violet

Couples Bookings. Never Done It Before, How Do I Go About It?

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Hi, this is mainly a question for the lady's. My partner would like to see me with another woman, I like women so am totally up this. I would like our first time to be with someone we both have no emotional connection to and also someone who knows what they are doing! How do I go about finding a suitable lady in central london who would do an out call to a hotel and sees women as well? I would also like a one to one before to help with feeling comfortable and so I know what I'm doing. Am so new to this I have no idea where to start. Many thanks

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I will push this back up to the top in the hope that you get a sensible response soon

Good luck.

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check out couples profile with search fields on **.

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check out couples profile with search fields on **.

That will simply find escorting couples I think. But I think there is a facility to search for ladies who enjoy meeting couples, which is not quite what you suggested.

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Hi Violet,

We list whether girls are bi, and most will see couples but be sure to get a clear rate, as many escorts will have an additional rate for seeing couples. As it's your first time, just be clear about what you're looking for and you should have a great experience.

Rosebud

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There are loads of ladies on the purple site who clearly advertise that they will meet with just a lady or a male/female couple, some will be genuinely bi-sexual.

The search engine on that site may help you.

Read a few profiles of ladies that interest you, look at there photos etc.

if you find a few who take your fancy, approach them with what you are looking for.

I am sure you will realise that many ladies would need a direct phone chat with both you and your partner to ensure all is well for her to take a booking off you.

There may well be some ladies on this board who will be up for it as well, or know some one else if they are not bi-sexual themselves.

A shout out for them to approach you via a private message would let them know they could message you in that way rather than do it openly on this thread.

All the best.

Lucy :)

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Thanks, I have already had a few messages actually and am looking into those lovely lady's, I am open to any other reccomendations so please feel free to pm me. I will also look into the purple site. Thanks for all your help

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That will simply find escorting couples I think. But I think there is a facility to search for ladies who enjoy meeting couples, which is not quite what you suggested.

:rolleyes:

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consider the reverse boking facility on the other site. that gives you the ability to specify what you want and providers can bid if interested.

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I would say research, look at the independants (check out FR's as many see couples). Its always best if you actually do the booking, that way the girl will know its for real and its not some time wasting guy getting off on the idea or you being coerced. Any girl worth her salt would be more than happy to meet up with you first (although this time would probably have to be paid for).

If I saw couples I always insisted on meeting for a drink first to break the ice, that way I could pick up instantly if there would be a problem with it and would never go through with it if I thought for one minute it could cause either of the couple any sort of heartache.

Only do it if your both really up for it, rock solid and sure its 100% what you want, its too late if jealousy creeps in and it does, make sure the boundaries are discussed too (for example are you both going to play with her or both giving him the attention), can you cope with your feelings if he seems to pay her more attention and can he cope with his if she seems more interested in you? All this needs to be kept in mind, and sometimes fantasies are best kept as that remember because the reality often isn't as exciting.

I'm not trying to throw cold water on it for you though and If your both ok and know that you can walk away from it having had a great sexy time, then these type of bookings can be fantastic fun for all three of you.

good luck with it hun x

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I agree with Lucy7. A couple I met said that when they started seeing escorts, the husband could only watch. Now, they have full-on threesomes. Without getting into your business, I can see how this could be difficult for a couple where the woman is an escort & the man is monogamous, especially if he could only watch.

I would suggest avoiding escorts who charge more for couples, as I'd doubt they were bisexual.

Have fun!

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Thanks for the advice, I have been in contact with a couple of girls so far. My partner has so far only expressed an intrest in watching but I don't see why it couldn't go further, if not in the first session its something we could look at for another. When we have found the right girl I will have a good chat about what our boundrys are. I want to book a one to one first because if for our first time he does purely want to watch I really want to make it worth watching! Hopfully wanting a one to one first should weed out someone who isn't genuinly bi. Thanks again

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You are right in assuming things might go further LOL. Been a good few many times when i've known the male partner throw in the towel and leap on the bed to join in with us. I hope you have a great time together and experience some new things x

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I would suggest avoiding escorts who charge more for couples, as I'd doubt they were bisexual.

Not sure about the above statement. Why wouldn't a bisexual escort charge more for a couple? Doesn't it require more work on her part? :wacko:

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Yes, it's extra "work", but it's far more pleasurable than seeing a guy by himself. It's also a tremendous honour, for a couple who love each other to invite you into such a special & sacred area of their lives. I wouldn't dream of charging for that!

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Yes, it's extra "work", but it's far more pleasurable than seeing a guy by himself. It's also a tremendous honour, for a couple who love each other to invite you into such a special & sacred area of their lives. I wouldn't dream of charging for that!

