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Basically I am 19 years old and have decided that using an escort would be a good way to boost my confidence with women. Just not sure if most escorts would mind being with someone so young.

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Then ask the lady you want to see. Case closed.

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Then ask the lady you want to see. Case closed.

Isn't this situation similar to the point raised by Smiths not long ago? New, young, punter comes onto the board seeking some views, advice, reassurance or whatever and gets a dismissive response. Welcome to the board af1231.

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Thanks for the welcome. Just wanted to gain some views from people, Don't wanna keep going in circles with girls saying that im too young.

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Then ask the lady you want to see. Case closed.

I find your signature about the attitude vs personality very strange.

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Isn't this situation similar to the point raised by Smiths not long ago? New, young, punter comes onto the board seeking some views, advice, reassurance or whatever and gets a dismissive response. Welcome to the board af1231.

Nobody appointed any of us the Industry Spokesperson.

As he is 19, there is no legal issue. Some escorts will be happy to see him, some won't.

I'm surprised to get emails asking whether I will see clients of particular ethnicities. I don't care about ethnicitity. I am sure some escorts feel differently, but that's their business.

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Basically I am 19 years old and have decided that using an escort would be a good way to boost my confidence with women. Just not sure if most escorts would mind being with someone so young.

I'm 23 now and started at 18. At 19 i never had a problem. You should be fine. Let me correct you firstly before someone jumps down your throat. The term 'use' an escort is, in plain english not very nice. They probably won't mind you're 19, they will mind if you're disrespectful, try to haggle, be too clingy etc. About the confidence let me say this. It very well may make you feel confident while in the act but when the curtain calls, will you still have the 'bottle' to chat up these so called 'birds'. Enjoy it but don't rely on it, i warn you because i've been 'there'

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Basically I am 19 years old and have decided that using an escort would be a good way to boost my confidence with women. Just not sure if most escorts would mind being with someone so young.

hey af, it's very simple: if you carry no dangerous infectious disease, you have a cock and you can pay the escort, then you have virtually no reason to believe that the escort will 'mind'. Phone them up and just say 'hi, I'd like to book an appointment. I am ( your name, give a fake one if you worry about privacy) and am 20 years old.

No harm in bluffing a bit, which is different than being a liar. A liar lies out of fear, a bluffer lies because he doesn't have to walk around like an open book. Also, soon or later you'll have to learn to bluff anyways.

However, I kind of read 'between your lines'.....if what you wrote really means ' I don't have a lot of sexual experience', then you still have nothing to fear: you are the buyer, not the seller. When you see an escort, treat her with respect (not because she's an escort: just treat her as you would treat anyone else), but always act from the frame of mind that you are the BUYER, not the seller. Don't worry about pleasing others: please yourself. By doing that you aren't doing anything wrong, if you hurt no one.

Why am I saying all this? because you remind me of when I was 19.... I too thought that I had to seek people's approval. You don't have to do that shit. When you see an escort, it's like going to the supermarket : you buy the commodities you need, coffee, sugar, etc.

Do you ask the store owner 'is it ok with you if I buy that brand of coffee?'. So just relax....go and have fun with whatever escort you like, don't worry about if they are ok with your age or anything else.

I took the time to explain these things because obviously only the men here can explain them to you. PS. make ABSOLUTELY SURE that you read the reports before seeing any escort. Others wrote them so that they are read.

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Nobody appointed any of us the Industry Spokesperson.

As he is 19, there is no legal issue. Some escorts will be happy to see him, some won't.

I'm surprised to get emails asking whether I will see clients of particular ethnicities. I don't care about ethnicitity. I am sure some escorts feel differently, but that's their business.

And nobody is asking for an industry spokesperson, so I'm not sure what prompted that response. Claire was, I think, replying for Claire, herself, not you or the industry. That is not the point, the point is - how was the OP's perfectly reasonable question dealt with? Helpfully and sympathetically? Or dismissively?

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hey af, it's very simple: if you carry no dangerous infectious disease, you have a cock and you can pay the escort, then you have virtually no reason to believe that the escort will 'mind'. Phone them up and just say 'hi, I'd like to book an appointment. I am ( your name, give a fake one if you worry about privacy) and am 20 years old.

