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Just wondering what percentage of punts leave you feeling empty or disappointed?

Once a good WG is found then I guess we stick with her, but i reckon a good percentage of punts become a once only between the punter and WG for a number of reasons ranging from a poor service to no connection

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Just wondering what percentage of punts leave you feeling empty or disappointed?

Once a good WG is found then I guess we stick with her, but i reckon a good percentage of punts become a once only between the punter and WG for a number of reasons ranging from a poor service to no connection

I have come across WGs who do everything I desire in a punt but I leave the appointments feeling something was lacking. I prefer seeing ladies who are outgoing coz I am a quiet person by nature.

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Yeah i get what you mean sometimes there is just that somethig missing and you think to yourself i could have got more for my money elsewhere

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I instinctively know, as I walk away from a punt, whether or not I will return and see her again. For me, its a spur of the moment decision based on the impact which the preceeding hour has left on me.

The majority of the WGs I see I dont pay a return visit to - not cos they've given a poor service. If anything, its the opposite. I've enjoyed all my punts and never had a bad service from a WG. Its just that I set my "I shall return" barrier too high ...... after all, there's far too many beautiful women out there if I'm going to reach my goal of meeting them all :)

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Just wondering what percentage of punts leave you feeling empty or disappointed? Once a good WG is found then I guess we stick with her, but i reckon a good percentage of punts become a once only between the punter and WG for a number of reasons ranging from a poor service to no connection

About 10% overall approx but none for a long time which is a combination of research and personal recommendations from punters i know and trust which is as ever much appreciated. All my bad punts are because the SP has a bad attitude, all my good punts are because the SP has a good or better attitude.

I never just stick with one WG as i like variety, so my ideal is a mixture of good regulars and newbies to me. In the main its a great pastime, only golf comes near it to me.

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Just wondering what percentage of punts leave you feeling empty or disappointed?

Once a good WG is found then I guess we stick with her, but i reckon a good percentage of punts become a once only between the punter and WG for a number of reasons ranging from a poor service to no connection

Probably about 15% at a guess. But many more just do not remain in the mind as memorable enough to make me want to return. This is especially so when you've had someone very good at her job who ticks all the boxes. These days I punt less often and prefer to stick with the one gem I know will provide just what I want in terms of looks, service, price and demeanour.

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It's mostly down to attitude. Obviously you have to be attracted, but if I feel you've both enjoyed it (even if she's just a very good actress), for me that's the difference between a good and bad punt, and leaving with a spring in your step or disappointed.

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It's mostly down to attitude. Obviously you have to be attracted, but if I feel you've both enjoyed it (even if she's just a very good actress), for me that's the difference between a good and bad punt, and leaving with a spring in your step or disappointed.

Or in my case after a good punt a shuffling back to my car rather than a spring in my step, but i feel great about the experience i have had. :)

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I guess that sometimes having too high expectations also leads to that deflated feeling as the bar has been set too high.

When having low expectations perhaps it is easier to exceed and therefore ensures one leaves happier...

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I suppose it breaks down to about 25% in the hopeless and useless.

50% who provision a serviceable bonk with a variety of skills and willingness.

25% with whom there is a real special connection and we both get something quite special from it.

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It's interesting reading this as I've not had the best of experiences overall so far and I'm beginning to see a pattern:

5 punts. 1 Amazing. 3 Average. 1 Awful.

Of those five punts, one was a British girl. All but one of the others were Eastern European. The one that was amazing was the British girl.

What did all the non-British girls have in common? Difficulty communicating. A lack of a connection because half the time I find myself struggling to explain what it is that I want, whilst looking at the confused blank expression on her face. Wow, how to kill the moment.

I think it's more than just English not being their first language though. I seem to find Eastern European girls a little odd - like they're not all there. A bit distant and cold. They certainly don't seem to be able to strike up easy flowing conversation and I never feel like they truly engage with you. Put simply, they don't seem to want me to believe that they're having fun. It's all about the money money money!

So yes, whilst sex is fine, I've only had one sexual encounter with an Escort that I've loved. And that even goes for the threesome I had yesterday with two Slovakian girls - what a let down that was. Between the hand-job that nearly burst the blood vessels in Mr Winky and the moment towards the end where they tried to explain that I'd penetrated both of them twice now and they usually stop at that point. WTF! Not to mention spending five minutes trying to explain want a FMF sandwich was and then them getting it wrong. Gah!

It's totally put me off Escorts for now. If I do get the urge again then it will absolutely 100% be with a British girl. And bonus points for a profile not written in TEXT SPEAK!!!!!!

