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Bum Love! All Its Cracked Up To Be Or Just A Pain In The Bum!

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Sorry for the pun, but I can't help notice how many WGs are offering anal sex as one of their enjoys, but wonder how many really enjoy it or feel they have to offer it to attract punters.?

I have only asked for this a few times and had mixed results, a few WGs seem to grin a bear it, while only one seemed to really enjoy it. I always ask them to tell me if they want to stop, after all if they are not having fun, then neither am I...

Does, "depends on size" or "at discretion" , really mean, "I am not keen" and how big is too big?

Also, does asking for anal, up set WGs and maybe spoil an otherwise good meeting?

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Sorry for the pun, but I can't help notice how many WGs are offering anal sex as one of their enjoys, but wonder how many really enjoy it or feel they have to offer it to attract punters.?

I have only asked for this a few times and had mixed results, a few WGs seem to grin a bear it, while only one seemed to really enjoy it. I always ask them to tell me if they want to stop, after all if they are not having fun, then neither am I...

Does, "depends on size" or "at discretion" , really mean, "I am not keen" and how big is too big?

Also, does asking for anal, up set WGs and maybe spoil an otherwise good meeting?

Varies from girl to girl. "Depends on size" and "At discretion" do not always mean "I'm not keen" - sometimes they mean exactly what they say. Other times they can mean "Putting A-levels on my likes list will attract punters, but I have no intention of actually letting them bugger me".

Asking politely if a girl does anal should not upset anyone with a professional attitude, so long as you gracefully take no for an answer, and don't try to change her mind.

I don't know if you were looking for a recommendation, but dirtyprettything and My SecretLife both genuinely enjoy anal sex - they have both actually initiated anal with me during the course of a booking. Both of them can have genuine anal orgasms.

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Exactly! I say what I mean & I mean what I say. Sex is often affected by rapport & technique.

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I do not actively seek it out, but just love it when a girl says "do you want to put your cock up my bum". It feels different to vaginal sex but I totally understand that some ladies don't enjoy it. In that case they shouldn't do it. Sex, whether commercial or not, should always be about mutual, consensual enjoyment.

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Sorry for the pun, but I can't help notice how many WGs are offering anal sex as one of their enjoys, but wonder how many really enjoy it or feel they have to offer it to attract punters.?

I have only asked for this a few times and had mixed results, a few WGs seem to grin a bear it, while only one seemed to really enjoy it. I always ask them to tell me if they want to stop, after all if they are not having fun, then neither am I...

Does, "depends on size" or "at discretion" , really mean, "I am not keen" and how big is too big?

Also, does asking for anal, up set WGs and maybe spoil an otherwise good meeting?

I have zero interest in anal sex but do like Anal play. In reality till a WG has seen the punters hard cock i cant see how some at least can say yes i can definitely offer anal to you as he could be hung like a tree trunk and simply too big to fit. Such punters do exist as i know from seeing them at parties. So depends on size is a perfectly reasonable thing to say in my opinion, it certainly doesnt necessarily really mean i am not keen. If i were into Anal penetration i would personally be more cautious with WGs who said yes i offer it with no depends on your size mentioned when i was enquiring.

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I've made 5 bookings now where in advance I had requested and had an anal option agreed. The first was to try it out and the rest because I found I enjoyed it. I think I've experienced the whole spectrum of possible outcomes.

The first time was willingly provided but for a very short time. Although the girl in question gave no indication that she was not enjoying it (on the contrary), she clearly kept it as short as possible (2 minutes I reckon). So for her I am sure it was that she didn't mind doing it (for the extra charge) but clearly was keeping it brief just to take the extra cash! For me I found that it was a nice feeling, not a replacement for other services, just a nice new addition.

The second time was a 2-girl meeting where one of them offered anal as part of the standard service, but when it came to it she made sure it wasn't actually an option during the meeting. With 2 girls it's easy for them to arrange things to suit themselves. I wasn't assertive enough back then to straight out ask, especially when there was one girl who specifically didn't offer it. I reckon this one was agree to it to get the punter through the door, but avoid it if at all possible.