No harm in bluffing a bit, which is different than being a liar. A liar lies out of fear, a bluffer lies because he doesn't have to walk around like an open book. Also, soon or later you'll have to learn to bluff anyways.

However, I kind of read 'between your lines'.....if what you wrote really means ' I don't have a lot of sexual experience', then you still have nothing to fear: you are the buyer, not the seller. When you see an escort, treat her with respect (not because she's an escort: just treat her as you would treat anyone else), but always act from the frame of mind that you are the BUYER, not the seller. Don't worry about pleasing others: please yourself. By doing that you aren't doing anything wrong, if you hurt no one.

Why am I saying all this? because you remind me of when I was 19.... I too thought that I had to seek people's approval. You don't have to do that shit. When you see an escort, it's like going to the supermarket : you buy the commodities you need, coffee, sugar, etc.

Do you ask the store owner 'is it ok with you if I buy that brand of coffee?'. So just relax....go and have fun with whatever escort you like, don't worry about if they are ok with your age or anything else.

I took the time to explain these things because obviously only the men here can explain them to you. PS. make ABSOLUTELY SURE that you read the reports before seeing any escort. Others wrote them so that they are read.

Thanks for the advice. Much appreciated.

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I think Claire was more than reasonable.

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I was abrupt, that's true. I'm not particularly in a good mood, and we had a thread less than a week ago asking 'Are escorts ok with younger guys' or words to that effect.

But my reply still stands. I can't speak for Lara, or she for me, I can't assure you that all escorts are ok with 19 year olds. Why? Because I am not all escorts; nor have I canvassed the opinions of all escorts.

The only feasible thing to do is to ask the lady you wish to see.

So there you go - a much longer answer, with exactly the same result.

As for you, Newbie888, which part of my signature are you struggling with? I'm more than happy to explain it to you very clearly...

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Basically I am 19 years old and have decided that using an escort would be a good way to boost my confidence with women. Just not sure if most escorts would mind being with someone so young.

Odd, i was sure i posted on this thread after Claire. Anyway, it will depend on the WG, some will be happy to see you, some might not. I never once had a problem when i was your age which was when i started punting. All you can do is confirm it with the WG if its not written on her site/profile or mention it when enquiring if you so wish. Good luck.

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Basically I am 19 years old and have decided that using an escort would be a good way to boost my confidence with women. Just not sure if most escorts would mind being with someone so young.

All you have to do is ask them. And I'd suggest you ee an independent escort with a good, positive, proffesional reputation rather than trying your luck with a random girl you know little about.

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Basically I am 19 years old and have decided that using an escort would be a good way to boost my confidence with women. Just not sure if most escorts would mind being with someone so young.

No problem at all, some ladies do prefer to only see clients of certain ages but quite a few have clients of all ages. Just check out her profile, and get in touch.

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I think Claire was more than reasonable.

Yes, same as when someone asks 'do you know where is the Post Office?' and you reply with 'Look in the Yellow Pages'

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I think Claire was more than reasonable.

I think Claire was abrupt and for someone who is well-respected on this forum and also a moderator, she should be more welcoming to new members.

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Actually, thinking about this. There are plenty of girls who don't see younger clients can think of several who have lower age limits on here alone so I think it's reasonable for someone to ask for advice, especially someone new to it.

Chaps can search for girls by location, hair colour, age, bust size etc etc on the various directories, but I don't believe there is ever an option to bring up escorts who will see men of a certain age. Maybe the OPs best option would be to ask of the recommendations thread for a girl in his area, of his type who is happy to see younger men and good with newcomers? That might be more constructive all round.

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I think Claire was abrupt and for someone who is well-respected on this forum and also a moderator, she should be more welcoming to new members.

You're entitled to think whatever you choose, of course. You're also entitled to read what I wrote and see that I got there before you.

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Op, you are welcome. I can give you some more advice: you don't need to find an escort who will 'accept' you, it's the OTHER way around.

In fact, I recommend that you don't choose an escort primarily because of the looks.I think that the escort's attitude is even more important than how big her boobs are.

Make sure you find an escort who has a sweeter attitude than most, and someone who offers GFE.

