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Hey guys,

First post here, looking to get some advice from you.

So why possible? Because a couple of months back, I was strolling Amsterdam's RLD with some friends (high and VERY wasted). I got talked into have sex with one of the girls at random, and being in the state I was I went for it. To be honest, none of my friends "knew" my virgin situation back, and I was pretty sick of it myself so I was like what the hell. As most of you will know, its pretty horrific in Amsterdam, you're timed to 15 minutes and being the first time didn't really ease the pressure. So although i did technically have sex with this woman for a good 15 minutes, I didn't really get there (probably normal I suppose).

That was then, now I'm back in London and thinking this is pretty weird, I need to get this virginity thing fully behind me, I kind of feel like half a virgin now. So Im thinking the best thing would be ofcourse to go to some escort agency. I've got one agency in mind (because they're kind of close to where I live in West London), and I've read reasonably okay things about them here. Is it okay to name the agency here btw?

I guess Im just a bit unsure about the whole thing, I keep hearing how punting for the first time is difficult and all that. Anyone got any advice, I'd rather go to some relatively "older" woman who works for herself and I'll describe my situation to her, not sure where to start though.

So here is the thing. First, as funny as it sounds, am I or aren't I a virgin? It would be good to know! Second, should I go for an agency? If so, what should i look out for being a first timer?

PS: Im 23 years old if you're wondering! :)

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If you have put your penis inside a vagina, you have had sexual intercourse, ergo you are not a virgin. Whether or not you climaxed is irrelevant.

As for the rest of your request - not my department, I'll leave that advice for the guys!

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check out londonlydia. member here.

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Welcome to the board.

Your thinking is right - try the London scene. Many agency girls are good, so are many indies. Yes you can name - we do.

Next steps: Try what you fancy. Read field reports. An hour session seems sensible - and go with your gut. If you want blonde or young or busty or whatever - look for it - it is all here for you. But honesty with the lady on your situation seem wise. And if willing, share with the board what you decided and how it went so others can learn from you as you learned from others.

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Way to go!! you lost your cherry, now you just need to add the cream.

Enjoy your next punt :)

Oh! and welcome to the board...

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older woman eh/ ? well, two sides to that depending on who u see; they can be cock hungry some of em so u need to be sure in yourself; otherwise see someone more yr age perhaps; but yes , i do prefer mature ladies myself too.

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Read as many field reports as you can for the area you are thinking of. There is almost bound to be an "older" woman there. Call her up and explain politely your situation. 99 out of 100 of them will treat you with consideration and help you long the way.

Good luck.

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Well done, you've made the first most difficult step, what you need now is too experience the best this game has to offer. I recommend start with a one hour appointment with an independent. There are a lots out there that will be understanding and take their time. When you book don't worry about having to explain in detail; keep it simple it might make you sound like a time waster getting cheap telephone jollies. All you really need to say is that you are very inexperienced.

I'm sure you'll get plenty of recommendations but first you will need to say what kind of women do you find most attractive or have any special/unusual requirements, and what you mean by older, 30/40/50, E.g. Busty, Leggy, Blond, Brunette, Red Heads, Black, White, Asian, Feisty, Demure, anal, spanking etc.

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As a guy who did precisely what you are aiming to do a month ago, I would totally encourage you to go for it. I went with an agency as I didnt know any different at the time (I.e Purple Site), It went great but If I were to do it again I'd go with a well respected independant with a good GFE.

I would suggest that whoever you choose to book, go for an outcall at your home if possible. You'll naturally be a bit nervous but in my experience being in your own environment puts you at ease and takes the pressure off, it removes 90% of the unknowns in the situation.

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I'm sure you'll get plenty of recommendations but first you will need to say what kind of women do you find most attractive or have any special/unusual requirements, and what you mean by older, 30/40/50, E.g. Busty, Leggy, Blond, Brunette, Red Heads, Black, White, Asian, Feisty, Demure, anal, spanking etc.

For example, i like:

aged 18-20's, size 30-34 chest and 'prefer' D-E tits but B+ will do, white only, long hair, slim size 8-10 body.

For:

GirlFriend Experience, Deep French Kissing, vaginal sex, oral without a condom, if she swallows i can pay extra for it.

Duration of 1-3 hours, or maybe an overnight.

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Google Roxylicious69: she is in Ealing and is very understanding and a really nice person. Why not contact her via her hotmail address and explain your situation and see how she reacts.

