MinxyLydia

Booking In Advance Or Not.

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Interested to hear the chaps take on this- Do you book in advance or do it on the day or within in an hour or two?

So many girls state they don't do same day bookings or talk about being booked up. Even real life friend escorts tell me their advance bookings are more reliable. I however am different, I find advance bookings tend not to confirm and I take nearly all of mine are made on the day and often with only around an hours notice. Of course this is better than no bookings and I keep busy but is rather frustrating because I find it hard to plan my life!

I wonder if I am everyone's plan B or emergency punt!

Any thoughts people?

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def in advance; in fact i am always suspect of ladies who take bookings within an hr or two. yep, days in advance. or maybe a day if local -ish.

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Oh LL I doubt you are plan B ;-)

I have a regular I sometimes book up with a couple of months in advance to get the hotel room sorted! But generally with indies I would make enquiries at least the day before and probably book a time - but always confirm early on the day in question

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yep, confirm by phone too -- and if no phone given i will not meet !

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def in advance; in fact i am always suspect of ladies who take bookings within an hr or two. yep, days in advance. or maybe a day if local -ish.

Um why?

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lastminute.com is always xciting ! diff kinda punt i guess

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Um why?

def in advance; in fact i am always suspect of ladies who only take bookings within an hr or two. yep, days in advance. or maybe a day if local -ish.

^what i should have said.

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Lydia - I am the same as you. 100% of the time, if someone books a day, three days, a week, etc, in advance, they never come through. All my bookings are booked same day.

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Due to work and domestic planning booking in advance is absolutely essential for me. Some reputable WG's on here have turned down my attempt to book in advance (possibly cos I'm unknown to them ) asking me to phone back on the day; This makes me feel like I'm the one who is Plan B just in case their regular punter doesn't turn up.

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I don't mind short notice bookings IF they accept that I may not be available. Sadly, they assume I'm just waiting for their call.

I have to eat, socialise, get waxed, have my hair done, go to the gym & see other clients.

Advance bookings are hassle-free.

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difficult one this

i sometimes know i will have opportunity, and have a deffo lady i want to see so i book a few days in advance.

then the lady says call me nearer the tme. and when i call she is booked up.

or shit happens in my life and i have to cancel. which is prob what happens to lyd and her advance bookings that dont happen. worst thing for me is meetings at work that overrun.

or you wait till the day and she is booked up, so i have to go with plan b c d or e. Which is where parlours come into their own I reckon

i reckon its harder than getting an appointment with my GP. but at least i get longer than 10 minutes with a WG!

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I pretty much only take advanced bookings mainly with regs but then again maybe it is the way that I take those bookings, I cannot remember the last time I answered my phone other than the 9am deadline to confirm, I accept bookings via text or email but ask for phone confirmation no later than 9am on the morning, I very seldom get messed around.

I found those that rang and made last min/same day bookings were the problem ones.

It works for me I know exactly where I am from one week to the next and am able to fit clients around my other work/life commitments rather than the other way around.

Also it depends on how many bookings you want to take, I only take two max a day but one could be for three/six hours/dinner date or could be a couple of hour bookings. If I wanted to go back to the days of 5-7 I know I would not be able to get that many advanced bookings and would have to rely on answering my phone and picking them up same day.

Edited by Gemma Harris

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same for me as lara said but from a male's perspective lol; i need to shave balls/cock ; shave; groom myself -- all why i book several days in advance .

Edited by busencumen

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I would say that 80-85% of my bookings are booked in advance, as with Gemma they very rarely mess me around, they also have to confirm by text on the morning. So about 60% of my bookings are booked longer than a week in advance, about 25% a day or two before, and the remainder the same day. Have just taken a booking from a reg for October as his trips to London become clear!

I am quite happy to take short notice bookings, but same as Lara I may have prebooked social plans, beauty/gym appointments, other clients bookings, so if I can see you short notice then I will definitely do so.

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I only do advance bookings.

I have to plan all that I do in the paid sex scene very well as I have other work to do as well as the normal sort of stuff that we all do.

