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Some of us will never ever meet each other, but some of us know each other sexually and/or socially..

So when you see someone that you know in a punter/escort relationship typing their thoughts and opinions on a topic on a forum, do you think they mean you if they are sort of having a pop at something/someome?

I often feel all I type on forums, sex forums like this one I mean not vanilla ones gets read and dissected and then the folk reading it think I mean what I am typing applies to them!

Is it just me who feels spied on?

Lucy :)

(Typed slightly tongue in cheek......not botty cheek though!)

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I'm just responding to this so you don't get paranoid and think everyone is ignoring you

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Provided that something/someone is defined, and by that definition is not me, I would have no need to believe such a thing.

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I'm just responding to this so you don't get paranoid and think everyone is ignoring you

:D :D

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The only reason I starting typing in this forum was to fiercely correct someone who called me "old and unattractive" and, as I thought, tarnish the reputation of my working friends too.

Funnily enough, I had a welcome message off of one of the lovely guys off here titled "welcome to the snakepit......tread carefully or be badly bitten!!!"

That still puts a smile on my face when I think how right he was lol xxxxx

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The only reason I starting typing in this forum was to fiercely correct someone who called me "old and unattractive"

How do you 'correct' something that's clearly a matter of judgement (age expectation) or opinion (attractiveness)?

I'm expressing neither judgement nor opinion, I haven't met you. But I'm intrigued as to how these would be 'corrected'.

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Well honey, it was the "old" comment that got to me more, at the time I was going out as 23yrs old, yet I was forever getting asked for ID if I wanted to buy cigarrettes or if entering a new bar /pub. Im no supermodel, but Im quite attractive, well presented and worked in London as a lapdancer. So I can`t be too bad in that department

Also, the guy in question was one for hearsay and third person tales.and honestly i don`t think we ever met in person. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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As an Ex Pole-Dancer, I'd say success is less about looks & more about aggressive sales technique.

As for age... If you have a brain, people think you're older.

Accept the problems of this industry & the boards & carry on.

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Me trying aggressive sales lol. Im too soft, I`d have to take How To classes. Thats why I left, I just didnt have the hustle for it.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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As the saying goes, 'Just because you're paranoid doesn't meant they aren't after you.' :)

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I would occasionally bump into a regular escort that I used to visit whilst out shopping. We would exchange knowingly glances and occasionally stop to say high.........the inner thought of knowing was lovely

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Well honey, it was the "old" comment that got to me more, at the time I was going out as 23yrs old, yet I was forever getting asked for ID if I wanted to buy cigarrettes or if entering a new bar /pub. Im no supermodel, but Im quite attractive, well presented and worked in London as a lapdancer. So I can`t be too bad in that department

Also, the guy in question was one for hearsay and third person tales.and honestly i don`t think we ever met in person. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Lucy, this is what someone will throw at another if they can not find anything else to pin on :P take it as a compliment as anyone with a

bit of common sense, good manners and decorum would not behave in this way.

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Sometimes this board can get a bit bitchy and we can usually see who the target is. I think such arguments should be carried out in private but if it entertains others then that's OK, I guess.

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I often feel all I type on forums, sex forums like this one I mean not vanilla ones gets read and dissected and then the folk reading it think I mean what I am typing applies to them!

I think it's fairly normal to think comments apply to you. It's almost never true. :P

Two types of people. Those so vain to think all the world revolves around them. Those so on the other end of the scale who think every negative comment applies to them.

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Some of us will never ever meet each other, but some of us know each other sexually and/or socially..

So when you see someone that you know in a punter/escort relationship typing their thoughts and opinions on a topic on a forum, do you think they mean you if they are sort of having a pop at something/someome?

I often feel all I type on forums, sex forums like this one I mean not vanilla ones gets read and dissected and then the folk reading it think I mean what I am typing applies to them!

Is it just me who feels spied on?

Lucy :)

(Typed slightly tongue in cheek......not botty cheek though!)

Lucy, I hope it is your botty cheek lol ooooooohh!! :P haha !

On a serious note, :huh: I like this forum to post on and read other's opinions/views/topics of interest and have actually learned a few

things reading this board!! sounds silly, but just human nature/basic bits and pieces etc,.it has a multitude of information on it

at times lol :P .

I have my fav posters who come along and really make me giggle with their posts. Having the same humour has me in stitches.

since being a member of this board you obviously get new people join, old people leave, and some times old topics of conversation come up and

you think are regurgitated, so I find myself not posting so much unless topic/posts really catches my eye, or I know the poster/s.

What I find confusing at times is if posters change their I.D or name change- (yes, ok I know I changed mine lol but my name is

actually in the signature of my posts). but if a poster comes on board with a new/alias name- female or male with a different name

it does confuse me all these names!! I do not understand why one identity would need so many alias names. It is the same on the other

site, ocassionally I will get messaged by a client that has dozens of alias names, (?WTF) I mean does he think the girls he is emailing

can not see all these alias names ???!! ok I know maybe a little OT but if everyone just stuck to a name it might make it a little easier

haha :P that's a little bugbear on alias names!!.

So yes I think this board like everything goes in fits and starts, stages. it is a wealth of info in the sex industry for males/females alike,

If anything, the time since been on here there are lots more lovely ladies posting which is nice as it has an effect of quieting down

the type of characters that may be 'unsavoury' shall we put it- towards woman.

Keep it going Big G and thank-you xxxx

Edited by MissCupcakesx

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My apologies Lucy I just read that again and it totally went over my head the spy thing. My post above is forum/board in general :wub:

this is the only red faced smile in the pack so hope that will do! xxx

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How do you 'correct' something that's clearly a matter of judgement (age expectation) or opinion (attractiveness)?

I'm expressing neither judgement nor opinion, I haven't met you. But I'm intrigued as to how these would be 'corrected'.

Opinions are like a***holes, we all have one!! The only opinion that matters is your own. Bullies soon get bored and move on to their next prey. xx

Some of us will never ever meet each other, but some of us know each other sexually and/or socially..

So when you see someone that you know in a punter/escort relationship typing their thoughts and opinions on a topic on a forum, do you think they mean you if they are sort of having a pop at something/someome?

I often feel all I type on forums, sex forums like this one I mean not vanilla ones gets read and dissected and then the folk reading it think I mean what I am typing applies to them!

Is it just me who feels spied on?

Lucy :)

(Typed slightly tongue in cheek......not botty cheek though!)

I know what you mean, sometimes things can feel personal, but then that is generally because they are, lol oh well such is life. What I dont like is bing spied on by people that dont know the industry!! But that is a whole other subject

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Some of us will never ever meet each other, but some of us know each other sexually and/or socially..

So when you see someone that you know in a punter/escort relationship typing their thoughts and opinions on a topic on a forum, do you think they mean you if they are sort of having a pop at something/someome?

I often feel all I type on forums, sex forums like this one I mean not vanilla ones gets read and dissected and then the folk reading it think I mean what I am typing applies to them!

Is it just me who feels spied on?

Lucy :)

(Typed slightly tongue in cheek......not botty cheek though!)

It's sometimes nice to be so-called "spied -on" as an anonymous bloke because we can ask you girls the most outrageous questions without getting a slap 'round the chops . . .

:blink::o:huh:

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