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The Process Of Giving Up.

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I've now made the decision, after more than a decade of punting that it is time to finally give up.

I've always hated myself for having this secrecy hidden from my partner. And the increasing fear of infecting her with an STI is something that has often taken me to very dark places. I just can't deal with that worry any more.

I'm sure the money I save will be great, and I can devote time to far more important things in my life, but I can honestly say I will sorely miss the good parts. The ability to meet and fuck girls from all over the world, the chance to fulfil bizare fantasies and scenrarios I would rather keep to myself. Most of all I'll miss my very regular trips to the Soho walk ups for a £22 blowjob. This in itself is one of the great wonders of the world in my opion. £22 to get your dick sucked by a random beautuful girl. I mean really. Why isn't this the national pastime?! When I get the chance I'm there several times a day. But afterwards the guilt is just too much.

In an ideal world I'd be able to do this in the open, but society really doesn't allow that. Maybe in a few decades it will be ok, just like everyone now seems to openly watch streaming internet porn?! Somehow I doubt it though.

Well for me I'm no longer going to be punting. Instead I'll be restricting myself to the following:

1. Sex with my partner - amazing, but not as frequent as I would like

2. Wanking over porn - Very enjoyable, and I just hope it will be a string enough mathadone

3. The Soho Peep Show - I love this place and hope it never closes.

4. Strip clubs - An expensive rip off, but the only way to get up close with beautiful naked girls on a clear conscience surely? I just hate the idea of £20 for a dance where you're squirming in your seat desperate to get your cock out but aren't allowed until you get home alone! Especially when the same money next door will get you sucked off!

If anyone else is going through the same, or has similar thoughts or experience I'd be greatful to hear from you.

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Continuing with number 3 and 4 is like a smoker giving up smoking but keeping lighters in the house. You'll be back <_<

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I'm on a girlie shopping trip & I've posted my retirement announcement on my blog on the Purple Site. I'll post my retirement on my site when I'm by a PC.

I want stability. My phone isn't ringing, so there's no point.

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I've now made the decision, after more than a decade of punting that it is time to finally give up.

I've always hated myself for having this secrecy hidden from my partner. And the increasing fear of infecting her with an STI is something that has often taken me to very dark places. I just can't deal with that worry any more.

I'm sure the money I save will be great, and I can devote time to far more important things in my life, but I can honestly say I will sorely miss the good parts. The ability to meet and fuck girls from all over the world, the chance to fulfil bizare fantasies and scenrarios I would rather keep to myself. Most of all I'll miss my very regular trips to the Soho walk ups for a £22 blowjob. This in itself is one of the great wonders of the world in my opion. £22 to get your dick sucked by a random beautuful girl. I mean really. Why isn't this the national pastime?! When I get the chance I'm there several times a day. But afterwards the guilt is just too much.

In an ideal world I'd be able to do this in the open, but society really doesn't allow that. Maybe in a few decades it will be ok, just like everyone now seems to openly watch streaming internet porn?! Somehow I doubt it though.

Well for me I'm no longer going to be punting. Instead I'll be restricting myself to the following:

1. Sex with my partner - amazing, but not as frequent as I would like

2. Wanking over porn - Very enjoyable, and I just hope it will be a string enough mathadone

3. The Soho Peep Show - I love this place and hope it never closes.

4. Strip clubs - An expensive rip off, but the only way to get up close with beautiful naked girls on a clear conscience surely? I just hate the idea of £20 for a dance where you're squirming in your seat desperate to get your cock out but aren't allowed until you get home alone! Especially when the same money next door will get you sucked off!

If anyone else is going through the same, or has similar thoughts or experience I'd be greatful to hear from you.

I wish you all the best but if i was to give up which wont be happening in this lifetime i wouldnt continue to torture myself by going to strip clubs and peep shows, i would limit myself to porn and what was on offer at home. Good luck anyway. :)

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I'm on a girlie shopping trip & I've posted my retirement announcement on my blog on the Purple Site. I'll post my retirement on my site when I'm by a PC.

I want stability. My phone isn't ringing, so there's no point.

Reeeeeeally?

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Reeeeeeally?

Yes. Yesterday's two timewasters, a few hours before I saw an exciting job advertised.

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I wish you all the best but if i was to give up which wont be happening in this lifetime i wouldnt continue to torture myself by going to strip clubs and peep shows, i would limit myself to porn and what was on offer at home. Good luck anyway. :)

I agree with Smiths on this - you have to work on your sex life at home and why not introduce some porn to your home sex life to spice it up a little? Getting ripped off in strip clubs is not the answer - you will soon be back punting.

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Yes. Yesterday's two timewasters, a few hours before I saw an exciting job advertised.

If its for the job advertised, I would understand but for the time wasters, every WG gets then. Dont let them put you off.

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Sorry, but I can't see you actually giving up when you are still talking about even Soho walkups (which although I have indulged in are frankly the KFC end of the punting market) in such glowing terms.

