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Out of interest why is it that some WG's will not kiss. When you think of the relationship between the 2 people I find it difficult to understand when the lady says to me no kissing....this I find as a turn off and makes the meeting very robotic

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Out of interest why is it that some WG's will not kiss. When you think of the relationship between the 2 people I find it difficult to understand when the lady says to me no kissing....this I find as a turn off and makes the meeting very robotic

I know a few ladies who prefer to reserve kissing for their private love/sex lives. It's all a matter of personal choice.

I am happy to kiss till the cows come home provided the gent's breath has been freshened immediately prior to the meeting (quite a few seem to think this is unnecessary and then wonder why I'm not thrilled to have their garlicky tongue caressing my tonsils? :P). Nothing nicer than a gent who comes packing his own mouthwash or mints and comes at you with deliciously clean breath. Yum.

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Out of interest why is it that some WG's will not kiss. When you think of the relationship between the 2 people I find it difficult to understand when the lady says to me no kissing....this I find as a turn off and makes the meeting very robotic

I require kissing preferably DFK at all my punts as its my favourite service, and i seek clear and concise confirmation thats it is available as advertised. Clearly if i had bad breath or worse in reality it might not be offered so i ensure i dont. I usually do get whats advertised but when DFK either isnt actually on offer or its just a peek it does spoil my vibe.

In my early punting days up to the 90s kissing was virtually never on offer, the WGs of the time always used to say that was too intimate and only for their partners. I can only assume some feel the same now and others just dont want to offer it to punters, their choice of course just like any service they offer. I want the kissing to be full-on so i really want the WG to at least appear to comfortable offering it.

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Have you honestly never met a woman you'd fuck but not kiss? I have, oral hygiene is very important to me and you cant very well go "oh there *insert name* you could do with a bit of listerine and a spot of floss wouldnt go amiss" it's easier just to politely say you dont kiss.

I know a few wgs (the beautiful Julia Roberts aside) who have said it's too personal. Which is interesting considering because sex is personal but i see what they mean to a certain extent. It's intimate having your face all squashed up in another persons..

I do agree kissing makes the experience nicer, more natural but it's not a deal breaker for me. Someone else posting earlier didn't want to see a girl who didn't do everything protected, we all have our preferences as do the girls

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Good question. As well as WGs wanting to reserve DFK for their private lives as mentioned above, do some abstain on health grounds (e.g wishing to reduce exposure to sundry viruses/bacteria)?

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I offer kissing, in general if kissing does not occur it almost feels as if something is missing from the process! However, it's not bad breath that I have to deal with very often (thank you boys!) as much as bad kissers! Some guys kiss so you can't breathe, some slobber like puppies and some bite, some swirl their tongue about like they are pretending to be a washing machine and so on! I do persevere because, well it is part if the service and try to guide them subtly, but usually to no avail and to be honest if it's really appalling then I will try to minimise the amount of kissing that occurs without him noticing I am doing this! :)

i do wonder though- are some people simply 'bad' kissers or do we all have our own preferred way of being kissed or no kissing is bad, just incompatibility?

The things I save for my partner are a. my love and b. being allowed under my duvet!

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I couldn't begin to contemplate a meeting without kissing or indeed DFK. Nothing like it to get a liaison started in the right way. I'm always freshly brushed (despite advice against brushing teeth too close to the meeting time) & minted & mouth washed. I will also occasionally chew gum up to the very last minute before meeting a Lady, although disposal can be a problem. Never had to stick my gum behind my ear yet, or keep it inside my cheek for 2 or 3 hours :eek: . Also have yet to stick it on a headboard!! But kissing, especially if the Lady goes for it herself in a passionate way, sets me up for a great meeting from the start.

Met a Lady a good few years ago now who claimed to kiss. When i arrived, she did, but her lips stayed closed tight. i could have almost understood no DFK, but a closed lip kiss is worse than none at all. Horrible.

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I think it is all down to personal choice I enjoy kissing its part of all the fun

and enjoying the moment.

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It's personal choice of course, but I do think it must make a meet very stilted if you have rules like that. "Don't touch me there, no kissing", as longwalker says, it must feel quite robotic. I love kissing, it's fabulous, and it immediately makes you feel very intimate with the person you are with. Is pretty much the first thing I do, I wouldn't know how to get started without that to be honest.

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It is understandable that some of the better looking WGs would not want to kiss an ugly, bald fat punter with dodgy teeth and less than fresh breath IMO.

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It's personal choice of course, but I do think it must make a meet very stilted if you have rules like that. "Don't touch me there, no kissing", as longwalker says, it must feel quite robotic. I love kissing, it's fabulous, and it immediately makes you feel very intimate with the person you are with. Is pretty much the first thing I do, I wouldn't know how to get started without that to be honest.

thanks Lovelyslut, that is exactly how I feel.........its like giving someone a nice big smile and saying hello

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It is understandable that some of the better looking WGs would not want to kiss an ugly, bald fat punter with dodgy teeth and less than fresh breath IMO.