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Hey guys, First post here, looking to get some advice from you. So why possible? Because a couple of months back, I was strolling Amsterdam's RLD with some friends (high and VERY wasted). I got talked into have sex with one of the girls at random, and being in the state I was I went for it. To be honest, none of my friends "knew" my virgin situation back, and I was pretty sick of it myself so I was like what the hell. As most of you will know, its pretty horrific in Amsterdam, you're timed to 15 minutes and being the first time didn't really ease the pressure. So although i did technically have sex with this woman for a good 15 minutes, I didn't really get there (probably normal I suppose). That was then, now I'm back in London and thinking this is pretty weird, I need to get this virginity thing fully behind me, I kind of feel like half a virgin now. So Im thinking the best thing would be ofcourse to go to some escort agency. I've got one agency in mind (because they're kind of close to where I live in West London), and I've read reasonably okay things about them here. Is it okay to name the agency here btw? I guess Im just a bit unsure about the whole thing, I keep hearing how punting for the first time is difficult and all that. Anyone got any advice, I'd rather go to some relatively "older" woman who works for herself and I'll describe my situation to her, not sure where to start though. So here is the thing. First, as funny as it sounds, am I or aren't I a virgin? It would be good to know! Second, should I go for an agency? If so, what should i look out for being a first timer? PS: Im 23 years old if you're wondering! :)
Welcome to the forum Fredster. :) If your cock went inside her pussy your not a virgin. I dont go to Agencies, in London they are far too expensive in my opinion. My advice is to punt with a well rated Indie, Pinkcupcakes/Natasha who posts on here is excellent in my experience and has many FRs. If you do go through an Agency check their FRs and feedback on here, i hope it goes well whatever you decide. Edited by smiths

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I'm very similar to the OP. Lost my virginity in Amterdam when i was 18 but she begged me for my 'sperma' so she got what she wanted. You're certainly NOT a virgin anymore but i do think you should book a 1hour session with a nice independant girl. There's no need to go back to Amsterdam. The UK, especially London escort scene is far superior. Check out @dultwork.com.com if you haven't already

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Wow, thanks for all your replies and welcomes guys!

Firstly, Im glad to know that I have officially joined the cherry popped club, that was a relief!

Regarding older women, I suppose I was just trying to be logical, since older women have more experience the odds are that they have had someone at my level of experience before, not that I think it will be too different, in fact as some of you said its probably best not to mention inexperience, what's it going to add anyways? By older I meant above 30, not mature. But if it was for personal preference I would definitely prefer someone more my age! :) As for anal, I've always been curious about it, but is it really a good idea to go for it like that from the first time? Ethnicity-wise, preference goes to Mediterranean (or Latin) and white women (blonde or brunette). Into slightly bigger women (not BBW though), defo into into skinny ladies. Feels weird discussing this with other people, but there is a first for everything I suppose.

Sweexy, thanks for your advice. Outcalls are not an option unfortunately, I live in a small studio alone but it's in a bigger house with other housemates so it would be awkward if I had a WG come to the place, even if I time it when no one is here. I'd rather do incalls and come home without a trace! :)

I did check @dultwork yesterday, pretty cool, its best to go through the FRs here as well, but Im finding it hard to find an FR when the ladies there have strange names different to the ones in the FRs here.

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I did check @dultwork yesterday, pretty cool, its best to go through the FRs here as well, but Im finding it hard to find an FR when the ladies there have strange names different to the ones in the FRs here.

Yes the research can be a bit daunting but you will find it very worthwhile in due course. For many of us the research is a large part of the fun. Good luck.

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Hey guys,

I feel it is only right I provide an update!

Okay, so I seem to do these things away from the country and just like last time, it was because I was travelling for my birthday celebrations!

So I was in Prague this time around and alone (yeah I know), and prior to actually travelling I did some research into Prague indie escorts. There were tons of profiles out there, but not much feedback on many, so I just filtered a list of about 10 ladies that I was interested in, and just emailed them. Didn't really think much at the time. About 3 of them replied, but the one i was really interested in didn't, so I just picked the quirkiest one (based on replies), and decided to go for it. All the pics of the girl online had her faced blurred, so I asked for a face pic which she happily provided!

I actually had a super awesome suite booked out in a 5 star hotel in central Prague, so it was a really nice backdrop. I confirmed the time and place with the lady and I just sat back. Not going to lie, I was pretty nervous the day before and on the day. Did some pretty relatively high drinking the same day as well, so by the time the WG had arrived, I'd actually drank something like 5 or 6 drinks, but I was only tipsy at best (so I thought..).

She knocked on the door and immediately went in. Immediately I noticed that while she did look like the photo she sent me by mail, the actual blurry photos online were not hers, but I didn't mind it that much, she was a 6 maybe even 7...

