pollyp23

Women Versus Men: Sex, Motives And Desires

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OK, I could have asked this on the Tupperware or Ice Dancing forum, but I warrant the replies would not have been so honest?

What really is the difference between women and men?

Do women look at us men as potential mates, providers of homes, babies and a home?

Do men look at women as a place (hole) to shag and have sexual gratification and then dash off to the pub?

What do men desire, what do women desire?

Are we close or so far apart that relationships are bound to fail?

Where does love, sex, even religion, not to mention Top Gear and Eastenders come in to it?

Answers on a postcard please.

This will either work as a thread or not, I guess!

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I expect a woman to provide me at all times with three holes to fuck, to get my dinners ready and obey me in all things, but then I'm a really touchy feely new man type, and a born romantic. Not all men are as considerate as me.

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What really is the difference between women and men?

I think in general, women cope better then men. They are able to struggle through more than men.

I would say, and I know a lot of you men would disagree, but most women are actually more secretive than men.

I have worked with men, not only have I spent a lot of time massaging them over the last 10 years. I also worked in a factory full of 86 men and only 3 other women. The other ladys worked in an office on the top floor. I worked in an office of 5 men, and 'Little Ole me' connected to a shop floor full of another 81 of them.

Women are acute to change. A woman colleague who became a friend, and a man from my office were having an affair. Her husband didn't have a clue. However his wife guessed straight away. Found out who it was and confronted them both.

My friend divorced her husband, without him ever finding out. The Lover stayed with his wife, moved jobs and lived happily ever after?

I also had a story of my own whilst working there, and yet my exhusband never figured it out. Yet I figured out his every time. I could read him like a book (something I will soon cover in my blog).

Do women look at us men as potential mates, providers of homes, babies and a home?

Personally speaking, it is not something that I have ever done. I am a single parent, I didn't plan to get pregnant at 23, however, I never saw his father as a potential mate. He has never provided myself or my son a home. I have done all of this without him.

Do men look at women as a place (hole) to shag and have sexual gratification and then dash off to the pub?

Never in my case, it's usual me who shags, has sexual gratification and then dashes of to the pub.

What do men desire, what do women desire?

My desire would be a relationship with a man, where all terms are equal. When it would be ok to disagree on different subjects, but also hear each others point of view.

Being able to laugh at each other and with each other.

I would want a funny, insightful, honest and entertaining relationship. A relationship which grows slowly, but surely. Where 2 people are at peace with themselves and each other.

Are we close or so far apart that relationships are bound to fail?

Opposites attract, then it is all down to the chemistry.

Where does love, sex, even religion, not to mention Top Gear and Eastenders come in to it?

After Jeremy Kyle in the mornings...

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Very bizarre thread to start on a forum like this! LOL! Everyone is very, very different and each and everyone's experience of life will find them seeking very different things. I don't believe either sex look for anything naturally, they may be conditioned to believe they need something though and with age comes certain expectations.

They may also believe they want a certain something out of a relationship, but the head, heart and sexual urge take control of so very much!

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Do women look at us men as potential mates, providers of homes, babies and a home

So, what do I have to do to get a man to provide me with several homes & babies? I mean PROVIDE, because childbirth looks painful.

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Very bizarre thread to start on a forum like this! LOL! Everyone is very, very different and each and everyone's experience of life will find them seeking very different things. I don't believe either sex look for anything naturally, they may be conditioned to believe they need something though and with age comes certain expectations. They may also believe they want a certain something out of a relationship, but the head, heart and sexual urge take control of so very much!

I agree, i cant generalise as my own experiences and those of people i know are so varied.

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The one thing most men and women have in common is the desire to be looked after and I dont mean financially, I mean emotionally.

Shelly

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These are just my own views, I only speak for myself.

What really is the difference between women and men?

I think most men fair better, both physically and emotionally,if they have a female partner . I am taken aback by the amount of women who say that if their husbands died, no way would they re-marry if they could help it.

Do women look at us men as potential mates, providers of homes, babies and a home?

Unequivocally, yes --- imho of course.

Do men look at women as a place (hole) to shag and have sexual gratification and then dash off to the pub?

No. I love spending time with my SO. Sounds old fashioned, but she is my best friend. I have never been with another woman in civvy street.

What do men desire, what do women desire?

In the main , yes. Certainly both my SO and I have very similar aspirations and desires. ( sex is a prob tho' )

Are we close or so far apart that relationships are bound to fail?

Absolutely not. I'm convinced, I will grow old ( older ! ) and die with my SO.

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Very bizarre thread to start on a forum like this! LOL! Everyone is very, very different and each and everyone's experience of life will find them seeking very different things. I don't believe either sex look for anything naturally, they may be conditioned to believe they need something though and with age comes certain expectations.

They may also believe they want a certain something out of a relationship, but the head, heart and sexual urge take control of so very much!

Why bizarre? I've seen more questions and more honest answers on here than on any other forum. I believe the members on here are more open and honest about human emotions and interactions.

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Do men look at women as a place (hole) to shag and have sexual gratification and then dash off to the pub?

What do men desire, Where does love, sex, even religion, not to mention Top Gear and Eastenders come in to it?

