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One For The Ladies

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One for the ladies please..........what do you look for when you receive a caller for the first time

Apart from his name? what time he is calling, and his telephone voice it must be difficult to conjure what the meeting will be like

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Now that would be telling.

Joking aside, you can build up a picture by the way someone is on the phone. I don't mind what time someone calls, so long as it's within my stated hours -if someone phones at midnight leaving a voicemail demanding I get right around there, because he wants to shag the arse off of me. Well he's possibly had his card marked.

Most ladies are looking out for signs he may be drunk, drugged, in company, that sort of thing. All we really want to know is the time and length of booking, incall/outcall and any requirements, of a sensible nature mind!

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I just go with instinct and intuition on everything - calls texts emails x

Sometimes somebody seems really nice and then they may use a word like "violently" which is how one well spoken gent said he would like to roger me!! Suffice to say I declined.

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Holly

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I only give my number out to those I choose to give it to, so when I take the call before deided to go ahead and meet with each other I have a bot of knowledge on them already.

All I need is a chatty little chap who just can chat away, mostly we do not even talk about the sex thing.

If we can hold a good enough convo and have a laugh or two, then the jobs a good un for me!

I will ask what he is wanting out of our time together and most will just say go with the flow, hence not much sex type talk.

Wank type of chat is a no go of course.

Lucy :)

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interesting, I would never phone somebody drunk or drugged........I don't even do drugs

i like to talk to the lady in question and have a report with them, a bit like no kissing it all seems very cold and to me its important both parties get on well and please each other sexually and with a laugh

keep the comments rolling in please ladies xx

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I know immediately from the first utterance if it's right or wrong.

If I get a 'Hello Dolly? I'm xxxx and I found your site details, I would like to arrange etc....' it usually/always turns out ok.

Sometimes I get 'Iz you available now babes/hun/darlin'?' Not even a hello or a name first, etc. ALWAYS turns out to be a moron. But then again, he doesn't get a chance to prove it...!

A polite clear voice with a cheery tone is all that's needed. A date and a time in mind, and a chat that lets us know that you've read the relevant bits of our sites, and it's us you want to meet? Then the chat can proceed with a natural flow, and result in a good meeting!

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Dolly is so right, a hello, an introduction and an actual date/time in mind is a very good start!

The calls that start 'Can I see you' or launch into 'Can you describe yourself?' or 'Do you do anal?' or 'How much?' really irritate me. A man should know what I look like from whatever site he got my number from along with services and prices. I understand if a chap wants to double check some of the details and have confirmation of what I will/won't do but I think to start a conversation with 'Do you do anal?' isn't dreadfully polite and puts me off seeing someone and more often than not turn out to be timewasters.

The ones that assume I am sitting around in my lingerie waiting for them annoy me too- I can do short notice bookings sometimes, but being asked straight off 'Can I come round now?' or similar with the assumption I am free that very minute to see them! One man the other week started his conversation with 'What's the address?' not even a hello.

Thing is, if a guy can't even hold a basic telephone conversation or need the above explaining to them then they probably aren't the sort of person I would want to see. Being spoken to rudely or abruptly makes me think a man might not conduct himself very politely during the meeting- if he can't even say hello on the phone how is he going to treat me in person?

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i know this is a ladies thread, but i would ask them to bear in mind that some people are crap on the phone, and avoid it when they can _I get mrs CP to makemost phone calls...

I find making the call one of the most stressful parts of the whole thing.

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Yesterday evening was priceless! I was out with my Mum & I answered the phone (good clients are discreet enough for that to work). He asked if I had Lara available.... He wanted an outcall & I asked him to email me. He didn't, but I was very lucky. He's a family friend's Colleague & was calling at 8pm from work.

I was working on the assumption that I'd have 3-4 degrees of separation from clients, but 1 is too little.

I know escorts who've had calls from people they know, which is no good.

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I know immediately from the first utterance if it's right or wrong.

If I get a 'Hello Dolly? I'm xxxx and I found your site details, I would like to arrange etc....' it usually/always turns out ok.

Sometimes I get 'Iz you available now babes/hun/darlin'?' Not even a hello or a name first, etc. ALWAYS turns out to be a moron. But then again, he doesn't get a chance to prove it...!

A polite clear voice with a cheery tone is all that's needed. A date and a time in mind, and a chat that lets us know that you've read the relevant bits of our sites, and it's us you want to meet? Then the chat can proceed with a natural flow, and result in a good meeting!

