you ladies get to see, though I have suggested a couple of times, that one of us could set up a profile and report accordingly.

Yes, if it becomes obvious a guy has a lot of questions, is sending a lot of emails one after another I will advise a phone call. Of course many then say they are too shy to phone, and just want to go on sending one line questions. Whilst email approach can get over initial shyness, to then take the P isn't going to make a girl friendlier or more understanding!

A false profile was once set up by a member of another forum I know of, the reponses they received were quite eye opening for the males on that site!

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Mine can vary from as low as five to up to 50/60.

I will reply to all, as that is just common courtesy.

I tend not to get many from guys trying to mess me around or do the wank type of message.

You get to spot a bullshitter via e-mail as easily as over the phone with a bit of discernment.

It can be very time consuming at times to reply to all, but as in any good business, these things just have to be done.

Lucy :)

50/60 a day blimey :D

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Just how many e-mails a day do you ladies get on this and other sites?

Reason for asking is that is my conjecture that many are time wasting and looking for pocket shuffling opportunities.

Yesterday, a featured lady took my fancy and we exchanged a flurry of e-mails; she knew that I couldn't get to meet her unless she did a tour, I knew that she was genuine from her reliable replies.

If you ladies get hundreds a day, I can understand why you delete and not reply. Or do you recognise a pattern or poster?

Hang on Polly, surely by exchanging a flurry of emails, yet you could only meet her if she did a tour is in itself time wasting?

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Hang on Polly, surely by exchanging a flurry of emails, yet you could only meet her if she did a tour is in itself time wasting?

No, I told her that and asked her to let me know if she ever did a tour.

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50/60 a day blimey :D

I am one of those pesky ladies who does not display a number, so contact has to made by mail at first, and that phone is not on most of the time anyway for open contact.

That does include the fluury types ones though as Polly mentioned above..

Lucy :)

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I am one of those pesky ladies who does not display a number, so contact has to made by mail at first, and that phone is not on most of the time anyway for open contact.

That does include the fluury types ones though as Polly mentioned above..

Lucy :)

I do not display one either!

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No, I told her that and asked her to let me know if she ever did a tour.

I have had that happen too with guys asking about if I toured.

It is is not a problem as such to respond to such messages a few times, but of course you do get to the stage when the flurry has to stop.

Good communcation can actually work that a gentleman then will decide to travel to visit me instead.

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If I had a choice, I'd take a flurry of emails over my current problem of men calling & expecting an appointment within an hour.... Or booking & not confirming that morning & getting stroppy when I'm unavailable.

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I do not display one either!

:) Don't forget though that I have Lucy7 and Lucy and Hubby to deal with, my solo gets more though than the MF one.

I dictate at times to the better half as he types quicker than me!

Lucy :)

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50/60 a day blimey :D

Bliemy, indeed! I am getting about 1-2 enquirers in a week from that site, or about 50-70 per year, (which is about same amount Lucy sometimes can get in a day!). From those 60-70 enquirers, maybe 8-10 bookings getting matterialised in a year.

What is your secret, Lucy? I am genuinely interested. BTW: I am not displaying my tel number either on the аdultwоrк.

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I only get a couple a day throughout but get a lot of interest via webcam, phone calls are very minimal but my web presence is increasing so there is a bit of a flurry happening at the moment :)

I find it very easy to spot the genuine guys who want to walk the walk thankfully so it's been good to date!

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Bliemy, indeed! I am getting about 1-2 enquirers in a week from that site, or about 50-70 per year, (which is about same amount Lucy sometimes can get in a day!). From those 60-70 enquirers, maybe 8-10 bookings getting matterialised in a year.

What is your secret, Lucy? I am genuinely interested. BTW: I am not displaying my tel number either on the аdultwоrк.

Well I do not know really.

I do not work off a phone number displayed as I do not dislplay one, so a message has to be sent to make any form of contact at first.

I am featured escort on that site quite a lot, so that makes me go to the top a lot, so I get spotted more easily.

I have a solo and a couples profile, so I get messages via both, hence a higher ammount maybe.

I am excellent at communication that way, and a lot of guys like the way I reply to them, so that will encourage e-mails back possibly.