I desire a woman to be:

personality wise; any as long as shes not boring, a depressive, overly slaggy loud mouthed, psycho.

looks after herself, beautiful, self groomed, fit-slim and healthy, 'preferably' with big boobs like D/E cup.

dress like a woman (skirts, dresses, stockings, heels) and not like some slack arse chav or tomboy in trousers.

have an appetite of enjoyment for regular sex, loves kissing, oral both ways.

some sort of swinger type relationship, ie open relationship, example i really dont mind keeping myself for just her if she wants to escort other men.

Preferably she would want kids, no need to have a proper job if she dont want one, put dinner on the table, do the laundry washing, i can do the other things.. im good at home maintenance.

Love should always be strong and present. Religion can do one, if she practices a religion i probably wont want to get with her. Similarly if she smokes but i can tolerate it if shes a light smoker.

She can watch any TV program she wants as im not all that into it not even football which i hate, she can have the TV and i'll have the PC to play video games in the same room. Obviously watch the TV together for some programs we both like.

I dont see women as an hole for a shag. I have a mother, aunt, sister, nieces and hopefully one day a daughter. I cant treat a woman as a piece of meat, unless she wants me to in the bedroom as some women seem to really love that.

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So, what do I have to do to get a man to provide me with several homes & babies? I mean PROVIDE, because childbirth looks painful.

Just have an elective caesarean Lara, too posh to push!

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Men have a penis and women have a vagina :cool:

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Just have an elective caesarean Lara, too posh to push!

I am not having major abdominal surgery unless it's necessary. I want one of those blokes who'll just provide me with a baby!

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I expect a woman to provide me at all times with three holes to fuck, to get my dinners ready and obey me in all things, but then I'm a really touchy feely new man type, and a born romantic. Not all men are as considerate as me.

Lol, love it :lol:

But seriously, the only reason I visit providers is because I have needs and I came to the conclusion long ago that I'm not what women want. Now, without wanting to start an entirely new debate on what women really want (despite the nonsense about 'just a kind heart and good sense of humour') and the subsequent acusations of misogyny, I'm resigned to a life without a wife or family of my own.

Which is what I actually want. A loving and trustworthy wife with a family I can take care of. I miss meals and movies on a weekend; weekends away and holidays. I work long hours and depressingly the only thing I look forward to is seeing service providers on the weekend. It is sad. I am sad. Very sad.

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I am not having major abdominal surgery unless it's necessary. I want one of those blokes who'll just provide me with a baby!

There is nothing more satisfying than producing your own offspring. You really are too posh to push aren't you :D

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I want a man who will be my best friend as well as lover. Have the same dreams and aspirations as I do. Grow old and enjoy life's experiences together. And definitely no kids.

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I want a man who will be my best friend as well as lover. Have the same dreams and aspirations as I do. Grow old and enjoy life's experiences together. And definitely no kids.

You've described a homosexual man.

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There is nothing more satisfying than producing your own offspring. You really are too posh to push aren't you :D

The cheek! How dare a man tell me that.

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You've described a homosexual man.

Cool. He won't mind being dragged round the shops then either. :D

Edited by Dexi

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My friend divorced her husband, without him ever finding out.

That sounds like the sort of divorce men dream about.

I mean PROVIDE, because childbirth looks painful.

Blindfold so you won't have to look?

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I desire a woman to be:

personality wise; any as long as shes not boring, a depressive, overly slaggy loud mouthed, psycho.

looks after herself, beautiful, self groomed, fit-slim and healthy, 'preferably' with big boobs like D/E cup.

dress like a woman (skirts, dresses, stockings, heels) and not like some slack arse chav or tomboy in trousers.

have an appetite of enjoyment for regular sex, loves kissing, oral both ways.

some sort of swinger type relationship, ie open relationship, example i really dont mind keeping myself for just her if she wants to escort other men.

Preferably she would want kids, no need to have a proper job if she dont want one, put dinner on the table, do the laundry washing, i can do the other things.. im good at home maintenance.

Love should always be strong and present. Religion can do one, if she practices a religion i probably wont want to get with her. Similarly if she smokes but i can tolerate it if shes a light smoker.

She can watch any TV program she wants as im not all that into it not even football which i hate, she can have the TV and i'll have the PC to play video games in the same room. Obviously watch the TV together for some programs we both like.

I dont see women as an hole for a shag. I have a mother, aunt, sister, nieces and hopefully one day a daughter. I cant treat a woman as a piece of meat, unless she wants me to in the bedroom as some women seem to really love that.

Thanks for that!

Are you in a relationship?

Seriously, I still think this forum is the place for such a discussion, and boy are we getting it!

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Men have a penis and women have a vagina :cool:

And a bottom and mouth...

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I am not having major abdominal surgery unless it's necessary. I want one of those blokes who'll just provide me with a baby!

I'll come and try. Though I have been neutered, so I suspect it may take a lot of trying!

Edit: there are spelling mistakes on your profile. The deal is off, I wouldn't lower myself to someone who can't spell!! :)

Edited by pollyp23

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It's really funny watching unattractive people approach the more attractive. The way they insulate themselves from rejection is funny.

The good-looking might mention a typo, the graceful send you a message. The ugly get superior.

To paraphrase Churchill: "In a few seconds, the typo will be corrected, but you'll always be ugly."

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It's really funny watching unattractive people approach the more attractive. The way they insulate themselves from rejection is funny.

The good-looking might mention a typo, the graceful send you a message. The ugly get superior.

To paraphrase Churchill: "In a few seconds, the typo will be corrected, but you'll always be ugly."

Touche!

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