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Thinking Of Making The Step Up From Clubs To Punting

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Hi All :)

Been a long time lurker on this site but I'm at the stage now where I need some advice.

I've been to a few lapdancing places now and really enjoyed it, contact clubs, Redrooms in london being the best one.

Thinking of taking the next step to a proper punt but feel a bit intimidated going one on one with a girl

Does anyone have any suggestions on a nice middle ground between the two, to start off with?

Thanks

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I'm not entirely sure what the middle ground is- apart from parties- if you search on here there are threads about naughty parties on here. Although a lot of men find getting naked with other men intimidating too!

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I used to Pole Dance & am surprised that you find a load of aggressive women on a hard-sell more intimidating than an escort you can build a rapport with, one-on-one. Once you've turned up, there's no sales pitch.

Sorry I can't help you, I just don't understand the problem.

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Marillionfan- i'd never, ever go back to a lapdancing club, having been to an escort. i was at a stag weekend last weekend, and when the lads went off to a lapdancing club i went off in the other direction. and had, I am sure, a much better time for ummm maybe half the money some of those lads splashed out, without them so much as getting a third-rate handjob never mind a first-class seeing-to. as it happened the seeing-to i got wasn't firstclass but that isn't the point, hah.

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Hi, there,

My recommendation is to go straight to meeting escorts.

In my lead up to the first couple of encounters I was losing sleep with a combination of trepidation and excitement. I had no conception of what to expect when I met my first.I chose an overseas lady with a history of performing in porn movies - rather brave of me but I did not want to have the feeling of "corrupting" a lady. In the event, she was just lovely as a person, as well as in the other services. Since then I have met 8 ladies in London, plus 2 more as the second lady in a 2 females / me (i.e. duo) bookings. Every single one of the 10 ladies was able to establish a rapport with me and I am in my sixties. I can tell from surfing this forum that many of the working girls possess similar characteristics to my 10 of being smart, interesting, highly-sexed and truly enjoy what they do. Choose carefully, perhaps take advice from others on this forum and be prepared to book enough time just to sit and talk to the lady before anything naughty starts. This makes the encounters feel like a date. When you look at your encounters in retrospect, I trust that you will have similar experiences to my own.

I still lose some sleep, but only through the excitment of anticipation.

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Have you thought about going for a massage at one of the many parlours that are talked about here? A good many of them will offer anything from a simple happy ending to full blown sex.

If you tell us where you are there, will be just such an establishment recommended very quickly from one of us, I'm sure.

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Hi All :)

Been a long time lurker on this site but I'm at the stage now where I need some advice.

I've been to a few lapdancing places now and really enjoyed it, contact clubs, Redrooms in london being the best one.

Thinking of taking the next step to a proper punt but feel a bit intimidated going one on one with a girl

Does anyone have any suggestions on a nice middle ground between the two, to start off with?

Thanks

Welcome to the forum. :) My advice is to go for a punt with a highly rated WG in your area which you can find out about on here by reading FRs and/or posting a thread up asking for recommendations detailing what it is your looking for in terms of age, services offered etc.

A middle ground is really massage as Paul said, of no interest to me so i cant recommend it. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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Hi All :)

Been a long time lurker on this site but I'm at the stage now where I need some advice.

I've been to a few lapdancing places now and really enjoyed it, contact clubs, Redrooms in london being the best one.

Thinking of taking the next step to a proper punt but feel a bit intimidated going one on one with a girl

Does anyone have any suggestions on a nice middle ground between the two, to start off with?

Thanks

When making your appointment you could always tell the escort that your a novice to the paying for sex game and ask if she could "handle you with care"....

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Thanks very much for the replies everyone :)

Lara - I think the main reason is that in a strip club I have always been with a group of friends and had a fair amount to drink before I go, so it's a bit easier. If I went with a WG I would probably not drink as much beforehand and would obviously be on my own.

Parties sound interesting but the idea of blokes that I don't know being there does sound offputting at the moment.

Paul, thanks for the suggestion on the massage, does sound like a good option. I will take a look at some of the field reports in my area to get a feel for whats out there. Wouldn't want to go with the cheapest really I guess you get what you pay for.

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Thanks very much for the replies everyone :)

Lara - I think the main reason is that in a strip club I have always been with a group of friends and had a fair amount to drink before I go, so it's a bit easier. If I went with a WG I would probably not drink as much beforehand and would obviously be on my own.

Parties sound interesting but the idea of blokes that I don't know being there does sound offputting at the moment.