The third was with a girl who listed it as a standard service, had great feedback for said service and willingly offered it when requested during the meeting. She appeared to really enjoy it, but I've since noticed on her profile that she no longer offers it saying she is too petite for this and doesn't enjoy it. So she may in fact have been offering it unwillingly to get custom, though I can't see how I could have determined that beforehand or during the meeting.

The last 2 have been willingly offered (at no extra charge) and very enthusiastically carried out. Once you've experienced this you'll see what a difference it makes, but perhaps they are just in the same category as the third girl but even better actresses - could I really tell?

My other half hasn't ever partaken of anal penetration (nor much else at all to be brutally honest) but definitely enjoys anal play on those rare occasions there is contact and I know for sure she will tell me if she's not enjoying something (!). So I think it's clearly possible to enjoy anal penetration (and I have had a butt plug used on me during WG meetings to enjoyable effect, though I accept those are somewhat smaller than a hard dick).

I think as punters all we can do is make sure it is agreed in advance, checked again before assuming anything at the meeting and watch for any signs that it's not being enjoyed or willingly offered.

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never seen the appeal myself ; not really on my criteria when booking.

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I love it but I would only pay extra for it if I know for a fact the the WG enjoys it. I only go with the tried and tested providers of this service.

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I enjoy anal with the right person but do not offer it as a service. Partly because sometimes I'm just not in the mood and yes bigger cocks can be an issue. However the overriding reason is that it is not good for anyone to have regular anal sex. Look up prolapsed rectum if you're not convinced by this. Google images has a particularly fine gallery of pictures!

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I enjoy anal with the right person but do not offer it as a service. Partly because sometimes I'm just not in the mood and yes bigger cocks can be an issue. However the overriding reason is that it is not good for anyone to have regular anal sex. Look up prolapsed rectum if you're not convinced by this. Google images has a particularly fine gallery of pictures!

I read a post of Mr Divines saying they have had WGs that have had to wear nappies after doing too much Anal, what an horrific consequence to befall a person. :eek:

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I remember watching a documentary about the Hollywood gonzo porn scene and seeing some horrific injuries from anal, including prolapsed rectums. One of the nurses was almost in tears at the condition of some of the girls. Hard to believe any man would subject a woman to that kind of treatment, makes my blood run cold just thinking about it.

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Never appealed to me, tried it though but decided that only the front door was for me.

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Not my cup of tea - The other hole is MUCH nicer and is designed for it ;)

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I remember watching a documentary about the Hollywood gonzo porn scene and seeing some horrific injuries from anal, including prolapsed rectums. One of the nurses was almost in tears at the condition of some of the girls. Hard to believe any man would subject a woman to that kind of treatment, makes my blood run cold just thinking about it.
It takes two to cause this damage if consentual usually so the women are responsible for their own health, they choose to do porn so its wise to know the risks before agreeing to do things that can cause this terrible damage in my view. Gonzo porn is known as being very hardcore so surely the women know what they are agreeing to, and if not, why not. There are some scumbags in porn, Max Hardcore being a prime example but ultimately an adult who willingly does Anal really should be thinking about the consequences of their own freely made choices in my opinion. Edited by smiths

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Dear Contributors,

Technically, "buggery" is still an offense in the UK, as defined in the Buggery Act, 1533. This law is rarely enforced, except in rape cases were medical evidence of buggery can be proven. Since the Sexual Offences (Amendment) Act 2000 was introduced, sexual acts (including anal) between individuals (including homosexuals) has reduced the age of consent to 16.

I notice the females replying to this post have far more subtle views than us males :)

Lara: "Sex is often affected by rapport & technique".

I'd agree technique is everything with anal, since the rectum tightens while not in use for its "primary function".

Anticeptic lube should be used to lessen the likelihood of damage and infection, and gentle stretching will help before full penetration.

LondonLydia: "I enjoy anal with the right person but do not offer it as a service..."

If I've understood correctly, Lydia's making the interesting point that a trusted partner (right person) is more likely to be provided with anal. Establishing trust between punters and WGs is always hard to achieve, due to time constraints.

I personally wonder what's the modern obsession with anal sex? (All pornstars seem to do it now, although it was rarely seen or discussed when I was younger). As other posters mention, pornstars (and possibly some WGs) are susceptible to a prolapsed rectum, so I think this act should be chalked-up as an occasional, exciting treat (rather than a regular activity).

