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Ladies, Can They Be Too Perfect?

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I look at announcements on this site and follow the links to ladies pictures however I often, while thinking the ladies are very beautiful, are not very attracted or turned on by them, perhaps they lack a little character.

A small idiosyncrasy can make them look more interesting to me. Does any one else think this?

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I look at announcements on this site and follow the links to ladies pictures however I often, while thinking the ladies are very beautiful, are not very attracted or turned on by them, perhaps they lack a little character. A small idiosyncrasy can make them look more interesting to me. Does any one else think this?

Looks are the initial lure but only one aspect of what i am looking for, offering the services i require at a price i am prepared to pay is equally important followed by a phone chat to gauge the WGs attitude where i am looking for friendliness and enthusiasm.

A particular angle the WG is posing in or something unusual in the picture sometimes intrigues me so yes sometimes a small idiosyncrasy does interest me. As to perfection, looks are of course subjective so who i might see as perfect another doesnt, like many punters i certainly dont like photoshopped pictures though. :)

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You know when I first started punting is was all about the best looking girls. Over time it's been the ones that are not the best but have some character or a good attitude that have provided the best punts. If I ranked all my punts by how much I enjoyed them the best looking ones are not at the top.

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Looks are like qualifications, they open doors, but it's still down to how the individual presents themselves both physically and socially which will land them a job, specifically to working ladies, profile content, personality, attitude, services offered, rates charged, location, all combine to make the picture which the client will use to say yes or no.

I have yet to find the perfect woman, either in life or in punting

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There is a gorgeous guy in my Yoga class. I love looking at him, but I have no interest in talking to him. I am not interested in him as a person. I don't want to have sex with him: it would spoil the view.

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Like Lara said some people are too beautiful to touch let alone shag. I always refer to these beings as people I'd like to have in the corner of my room so I can just look at them.

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You know when I first started punting is was all about the best looking girls. Over time it's been the ones that are not the best but have some character or a good attitude that have provided the best punts. If I ranked all my punts by how much I enjoyed them the best looking ones are not at the top.

Indeed. Some beautiful ladies have been awful to spend time with yet some possible less-striking ladies have turned out to be beyond sexy. The latter I find are usually 30+ and comfortable with themselves and experiences enough to know what people in general, not just men, need.

Although, recently retired favourite of mine from Bella in B'ham had it all. Sigh.

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There is a gorgeous guy in my Yoga class. I love looking at him, but I have no interest in talking to him. I am not interested in him as a person. I don't want to have sex with him: it would spoil the view.

Lovely!

I don't think men see it quite like that. But I do think that looks of the kind the OP is talking about often impress other women more than men.

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In my experience, the people I have come across who I think are beautiful (or consider themselves beautiful), don't hold much appeal to me at all, as they don't have much in the way of personality (I'm not saying every beautiful person is like this, and indeed, what is beautiful to one might not be to another. It's just in my experience). It's like having a gorgeous dress that you just put on a hanger to look at, rather than wear. Whats the point of that. :o Give me a man with charactor any day. I'll certainly get more use out of him. ;):D

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There is a gorgeous guy in my Yoga class. I love looking at him, but I have no interest in talking to him. I am not interested in him as a person. I don't want to have sex with him: it would spoil the view.

There is a thread on the difference between men and women ---- your post demonstrates a huge difference ! :D

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In my experience, the people I have come across who I think are beautiful (or consider themselves beautiful), don't hold much appeal to me at all, as they don't have much in the way of personality (I'm not saying every beautiful person is like this, and indeed, what is beautiful to one might not be to another. It's just in my experience). It's like having a gorgeous dress that you just put on a hanger to look at, rather than wear. Whats the point of that. :oGive me a man with charactor any day. I'll certainly get more use out of him. ;):D

Thank god-- there is some hope for me yet ! :)

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I look at announcements on this site and follow the links to ladies pictures however I often, while thinking the ladies are very beautiful, are not very attracted or turned on by them, perhaps they lack a little character.

A small idiosyncrasy can make them look more interesting to me. Does any one else think this?

Yes and it would be interesting to see some guys give examples of this. ( I'll have a look ! ) . It may of course be something non-physical as well an attitude,experience, inexperience,age etc etc

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Have to agree with Dexi, an alpha personality is a very ugly thing thing even if the individual concerned has the looks to back it up

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In my experience, the people I have come across who I think are beautiful (or consider themselves beautiful), don't hold much appeal to me at all, as they don't have much in the way of personality (I'm not saying every beautiful person is like this, and indeed, what is beautiful to one might not be to another. It's just in my experience). It's like having a gorgeous dress that you just put on a hanger to look at, rather than wear. Whats the point of that. :o Give me a man with charactor any day. I'll certainly get more use out of him. ;):D

DON PEDRO: Will you have me, lady?

BEATRICE: No, my lord, unless I might have another for

]working-days: your grace is too costly to wear

every day.

Much Ado About Nothing

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It's like having a gorgeous dress that you just put on a hanger to look at, rather than wear. Whats the point of that. ohmy.png Give me a man with charactor any day. I'll certainly get more use out of him. wink.pngbiggrin.png

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Give me a man with charactor any day.!!

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Yes and it would be interesting to see some guys give examples of this. ( I'll have a look ! ) . It may of course be something non-physical as well an attitude,experience, inexperience,age etc etc

Perfect looks are like a white wall. Damn boring.

Or maybe a plastic doll. It may be perfect by the numbers but it looks wrong. It won't push the right buttons in your head.

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I date sexy men, who make me feel safe. They're generally good looking, muscular & fit, but not so pretty, I'd have to protect their faces if there were a brawl.

Sexually, I like rugged men.

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You know when I first started punting is was all about the best looking girls. Over time it's been the ones that are not the best but have some character or a good attitude that have provided the best punts. If I ranked all my punts by how much I enjoyed them the best looking ones are not at the top.

Agreed - up until my late 20s, I was very much focused on looks. Once I started getting into this hobby more, I broadened my horizons and have met women of all sorts of shapes, sizes and looks. The common thread amongst the best was a warm and engaging personality and excellent service.

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Agreed - up until my late 20s, I was very much focused on looks. Once I started getting into this hobby more, I broadened my horizons and have met women of all sorts of shapes, sizes and looks. The common thread amongst the best was a warm and engaging personality and excellent service.

Yes but to be fair, certainly in my case, the looks will still be a major part of the search. You want to search for a lady you really fancy, first and foremost. That search may change daily, some days I will want to book a young stunner, another day a sophisticated mature, an asian, etc,etc but I will want to physically fancy them first off.

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I must just be lucky.....because i have had by far my best times with the ladies i have found to me are the most stunningly beautiful. Not always a 100% guarantee, and there are always exceptions in either category, but while there are plenty of stunners that rock my world, i don't feel the need to settle for less :lol:

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We can find some people are uncannily beautiful, this is quite normal. When you see these air brushed super models they are too perfect, too different from the norm. In German this is "Das Unheimliche", the uncanny, something that is the opposite of the familiar.

Deep down what most people find the most attractive is actually the most average, from average height and weight to average positioning and size of facial features.

Sexual confidence is completely different from attractiveness.

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