If you can see the WG before booking an appointment or pay, even better. If she seems distant and doesn't smile, etc, and you feel something odd coming from HER, then just smile and leave.

You don't need a stamp of approval, from women in general, let alone from an escort, who is basically having sex with you entirely because she gets paid for it. It's her gain, not yours. Unless you are the Elephant Man, you don't need to ask anything. Zero. Zilch. The only reason why you want to look at the escort's profiles is in case THEY have a fetish about older men, or something you don't like about THEM, and therefore that would not be a good choice for YOU.

I am not shoving things down your throat, what you do is up to you. But I think that the frame of mind I have indicated, is a powerful one.

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But I think that the frame of mind I have indicated, is a powerful one.

Op, by that I did not mean that it's better to be domineering, but only that your frame of mind puts you in a weak position, i.e. ' is there something wrong with me being 19 ? are escorts ok with this?'

Statistics indicate that older women , in general, prefer younger men, although a lot -younger- women prefer older men. Younger men also have stronger erections. How's that for a 're-framing ' ;)

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You're entitled to think whatever you choose, of course. You're also entitled to read what I wrote and see that I got there before you.

I was responding to Lara's post that you were reasonable in your response.

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newbie88- what on earth makes you think you know how escorts operate and how we determine who we are going to see?

"if you carry no dangerous infectious disease, you have a cock and you can pay the escort, then you have virtually no reason to believe that the escort will 'mind'."

How do we know if someone has a disease? Escorts have plenty of reasons to turn down bookings, we 'mind' dirty men, rude men, men that mess us around, men who pester us for services we don't to and so on.

" you don't need to find an escort who will 'accept' you, it's the OTHER way around"

See above! Someone who is a pratt on the phone will not get 'accepted'.

"who is basically having sex with you entirely because she gets paid for it. It's her gain, not yours. Unless you are the Elephant Man, you don't need to ask anything. Zero. Zilch. The only reason why you want to look at the escort's profiles is in case THEY have a fetish about older men, or something you don't like about THEM, and therefore that would not be a good choice for YOU."

Yes, ultimately we are having sex because we get paid for it, but that doesn't mean we don't have standards or safety issues. Some girls do have an issue with age (I don't). Of course a prospective punter needs to ask us things and read our profiles- How else does a man decide if a girl offers the services required or if he likes the sound/look of a girl?!And actually if the elephant man was polite, keen and reliable then he would have no problem in finding a girl to meet.

Some of your advice is sound, but sometimes your attitude sucks and if you rang me with this attitude I would not see you. You are doing the OP a disservice with your advice. We are not commodities.

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I was abrupt, that's true. I'm not particularly in a good mood, and we had a thread less than a week ago asking 'Are escorts ok with younger guys' or words to that effect.

But my reply still stands. I can't speak for Lara, or she for me, I can't assure you that all escorts are ok with 19 year olds. Why? Because I am not all escorts; nor have I canvassed the opinions of all escorts.

The only feasible thing to do is to ask the lady you wish to see.

So there you go - a much longer answer, with exactly the same result.

As for you, Newbie888, which part of my signature are you struggling with? I'm more than happy to explain it to you very clearly...

A longer answer, certainly, but was it any more helpful? If every request for board members' views were met with "How should I know, I can't speak for everyone" there wouldn't be much point in the board. Instead, fortunately, people tend to state their own position (eg you could have said how you feel personally about seeing younger punters) and then, if wanting to be more helpful, forward their wider views and experience. Which would in turn generate a debate. Which would hopefully be informative and helpful. Which is all the OP was asking for.

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When you see an escort, it's like going to the supermarket : you buy the commodities you need, coffee, sugar, etc.

Do you ask the store owner 'is it ok with you if I buy that brand of coffee?'.

Another point is 'Don't try to haggle the price' any more than you would in a supermarket! WGs set their prices and that's the price! A WG *may* choose to vary what they charge but that's up to them; any attempt to haggle will probably cause bad feeling. Remember a punt is a personal interaction and if the WG decides they don't like you for any reason, you won't get a good service; conversely, if you're polite and clean and well-behaved, you're more likely to find your partner is relaxed and happy and gives you a good time.

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