Contrary to what I thought and had been reading here for eons, the girl was super relaxed from the start and IMMEDIATELY started with the DFK, without me having even given her the money, she just went straight for the kill. I had to basically ask her to take a break at which point I offered a drink and told her to take the envelope. She didn't even count the cash, straight to her purse. She must have been impressed with the place, and I'd like to think I'm a pretty decent looking guy too! :cool:

We then had a shower together while doing OWO for a good 10 minutes! Straight to the bed after that, she was so open to everything, from A-level to rough deep throat, she took it all on board with a smile. Although it was VERY hard to do proper A-level (because of size issues) and she did make a joke that she was going to take a two week holiday after this. The sigh of relief followed by 'yes pleaseee' went I went from anal to vaginal after the struggle was PRICELESS. I made her orgasm several times (she might have been faking, but she had to take 4 long breaks and drink tons of water, seemed very real). On the flip side, I wasn't able to orgasm at all despite all her efforts, she stayed an extra 30 minutes just giving me OWO and DFK and I still couldn't come. She then looked at the half empty vodka bottle and started laughing then took a shower and left. I guess it's only fair, I did over drink...

The experience was nice, although so many things that I always wanted to do and we did were really overrated... Now I'm just scarred shitless of STDs, the girl seemed like she was down with everything, who knows what other freaky shit she's done with guys before.

After she left the hotel, I checked my inbox, and the girl I really wanted had replied saying that she was away on holiday and just returned. She asked if I wanted her to come over that night, it was my birthday, so I said yes! Good times in Prague...

GUM clinic in two weeks!! :(

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Hey guys,

I feel it is only right I provide an update!

Okay, so I seem to do these things away from the country and just like last time, it was because I was travelling for my birthday celebrations!

So I was in Prague this time around and alone (yeah I know), and prior to actually travelling I did some research into Prague indie escorts. There were tons of profiles out there, but not much feedback on many, so I just filtered a list of about 10 ladies that I was interested in, and just emailed them. Didn't really think much at the time. About 3 of them replied, but the one i was really interested in didn't, so I just picked the quirkiest one (based on replies), and decided to go for it. All the pics of the girl online had her faced blurred, so I asked for a face pic which she happily provided!

I actually had a super awesome suite booked out in a 5 star hotel in central Prague, so it was a really nice backdrop. I confirmed the time and place with the lady and I just sat back. Not going to lie, I was pretty nervous the day before and on the day. Did some pretty relatively high drinking the same day as well, so by the time the WG had arrived, I'd actually drank something like 5 or 6 drinks, but I was only tipsy at best (so I thought..).

She knocked on the door and immediately went in. Immediately I noticed that while she did look like the photo she sent me by mail, the actual blurry photos online were not hers, but I didn't mind it that much, she was a 6 maybe even 7...

Contrary to what I thought and had been reading here for eons, the girl was super relaxed from the start and IMMEDIATELY started with the DFK, without me having even given her the money, she just went straight for the kill. I had to basically ask her to take a break at which point I offered a drink and told her to take the envelope. She didn't even count the cash, straight to her purse. She must have been impressed with the place, and I'd like to think I'm a pretty decent looking guy too! :cool:

We then had a shower together while doing OWO for a good 10 minutes! Straight to the bed after that, she was so open to everything, from A-level to rough deep throat, she took it all on board with a smile. Although it was VERY hard to do proper A-level (because of size issues) and she did make a joke that she was going to take a two week holiday after this. The sigh of relief followed by 'yes pleaseee' went I went from anal to vaginal after the struggle was PRICELESS. I made her orgasm several times (she might have been faking, but she had to take 4 long breaks and drink tons of water, seemed very real). On the flip side, I wasn't able to orgasm at all despite all her efforts, she stayed an extra 30 minutes just giving me OWO and DFK and I still couldn't come. She then looked at the half empty vodka bottle and started laughing then took a shower and left. I guess it's only fair, I did over drink...

The experience was nice, although so many things that I always wanted to do and we did were really overrated... Now I'm just scarred shitless of STDs, the girl seemed like she was down with everything, who knows what other freaky shit she's done with guys before.

After she left the hotel, I checked my inbox, and the girl I really wanted had replied saying that she was away on holiday and just returned. She asked if I wanted her to come over that night, it was my birthday, so I said yes! Good times in Prague...

GUM clinic in two weeks!! :(

Did you do bareback with her?

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Did you do bareback with her?

No! Covered insertion! But I did give her about 30 secs of oral, and another 30 secs or so of rimming. There was lots of fingering involved. I don't why im so scared, probably because this is the 2nd time i've done this, and they are a year apart!! :huh:

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Did you come with the other girl?!This is like a really nice 'Coming of Age', thread, congrats!

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Did you come with the other girl?!This is like a really nice 'Coming of Age', thread, congrats!

Nope :(

I don't know, it could be a 'delayed ejaculation' problem that I need to get check out? But it could also be the vodka, by the time the 2nd lady showed up I'd had another couple!!

