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What Are Your Opinions On Teenage Punters?

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As a 19 year old punter myself I'm curious to know what punters and WGs think of teenage punters. I know that there aren't many of us and that we make up less than 5% of punters, so I'd like to know what people think.

Personally I decided to use an escort for the first time last year, as I had never even come close to having sex before. My first experience was not very good due to nerves, I have had better experiences with her since though. I have since slept with 3 other girls, 2 being WGs.

Guys, did you use escorts when you were 19? Do you wish you had done?

Girls, do you see teenage clients? If not, why not? If you do, would you say your experiences have been quite different when compared with older clients?

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I wouldn't have dreamed of punting till I was at least 25. I was able to get all the sex I wanted.I think it is a shame that some guys feel that "easy" or "paid for" sex is better than going out to find a girl who has some feelings for you.

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I'd not recommend it.

Somehow it doesnt feel right to start punting before you've had a longer, significant, real life partner.

but I wont stop anyone, given you are all free to do as yo please (I realize the contradition...).

My reasoning would be: Learn to Forge real relationships before you go into punting.

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Mmmmh, how would you know that your age group accounts for less than 5%? I was not aware there were actually any reliable statistics. For some reason, the first thought that popped into my head was this is a typical sort of opening gambit for someone putting together a very superficially researched article or shoddy ‘documentary’.

But taking your post at face value, I reckon it very much depends on the individual client and level of maturity. I would be prepared and have seen younger clients providing they have the necessary attitude and approach me in a sensible manner. I don’t have kids so it doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable. In fact, some 18-25 year old gents have behaved in a far more sensible and respectful manner than men twice or more their age. I have probably declined bookings with some younger guys very much for the same reason I would be ‘busy’ if approached in an inappropriate manner by all kind of guys. My only concern would be that younger clients can handle the possible emotional side of first sexual experiences and respect boundaries and that contact is still within a paid context and not seek outside interaction beyond any bookings.

My only concern with seeing very young clients would that I would encourage them and hopefully help them to develop social skills and improve their confidence to actually have relationships and sex with ‘civilian’ women. I would hate for them to end up with a skewered and warped view about females based on solely paid for interaction like we sadly see in some dark dark place elsewhere which produces some real dregs of society.

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I wouldn't have dreamed of punting till I was at least 25. I was able to get all the sex I wanted.I think it is a shame that some guys feel that "easy" or "paid for" sex is better than going out to find a girl who has some feelings for you.

I'd not recommend it.

Somehow it doesnt feel right to start punting before you've had a longer, significant, real life partner.

but I wont stop anyone, given you are all free to do as yo please (I realize the contradition...).

My reasoning would be: Learn to Forge real relationships before you go into punting.

I'm completely useless at chatting up girls so escorts are the only place where I can get sex sadly.

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The 1st time i saw a WG i was 18 and in Amsterdam. Some of them asked for ID, some didn't. One said i was nice but too young for her, but i saw her if not the next year a couple after. My advice is don't worry about what other people think of you, worry about yourself and enjoy yourself. For me it was fun meeting sexy young woman but who were older then me. You're only young once, eventually real life catches up what with the mortgage, bills, blah blah blah. It's no fun but it's reality. So either start saving now or use what 'disposable' income you have to treat yourself while you still can. As a young punter i felt and still feel a responsability to prove that i wasn't and aren't some drunk lout but instead, a gentleman. I suggest you do the same.

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i suggest they stick to social networking lol :D

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As a 19 year old punter myself I'm curious to know what punters and WGs think of teenage punters. I know that there aren't many of us and that we make up less than 5% of punters, so I'd like to know what people think. Personally I decided to use an escort for the first time last year, as I had never even come close to having sex before. My first experience was not very good due to nerves, I have had better experiences with her since though. I have since slept with 3 other girls, 2 being WGs. Guys, did you use escorts when you were 19? Do you wish you had done? Girls, do you see teenage clients? If not, why not? If you do, would you say your experiences have been quite different when compared with older clients?

I started punting when i was 19 myself, i had girlfriends but enjoyed and still enjoy no strings sex where all i need is the money required. Punting wont ever match a loving relationship but if you only want sex then its the easy option over pulling, but i would advise pulling as well at your age. It can also be an expensive pastime of course but so is pulling. :)

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they are old enough to get drunk, die for their country and get married. So why not?

not sure that that many kids of that age would have the income to sustain this as a hobby tho.

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I wouldn't dream of telling anyone else what to do.. For me personally I am glad I didn't punt until I was in my late 20's... At 19 I was out on the pull and getting drunk if my addled brain recalls rightly.

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My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

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I started way way to young, in my early teens but was over 6ft and looked much older than my years.

I would have to admit that after nearly 30 years of punting there are Pluses and minus to starting so young.

The plus would be that the pressure to pull on a night out was taken away by my new found hobby, knowing that If I had the cash to satisfy my urges made me enjoy my nights out without the added angst of wondering whether Sharon or Tracy would live up to their reputation.

