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Parties - Dealing With The Other Men.

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I've been thinking of attending a party at LMP for some time now, but while the thought of having sex with multiple women turns me on, I'm always stopped by the thought of "how will I deal with the other men" in the room? If you've been to sex parties how do you cope with sharing the girls with thirteen other guys? Or do you like it? Please share.

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If you happen to be bisexual I would have thought that the party scene provides a wonderful opportunity for fun! :D

However, in my limited party experience the presence of other guys did not matter one jot.

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If you happen to be bisexual I would have thought that the party scene provides a wonderful opportunity for fun! :D

From my experience at LMP, any bloke who even tried it on with one of the other fellas at the party would be out on his ear pretty darned quick. Long may that last !

To the OP, either you enjoy having sex in front of other people or you don't. It's not a matter of "dealing" with the other punters, simply learning to perform whilst they are in the room. There are 3 bedrooms at LMP and apart from the mad 30 mins at the beginning of each party, usually 1/3rd of the guys are upstairs resting. So mostly, there are only 2 or 3 other guys in the room at the same time as you, often with the same number of women, sometimes a little less. You are never having to clamber over 13 other men to find a willing female :) . I like it. You may or may not. Only one way to find out ;) .

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Surely if you're thinking of going to a party where the concept is lots of people of both sexes being naked and sharing each other then this would be because it appealed to you? I don't understand why you would consider going to a party if it worries you!

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Why exactly does the thought of other men with the ladies worry you and what exactly do you mean by 'deal' with them?

If you want to have sex with a large group of ladies then book a large number of ladies for yourself!

A party is a group thing, other men being there is part of it. They won't be trying to touch you, probably wont be looking at you and probably would only even notice you there if you happen to be nuts deep in someone they want to be with. In which case they generally wait their turn and then have their fun.

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Surely if you're thinking of going to a party where the concept is lots of people of both sexes being naked and sharing each other then this would be because it appealed to you? I don't understand why you would consider going to a party if it worries you!

You know... nerves, uncertainty. Doing anything for the first time is scary and in this respect the sex industry is probably affected more than any other.

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If you happen to be bisexual I would have thought that the party scene provides a wonderful opportunity for fun! :D However, in my limited party experience the presence of other guys did not matter one jot.

That would be strictly no touching fun or the one doing the touching is likely to seriously regret doing so. Parties unless otherwise advertised are for straights only with no guy on guy interaction, if i saw any i would be off and complaining to the organiser informing other punters on here and elsewhere. ;)

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I've been thinking of attending a party at LMP for some time now, but while the thought of having sex with multiple women turns me on, I'm always stopped by the thought of "how will I deal with the other men" in the room? If you've been to sex parties how do you cope with sharing the girls with thirteen other guys? Or do you like it? Please share.

I was terrified before my first party at the thought of getting my clothes off in front of other men. After about half an hour i had forgotten all about it and just enjoyed myself. I concentrate on the multiple WGs myself which works well for me. I also like the vibe, most punters are fine and there is unwritten etiquette that you give way and dont hog a WG, a few twats do do this but most dont. Its easy to pick up the rules and at LMP the host will guide you if you ask. You do what you wish to do, if you just want to watch you can but you pay the same fee whatever.

You get a mixture of ages. races and sizes of punters. I like good parties, they are great fun. If you do go if you say its your first you will be looked after and shown round. Always bear in mind its not a 121 and all playrooms are open and people can watch if they wish. Good luck and i hope you enjoy it if you go. :)

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Silly question from someone who's never been to one of these parties, but what do you guys wear on your feet??

I have visions of barefoot guys squelching around on used condoms looking for spare ladies, with bits of tissue stuck to their toes, and sticky crisps/ twiglets/ peanuts dangling within various sweaty, hairy crevices.

I imagine that every time you lie down on the floor, you get loads of stuff stuck to your body, with other guys jizz as adhesive.

Do they have someone to go round with a bucket and mop continually clearing up the detritis from the multiple couplings?

Or have I just got this vision all wrong?

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Silly question from someone who's never been to one of these parties, but what do you guys wear on your feet??

I have visions of barefoot guys squelching around on used condoms looking for spare ladies, with bits of tissue stuck to their toes, and sticky crisps/ twiglets/ peanuts dangling within various sweaty, hairy crevices.

I imagine that every time you lie down on the floor, you get loads of stuff stuck to your body, with other guys jizz as adhesive.

Do they have someone to go round with a bucket and mop continually clearing up the detritis from the multiple couplings?

Or have I just got this vision all wrong?

The food is in a completely different room (upstairs at LMP), as is the drink. The girls are pretty careful to dispose of the condoms and tissues into the bins immediately after use. Virtually no-one lies on the floor - that's what the beds are for!

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Silly question from someone who's never been to one of these parties, but what do you guys wear on your feet?? I have visions of barefoot guys squelching around on used condoms looking for spare ladies, with bits of tissue stuck to their toes, and sticky crisps/ twiglets/ peanuts dangling within various sweaty, hairy crevices. I imagine that every time you lie down on the floor, you get loads of stuff stuck to your body, with other guys jizz as adhesive. Do they have someone to go round with a bucket and mop continually clearing up the detritis from the multiple couplings? Or have I just got this vision all wrong?

Your visions are wrong as far as LMP is concerned, for some others its about right. ;) Guys are barefoot and condoms, wipes and tissues chucked in the bins in each room which are emptied by staff with bedding being changed between parties, lube, tissues, wipes, condoms, towels and soap being changed over so for each party its clean stuff.