But an ugly WG (if such a thing exists) would? :huh:

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I must say that after the most wonderful rimming last week the thought of DFK with the same lady after her seeing a few chaps before me does make me feel a little different about a lengthy passionate kiss!! Is that wrong? and I do appreciate that if I saw her first thing then she may well have been doing much the same with a partner..

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I must say that after the most wonderful rimming last week the thought of DFK with the same lady after her seeing a few chaps before me does make me feel a little different about a lengthy passionate kiss!! Is that wrong? and I do appreciate that if I saw her first thing then she may well have been doing much the same with a partner..

Its not a matter of right or wrong, its how you feel about it. My view is if i concerned myself with what a WG could be doing when i am not with her that would spoil my punting vibe so as long as she doesnt advertise BB penetration i dont worry myself about it. :)

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It is understandable that some of the better looking WGs would not want to kiss an ugly, bald fat punter with dodgy teeth and less than fresh breath IMO.

Ugly bald fat punter with dodgy teeth?

Just my cup of tea!

Bad breathed one, no thanks.

Look, we put ourselves in the market place to do what we say we do on the tin.

We are not really in a position to say no just if a guy is ugly bald and fat are we.

Who cares is a guy is ugly bald and fat, they can be way better than a good looking full haired slim jim.

If you don't want to do it with every Tom Dick or Harry, take it off the list of things you do then.

Bad breath is never good, but a good escort can get her gentleman caller to sort himself out in that department without offending him surely.

Lucy :)

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Nice one Lucy, anytime I am visiting a lady I would always go freshly showered, shaven (facially) with teeth freshly brushed as if I was going on a date......surely this is good manners

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Well, entirely the opposite of this......a lot of my clients, well, the vast majority to be honest, want my 'evil domme bitch' thing. I love BDSM, but my style is a bit different to a lot of dommes, because I'm very interested in sensation play, and very sensual in the way I domme.

So, there is kissing in between the spanking and bondage and teasing. I have had 2 clients so far say to me....."It was fabulous, but.....could you not kiss me, cos it feels a bit wierd?" Lol, because they want more the cruel aloof domme thing. I just have to say to them, "Look pet, that's my style, if you don't like it, go and have a look for someone who will thrash your arse, refuse to touch your cock, and not kiss you." To be fair, they both very meekly said "Okay, sorry", and have returned.

So it can work both ways.

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But an ugly WG (if such a thing exists) would? :huh:

Rose I cannot answer that because I choose only the very pretty ones, that’s my prerogative. If I can’t afford a Ferrari I must hire one if I want to experience what it is like. Anyone can get a shag, but when one wants to punch above one’s weight that privilege must be paid for.

I must say that after the most wonderful rimming last week the thought of DFK with the same lady after her seeing a few chaps before me does make me feel a little different about a lengthy passionate kiss!! Is that wrong? and I do appreciate that if I saw her first thing then she may well have been doing much the same with a partner..

You make a good point, I have had a few who come bounding up as soon as they enter the room sticking their tongue down my throat with a mouth stinking of fags and a fusty cum-like taste after a day’s rimming and cock sucking. Sensual DFK takes on a whole new meaning then, it’s not nice and I wonder what kind of girlfriend experience fits that bill.

Ugly bald fat punter with dodgy teeth?

Just my cup of tea!

Bad breathed one, no thanks.

Look, we put ourselves in the market place to do what we say we do on the tin.

We are not really in a position to say no just if a guy is ugly bald and fat are we.

Who cares is a guy is ugly bald and fat, they can be way better than a good looking full haired slim jim.

If you don't want to do it with every Tom Dick or Harry, take it off the list of things you do then.

Bad breath is never good, but a good escort can get her gentleman caller to sort himself out in that department without offending him surely.

Lucy :)

You might Lucy but there are many who use a little get-out clause called ‘all services at my discretion’. I think we all know the purpose of such caveats.

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Nice one Lucy, anytime I am visiting a lady I would always go freshly showered, shaven (facially) with teeth freshly brushed as if I was going on a date......surely this is good manners

brushing teeth less than 2 hrs before oral is not a good idea. you can make your gums bleed hich can then be a route for nasties. I just mouthwash before the punt.

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I can't kiss somebody who doesn't want to be kissed. Nothing worse. One of those gambits you take with a punt.

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to each their own.

to me, good kissing is an essential part of a good meeting.

if she doenst like kissing (or cannot hide the reluctance), that is a major showstopper to me.

In return, I will make the effort to be _skweekie_ clean, and do my best to make it enjoyable for her as well.

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But men unfortunately are often REALLY bad kissers

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But men unfortunately are often REALLY bad kissers

And from what men tell me so are some women too, as I always say "It takes two". My pet hate is being kissed 'around' my mouth, where the guy opens his mouth far wider than mine. I'll usually coax, or give pointers on this because it's pointless - the lips themselves are the place with all the sensitive nerve endings, skin around just ends up feeling 'wet' and unsexy.

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I think kissing is very high on most punter's ''things to expect from a punt'' list and most are quite offended at being rebuffed re this service.

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