I don't get many cancellations at all doing it this way at all really.

I am not a fan of taking bookings longer than two weeks in advance, but will take bookings off those I know for longer times in advance.

I have quite a few guys who travel long distances, so they try to book the cheaper train deals by doing so quite in advance.

I always warn them though that If If an emergency comes up from my side, like me being ill they will have to take it on the chin.

That of course works both ways.

I once had an on the day over night booking cancel me as he was ill.

I knew him well enough though to know he was not messing around.

I think we all have to do things on both sides that works for us as individuals.

Advanced bookings for me.

Lucy :)

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As a punter that has little opportunity to get out and about now that Auntie has retired I almost always need to book well in advance when I know beyond doubt that Auntie is otherwise engaged. In fact I booked early when Auntie was working; it somehow adds to the anticipation and pleasure.

One sometimes has, though, to have a fall back plan in case the decorators arrive at ones intended destination or some other problem emerges for the lady.

Uncle Pokey

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Hmm, glad is not just me (Thank you Madison!). I'm still wondering why I don't get the advance bookings though!

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Interesting thread! Today is my first day of actually picking up the phone and accepting same day bookings! And it's been manic!!!! My first appointment was determined to see me despite me saying I was booked up and only see 2-3 people a day, offered to pay me £100 for half an hour and make it worth my while... I caved in and he was on my doorstep in 20mins with the cash and a nice bottle of wine!

I have always preferred advanced bookings for the same reasons as above but felt I'd need to be a bit more flexible now my website is getting loads of hits and the phone keeps ringing! So far so good, just have to see if the next 2 appointments turn up, an hours booking made by text for right now! :ph34r:

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I mainly get advance bookings (as I only offer incalls 4 to 8 days a month, having nowhere permanent to offer incalls from), and the majority turn up. I do get bookings on the day (mainly outcalls), and most give me at least 3 hours notice beforehand.

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I prefer to book in advance so i have something to look forward too. I understand waking up one day and feeling like a punt though.

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I get a mixture of bookings and find both types (advance or short notice), are equally likely to fall through - even appointments made at 30 minutes notice.

I do personally prefer to know what is going on in advance, because although very flexible I do like to plan my other activities and usually don't sit around thumb twiddling if I've nothing else on. I also like me and my premises to be warm, clean, tidy, and pleasantly aromatic - which needs a bit of preparation.

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Hmm, glad is not just me (Thank you Madison!). I'm still wondering why I don't get the advance bookings though!

Ditto - and I have no idea why it is like that either! In the states, I would get advance bookings all the time and they would always come through. Here, it is the opposite. It is at the point where when I get a gent booking in advance, I confirm with him but don't expect it to happen. So far, I haven't been wrong.

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Um why?

He's probably old enough to answer for himself, but since I am of the same opinion, I'll give my reasoning!

While (blindingly obviously) I don't expect a WG to "be faithful to me", I don't really like the idea of hot bedding. If I'm onto Plan C, and I ring, and am told that "she could see you at half past two, but it'd only be for 30 minutes" that rather takes the charm out of it?

If, as I have, this week, I've e-mailed a lady about a day two weeks hence, and she's confirmed it, in the course of a half hour telethon, then I have a nicer feeling about the date.

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He's probably old enough to answer for himself, but since I am of the same opinion, I'll give my reasoning!

^^lol::D thanks, and yes i did reply -- see above .

Edited by busencumen

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When I was in full time employment and travelled the country my punting tended to be fairly spur of the moment often depending on what sort of day I had or what time a certain meeting finished etc. I also used to punt as relief from a stressful day or perhaps to reward myself after a particularly good day so it was all a little bit ad hoc.

I am now semi retired, am fortunate to have little or no stress to deal with so punt far less frequently but do it simply for the sheer pleasure and fun of it which to me is what it should all be about. As such I always book well ahead. To me it is rather like holidays - yes, you can probably get a better deal by booking late (I am referring to holidays not escorts) but for me half the enjoyment is having something booked and having the excitment and anticipation as the booking (or holiday) approaches.

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