I couldn't have put that better myself :D

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Dollymopp is absolutely spot on, specifics about what time/date you want to meet, and a polite cheery tone. Also totally agree that he needs to know my name, and make some reference to why he wants to see me, and knows basics (rates, my location). When you answer loads of calls from punters you do develop a sense as you know which types of previous calls have worked out and which haven't, it often isn't what they are saying, but what they aren't saying that triggers warning bells or a disinclination to meet them - vague, not sure of your details/services, don't introduce themselves, not very polite etc.

i know this is a ladies thread, but i would ask them to bear in mind that some people are crap on the phone, and avoid it when they can _I get mrs CP to makemost phone calls...

I find making the call one of the most stressful parts of the whole thing.

CP that is a very good point and I am sure most WG's totally realise that for some guys they get very nervous on the phone. If so, it is always nice to get an email introducing yourself first (I advertise specifically for shy/nervous clients so have a lot of this), the email breaks the ice, and then when the guy calls at least I am aware that he is finding the phone call stressful, so I can put more effort into making it flow really nicely and making us both comfortable. If someone just calls out of the blue, is monosyllabic and tongue tied it is impossible for me to think that the booking will be a pleasure for either of us or go smoothly. My approach to escorting is that obviously I have to make clients feel like they want to see me and that I am warm and welcoming on the phone and email, but I won't see clients who aren't bothered/able to make me feel comfortable about meeting them too, mutual respect and enjoyment are essential to me. This has worked VERY well for me, I have had very few bookings I haven't enjoyed and encountered very few time wasters.

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i know this is a ladies thread, but i would ask them to bear in mind that some people are crap on the phone, and avoid it when they can _I get mrs CP to makemost phone calls...

She books WGs for you? that is what I call an understanding wife.

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I only give my number out to those I choose to give it to.

What a way to run a business, can you imagine a double glazing company doing that, your policy must cost you £1000's over the year.

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What a way to run a business, can you imagine a double glazing company doing that, your policy must cost you £1000's over the year.

Hello Jimmy.

Actually me and both my businesses do VERY well doing things the way I do it.

I was told that some gentlemen move on from a lady who does not display her number, and I am sure some like you do.

However for me giving my number out to who I choose to give it out to is the way forward for me.

Yes I am selective to who I give it to, but then I can afford to be.

I am very comfortable earning the amount I earn selling my body for money.

Thanks for your input though, it is greatly appreciated.

Lucy :)

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Hello Jimmy.

Actually me and both my businesses do VERY well doing things the way I do it.

I was told that some gentlemen move on from a lady who does not display her number, and I am sure some like you do.

I have many hundreds of girls to chose from within the M25 so I certainly do move on if no number is avalable, if that system works for you then that is all that matters.

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I have many hundreds of girls to chose from within the M25 so I certainly do move on if no number is avalable, if that system works for you then that is all that matters.

Exactly Jimmy.

You guys are spoilt for choice down your way, you can pick and choose who to see in the way that works for YOU, straight off a displayed number.

My system does work well for me, so in that respect yes that is all that matters.

Lucy

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Yesterday evening was priceless! I was out with my Mum & I answered the phone (good clients are discreet enough for that to work). He asked if I had Lara available.... He wanted an outcall & I asked him to email me. He didn't, but I was very lucky. He's a family friend's Colleague & was calling at 8pm from work.

I was working on the assumption that I'd have 3-4 degrees of separation from clients, but 1 is too little.

I know escorts who've had calls from people they know, which is no good.

A year or so back I got a call from a chap who'd just moved back up to Manchester after years of living away, after chatting for a while we realised we'd hung around the same group of people and gone to the same clubs and pubs etc. When we met for an appointment we had kniown each other when we were in our late teens, it was sort of stange but okay, it gave us plenty of things to talk about when were relaxing.

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I imagine that meeting someone you had previously known must be a surreal experience.

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Most ladies are looking out for signs he may be drunk, drugged, in company, that sort of thing. All we really want to know is the time and length of booking, incall/outcall and any requirements, of a sensible nature mind!

Agreed - if we put too much emphasis on what the gent looks like, we wouldn't be in this biz to begin with. In my case especially, I can generally tell if a gent is genuinely interested in a massage only. As long as he is respectful and turns up on time, I am happy :-)

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