It also taught me to be much more comfortable with the opposite sex and made me a decent lover (hopefully)

The minus would be that girlfriends in my early years of dating were too shy to compete with the experienced professionals I was seeing.

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I wouldn't have dreamed of punting till I was at least 25. I was able to get all the sex I wanted.I think it is a shame that some guys feel that "easy" or "paid for" sex is better than going out to find a girl who has some feelings for you.

Why do you punt then??? xox

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My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

My question is, how is that relevant to punting when the two are continents appart in terms of what they offer? Unless you are suggesting this young man is deluding himself.

Punting when you are this young can offer a much needed release from all the pressures imposed by youth and can teach you much about women as well as providing the necessary experience to make an informed choice about a future partner. Turning this on its head makes sense in this respect. Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

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My question is, how is that relevant to punting when the two are continents appart in terms of what they offer? Unless you are suggesting this young man is deluding himself.

Punting when you are this young can offer a much needed release from all the pressures imposed by youth and can teach you much about women as well as providing the necessary experience to make an informed choice about a future partner. Turning this on its head makes sense in this respect. Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

Very Well put SpoksEyebrows

And to the op - I think your post was very mature and eloquently phrased. I think you know exactly what you're doing and when the time is right for you to be settling down I think you would be more likely to be faithful for some reason.

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Holly

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My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

Surely that could be said of ALL men that punt?!

very narrow minded view!

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Too many older punters have probably settled down too young and mistakenly commited themselves to the wrong type of partner due to the lack of experience. Best get it out of your system when you're younger.

Well said.

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My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

I think most of us know that paying a lady can have very little to do with whether a guy can pull or not.

The internet and button clicking ease with which a young man can get almost instant pleasure and satisfaction

is to blame for many young guys spending their cash on wgs. Many young men in their late teens and early twenties

are still living with mum and dad and have ample spending money.

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My question to anyone that young would be "what's so wrong with you that you can't pull?"

I'm shy and a bit awkward around girls. I feel a lot more comfortable around WGs.

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I think most of us know that paying a lady can have very little to do with whether a guy can pull or not.

The internet and button clicking ease with which a young man can get almost instant pleasure and satisfaction

is to blame for many young guys spending their cash on wgs. Many young men in their late teens and early twenties

are still living with mum and dad and have ample spending money.

True, and let's face it they could do a lot worse with their time and money, like binge drinking and getting into drugs etc. much of which I see resulting from the subconscious build-up unsatisfied sexual frustrations. It seems that society is more than happy to see us spend our money on meaningless shite so long as a huge lump of it helps to fill the states coffers.

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Why do you punt then??? xox

As I have said before, on various threads, I like variety, and, in case you can't tell, I am older than 19!!

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Personally, I do not enjoy the nightclub / heavy drinking scene which as far as im aware is pretty much the only place you are likely to pull for a 1 night stand for people of my age range. (Please correct me if i'm missing something here?)

So basically I don't see why I should miss out on sex just because I'm currently single.

As a younger punter myself, I always make an effort to dress smartly and conduct myself as a gentleman. I think it's a shame many WG's don't like to see under 25's (I have read 1 profile that said no under 35's!) but I totally respect their decision and can see their reasons for it and as such wouldn't contact them.

I don't really see how punting as a straight guy is any different to the thousands of gay men who use Grindr to hook up with stangers? No one seems to have a problem with that.

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Get as much sex as you can,you never know whats round the corner, "falling in love" is much more harmful short and longterm than promiscuity. Its getting married at 19 that is usually a seriously bad idea. At least with a wg, you are having sex when sober.

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I guess ultimately you cannot live another person's life, so in that respect it is hard to make generalisations.

Age isn't always a signal of experience, I am proof of that.

However, personally speaking I was just too young at 19 and actually into my 20's. Sex played zero part of my thoughts or life, for better or worse some may argue. So my feeling is 19 is just too young, you have no maturity/experience for a situation which could be emotionally confusing. However, I do accept people do differ.

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I wish I had started punting a lot younger.

I've never been one for chatting to girls in pubs and clubs - never really been that great at walking up to someone and taking it from there, assuming I can hear them over the music anyway.

I've had chances where a girl makes it obvious she's interested but I've gone all shy or cautious which probably gave her the impression I wasn't interested and she moved on.

I've never been keen on going with girls I work with (don't want to mix business/pleasure) although I might for the right one. This decreases your social circle especially if you go out with work colleagues a lot and most of the time, they're with a partner so you can't get a wingman etc.

I feel I've missed out on loads. Sure I've been with various girls but not really enough in my opinion to get a more rounded sexual knowledge.

I always feel far more confident after sleeping with a girl and this would have come in very useful when I was younger instead of nerves kicking in all the time which cost me opportunities. Having sex with a 19yo girl who looks like a model really does boost your confidence - just knowing I've been naked etc with someone far hotter than most girls in a club/pub really gives you an edge confidence wise.

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