Paul, thanks for the suggestion on the massage, does sound like a good option. I will take a look at some of the field reports in my area to get a feel for whats out there. Wouldn't want to go with the cheapest really I guess you get what you pay for.

deffo dont turn up bladdered or your punt will be over in 3/10ths of a second. You dont need it. Just book, turn up and enjoy as punters have been doing for millenia.

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Thanks very much for the replies everyone :)

Wouldn't want to go with the cheapest really I guess you get what you pay for.

That's why us old hands advocate lots of research. If you find what you think may be right for you, feel free to ask on here, and those in the know will tell it straight.

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Thanks very much for the replies everyone :) Lara - I think the main reason is that in a strip club I have always been with a group of friends and had a fair amount to drink before I go, so it's a bit easier. If I went with a WG I would probably not drink as much beforehand and would obviously be on my own. Parties sound interesting but the idea of blokes that I don't know being there does sound offputting at the moment. Paul, thanks for the suggestion on the massage, does sound like a good option. I will take a look at some of the field reports in my area to get a feel for whats out there. Wouldn't want to go with the cheapest really I guess you get what you pay for.

In punting you dont necessarily get what you pay for, it depends on the attitude of the WG you punt with. If good you will get a good punt, if bad the punt will be bad and both scenarios are in no way linked to what a WG charges in my 29 years of punting.

Research is the key to increasing your odds of a good punt, i have had fantastic punts at £80-150 an hour, i dont need to pay more to locate good or better WGs although will always consider paying up to £200 an hour for a WG that i fancy and who rate enough to justify paying that rate, £180 an hour being the most i have paid in recent years.

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Take the plunge man! Scary at first, but once you've done it...!

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Marillionfan- i'd never, ever go back to a lapdancing club, having been to an escort. i was at a stag weekend last weekend, and when the lads went off to a lapdancing club i went off in the other direction. and had, I am sure, a much better time for ummm maybe half the money some of those lads splashed out, without them so much as getting a third-rate handjob never mind a first-class seeing-to. as it happened the seeing-to i got wasn't firstclass but that isn't the point, hah.

Fully agree. I guess the main advantage of a lapdancing club is that you can check out the ladies up close before asking one you fancy for a private dance, but the escort experience should usually be much better, although it may take a few goes before getting a really great punt. There is a lot of photo-shopping, false description of services etc.out there, which is why the info. available on this site really helps.

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In punting you dont necessarily get what you pay for, it depends on the attitude of the WG you punt with. If good you will get a good punt, if bad the punt will be bad and both scenarios are in no way linked to what a WG charges in my 29 years of punting.

Research is the key to increasing your odds of a good punt, i have had fantastic punts at £80-150 an hour, i dont need to pay more to locate good or better WGs although will always consider paying up to £200 an hour for a WG that i fancy and who rate enough to justify paying that rate, £180 an hour being the most i have paid in recent years.

Which leads me to another question actually - how much roughly do people spend on punting per month? I am not badly off but have a tendancy to get addicted to things quite easily, so worried about the effect on the bank balance as well.

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lapdances etc: never seen the point.

going there "with the lads" doesnt make it any cheaper or less frustrating.

Escorting: best VFM.

but escorting is best done in private. those how get to know about your hobby may become a risk later on.

think how many of your mates from 5 year ago you can still trust ? and what will they let loose Bragging while intoxicated...

Have fun, stay safe.

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Which leads me to another question actually - how much roughly do people spend on punting per month? I am not badly off but have a tendancy to get addicted to things quite easily, so worried about the effect on the bank balance as well.

If you are on a budget as i was in my early punting days it was all about self control for me, unfortunately i didnt have much of that. :eek: There have been threads regarding what other punters spend a month, i was spending £3000-5000 a month in 2008 but have reigned it in but i spend what i wish but my underlining principle NOWADAYS is to look for VFM. Punting can most certainly get addictive in my experience, if you realize this now it might help you. :)

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If you are on a budget as i was in my early punting days it was all about self control for me, unfortunately i didnt have much of that. :eek: There have been threads regarding what other punters spend a month, i was spending £3000-5000 a month in 2008 but have reigned it in but i spend what i wish but my underlining principle NOWADAYS is to look for VFM. Punting can most certainly get addictive in my experience, if you realize this now it might help you. :)

3000-5000 a month! Wow, its like spending the whole salary on punting. I limit myself to about 250-300 a month and I am thinking of reducing it.

