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When You Really Don't Fancy Her

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Made a same day booking this week via a reliable agency.

The lass was newish on site and no feedback but the photos were tempting, the location was handy and discreet, and if you don't take a punt from time to time you find all the safe bets have retired.

Anyway i got to the very nice flat and a well spoken lass (possibly yer actual student) opened the door. The instant impression was a really nice person, but when she turned to lead the way in, I just saw this great slab of haunch and backside and lust vanished, I really did not want to be clambering over that.

As they say, I made my excuses and left; I hope with good grace and not upsetting her too much.

As said the feeling was of a nice person who I would probably have enjoyed meeting socially. But I was hot to meet a shapely and enticingly chubby lass with a waist.

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I think that that has to be your absolute right (as, indeed, hers too if she has a reciprocal opinion of you)!

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As long as you didn't actually say 'I'm sorry I don't like your great slab of haunch and don't much fancy clambering over you' it was probably OK!

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Yes I think you have a right to leave, what do the others think of giving her a little something because of the waste of time for her, such as declining other bookings and getting prepared? Did you give or offer anything? What about girls with cankles? :P

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Happened to me over the week-end -- my own fault really. Concentrated on her killer knee length stockings and heels-- that did the trick !! :)

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Made a same day booking this week via a reliable agency.

The lass was newish on site and no feedback but the photos were tempting, the location was handy and discreet, and if you don't take a punt from time to time you find all the safe bets have retired.

Anyway i got to the very nice flat and a well spoken lass (possibly yer actual student) opened the door. The instant impression was a really nice person, but when she turned to lead the way in, I just saw this great slab of haunch and backside and lust vanished, I really did not want to be clambering over that.

As they say, I made my excuses and left; I hope with good grace and not upsetting her too much.

As said the feeling was of a nice person who I would probably have enjoyed meeting socially. But I was hot to meet a shapely and enticingly chubby lass with a waist.

I have walked when the real her that opens the door is nothing like her pictures, she is a few sizes bigger and i simply dont fancy her and as i cant get a stiffy with women i dont fancy nowadays theres no point in doing anything but walking. I just say you are nothing like your pictures and i would advise having more up to date ones done and because she didnt my time has been wasted. I then ring my plan B who are usually able to squeeze me in.

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Yes I think you have a right to leave, what do the others think of giving her a little something because of the waste of time for her, such as declining other bookings and getting prepared? Did you give or offer anything? What about girls with cankles? :P

Had this been an outcall you would have been expected to pay at least travelling expenses. If I am truly fluffy, I think you should have offered to pay a nominal amount for her trouble and embarrassment.

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Yes I think you have a right to leave, what do the others think of giving her a little something because of the waste of time for her, such as declining other bookings and getting prepared? Did you give or offer anything? What about girls with cankles? :P

Its usually because her pictures arent up to date in my experiences so its her thats wasted MY time in fact by getting me there under false pretences. Honesty is always the best policy. Other scenarios where i have walked are when i havent at all liked her initial attitude which i see as a bad sign because at this stage i would expect her to be friendly, warm and enthusiastic, or when although it was agreed on the phone a service i require actually isnt on offer which she tells me when i seek re-confirmation with her about before handing my money over. All of this is a rare occurance in recent times where most WGs i have punted with have been good or better.

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I have walked when the real her that opens the door is nothing like her pictures, she is a few sizes bigger and i simply dont fancy her and as i cant get a stiffy with women i dont fancy nowadays theres no point in doing anything but walking. I just say you are nothing like your pictures and i would advise having more up to date ones done and because she didnt my time has been wasted. I then ring my plan B who are usually able to squeeze me in.

The lady I posted about was the lady in the pics and to be fair the pics were recent.She was dressed down when she opened the main door of the building which is fair enough of course but still the initial impression just wasnt great. But there was no misrepresentatio on her part and she was a nice lady and a great attitude. I was comfortable with her but I just wouldnt fancy her that much.However, the stockings and heels were first class !! :D

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Its a tricky one, were her pictures misleading or did you just not notice the butt as you were focusing on other areas.x

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I have several simple rules. 1: Don't see a girl whose photos haven't been updated in years. 2: Don't book a girl whose photos have been photoshopped in any way. 3: Don't book a girl whose belly in the photo is concealed either by clothing or pose. If you can't see her belly, then there's a good reason for it.

