cumandgo

Should I Trust Her ?

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Advice please.

I dont want to get into the nitty gritty of this but the question is simple.

The escort concerned is mature and is very well reviewed 'over there '. I book the hotel room (4/ 5 star ), attend the booking, go home but she stays the night herself in the hotel and promises not to check out my real name at reception nor run up any hotel expenses on my credit,details of which the hotel will take when I book the room. She leaves the hotel after breakfast in the morning and continues her tour elsewhere. She has asked me to trust her and I want to.Am I right ?

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I would have thought the damage a person could potentially do really makes this not worth the risk.

How well do you know her?

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Before I even read your post I shouted no! If you have to ask us if you should trust her you clearly don't, what can anyone on a forum tell you to convince you otherwise? Why can't she book the room herself?

Even if you settle the bill on her behalf before she checks out they still have your card details on file...

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I would have thought the damage a person could potentially do really makes this not worth the risk.

Exactly. I was going to say something of the sort, though I would doubtless not have expressed it so well.

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If you have to post it on a public forum, i think you already know the answer x x

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Advice please.

I dont want to get into the nitty gritty of this but the question is simple.

The escort concerned is mature and is very well reviewed 'over there '. I book the hotel room (4/ 5 star ), attend the booking, go home but she stays the night herself in the hotel and promises not to check out my real name at reception nor run up any hotel expenses on my credit,details of which the hotel will take when I book the room. She leaves the hotel after breakfast in the morning and continues her tour elsewhere. She has asked me to trust her and I want to.Am I right ?

Thats a never, as in never trust a stranger.

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You will be liable for any damage and the mini bar bill and room service etc. Tell her you have another booking in a few hours and she needs to leave when you have finished.

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What if she nicks the shower curtain or the bath mats? :ph34r:

YOU'LL get the blame!

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Before I even read your post I shouted no! If you have to ask us if you should trust her you clearly don't, what can anyone on a forum tell you to convince you otherwise? Why can't she book the room herself?

Even if you settle the bill on her behalf before she checks out they still have your card details on file...

Because I have a free voucher for the room. I am going to look at whether the voucher is transferable. If so, it may just be possible to put it in her name . However, I may have some unusual explaining to do with the company who runs the vouching system.

I hate not trusting people.I understand everyone's views and I would prolly say the safe thing myself-- NO. But if I could protect myself or limit the downside, I'd like to do it. This is a well reviewed mature lady. :mellow:

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You cant settle the bill in cash so it will be back to you. You could always buy a pay as you go credit card from Poundland and use that if it works but as others have said is it worth the risk?

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If you don't trust her with your real name...

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Not being sure of all the facts as you rightly do not want to go into nitty and gritty ( why did I sound

like Xenia just there? ) :huh:

but if the booking is day time or early evening.. have you considered that

she may want to take more in calls in that free room after you have gone?

She could make a tidy profit at your expense ( well your voucher's expense ).

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I am a trusting little soul and try to see the best in all folk.

Do you know this lady from a previous meeting with her?

Personally I would suggest that she books the hotel if she intends to stay at it, can that not be an option?

If she is expecting you to pay for the room, maybe you could ask her to book it and just pay her the cost of the room.

If you have the slightest doubt though in the sort of arrangement you are suggesting, possibly best not to do it Sir.

Lucy :)

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Just seen some of your replies, sorry I typed back too quick!

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Not being sure of all the facts as you rightly do not want to go into nitty and gritty ( why did I sound

like Xenia just there? ) :huh:

but if the booking is day time or early evening.. have you considered that

she may want to take more in calls in that free room after you have gone?

She could make a tidy profit at your expense ( well your voucher's expense ).

Frankly, I wouldnt mind if she profits, so long as there is no negative comeback on me. I think she will be arriving in fairly late, so I think she is unlikely to want to take any bookings after me anyway.,

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I am a trusting little soul and try to see the best in all folk.

Do you know this lady from a previous meeting with her?

Personally I would suggest that she books the hotel if she intends to stay at it, can that not be an option?

If she is expecting you to pay for the room, maybe you could ask her to book it and just pay her the cost of the room.

If you have the slightest doubt though in the sort of arrangement you are suggesting, possibly best not to do it Sir.

Lucy :)

If I took that approach all the time Lucy, I would never punt !! :)

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Because I have a free voucher for the room. I am going to look at whether the voucher is transferable. If so, it may just be possible to put it in her name . However, I may have some unusual explaining to do with the company who runs the vouching system. I hate not trusting people.I understand everyone's views and I would prolly say the safe thing myself-- NO. But if I could protect myself or limit the downside, I'd like to do it. This is a well reviewed mature lady. :mellow:

I really advise you not to do this Cumandgo, sure it might work out with no problems but the risk is there and why take such a risk. If you do go ahead i hope it goes well. :)

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Pay for the room booking upfront (you pay on arrival)... any expenses can be paid on check out...(she pays)

Loads of hotels do it.. just explain to the hotel before you turn up...

Its like business execs turning up for meetings,etc... We will pay for the room but any extras (bar tabs, etc.) they will pay on check out...

And pay for the room on a pre paid credit card so it cant be traced to you...or cash...

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I really advise you not to do this Cumandgo, sure it might work out with no problems but the risk is there and why take such a risk. If you do go ahead i hope it goes well. :)

maybe because the risk increases the electricity a bit -- I like a bit of intrigue !!

The key is to get the voucher transferred to her, so that the booking is made in her own name only.

I absolutely respect and appreciate yours and everyone else's advice on this though.

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I really advise you not to do this Cumandgo, sure it might work out with no problems but the risk is there and why take such a risk. If you do go ahead i hope it goes well. :)

............... and don't forget to write a review and let us all know how much the minibar bill came to.... and the cost

of the bedding and towels she swiped.

sorry..... just being silly now..... :unsure:

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............... and don't forget to write a review and let us all know how much the minibar bill came to.... and the cost

of the bedding and towels she swiped.

sorry..... just being silly now..... :unsure:

yeah... stop being silly.

Anyone with a brain would have nicked the towels and raided the mini bar before she turned up.... :)

"What towels?" "really?"

Not that Ive done that before of couse.... ahem...

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Pay for the room booking upfront (you pay on arrival)... any expenses can be paid on check out...(she pays)

Loads of hotels do it.. just explain to the hotel before you turn up...

Its like business execs turning up for meetings,etc... We will pay for the room but any extras (bar tabs, etc.) they will pay on check out...

And pay for the room on a pre paid credit card so it cant be traced to you...or cash...

The room is booked by using a voucher system . I think I might be able to get her to book the room using the voucher ! I want to use up the damn things anyway !

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............... and don't forget to write a review and let us all know how much the minibar bill came to.... and the cost

of the bedding and towels she swiped.

sorry..... just being silly now..... :unsure:

What about ' honour amongst thieves ' and all that !! I can be trusted 100% !

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maybe because the risk increases the electricity a bit -- I like a bit of intrigue !! The key is to get the voucher transferred to her, so that the booking is made in her own name only. I absolutely respect and appreciate yours and everyone else's advice on this though.

No problem mate and as i said i hope it goes well. :)

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