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Urgent Advice --- Bb Photos

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I have booked a lady from the other site . Her photos and splurb on her profile I thought were great.She states she refuses BB. or indded to talk to anyone who requests BB.

She has allowed me to access her private gallery which shows a large collection of photos which show this lady is into some fairly serious stuff !! However, what has really caught my eye is a number of photos showing BB sex. !! Certainly, there are two albums which I am happy depict two different men. Another album does show a guy with a condom. I know she says she works sometimes with a male partner .

I hate cancelling but I think I should . There is likely to be a row ( thats just what happens ! ). Is there any excuse/reason that she could come up with that could justify this ? I need to make this decision quickly.

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I can only think she does not have BB with punters but does with partners presumably to keep them safe. Also could not easily get pix of her with punters but did with partners. Still not completely safe though.

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Some justifications used in Porn:

1) both were tested & certified

2) they are in a relationship

It may have been one of the newer, really thin, non-latex condoms that don't have as visible a ring.

Why not discuss this with her?

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The photos may be of her partner and ex partner.

The photos may be "staged" so they look like they are in but actually just near the entrance to her pussy.

Some condoms are so fine they look like flesh colour and if you can not see the rubber bit at the base of the shaft, that may look like it is bare.

Or indeed they may be as you think.

If you ever want to cancel a lady for what ever reason it should not cause a "row" though surely.

I got a cancellation / postponement yesterday for a meeting on Friday, he gave no reason apart from he could no longer make the day and time.

I except that stuff happens, so would not dream of getting miffed, why would she?

You do not ever need to give a reason/excuse to cancel, common courtesy may make you feel obliged to waffle on, but it is just not needed.

Lucy :)

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I can only think she does not have BB with punters but does with partners presumably to keep them safe. Also could not easily get pix of her with punters but did with partners. Still not completely safe though.

No, there are plenty of other pics of punters , bdsm, bjs etc,etc -- so no shortage of punters in photos. Just would have thought a careful escort would just make sure that photos of boyfriends/partners woud not be mixed up with punters.I would have thought a caredful escort would have no BB pics,period.

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The photos may be of her partner and ex partner.

The photos may be "staged" so they look like they are in but actually just near the entrance to her pussy.

Some condoms are so fine they look like flesh colour and if you can not see the rubber bit at the base of the shaft, that may look like it is bare.

Or indeed they may be as you think.

If you ever want to cancel a lady for what ever reason it should not cause a "row" though surely.

I got a cancellation / postponement yesterday for a meeting on Friday, he gave no reason apart from he could no longer make the day and time.

I except that stuff happens, so would not dream of getting miffed, why would she?

You do not ever need to give a reason/excuse to cancel, common courtesy may make you feel obliged to waffle on, but it is just not needed.

Lucy :)

No . Its very 'in'. There are many photos, at different stages.

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Some justifications used in Porn:

1) both were tested & certified

2) they are in a relationship

It may have been one of the newer, really thin, non-latex condoms that don't have as visible a ring.

Why not discuss this with her?

Is there any point ? She will have to have reasons/excuses. I think I really have to make a unilateral decision here . :(

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In or out........

If you do not feel happy about anything connected with a meeting with a lady, just cancel the meeting with notice.

Lucy :)

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In or out........

If you do not feel happy about anything connected with a meeting with a lady, just cancel the meeting with notice.

Lucy :)

Not so easy Lucy. This is my 'voucher hotel lady. There has been much pm'img and discussion and confirmation. I feel under pressure here as a result,

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Just go get a long bbbj and call it a day.

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Not so easy Lucy. This is my 'voucher hotel lady. There has been much pm'img and discussion and confirmation. I feel under pressure here as a result,

Oh my God, stuff ain't easy for you is it? :D

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Oh my God, stuff ain't easy for you is it? :D

Oh man ! I have bittin off more than I can chew here as well. This lady's range of sexual 'interests ' is in another league to me.I am out of my depth here but was happy to give it a go until I saw the BB pics !!

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Just go get a long bbbj and call it a day.

Eh, covererd ??? :eek:

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Eh, covererd ??? :eek:

Well, you're not any more or less likely to catch something from this lady than any other offering OWO. You can make presumptions about whether she attends a GUM clinic for throat swabs on the basis that she possibly provides unsafe services, but you have no way of knowing that any lady from which you receive a BBBJ gets tested regularly.

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Ask her about them and then make your mind up depending on her answer. Its very clear you will have to be careful and use protection what ever she says though.

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Very difficult one this, the photos could be with a trusted partner however I am not sure a WG should be having unprotected sex with anyone - this might sound like mistrust, but in reality you cannot be 100% sure of any partner's fidelity and the implications for a WG can be more serious if anyone does stray and doesn't use a condom.

What I'm trying to say badly is you can only be responsible for your own sexual health!

You could ask, or you could cancel. Things come up and part of the WG-client arrangement is 'no-strings', however fibs can backfire or make you look bad. Just a 'Sorry can't make it' in plenty of time would be enough, however you have invested time and money into this. The other option is to insist on everything covered. There is a small risk with OWO, but I'd say that's increased if one party is practising unprotected intercourse - but I could be wrong.

Never understood having photos of partners in private galleries, I would be under the impression a lot of guys would be put off. On the other hand I also imagine that many are turned on by such photos too.

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sometimes the bb pics are with their partner -- and only that.

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Never understood having photos of partners in private galleries, I would be under the impression a lot of guys would be put off. On the other hand I also imagine that many are turned on by such photos too.

I have a lot of photos with me with blokes and my hubby in my private galleries.

I do MMF meets as Lucy and Hubby though, so the camera is often asked to come out.