That high number quoted above (50/60) is the highest we have ever probably had, my hubby knows the exact number.

On avearge it will be 20/30 probably a day, today it has been 21 so far, that was two new guys and the rest guys I know, that does not meaning booking inquiries off all of them, some were follow up thank you messages, some were just asking about my holiday, some just like to touch base with me. :)

It works for me what ever I am doing.

I feel that good e-mail communication has been a great aid to me personally.

I never do on the day meets so all has to be put in to place from my side in advance, maybe that makes the message count higher as well getting it all sorted.

Dunno really.......

Lucy :)

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Well I do not know really.

I do not work off a phone number displayed as I do not dislplay one, so a message has to be sent to make any form of contact at first.

I am featured escort on that site quite a lot, so that makes me go to the top a lot, so I get spotted more easily.

I have a solo and a couples profile, so I get messages via both, hence a higher ammount maybe.

I am excellent at communication that way, and a lot of guys like the way I reply to them, so that will encourage e-mails back possibly.

That high number quoted above (50/60) is the highest we have ever probably had, my hubby knows the exact number.

On avearge it will be 20/30 probably a day, today it has been 21 so far, that was two new guys and the rest guys I know, that does not meaning booking inquiries off all of them, some were follow up thank you messages, some were just asking about my holiday, some just like to touch base with me. :)

It works for me what ever I am doing.

I feel that good e-mail communication has been a great aid to me personally.

I never do on the day meets so all has to be put in to place from my side in advance, maybe that makes the message count higher as well getting it all sorted.

Dunno really.......

Lucy :)

Thank you, Lucy.

I of course it will be a vast amount of difference how amount of enquirers deferrers from one profile to another and there are hundreds reasons for it. I just did not thought it would be such a vast difference - about 1750% more, based on your MINIMAL 35 enquirers per week (5 per day) oppose to my 1-2 per week. I am scared to put percentage, when you have 20-60 enquirers per day, lol- it will rize to hundreds of thousands in comparison with mine.

I do have a personal website, so I have few enquirers from there too, but its still very far away to get close to your numbers.

I never advertised as "featured escort", because its only few hours in a week I can see clients, (1-3 clients per week) so the financial outlay never going to work for me. Its just going to create more work to respond to the clients that I am not available 80% of the time, even with a long notice. (as majority fail to read your availability).

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I also have closed down my private e-mail on my personal web site (personal reasons ------I was getting hacked in to and thought it was no longer a safe way to communiate) so all that want to make contact with me have to do so via the puple site now.

Not ideal for the guys, but it is a good way to manage things for me.

I am very savvy on how to work that site now, I find it a great place personally.

Featuring your profile is a great tool as as well unless you work in a highly populated area like London, where so many feature their profile you could easily get lost in them all.

Here in Leeds, not that many escorts pay credits to feature their profiles you see.

Lucy :)

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I get a considerable number of emails 'over there' and from my own site. Once filter out the crap there is a small number of genuine emails, with genuine decent clients with good/excellent feedback which I always take note of.

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I also have closed down my private e-mail on my personal web site (personal reasons ------I was getting hacked in to and thought it was no longer a safe way to communiate) so all that want to make contact with me have to do so via the puple site now.

Not ideal for the guys, but it is a good way to manage things for me.

I am very savvy on how to work that site now, I find it a great place personally.

Featuring your profile is a great tool as as well unless you work in a highly populated area like London, where so many feature their profile you could easily get lost in them all.

Here in Leeds, not that many escorts pay credits to feature their profiles you see.

Lucy :)

I find it a great place too Lucy. I did not take to it at first and was put off it for a while but I think it has changed quite a bit, even since I have been on since last

year March. I think you have to sift through the good and bad equally for male/female.

I have really only had/seen respectable gents over there, but I always take care to look at the feedback ,check profiles and emails properly, any hints or inclination of something not quite right I go with my instinct and give it a miss. You can often distiguish straight away what is genuine.

Yes the feature profile is a very useful tool as well.

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I 'feature' myself on several options there most of the weeks that I'm available. I get between 5 and15 emails from 4 different sites, which sometimes I can't get time to answer that day,but I do answer within a day or 2 usually

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