No eating downstairs in the playrooms or drinking, thats for upstairs during a break so there is minimal mess. Guys mainly spunk over the WG who then has a shower but not usually spunk over the floor, carpet or beds. :)

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I have visions of barefoot guys squelching around on used condoms looking for spare ladies, with bits of tissue stuck to their toes, and sticky crisps/ twiglets/ peanuts dangling within various sweaty, hairy crevices.

I imagine that every time you lie down on the floor, you get loads of stuff stuck to your body, with other guys jizz as adhesive.

Haha. How arousing :D

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I had all your apprehensions too, but found that my focus was on the girl I was with, the other action in the room became like very erotic background music, it's like you are in your very own 3D interactive porn movie. The other guys there are mostly are in the zone too, though occasionally there's a bit of banter which can add to the experience, though definitely no MM activity...thankfully!

If you find porn involving MF group sex arousing, I'm sure you'll enjoy LMP, but ultimately the only way to find out is to go and try it for yourself...I'm glad I did...but please come back and tell us!

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I went to my very first LMP party a couple of weeks ago, I had never before seen another man's erect penis "in the flesh" and it is nerve-racking, but there was minimal interaction between men and certainly no touching. The closest interaction I experienced was when one of the girls was riding me on the bed, another chap came up to watch and the lady suggested that she suck his cock.

When "resting" you can go upstairs for a beer or simply sit on one of the chairs and watch the live porn taking place around you.

You will be far too focused on the demands of the ladies to worry about the other guys who are all there for the dame reason as you, to have as much sex as possible with those lovely ladies.

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Silly question from someone who's never been to one of these parties, but what do you guys wear on your feet??

I have visions of barefoot guys squelching around on used condoms looking for spare ladies, with bits of tissue stuck to their toes, and sticky crisps/ twiglets/ peanuts dangling within various sweaty, hairy crevices.

I imagine that every time you lie down on the floor, you get loads of stuff stuck to your body, with other guys jizz as adhesive.

Do they have someone to go round with a bucket and mop continually clearing up the detritis from the multiple couplings?

Or have I just got this vision all wrong?

And I now have the same vision, with you wandering around full clothed with a bottle of Dettol in your hand :lol: :lol: :lol:

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I'd always be a bit concerned about 'friendly fire' incidents.... As in : there I am sat resting between action when a gob of flying jism lands on my arm from the other side of the room. :angry:

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Thanks for the answers... but still fighting those first-time nerves. Its terrible being a chicken. ;)

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Thanks for the answers... but still fighting those first-time nerves. Its terrible being a chicken. ;)

Well I was very nervous before I went to an LMP party. But I am glad I went, enjoyed it a lot and would definitely consider doing it again. Very well organised and the other chaps there were not a problem - they all have one thing on their mind and it isn't you! Having said that I had a few interesting chats in the rest area as well.

Go on! You have to give it a whirl to at least say you've tried it.

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At LMP the men are wearing bathrobes or naked. All are barefooted. When action starts the bathrobe is thrown into a corner. When action finishes the bathrobe is worn once more. Bathrobes are always worn upstairs where food and drink are served.

I have seen several of the girls come upstairs naked and also seen Jewels tidying up naked at the end of a party but generally nudity upstairs is uncommon.

I am not young and not slim but have never felt shunned or rejected. My advice would be give it a go.

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I think like most new things it'd be nerve racking, but once you've done it you'll think 'Oh, that was fun, why was I scared!' If you don't enjoy it well at least you'll know (we regret the things we don't do!) and hopefully some of the answers here have put your mind at ease. No dangers of rolling on twiglets covered in spunk or being groped by another man!

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The parties I have been to the men are usually in a robe or a towel unless they are actually with a girl.

I have never seen wet and sticky floors except when a cup of tea got knocked over.

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Been to 4 LMP events. Always get nervous before I go and then sad when it is time to leave. The place is always clean and tidy and you are so well looked after you have no time to worry about anything. There is a regular supply of hot, naked girls looking you in the eye and asking you if you would like to party with them. It is heaven!

I love being sucked by a girl who is being fucked by another guy, groping the tits of a girl next to me who is in turn being serviced by 2 guys. It is like being in the middle of a real life porn shoot. Just brilliant. My only challenge is to not run out of juice too early - even then the girls will keep on trying to coax one more shot from you.

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The OP has not confirmed it but I assumed the main point of his question was simply how awkward is it getting your turn, is it an orderly queue, what if someone pushes in front of you or takes longer than seems reasonable.

That's what I thought he meant about dealing with the others and I also thought the other poster's comment about interaction with other men was purely made in jest.

I for one wouldn't be confident being pushy in reaction to someone seemingly being inconsiderate and probably wouldn't feel confident of girls fixing me with a stare and giving me the come on.

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The OP has not confirmed it but I assumed the main point of his question was simply how awkward is it getting your turn, is it an orderly queue, what if someone pushes in front of you or takes longer than seems reasonable. That's what I thought he meant about dealing with the others and I also thought the other poster's comment about interaction with other men was purely made in jest. I for one wouldn't be confident being pushy in reaction to someone seemingly being inconsiderate and probably wouldn't feel confident of girls fixing me with a stare and giving me the come on.

The worst people to deal with at parties are hoggers, but anty good host will spot one and ask another guy to join in. In my experience it's not aquestion of queueing up to join as most girls will either ask a bloke or indicate it's ok to join in. Also guys shouldn't object to other guys joining in, it's a party not a 1-2-1. Parties and those at LMP are interactive porn and are great fun, I've never been bothered by other men being in the room once I got overmy first party nerves. The "worst" thing that has happened to me at a party was having 6 girls working on me, it was tough but someone had to do it. :D

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