I have typed up words about the pics being a bit saucy and show me with others so if that is not a guys thing best not to peep.

I make a wack out of private gallery views probably due to the content of them.

Each to their own on what they like to see.

I met a bloke this week as Lucy7 who asked me to take pics at the time of his entry, he took some also from the behind position also.

Many blokes want to see themselves in the private collection pics.

When we went through them, two photos looked to both of us like his cock was not with condom on it though, due to the angle etc.

Those type would then not get put in the gallery as some would then think I was bare backing the bloke.

Lucy :)

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I agree with the girls here Cumandgo, if you are using protection then what have you got to worry about ? oral without a condom holds

an extremely minimal/no risk of STDs. Look at it this way- you do not know what goes on in anyones life that you see, you do not have any background

-you can only really go on what a person tells you. Many girls have partners that they have unprotected sex with and put pictures in their private gallerys.

It does not mean they have unprotected sex in their work life.

Also, cancelling should not be a problem if you give her plenty of notice, you would not need an excuse. It makes clients look ridiculous

coming out with far out excuses lol great granny has died etc,. WTF :lol:

Stop panicking :)

Edited by MissCupcakesx

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No , there will be no need for any ' my granny just died' excuses ( way too old for that anyway , ha ) . I have told her straight up about my concerns, so I will see the response. Her on-line manner so far has been second to none-- she sounds really lovely.

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The thing is in this game we won't ever really know who is doing what with anyone else. A WG could be having BB sex all over the place but not show any pics and state on her profile she doesn't do it. You wouldn't be any the wiser. In the same way a gent could ask me for it claiming they haven't had sex with anyone but their wife in the last 20 years and has been tested. Doesn't mean I will trust them and risk myself and anyway the wife could be knocking off men right left and centre without protection!

I think the main thing is to keep ourselves safe and remember the risks are there at different levels whoever we have sex with and how.

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I have booked a lady from the other site . Her photos and splurb on her profile I thought were great.She states she refuses BB. or indded to talk to anyone who requests BB.

She has allowed me to access her private gallery which shows a large collection of photos which show this lady is into some fairly serious stuff !! However, what has really caught my eye is a number of photos showing BB sex. !! Certainly, there are two albums which I am happy depict two different men. Another album does show a guy with a condom. I know she says she works sometimes with a male partner .

I hate cancelling but I think I should . There is likely to be a row ( thats just what happens ! ). Is there any excuse/reason that she could come up with that could justify this ? I need to make this decision quickly.

As others have said it might not mean she offers BB penetration to punters but why she put such pictures in her PG when if smart she would know it could put some punters off, perhaps she has found it tempts more punters in, there certainly must be many punters who practice BB with WGs going on the many profiles that offer BB. Apart from with known pornstars i dont want to be seeing BB photos myself on profiles/sites. Of course the logic is an active pornstar has to be tested on a regular basis so has to stay clean to continue to get work while no such testing has to be done by a BB offering WG. Who knows for definite though what anyone else your not with 24/7 MIGHT be doing, all you can do is look after your own sexual health and take the risks your comfortable taking for the rewards they will hopefully offer you, if in any doubt go to someone else. :)

I see you say later its the voucher WG, to my mind its all far too much hassle and again i can only advise you to look elsewhere. If there were to be a row to my mind that would confirm that you were right to cancel as doing so shouldnt cause a row, its your money and your choice how you decide to spend it.

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As others have said it might not mean she offers BB penetration to punters but why she put such pictures in her PG when if smart she would know it could put some punters off, perhaps she has found it tempts more punters in, there certainly must be many punters who practice BB with WGs going on the many profiles that offer BB. Apart from with known pornstars i dont want to be seeing BB photos myself on profiles/sites. Of course the logic is an active pornstar has to be tested on a regular basis so has to stay clean to continue to get work while no such testing has to be done by a BB offering WG. Who knows for definite though what anyone else your not with 24/7 MIGHT be doing, all you can do is look after your own sexual health and take the risks your comfortable taking for the rewards they will hopefully offer you, if in any doubt go to someone else. :)

I see you say later its the voucher WG, to my mind its all far too much hassle and again i can only advise you to look elsewhere. If there were to be a row to my mind that would confirm that you were right to cancel as doing so shouldnt cause a row, its your money and your choice how you decide to spend it.

I know that is the easy option but to be fair to this lady she has been really tops throughout all of my dealings to date.The deal now is that there is no voucher, no nothing just a normal incall to the hotel where she is staying.She is bright , enthusiastic-- she is pressing all the right buttons so far.

I hate cancelling a confirmed appointment even though it is not until tonight and judging from this lady, she is very different -- I want to meet her. She has killer legs also !! :D

I hope her reply does the business.

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OK..

Clear response --' I dont do it '. Pics are apparently mostly of her hubby of many,many years and others are of someone in a 'play ' relationship ( whatever that is ?) of several years ago. She says she goes to the clinic every 2 months and always carries the most recent 'all clear '. She says she is more at risk than me or any other client, so she is carefeul and just doesnt do it.! She sounds lovely and she sounds convincing ( and she does have killer legs !! :D ) .

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OK..Clear response --' I dont do it '. Pics are apparently mostly of her hubby of many,many years and others are of someone in a 'play ' relationship ( whatever that is ?) of several years ago. She says she goes to the clinic every 2 months and always carries the most recent 'all clear '. She says she is more at risk than me or any other client, so she is carefeul and just doesnt do it.! She sounds lovely and she sounds convincing ( and she does have killer legs !!

So when is this meet finally going to happen then?

I thought it would of all been done and dusted by now.

You sound like hard work to me, I would of told you to do one by now :D in the nicest possible way of course ;)

Lucy :)

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