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Yes I think you have a right to leave, what do the others think of giving her a little something because of the waste of time for her, such as declining other bookings and getting prepared? Did you give or offer anything? What about girls with cankles? :P

If photos were reasonably accurate ( and included "body shots"), its hard to argue that some compensation shouldn't be offered.... not sure how much (probably should be a fairly chunky amount, say fifty quid. Its at least possible lady has turned away other person, or given up some social activity.)

If photos were misleading.... then walking without comp, is rule three of punter code.

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yeah, tricky one; happened to me once ; saw the ladies pics on site and she looked my type; turned up and she really wasn't ; are u still happy to say ? she asked? yes i said lol, being polite . really should have said no but it was a long commute. one of my worst ever punts !lol.

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As they say, I made my excuses and left; I hope with good grace and not upsetting her too much.

As said the feeling was of a nice person who I would probably have enjoyed meeting socially.

You did the absolute right thing, if in doubt leave it out. You were there for paid sex not to get to know her socially, I must have "walked" a hundred times over the last 25 years.

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The OP said he was looking for a "chubby" girl.

On the other hand I have heard stories from guys who say they have turned up to see girls, who look nothing like their photos at all and did leave. I've also heard "hmmm, her photos must have been taken a long time ago". For those who do walk I do wonder if they do tell the girl her photos need updating, otherwise she could just assume he's a prat who was just wanting to 'look see'.

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For those who do walk I do wonder if they do tell the girl her photos need updating.

There should be no need to tell her, suppose 4 years ago she was a size 16 and she is now a trim size 10 ------------ is she going to use her old photos, no, of course she isn't.

Old photos are meant to deceive, there can be no other reason.

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What a shame for both of you. I bet she felt awful after you left (she would have taken it personally even if it wasn't meant that way).

What is a bigger shame is that she didn't use what could be her biggest asset. For you it might have been a turn off, but for a huge amount of men out there a large rear end is a massive turn on!

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There should be no need to tell her, suppose 4 years ago she was a size 16 and she is now a trim size 10 ------------ is she going to use her old photos, no, of course she isn't.

Old photos are meant to deceive, there can be no other reason.

Perhaps I should have been more specific - do the guys who walk say "Look I'm walking because you do not look like your photos", some ladies might put the walk down to someone just being a prat and continue to think they can get away with using old photos.

Or perhaps I don't realise those using photos which aren't representative, are quite aware of why guys are walking and don't care.

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I just say "I'm very sorry," give her some money for waiting and leave. I hate to do it, but sometimes it just has to be done.

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I saw a well known mature a few months ago. Fantastic figure and very good looking. Trouble was she had bad breath! One sniff and I started to go right off the idea. I suggested 69 which with her mouth about 5 feet away was a great improvement and managed to finish.

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I have several simple rules. 1: Don't see a girl whose photos haven't been updated in years. 2: Don't book a girl whose photos have been photoshopped in any way. 3: Don't book a girl whose belly in the photo is concealed either by clothing or pose. If you can't see her belly, then there's a good reason for it.

With your point 1 if the WG is a newbie to me i wouldnt know for definite whether her photos had been updated in years though.

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I just say "I'm very sorry," give her some money for waiting and leave. I hate to do it, but sometimes it just has to be done.

Give her some money ??????????????????

For what exactly. ???????????

Suppose you saw a car for sale in Auto Trader, when you arrive you realise that they have used a stock photo which is nothing like the actual car, would you part with some money anyway. ????

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same here; v suspicious of profiles photos which are never updated; has put me off seeing a few ladies .

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Give her some money ??????????????????

For what exactly. ???????????

Suppose you saw a car for sale in Auto Trader, when you arrive you realise that they have used a stock photo which is nothing like the actual car, would you part with some money anyway. ????

Fortunately I have never seen a girl who was not the one in the photos as I usually only book through a few agencies that I know are reputable. If I did I would probably just walk out.

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I just say "I'm very sorry," give her some money for waiting and leave. I hate to do it, but sometimes it just has to be done.

Its only fair i think to give her some money, as she could of taken another booking in the meantime someone who did fancy the haunch, I think most agencies have a cancellation fee if im not wrong?

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