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Hi people. Been looking around the site for a while and finally plucked up the courage to ask for some advice. I am desperate to try anal sex, giving that is. Am single but wanted some info as to whether it is worth the risk of using a WG, worried about catching a STD even if the risk is small.

As I said always been keen to try anal but no girlfriends/women I have slept with have let me try it. At 34 it is becoming something I am desperate to try. The thought of it really turns me on. I am the sort of person who will try something and once it out my system I am happy. I had one girlfriend who loved me rimming her and fingering her arse. I got excited that she would be the one to finally break my anal virginity! But after hours of foreplay my cock was in by a centimeter and she didn't want to do anymore. So frustrating. I have had other women who have had a bit of rimming and slight fingering but that's it.

So I am now looking to go to a WG. Natasha in Bethnal Green is who I'm keen on. I don't want a little anal and then that's it. She seems to take a good arse pounding and that's what I want. Any other girls in London really up for a good arse pounding?

Anyway I'd like to know what anal sex is like? Is it much different to vaginal sex and how? Tighter? I suppose I want to know if the feeling and experience is worth the risk? I doubt when I do it I'll last more than 2mins it turns me on so much.

Thanks for the advice my more experienced friends! And any WG suggestions would be appreciated!

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Anal is a funny thing. I rarely ever do it, because a guy may be obsessed with Anal until we meet, then he's like a kid in a candy store & wants all the other sweets.

I feel more vulnerable with Anal as I can't see what's going on. Some men haven't a clue what they're doing.

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This topic should belong to the "Seeking information". Otherwise OP could easily do search, and find the plethora of topics aboit it, where some posts might answer his question.

This is just a more recent one: http://www.punternet...ain-in-the-bum/.

If the OP so bone bum idle about the most simple basic search, then I am not surprised, why he did not succeeded with WGs, who clearly providing it.

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If the OP so bone bum idle about the most simple basic search, then I am not surprised, why he did not succeeded with WGs, who clearly providing it.

Xenia, you speak for me!

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I was about to say the same, but less succinctly!

I would suggest the following to the OP:

Search these boards for anal; read, mark and inwardly digest what you see there.

Look for a lady who is experienced with first timers on the other site (Ebony Pru springs to mind).

Be open with your chosen WG about your inexperience

Be prepared for lengthy foreplay/preparation, these things can take time if you want more than your previously achieved one inch in!

Most ladies will not appreciate you walking through the door shouting "spreaddem'" and then plunging away like a jackhammer for the next hour.

With time, consideration and the right attitude I'm sure you will succeed in gaining your 'brown wings".

Good luck

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Hi people. Been looking around the site for a while and finally plucked up the courage to ask for some advice. I am desperate to try anal sex, giving that is. Am single but wanted some info as to whether it is worth the risk of using a WG, worried about catching a STD even if the risk is small. As I said always been keen to try anal but no girlfriends/women I have slept with have let me try it. At 34 it is becoming something I am desperate to try. The thought of it really turns me on. I am the sort of person who will try something and once it out my system I am happy. I had one girlfriend who loved me rimming her and fingering her arse. I got excited that she would be the one to finally break my anal virginity! But after hours of foreplay my cock was in by a centimeter and she didn't want to do anymore. So frustrating. I have had other women who have had a bit of rimming and slight fingering but that's it. So I am now looking to go to a WG. Natasha in Bethnal Green is who I'm keen on. I don't want a little anal and then that's it. She seems to take a good arse pounding and that's what I want. Any other girls in London really up for a good arse pounding? Anyway I'd like to know what anal sex is like? Is it much different to vaginal sex and how? Tighter? I suppose I want to know if the feeling and experience is worth the risk? I doubt when I do it I'll last more than 2mins it turns me on so much. Thanks for the advice my more experienced friends! And any WG suggestions would be appreciated!
Welcome to the forum youloveit. :) I have absolutely no interest in practising anal penetration but like anal play and a strap-on by a woman on me. I have tried it and didnt like anal. As to the risk, if using a condom you should be fine but all sexual contact with another involves a risk, only you can decide if that risk is worth taking. With many WGs they will need to see your cock hard before saying they can definitely take it in case you have an enormous chopper so if you do bear this in mind is my advice. Edited by smiths

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I would With time, consideration and the right attitude I'm sure you will succeed in gaining your 'brown wings".

Good luck

Err, I'd rather not, thanks...

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Anal is funny one....in some porn vids they make it look so sexy and its a turn on...however in real life I dont find it appealing though would probably try it with a civvie girl, once at least ;)

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If its something you need to get out of your system then give it a go,Its something i've done a good few times with wg's and a couple of times with the ex.Its not something I seek out these days but would do again but only if the girl wanted to try it.I must say it was much more erotic when with the ex than a WG lots more foreplay and build up then she turned to me and said fuck me up the arse so i did as instructed lol

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Anal is funny one.... ;)

Anal is a funny thing.

I never saw the funny side of it myself.

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Rather than making it something to hanker after and which can subsequently become a stumbling block, I find it works as an opportunistic treat.

So if the punt is proceeding well, and I begin to fancy anal, its possible the wg is also feeling the same. so I ask and if its a positive answer, the price is sorted in situ. She will already know your size and shape, and whether or not she is up for it.

you need to be fully erect and able to keep it up until you have penetrated. The wg also needs to be ready in order for it all to work easily and quickly. Otherwise you can lose your stiffy and things then go downhill, and often its the finish to the punt.

but after the initial thrill of getting there, bums don't respond the same as fannies, so there is a noticeable difference in feelings.

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Most ladies will not appreciate you walking through the door shouting "spreaddem'" and then plunging away like a jackhammer for the next hour.

:D

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I must say it was much more erotic when with the ex than a WG lots more foreplay and build up then she turned to me and said fuck me up the arse so i did as instructed lol

...and that's the fantasy many of us are hankering after!

(I mean with our own partners, not yours, mate ;) )

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But partners are trusted & more familiar. In my experience, they're also gentler.

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This topic should belong to the "Seeking information". Otherwise OP could easily do search, and find the plethora of topics aboit it, where some posts might answer his question.

This is just a more recent one: http://www.punternet...ain-in-the-bum/.

If the OP so bone bum idle about the most simple basic search, then I am not surprised, why he did not succeeded with WGs, who clearly providing it.

You obviously didnt read the, Patience Offered, thread. Its only his first post, give the guy a chance.

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Seconded Jbg

I do enjoy anal now and again so long as he lady is ok with it. I'm fairly average size (at best probably) so that helps and a good lube is all it takes with an experienced provider. I generally find the feeling very tight and satisfying but wouldn't advocate the 'pounding' mentioned earlier - not fair on the lady unless she asks for this

To the OP, do some profile research and make it clear in your communication that you want this and are inexperienced and see how it goes. If you want to try it then you should. STDs no more of an issue than for usual sex

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Anal within a relationship can be great - if it happens spontaneously when you both feel like it. It's not something I'm after every time though. I've only paid for it once, and it was nice, but it wasn't the same thing at all, and that really wasn't the girls fault, as she was definitely up for it, it just didn't seem right when it was completely pre-arranged and expected. I think I should employ the method mentioned above in the future, and if with a girl that offers it, bring it up during the time, if it feels right, and see if it feels more natural that way.

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Go book cherry from Aishainvasion or love from Asian selection and you can't go wrong.

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Whatever you do, make sure you try it with someone who knows what it is all about. It can get very messy. I mean really messy.

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