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Just wondering what percentage of punts leave you feeling empty or disappointed?

If I enjoy a visit to a WG, then I never feel disappointed. I only feel that way when it has been a crap time and I feel I have wasted my money.

I guess that I can categorise my thought on leaving a punt with a girl I have just seen for the first time in terms of one of the statements below :

1) I must see that girl again (always resulting in a repeat)

2) I would quite like to see that girl again (sometimes resulting in a repeat)

3) I might see that girl again (rarely resulting in a repeat)

4) I couldn't be arsed whether I see her or not again (never resulting in a repeat)

5) Never in a month of sundays will I see her again (usually involves having a good long shower and booking one of my regs for the next time)

When I first started this game (it seems to be called punting around here, I can understand why), I reckon my sessions split pretty evenly across the range. Now that I am a few years in, my radar is much better calibrated and I guess it's only about one in twenty. The reviews on places like here help enormously, but experience definitely comes into it.

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Personally, almost all of mine in the last 2years, maybe close to 3 now have left me unsatisfied/disappointed, and on a few occasions more frustrated than before I met the girl!

The odd couple that I have enjoyed, the girls have retired/got boyfriends and made to stop etc.

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Of the, roughly, 40 punts that I've had over the years only 2 really stick in my mind for the wrong reason; on both occasions I'd come away without coming and was against the clock.

The first was in a parlour, £35 for 20 mins, a young Eastern European girl, early 20s and really sweet. The poor girl was so worried about over-running the time because, she said, the management would charge her more (there was actually a knock on the door as a reminder of the time) that for the last 5 minutes she checked her watch every minute and despite expending huge amounts of energy in the effort I just couldn't complete. Stuffing hard-on back into trousers I left feeling cheated.

The second was completely different, an independent at £150 an hour. I'd seen her before and she was absolutely heavenly, I could have died for her. The first time I'd seen her I'd had a fantasic time which ended with a really powerful, memorable, climax. The second time - nothing. Most of the punt was great but for me it does have to end with a climax and I was banging away for what seemed like an age in various positions and it just wouldn't happen. And to just kill it dead, she'd set the alarm clock!!! She obviously had another booking and was determined not to over-run so I left with a full hard-on and feeling very yesterday's man.

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Sometimes you have high expectations based on a girls reputation and reports. I usually research my choice carefully and when I saw a well known escort, who is often the industry's spokesperson, was touring in my area I quickly made a booking. A lovely highly intelligent girl who would be a great dinner companion but I felt she did not put the effort into the physical side of our hour. I felt let down because I had had such high expectations.

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Some punts leave me feeling unsatisfied but i have to admit once or twice is down to me.

Some times i go after a shitty day at work - or in the middle of the day :) and i just know i am being arkward - not in an abusive way just obtuse so they are never going to win! They are never going to satisfy me when i've got Todd the stupid human resources guy on my mind.

I can count on one hand the amount of times i have been disappointed by a wg. And i am perpetually empty lol

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It's interesting reading this as I've not had the best of experiences overall so far and I'm beginning to see a pattern:

5 punts. 1 Amazing. 3 Average. 1 Awful.

Of those five punts, one was a British girl. All but one of the others were Eastern European. The one that was amazing was the British girl.

What did all the non-British girls have in common? Difficulty communicating. A lack of a connection because half the time I find myself struggling to explain what it is that I want, whilst looking at the confused blank expression on her face. Wow, how to kill the moment.

I think it's more than just English not being their first language though. I seem to find Eastern European girls a little odd - like they're not all there. A bit distant and cold. They certainly don't seem to be able to strike up easy flowing conversation and I never feel like they truly engage with you. Put simply, they don't seem to want me to believe that they're having fun. It's all about the money money money!

So yes, whilst sex is fine, I've only had one sexual encounter with an Escort that I've loved. And that even goes for the threesome I had yesterday with two Slovakian girls - what a let down that was. Between the hand-job that nearly burst the blood vessels in Mr Winky and the moment towards the end where they tried to explain that I'd penetrated both of them twice now and they usually stop at that point. WTF! Not to mention spending five minutes trying to explain want a FMF sandwich was and then them getting it wrong. Gah!

It's totally put me off Escorts for now. If I do get the urge again then it will absolutely 100% be with a British girl. And bonus points for a profile not written in TEXT SPEAK!!!!!!

That's not my experience with the EE girls. It may be because I generally choose more mature ladies but possibly because I select some on the basis of reviews where the girls have shown a sense of humour. That suggests to me that they have no problem with understanding the English language or holding up a conversation. I did meet a younger EE independent but we exchanged e-mails first and her understanding was excellent.

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