Thoughts welcomed...

Kind Regards,

DrSex :ph34r:

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Not my cup of tea - The other hole is MUCH nicer and is designed for it ;)

Exactly.

I wont stop anyone who does this with complete consent, but not me.

Humans were not designed to do it Anal.

(that hole has a different function)

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Exactly.

I wont stop anyone who does this with complete consent, but not me.

Humans were not designed to do it Anal.

(that hole has a different function)

(OLD JOKE ALERT)

God didn't design the female body. It must have been the local council. I mean, who else would put a waste pipe right next to a recreation area ?

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I usually ask for anal with the SE Asian escorts. Usually you can tell by the way they say yes or first few seconds whether they like it or not and then I respond appropriately. I found that girls, e.g Chantel, really enjoyed it when I also stimulated the front hole with fingers at the same time. I remember once taken Chantel up the rear entry and could feel her pleasure when I caressed her front and then got to 3 fingers in it and to her here say threeeeeeee, in her sweet accent added to ma pleasure.

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Exactly.

I wont stop anyone who does this with complete consent, but not me.

Humans were not designed to do it Anal.

(that hole has a different function)

I agree on that one though I think some girls are created better than others to even be able to do it in the first place! For me personally it is a place where no-one has ever gone and never will either! I have mentioned this before but I had a client who constantly pestered me to try out anal. I said 'ok, if you let me do it to you first with a strap-on' He never asked again after that experience ;)

(OLD JOKE ALERT)

God didn't design the female body. It must have been the local council. I mean, who else would put a waste pipe right next to a recreation area ?

:lol:

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I personally wonder what's the modern obsession with anal sex? (All pornstars seem to do it now, although it was rarely seen or discussed when I was younger). As other posters mention, pornstars (and possibly some WGs) are susceptible to a prolapsed rectum, so I think this act should be chalked-up as an occasional, exciting treat (rather than a regular activity).

Thoughts welcomed...

Kind Regards,

DrSex :ph34r:

I think you answered your own question there. The modern obsession with anal sex is due to porn as it is so common in the porn films now. :)

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I agree on that one though I think some girls are created better than others to even be able to do it in the first place! For me personally it is a place where no-one has ever gone and never will either! I have mentioned this before but I had a client who constantly pestered me to try out anal. I said 'ok, if you let me do it to you first with a strap-on' He never asked again after that experience ;)

:lol:

Best post of the month.

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Think anal sex has always been something throughout history, but before when religion had a stronger influence there was more to fear to most never dared try or kept it very quiet, but nowadays its lost its taboo or sinful perception but still has a level of naughtiness etc.

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I have zero interest in anal sex but do like Anal play. In reality till a WG has seen the punters hard cock i cant see how some at least can say yes i can definitely offer anal to you as he could be hung like a tree trunk and simply too big to fit. Such punters do exist as i know from seeing them at parties. So depends on size is a perfectly reasonable thing to say in my opinion, it certainly doesnt necessarily really mean i am not keen. If i were into Anal penetration i would personally be more cautious with WGs who said yes i offer it with no depends on your size mentioned when i was enquiring.

It should always be stated that the decision can not be made until the willy has been seen erect, lets face it, some start off small and slim and end up huuuge dont they. I always make a point of this on the phone when someone books an a-level appointment, same as owo, cim, facials the a-level has to be at discretion and decided by the girl at the time. Occasionally a guy then says he will leave it and I have to think to myself that he knows there is no point in making the booking as he knows there is something that will cause him to be refused these services. I would have thought it was common sense that these things be at discretion. I dont see the problem with this as do guys really want to see a girl who does not use discretion therefore possibly doent care what state the willy was she was sucking just prior to the next guys booking. I dont think the 'discretion' clause is a problem especially when the girl in question has numerous fr's from guys who she happily gave these services too.

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I have to think to myself that he knows there is no point in making the booking as he knows there is something that will cause him to be refused these services.

Or maybe he thinks the offer is just marketing with no intention to deliver. It does happen.

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I did an incall when I first started who wasn't happy with me saying anal was at my discretion, on the phone. I met him. He had the ideal dick for anal, but orgasmed without any form of penetration. The moral: enjoy the moment!

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