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Question About Feed Back

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Evening all

I have emailed 2 providers on the other site but neither will see me as i have no feedback

Never punted before so i guess its like chicken and the egg scenario

How does one earn feed back unless he can see a provider ?

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I am no expert but is it worth telephoning rather than e-mailing? At least the WG can speak to you and maybe get a better idea of what you are like rather than by e-mail which is less personal. Or offer to meet in a public place so that she can get comfortable with you before commiting to the meet?

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Evening all I have emailed 2 providers on the other site but neither will see me as i have no feedback Never punted before so i guess its like chicken and the egg scenario How does one earn feed back unless he can see a provider ?

Never had feedback on that site and never needed it, i only punt with WGs who have displayed phone numbers. If you want to build feedback punt with WGs with phone numbers who appeal to you and then leave them feedback and hopefully they will you. I view that sites feedback system as credible as billy liar myself.

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I am no expert but is it worth telephoning rather than e-mailing? At least the WG can speak to you and maybe get a better idea of what you are like rather than by e-mail which is less personal. Or offer to meet in a public place so that she can get comfortable with you before commiting to the meet?

Neither have their phone number

Both have good feedback

One in particular was a recommendation from pnet as being a good choice for a first timer but both insist on email prior to booking

I replied to her email by saying thank you for the reply

Should i email her back and see if she fancies meeting for a coffee at a venue of her choice so she can see me prior to a booking

Or does that sound a bit stalkerish (is that even a word?)

Main Lady in question is sexyshez from nottingham

Advice is much appreciated

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Evening all

I have emailed 2 providers on the other site but neither will see me as i have no feedback

Never punted before so i guess its like chicken and the egg scenario

How does one earn feed back unless he can see a provider ?

I sympathise with your predicament.

I am one such lady who does state that too, but it is not always a hard and fast rule any more.

I decided that for personal reasons I would state that now, and not just because it weeds the time wasters out.

It will weed the time wasters out mind you.

I suggest you do as Smiths says and choose a lady who does not have that condition set down, or call a lady and then make the arrangement via that sites booking system to receive a feedback from a lady.

If that particular lady sticks hard and fast to her condition just move on, there are loads of lovely ladies out there for you.

In answer to your comment about suggesting meeting the lady first for a coffee so she can check you out, that will not happen.

She is not interesting in vetting you like that at all, and to perfectly mercenary she could be meeting a paying customer in the time it takes to meet up with you for a coffee.

She will have her rule for her own personal reason, you have to respect that Sir.

All the best.

Lucy :)

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I've been known to give references for guys who I have seen but have no feedback.

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I tend to think the whole feedback system on ** is a huge mutual compliment exchange. Having said this ( and perhaps with a tinge of hypocracy!) I have left ..and received positive feedback from a couple of excellent ladies I met via the site.

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Neither have their phone number

Both have good feedback

One in particular was a recommendation from pnet as being a good choice for a first timer but both insist on email prior to booking

I replied to her email by saying thank you for the reply

Should i email her back and see if she fancies meeting for a coffee at a venue of her choice so she can see me prior to a booking

Or does that sound a bit stalkerish (is that even a word?)

Main Lady in question is sexyshez from nottingham

Advice is much appreciated

If you are prepared to pay the WGs regular fee or her social rate if she has one its not out of the question that she might meet you in a public place for a coffee and chat, only asking her will you find out of course. Not something i have any interest in doing with newbies to me, i have met regulars like this many times over the years although i wouldnt pay a fee for social time as i punt for sex, i am more than happy to pay for the drinks or meal though.

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All you can do if you want to see this lady is send her a polite email explaining you're new to the site hence no feedback. Asking for a phone number may not work as she's being cautious about timewasters but if you include yours with a polite request for a quick call to show you're genuine you might get somewhere. If all else fails have a few punts with other girls you like and contact her once you have some feedback.

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Its a difficult one. If someone is new, you can understand there being no feedback and I am sympathetic to that. Usually I am happy to have a quick call, and use my judgement on how they come across.

But without any doubt at all, when I see someone who has been a member of the purple site for 2 or 3 or more years and they have NO feedback, thats a big red flag for me. Because they ALWAYS are fakes and timewasters, in my experience. I didn't think that initially, but for me, that has been the case in every instance. So I can understand why girls want there to be some feedback.

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PhoneSex & Webcam are cheap, easy ways of giving & getting feedback.

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PhoneSex & Webcam are cheap, easy ways of giving & getting feedback.

I would regard that as no feedback still though.

If it is not for escorting in my mind it is still zero feedback.

I agree with what Lovelyslut has typed up above in one way.

I do realise that many men on that site will use it for research really and only ring ladies who have phone numbers displayed.

So when they come across us annoying ladies who are very wary of meeting guys without feedback but have been on the site donkeys years it must be tough if they set their stall out to meet us.

It is all about the approach......

In the end there are so many escorts who do not have a condition about no feedback like that on that site.

So if you do not like a way a lady handles herself on there, just move on to another I say.

Lucy :)

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Half my feedback is for webcam & PhoneSex because people call me, they don't go through that site's booking process. I see more people through my own site.

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thanks for all the tips everyone

I will send her an email either for a meet or a phone chat and take it from there

Thank you again

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I tend to think the whole feedback system on ** is a huge mutual compliment exchange.

Yeees! But I think you have to read between the lines. I used, years ago, to have to, in effect, give feedback on B108's, where it was generally understood that unless one included "clean, sober and honest" the prospective employer knew that the applicant was a stinking drunken thief! IMHO, the vital component that a punter needs in his feedback on that site is words to the effect of, "Happy to see him again!", or "Always welcome!". Without that I think that a prudent lady might be fully booked.

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thanks for all the tips everyone

I will send her an email either for a meet or a phone chat and take it from there

Thank you again

I hope it goes well. :)

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Feedback? See what happened to me (ref. my posting on 15th March "Dumped by my Regular"). I shall be very wary about posting feedback in future!

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Feedback? See what happened to me (ref. my posting on 15th March "Dumped by my Regular"). I shall be very wary about posting feedback in future!

Got a link........?

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Just to update you helpful folks

Georgem a member on here very kindly emailed shez and pointed her to this thread

As a result she emailed me asking if it was me who contacted her from the other site

I responded by saying yes

She then replied saying it was nice to be recommended

So again a big thanks to everyone especially georgem

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