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How Many Changes (to Appointment Day/time) Is Acceptable?

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I have had to change twice, once the day and once the time. Tomorrow is the meet - and I may change yet again due to circumstances beyond my control, though I pray i will not have to.

So how many times is enough?

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I have had to change twice, once the day and once the time. Tomorrow is the meet - and I may change yet again due to circumstances beyond my control, though I pray i will not have to.

So how many times is enough?

None! The opportunity cost of being messed around is rather high in my case. I reduce my availability to reduce the risk & it affects other, organised Punters.

I am sure you'd act differently if you had to pay a deposit.

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I have had to change twice, once the day and once the time. Tomorrow is the meet - and I may change yet again due to circumstances beyond my control, though I pray i will not have to.

So how many times is enough?

This always worries me. I have a thing about punctuality and reliability and I get really embarrassed if I mess someone around. Fortunately I've not yet had to with a punt, but as things in my life are often beyond my control it is a frequent worry that I'll have to change and re-change a booking. I guess it's all down to the lady and how she's fixed that particular day - and how much she's been messed around in the past.

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I have had to change twice, once the day and once the time. Tomorrow is the meet - and I may change yet again due to circumstances beyond my control, though I pray i will not have to.

So how many times is enough?

Things do change in a busy gentlemans life, most ladies will be understanding of that.

However from the ladies side, she also has to put things in place as well to meet with you.

She also has a busy life to lead, in all areas as well no doubt not just her escorting.

If she has said yes to you wanting to change the arrangements with yourself twice already she may do so again, but then she may think you are messing her around so not be overly happy.

Then again she may not care one jot,

Just get it done sooner rather than later to inform her that you may need to change the time.

Lucy :)

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I have had to change twice, once the day and once the time. Tomorrow is the meet - and I may change yet again due to circumstances beyond my control, though I pray i will not have to. So how many times is enough?

One might be too much for some WGs, it depends on them and how they view it and whether they turned someone else turn or various other possible reasons i imagine.

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This always worries me. I have a thing about punctuality and reliability and I get really embarrassed if I mess someone around. Fortunately I've not yet had to with a punt, but as things in my life are often beyond my control it is a frequent worry that I'll have to change and re-change a booking. I guess it's all down to the lady and how she's fixed that particular day - and how much she's been messed around in the past.

As someone who is usually at least half an hour early getting to the punt area as i allow for traffic problems i hate ever being late for anything. When i ran my car battery down as a consequence of being too early rather than cancelling i hitchhiked and offered a guy £20 to get me to the WGs Incall on time. A great punt followed with the lovely Jaime who became a regular, the punt that nearly wasnt was very well worth the effort of stopping traffic for. ;)

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I tend to go for short notice visits for this reason. Only usually book ahead for business trips away or when I have a sneaky day off! Having said that I was to be on the south coast on Tuesday next, then Thursday, then Friday now not at all. So, had I booked it would have been 2 alterations and then a cancellation. Something I suspect would not endear me to my chosen lady.

It is easy to forget that the WG's we visit, and please correct me if I'm wrong, do not necessarily spend all day lounging in lingerie awaiting our arrival. I know that if I let someone down it has an opportunity cost to them so try very hard not to do it.

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Oh yes, I can also be a bit OCD about being punctual as well so knowing the location well in advance helps. Don't need house number but nearby road allows me to plan journey to be on time.

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Thanks for the replies.

This is a really complex case because this lady only works weekends and my life dictates that I spend wednesday afternoons in her area (75 miles from where I live). I have a 3 hou slot of freedom in that time. It was therefore disappointing to me that she just does weekends. But freak luck happened and the slot got shifted to saturday so I booked. Then yesterday it was changed to sunday at time A, so I re-scheduled the lady with apologies - then the slot was shifted 2 hours ahead - and with further apologies I re-scheduled. It is sunady morning and i have just noticed the clocks are 1 hour ahead. I do hope that will not cause any confusion and everbody will remembe the change. It's all beyond my control and people around me are making these decisions and there is nothing I can do.

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If its an advance booking you can change as many times as you need before the day with us but once its on the day then I allow one change only after an interesting game of cat and mouse with a guy changing his booking till half an hour later 3 times in a row and then cancelling in the end. Now I just tell people on the day when they change their appointment that if they need to change a second time call us when they are in the area as inevitable frequent changers usually cancel last minute and have sucked up a good hour or two of a ladies time.

To be fair if you are aware that others can change your plans at the drop of a hat and frequently do its not fair to advance book but to call when you are home and clear regarding the time, its a risk as to wether you get the booking but its not fair to keep changing on someone even if its not your fault as you dont know what kind of preparation, remaking of plans the lady is having to do to accomodate your changes.

If its a lady you have not yet had a prior booking with multiple changes could lead you to being stored as a timewaster also...I know things happen but its a fact.x

Edited by Chloe MKEscorts

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As someone who is usually at least half an hour early getting to the punt area as i allow for traffic problems i hate ever being late for anything. When i ran my car battery down as a consequence of being too early rather than cancelling i hitchhiked and offered a guy £20 to get me to the WGs Incall on time. A great punt followed with the lovely Jaime who became a regular, the punt that nearly wasnt was very well worth the effort of stopping traffic for. ;)

Love it :) . Talk about "get me to the church punt on time"!! You have cojones smiths, I'll give you that.

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There was one more change but she was great about it and I saw her yesterday.

I want to leave a FR report for her but she's only on the purple site. I assume that links there are not allowed? So it would have to be her mobile.

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There was one more change but she was great about it and I saw her yesterday.

I want to leave a FR report for her but she's only on the purple site. I assume that links there are not allowed? So it would have to be her mobile.

No you can't link to a profile on that site, but you can simply report by using her mobile number assuming she doesn't mind it being in the public domain. Glad it worked out for both of you.

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There was one more change but she was great about it and I saw her yesterday. I want to leave a FR report for her but she's only on the purple site. I assume that links there are not allowed? So it would have to be her mobile.

Remember not to even refer to that site as the FR could be rejected by doing so. If she has a nick like Cute Ann for example who i did a FR on because i didnt put Ann of Golders Green it was rejected first time. Glad to hear the punt went well. :)

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I must admit, when it gets to the 3rd change, I am starting to think, 'oh he isnt coming, he is a wind up'. I can't help it, it's because it is my experience that they aren't serious about seeing you. But I do understand that things come up, and I try to be tolerant of that. And not assume that if someone is trying to juggle their time to come and see me, that means he is a timewaster.

But as Lara and Chloe have both said, we have arrangements to make too.....we put other things off, we make sure we are available, we turn down other clients maybe, so it is a bit frustrating.

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