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3000-5000 a month! Wow, its like spending the whole salary on punting. I limit myself to about 250-300 a month and I am thinking of reducing it.

That was the year i discovered the heaven on earth that is LMP, i was then a junkie wanting my fix for a long time, and worth every penny to me. ;)

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If you are on a budget as i was in my early punting days it was all about self control for me, unfortunately i didnt have much of that. :eek: There have been threads regarding what other punters spend a month, i was spending £3000-5000 a month in 2008 but have reigned it in but i spend what i wish but my underlining principle NOWADAYS is to look for VFM. Punting can most certainly get addictive in my experience, if you realize this now it might help you. :)

:eek: :eek: :eek: That's way too much!! I can afford 1000/month but would rather not spend it all!!

I have pretty good IT/finance skills so thinking of making a spreadsheet with a financial plan for punting!

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:eek: :eek: :eek: That's way too much!! I can afford 1000/month but would rather not spend it all!!

I have pretty good IT/finance skills so thinking of making a spreadsheet with a financial plan for punting!

I have read some punters do spreadsheets so if it helps you to keep a grip on your punting expenditure why not. :)

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:eek: :eek: :eek: That's way too much!! I can afford 1000/month but would rather not spend it all!!

I have pretty good IT/finance skills so thinking of making a spreadsheet with a financial plan for punting!

Marillion, if the money is an issue, making a spreadsheet can be a very useful (and sobering) way of keeping track of your expenditure. As smiths said, there is another thread called something like "2011 punting accounts" where some punters have listed their expenditure.

In answer to you're earlier question, in 2011 I spent £9,400 - a personal high for me, which equates to £780/month. I have the added problem of keeping my expensive habit from my wife. I have been punting for almost 4 years.

I've no idea how this compares to other guys here. I know of one gentleman who stopped in December having spent £100,000 pursuing his hobby.

I will be trying to reduce my expenditure in the near future, because I am concerned I have become quite addicted. During intense periods I have had, for example, 7 different girls in a 8 days, and it just becomes a blur of lies, train jouneys, showers, beautiful women, great sex, more showers, more lies etc.

The expression "less is more" makes a lot of sense, imho.

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Hi All :)

Been a long time lurker on this site but I'm at the stage now where I need some advice.

I've been to a few lapdancing places now and really enjoyed it, contact clubs, Redrooms in london being the best one.

Thinking of taking the next step to a proper punt but feel a bit intimidated going one on one with a girl

Does anyone have any suggestions on a nice middle ground between the two, to start off with?

Thanks

If you're looking for a middle ground between lapdancing and punting, then there are some events in the London area that may cater for your wishes.

These events have floor shows, and private dances where extras are offered. These events are illegal of course, and don't take place at licensed lap dancing venues.

There is a marked difference in quality of the dancers between these events, and they are certainly not cheaper than punting. If I were you I'd take the plunge and move straight to punting.

PM me if you want details about some of these events.

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Marillion, if the money is an issue, making a spreadsheet can be a very useful (and sobering) way of keeping track of your expenditure. As smiths said, there is another thread called something like "2011 punting accounts" where some punters have listed their expenditure. In answer to you're earlier question, in 2011 I spent £9,400 - a personal high for me, which equates to £780/month. I have the added problem of keeping my expensive habit from my wife. I have been punting for almost 4 years. I've no idea how this compares to other guys here. I know of one gentleman who stopped in December having spent £100,000 pursuing his hobby. I will be trying to reduce my expenditure in the near future, because I am concerned I have become quite addicted. During intense periods I have had, for example, 7 different girls in a 8 days, and it just becomes a blur of lies, train jouneys, showers, beautiful women, great sex, more showers, more lies etc. The expression "less is more" makes a lot of sense, imho.

Very sage advice Reverend. I agree through my own punting that less is more especially after a sustained period of punting where i was starting to get jaded and not always feeling my punting vibe, its an expensive pastime when you arent really enjoying it as you were and in my view should. Took a six month semi-break in autumn 2010 till early 2011, i did have a few punts with regulars and at parties in that time but no where as much as before and came back refreshed and ready to punt immediately finding my vibe. :)

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deffo dont turn up bladdered or your punt will be over in 3/10ths of a second. You dont need it. Just book, turn up and enjoy as punters have been doing for millenia.

Yep - as you may well me turned away at the door if you turn up whiffing of booze. If you feel you'd need a little Dutch courage, take along a bottle of wine and have a quick drink while you have a nerve settling chat with the lady you choose.

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