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I want stability. My phone isn't ringing, so there's no point.

Kind of how I feel about my business at the moment :(

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To the OP......

I wish you well.

You do what is right for you and yours.

Don't do it in a half hearted way though.

All or nothing Sir.

All the best.

Lucy :)

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1. Sex with my partner - amazing, but not as frequent as I would like

Well that's something to work on. Otherwise lessen your insatiable appetite for illicit sex. Easier said than done.

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I know it will be hard, (and right now I really want to punt!), but I must resist. I know how bad things were even just very recently.

I have to contsantly try and remind myself just how bad things would be if it all went the way my fears keep telling me it will. I really don't think I coud live with myself if the worst case scenrio did happen.

For so long I've tried to increase my sex life with my partner, but I'm at a loss. She commits to sex whole heartedly when she's in the mood, and it's amazing. But this only is 3 or 4 times a month. Introducing porn? Tried it, didn't work. Huge turn off for her.

Porn looks like my best option, and it always has been. In time I'd like to be less reliant on it though. It takes up so much time, energy and I think twice daily wanking over a lifetime can't be good for you.

Peep Show. I love the place. Wish there were more. If I had it on my doorstep for daily use I'd be a happy man!

Strip Clubs. I'm thinking of reserving this as my ultimate vice, for when I'm gagging for a WG. I actually hate the places, such a rip off, so much money for nothing, but I'm thinking I'll probably need a fix of illicit real women at some point, and this doesn't carry the social stigma or STI risks that my WG visiting habits do.

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What exactly are you doing with these WGs? Who are they?

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For so long I've tried to increase my sex life with my partner, but I'm at a loss. She commits to sex whole heartedly when she's in the mood, and it's amazing. But this only is 3 or 4 times a month.

I'm thinking I'll probably need a fix of illicit real women at some point, and this doesn't carry the social stigma or STI risks that my WG visiting habits do.

Sir.......

Some men would be on bended knee to be getting it at home 3/4 times a month you know!

I feel you just need to quit the life style if you are afraid of getting a STD off a woman you pay to have sex with.

Paying for sex will always be stigmatised, so you will have just to deal with that.

Lucy :)

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I gave up one night. :eek:

Then i woke up terrified, and in a cold sweat!! It was the worst nightmare i ever had :lol:

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Peep show? I thought those were gone a few decades back. I have seen the signs but had assumed they were clip joints. You watch topless girls through little flaps? This is better than stripper bars because...?

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Some men would be on bended knee to be getting it at home 3/4 times a month you know!

Well indeed - was gonna post that myself - but I guess our expectations and needs are all different and change over time.

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... only 3 or 4 times a month.

:lol: that would be enough to stop me punting. As it is it's once a month if I'm lucky.

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Well the people looking envious on my 3/4 times a month does make me feel a little better (but sorry for you guys!).

Peep show? I thought those were gone a few decades back. I have seen the signs but had assumed they were clip joints. You watch topless girls through little flaps? This is better than stripper bars because...?

Tisbury Court, Soho. Fantastic place. 4 boothes, 2 girls working, you pay £2/min, get you cock out and have a damn good wank while a naked girl performs on the other side of the glass for you. Can't do that in a strip club!

Next door to the clip joints, but it's 100% legit :D

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Tisbury Court, Soho. Fantastic place. 4 boothes, 2 girls working, you pay £2/min, get you cock out and have a damn good wank while a naked girl performs on the other side of the glass for you. Can't do that in a strip club!

Next door to the clip joints, but it's 100% legit :D

I remember visiting those places when I was a student and it was 50p at a time.

It just wouldn't get me going now though; judging by your GUM Clinic thread you are very easily aroused!

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I remember visiting those places when I was a student and it was 50p at a time.

It just wouldn't get me going now though; judging by your GUM Clinic thread you are very easily aroused!

I did to, in the 80s they used to smell of spunk with used tissues strewn on the floors. :eek: Like you they wouldnt get me going either nowadays, look but dont touch is fine with porn but not for me in person, its absolute torture.

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How strange....the OP is saying he intends to ween himself from punting by using strip-clubs?

I seem to be heading the opposite way, being able to look but not touch the stunning naked girls was alawys going to make me look for more.....punting seems to be that answer, so i'm not sure you should be going anywhere near strip-clubs if you're serious about giving WG's up.

Having said all of that....i wish you good luck all the same.

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Well the people looking envious on my 3/4 times a month does make me feel a little better (but sorry for you guys!).

Tisbury Court, Soho. Fantastic place. 4 boothes, 2 girls working, you pay £2/min, get you cock out and have a damn good wank while a naked girl performs on the other side of the glass for you. Can't do that in a strip club!

Next door to the clip joints, but it's 100% legit :D

But you forgot to add , with the girl looking bored out of her mind ....... please don't remind me .....

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sadly. no patch for punting lol.

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