Well that's your choice, but its really unfair to make such a bold statement as previously highlighted. A statement lik that could be seen as quite an insult for genuine bi ladies who do feel the need to charge for an extra person.

I'm not bi nor bi curious, so the above doesn't apply to me.

I'm just wondering, would you charge extra if you accepted a booking from 2 gents for mmf booking?

My apologies to Violet for going off topic here. I have genuinely bi friends who do have different rates for couples.

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I agree with Lucy7. A couple I met said that when they started seeing escorts, the husband could only watch. Now, they have full-on threesomes. Without getting into your business, I can see how this could be difficult for a couple where the woman is an escort & the man is monogamous, especially if he could only watch.

I would suggest avoiding escorts who charge more for couples, as I'd doubt they were bisexual.

Have fun!

Sorry Lara, this is rubbish, I charge extra for couples (and I know other women and agencies do too) and I resent that you cast aspersions on my sexuality and give the OP misleading 'advice'.

I don't know how you could possibly say it is far more pleasurable seeing a couple than a single guy. A couple could easily be less fun than a single men, being in a couple does automatically make a person respectful.

I suppose you're hoping Violet will bestow this sacred honour onto you...

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It's NOT a tout. I know nothing about you, I wouldn't cast aspersions on you. I explained my position, as a genuinely bisexual woman & recognise fully that your position may differ.

I apologise for any offence I may have caused you. For the record, I know nothing other than the content of this thread & I have no interest in the booking. I've passed on what I've learnt through meeting 2 couples as an escort & talking to them.

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It's NOT a tout. I know nothing about you, I wouldn't cast aspersions on you. I explained my position, as a genuinely bisexual woman & recognise fully that your position may differ.

I apologise for any offence I may have caused you. For the record, I know nothing other than the content of this thread & I have no interest in the booking. I've passed on what I've learnt through meeting 2 couples as an escort & talking to them.

Apology accepted, but bear in mind lines such as "I would suggest avoiding escorts who charge more for couples, as I'd doubt they were bisexual" do sound like you are making assumptions!

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I have always charged a higher fee for seeing couples. This is normal. It is not twice the rate ( as it would be for most men booking a 2 girl session ) but

a nominal increase is quite normal when two people are visiting at one time. I believe most if not all escorts who accept couples have this

structure whether they are bi or not.

I am not one of those ladies who advertises as bi in order to boost bookings. Nothing terribly wrong with girls who do that as long as they

can come up with the goods... if you get my drift.

Before jumping the broom into the professional world I was an enthusiastic swinger who met a great many ladies ... both single and within

couples.... to do it all for no monetary rewards for so long must surely convince any doubters of a lady's genuine bisexuality.

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I would also like a one to one before to help with feeling comfortable and so I know what I'm doing.

You could just see 2-3 ladies on your own for 30min sessions, then broach the topic of a couple booking with the one you liked most.

That's the most logical solution I can think of.

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You could just see 2-3 ladies on your own for 30min sessions, then broach the topic of a couple booking with the one you liked most.

That's the most logical solution I can think of.

That is very good advice. It would break the ice and put both parties more at ease.

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consider the reverse boking facility on the other site. that gives you the ability to specify what you want and providers can bid if interested.

Just trying to save time whilst searching the other site.

Should I be looking for reverse booking or reverse bonking :mellow: as I think the results are different.

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Hi, this is mainly a question for the lady's. My partner would like to see me with another woman, I like women so am totally up this. I would like our first time to be with someone we both have no emotional connection to and also someone who knows what they are doing! How do I go about finding a suitable lady in central london who would do an out call to a hotel and sees women as well? I would also like a one to one before to help with feeling comfortable and so I know what I'm doing. Am so new to this I have no idea where to start. Many thanks

Hi Violet, my girlfriend and I have had on a few occasions seen Ingrid at Bunnies and also seen Taya once , both had outcalls to our hotel they do charge a little bit extra for a couples booking but it was well worth it. We are looking at seeing Gabriella next

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Hi, this is mainly a question for the lady's. My partner would like to see me with another woman, I like women so am totally up this. I would like our first time to be with someone we both have no emotional connection to and also someone who knows what they are doing! How do I go about finding a suitable lady in central london who would do an out call to a hotel and sees women as well? I would also like a one to one before to help with feeling comfortable and so I know what I'm doing. Am so new to this I have no idea where to start. Many thanks

Hi Violet , we have a tab on the bunnies website especially for couples, as these girls really enjoy to see couples,

I hope this helps you Violet its a wonderful experience :)

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