MissCupcakesx

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Do a lot of guy's let nerves get the better of them before they "punt" ?

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I was certainly nervous when I knocked on the door to see you for the first time.

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Lovely Matrix, I am nervous before the dentist...............................................????

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I used to get a little nervous when I first started, but it was more of a nervous kind of excitement.

Over the years, it has worn off. I'm not sure if that's down to experience or me being a little jaded.

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Lovely Matrix, I am nervous before the dentist...............................................????

Normally if I plan to see a lady from this board, I usually look at their posts to get a feel of their personality. In your case, you came across as a strict and no-nonsense type of person and this made me nervous but on meeting you, my fears melted away and by the way I love going to the dentist.........shows how different we all are......lol

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Lovely Matrix, I am nervous before the dentist...............................................????

Same here --in fact I hate going to the dentist with a passion !! :angry: Pity cos she is to die for !! :D

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Do a lot of guy's let nerves get the better of them before they "punt" ?

Nope, I've never let nerves get the better of me.

In almost 4 years, I've never run away from a punt, nor (luckily) have I had problems with my trusty staff, if this is what MissCupcakesx meant by "nerves getting the better of" before a punt.

But for me the nervous excitement before a punt is one of the best feelings ever. "What's she going to really look like?" "How great will the sex be?" "Will we click?" are a few of the Qs going through my mind as I approach the door.

And even with regulars, the memories of how good it was last time come flooding back.

If I lost this anticipation of great sex with a beautiful woman, I don't think i'd carry on punting.

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I thought I'd be very nervous, but actually I was very relaxed. I didn't even need the glass of wine she gave me.

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Do a lot of guy's let nerves get the better of them before they "punt" ?

As you may recall i am not the nervous type so nerves never get the better of me. The feelings i get are excitement and anticipation. :);)

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I do get nervous if I'm meeting a lady I've never met before, but more excited nervous than anything.

I remember my second ever punt. It was in a serviced apartment building (i.e. doorman) and I got a funny look off the guy as I had to ask for the floor number for the apartment. I'm sure he knew what was going on. About 20 minutes later, just as we were naked and getting in on, there was a massive banging on the door and shouting. I jumped off the bed, I thought we were about to get raided by police and all the embarrassment that would entail washed over me, I froze in panic. The lady threw a robe on and went to answer the door. It was the doorman and I guess he'd had enough of strange gents coming and going from the apartment and I was the one that pushed him beyond his limit. I heard him shouting at her about how he was going to report her and have her kicked out and her trying to explain in broken English that she wasn't a working girl and I was a friend visiting and somehow shooing him away. It took me a while after that to even think about punting again, and when I finally did for about the next 5 times I did I was constantly on alert for something similar happening and nervous about meeting a lady, but that has passed now.

I have got nervous during a meet, in that I've been so nervous of making sure the lady is having fun too and not wanting to cum too quickly that I've ended up not being able to cum in the end myself, that's happened a couple of times recently. I get hard and we have fun but I'm almost enjoying myself too much and haven't been able to cum, there's been a mental block for some reason.

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I don't get nervous at all, a little the first couple of times. And I'm shy, could never ask a girl out in person, too nervous to do that any more.

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I get nervous making the phone call, but on the day I have no nerves, just happy expectation.

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Hiya Miss C, I get a little apprehensive the first time I meet a girl for one of two reasons: when she opens the door she may be absolutely gorgeous or she may be, shall we say, not quite all you were hoping for... (I will leave you to guess which category you fell into!!! Hopefully any nerves I had did not "get the better of me" lol :D ). Either way I deal with it by flicking the Alphamale switch and appearing confident. Something would have to be very wrong for me for me to make my excuses and walk away (this has only happened to me once, when a bloke answered the door, but that's another story!!)

After the first meeting then the answer is "no" - just a lovely anticipation of what is to come.

Let me flip the question around - do girls ever let nerves get the better of them - and if so why?

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Always get nervous.....i guess it's just part of punting for me, it won't stop me.

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No, I am a reasonably confident guy and dont get an attack of the nerves anymore before or whilst I am meeting the escort, I just get that buzz of anticipation. However,things that do make me nervous are where I might have concerns over issues of safety and security.

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Interesting to read many of the guys here are so confident, I wonder if the ability to overcome nerves and be confident can be fully learned?

I do get very nervous of all kinds of things and often nerves get the better of me.

My problem is I tend to hyper analyse things and this can lead to more questions than answers and is a very hard thing to overcome.

The first time I saw an escort I was sure nerves would overcome everything, they actually didn't and it did prove to me the natural body function can actually be outside the process of your brain.

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The first time I saw an escort I was sure nerves would overcome everything, they actually didn't and it did prove to me the natural body function can actually be outside the process of your brain.

i was pretty terrified before my first few meets but along the lines of what you're saying, the nerves dissipated surprisingly quickly.

now, there's a bit of extra apprehension when meeting someone new, but in the positive way other posters have described above it's anticipation and excitement rather than being negative.

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Interesting to read many of the guys here are so confident, I wonder if the ability to overcome nerves and be confident can be fully learned?

I do get very nervous of all kinds of things and often nerves get the better of me.

My problem is I tend to hyper analyse things and this can lead to more questions than answers and is a very hard thing to overcome.

The first time I saw an escort I was sure nerves would overcome everything, they actually didn't and it did prove to me the natural body function can actually be outside the process of your brain.

I suffer from nerves, to an extent, but it is a mixture of excitement and nerves. I supposed I am nervous that the door will open and I'm met with something that looks like a Gruffalo, so I would be forced into having to do something that is way out of my comfort zone, and walk away! I find that after a minute or two, I am pretty calm though, but that's because I'm a bit more hardened to the experience.

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Do a lot of guy's let nerves get the better of them before they "punt" ?

I wouldn't say i get nervous before a punt even though generally i am quite a shy person, but what i do get is a feeling of excitement / anticipation especially on the initial walk up to knocking on the door,more so when meeting someone for the first time..

What i have done though on the odd occasion and it's not something i'm proud of is let other factors in my life affect what goes on in the room.Sadly, MissC as you know this is something that you have experienced at first hand :(

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I get apprehensive when meeting a lady for the first time, but if I have met her before then there's a happy buzz of excitement. It's a great feeling.

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Hello Miss Cupcakesx.I dont get nervous in the way that you mean,but i do get really excited.

As a disabled guy my only worry is how will the lady react to my disability,so i don't suppose i get time to get nervous in the normal way.

Having said all that it has never been a problem,the ladies i have seen don't seem to care at all,which is nice.I would like to add that i always tell them first out of courtesy.

Hope this makes sense.

Just one other thing,to all the guy's who have had the pleasure of meeting you,YOU LUCKY BUGGERS! :lol:

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I was certainly nervous when I knocked on the door to see you for the first time.

That scary eh!! LOL :D xxx

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nowadays excited/butterflies...nowhere near the same nerves I used to have as a young man in my early 20's

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There is one particular lady that makes me "tremble at the knees" but I am not sure this has anything to do with nerves!!

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Same here --in fact I hate going to the dentist with a passion !! :angry: Pity cos she is to die for !! :D

I have an appointment with my dentist next week. She is the most gorgeous asian lady with a fantastic personality. In that uniform with the rubber gloves on she could do anyhting she wanted to me..I never feel any pain. Funnily, I always book a session soon after seeing her ( not with her!!)

Sorry if i've gone off piste a bit...

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