I know though right?! Reading the first post then this is so funny. I actually surprised myself in many ways, felt so natural and un-awkward, I guess instinct takes over or something, felt like a pro, even she said so (the 2nd one)!!

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Hey guys,

I feel it is only right I provide an update!

Okay, so I seem to do these things away from the country and just like last time, it was because I was travelling for my birthday celebrations!

So I was in Prague this time around and alone (yeah I know), and prior to actually travelling I did some research into Prague indie escorts. There were tons of profiles out there, but not much feedback on many, so I just filtered a list of about 10 ladies that I was interested in, and just emailed them. Didn't really think much at the time. About 3 of them replied, but the one i was really interested in didn't, so I just picked the quirkiest one (based on replies), and decided to go for it. All the pics of the girl online had her faced blurred, so I asked for a face pic which she happily provided!

I actually had a super awesome suite booked out in a 5 star hotel in central Prague, so it was a really nice backdrop. I confirmed the time and place with the lady and I just sat back. Not going to lie, I was pretty nervous the day before and on the day. Did some pretty relatively high drinking the same day as well, so by the time the WG had arrived, I'd actually drank something like 5 or 6 drinks, but I was only tipsy at best (so I thought..).

She knocked on the door and immediately went in. Immediately I noticed that while she did look like the photo she sent me by mail, the actual blurry photos online were not hers, but I didn't mind it that much, she was a 6 maybe even 7...

Contrary to what I thought and had been reading here for eons, the girl was super relaxed from the start and IMMEDIATELY started with the DFK, without me having even given her the money, she just went straight for the kill. I had to basically ask her to take a break at which point I offered a drink and told her to take the envelope. She didn't even count the cash, straight to her purse. She must have been impressed with the place, and I'd like to think I'm a pretty decent looking guy too! :cool:

We then had a shower together while doing OWO for a good 10 minutes! Straight to the bed after that, she was so open to everything, from A-level to rough deep throat, she took it all on board with a smile. Although it was VERY hard to do proper A-level (because of size issues) and she did make a joke that she was going to take a two week holiday after this. The sigh of relief followed by 'yes pleaseee' went I went from anal to vaginal after the struggle was PRICELESS. I made her orgasm several times (she might have been faking, but she had to take 4 long breaks and drink tons of water, seemed very real). On the flip side, I wasn't able to orgasm at all despite all her efforts, she stayed an extra 30 minutes just giving me OWO and DFK and I still couldn't come. She then looked at the half empty vodka bottle and started laughing then took a shower and left. I guess it's only fair, I did over drink...

The experience was nice, although so many things that I always wanted to do and we did were really overrated... Now I'm just scarred shitless of STDs, the girl seemed like she was down with everything, who knows what other freaky shit she's done with guys before.

After she left the hotel, I checked my inbox, and the girl I really wanted had replied saying that she was away on holiday and just returned. She asked if I wanted her to come over that night, it was my birthday, so I said yes! Good times in Prague...

GUM clinic in two weeks!! :(

Good to hear back from you and that you had a good punt. Sex is always a potentially risky business, you have to decide on the risks you are prepared to take for the rewards it offers you in my view. Hope all is clear at the GUM, i go quartely myself and never yet caught anything. :)

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Good to hear back from you and that you had a good punt. Sex is always a potentially risky business, you have to decide on the risks you are prepared to take for the rewards it offers you in my view. Hope all is clear at the GUM, i go quartely myself and never yet caught anything. :)

Spot on. My reasoning is this:

I don't do relationships because I hate commitment

I physically need sex

I therefore need to either pick up loose women at bars or pay for time with a lady as a sevice

Chances are the girl at the bar is way more risky. So I think I'll be doing this sort of thing more often now ... then getting checked every couple of months! :)

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Am I the only reader of this thread thinking "Jackanory"??

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Am I the only reader of this thread thinking "Jackanory"??

Oh don't be so cynical, even I believe it and I have to sift through endless time-waster 'would you do it with a donkey' type messages on @dultwork, so am always suspicious.

And even if it is it made a nice story and wasn't just pages of endless squabbling...

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Oh don't be so cynical, even I believe it and I have to sift through endless time-waster 'would you do it with a donkey' type messages on @dultwork, so am always suspicious.

And even if it is it made a nice story and wasn't just pages of endless squabbling...

I've got part ownership of Brooklyn bridge, left me by an American relative. All relevant papers for view, any reasonable offer considered....

Here's my reasoning on this thread:-

Possibility A: A good looking guy (we have his own word for it!!) who's sex mad remains a virgin until the age of 23. He becomes a fully fledged sex god, conversant with many specialist punting terms within space of three punts.

Possibility B: Guy makes a story up.

Call me cynical, but I don't think that's a 50/50 bet.

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