verynervous44

18 Year Old Unsure Whether To Have First "punt"

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Hi Im 18 years old and though Im not a virgin I feel like my first time was horrendous and should make up for it (It was with an ugly girl with an ugly personality, I was only with her so I could stop being a virgin and actually had to stop it half way through). I feel like I should see an escort to help improve my confidence and because I'm very lonely. Luckily I have a free house on saturday and have lots of money ( I never spend any money I earn and I work 2 jobs). I haven't made the appointment yet and If I do I'll do so tommorow however the only problem is that I'm really nervous. I mean I really don't know whether i can go through with it. I look younger than 18 but I have my ID to prove I'm 18 but what happens if she sees me and is horrified and runs away?. I mean I've done research and this is the most reputable agency I can find but I'm still really nervous. I mean I have no idea what to say when I book the appointment or how the women running the agency will react when I call up. My hearts beating so fast right now and I honestly think maybe I should give it a miss and save mym oney but I feel like it'd be beneficial to me... just so many things could go wrong and sorting it out will be so nerve wracking :(. Any advice or personal tales would be duly noted, thankyou.

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If you are unsure then Punting is not for you, we can not convince you to punt, its a personal thing and at your age I would say leave it alone and move on.

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JKay is totally right. I would wait a while before jumping in to the sometimes murky world of "paid for" sex. It doesn't suit everyone.

Why not join a club which is associated with your hobby, join a running or cycling group, join an evening class etc. You will meet girls in such situations who would be pleased to date you and may well save your cash.

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I jumped in at 18 and it did not work for me. I regret it. See how you go in the real word for say 5 years - if it's still a no go and you're one of these many unfortunate males who struggle to get a sex life together - then you might want to return and give it a go. On the other hand - if you got lucky first time out and got someone nice and pretty - exactly your cup of tea - it might work out well - but that is a 50-1 shot in my opinion and experience.

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It sounds to me that the main things you are worrying about are the attitudes of both the woman running the agency, and the attitude of the girl you book. I would say the chances of the girl being horrified and running away are low to non existent. I'm sort of hesitant to post this, given the 3 negatives above from people more experienced in this world than I am, but you are asking for personal tales so I will share a couple of mine.

Firstly, if you explain to the agency that it's your first booking, well, that will be a situation they have come across hundreds of times before, and I'm sure they will understand a bit of nervousness. And hopefully steer you towards someone who is good with nervous/young/new clients.

I am 'an older lady', and I have seen 18 year old, and 19 year old clients. All lovely, very shy, very nervous. All great bookings. One of them, I told him I was unlikely to cum, and not to feel that it was anything to do with his performance. So when I did, well I know because I have seen him a few times now, that it boosted his sexual confidence by a factor of 10. He STRUTTED out of here, lol.

Now, even old hands on here have had bookings that turn out to be rubbish, there's no way of knowing whether it would be a great, or a terrible experience. But dont let the idea that a girl is going to run away in horror, or that the person running the agency is going to be shocked or amused at an 18 year old client put you off.

There are WG's who find it very erotic to be with someone less experienced, to play the Mrs Robinson character. Google it sweetie, if you dont get the reference. There is also another thread on here where you can see what other WG's think about very young clients. Some girls aren't into it, some are.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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You don't have to tell anyone on the phone your age.

An outcall to your parents home is fraught with dangers.

When I lost my virginity, it was awful. I met a lovely guy a few months later, and everything was wonderful. We were together for 2 years.

Your experience isn't that uncommon.

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Just to add...I also saw a wg at 18..it was done in a rush and one of my worst punts ever. if you are nervous and think there is a risk that you may not be able to go through with it then would think its best of you put this on hold and wait.there is no point wasting both your time and money...and the wg's time etc

as per lancelots advice maybe give it a few yrs ,untill 21 for instance and then decide if you want to dabble in punting

If however you are very set on it then do your research and hope it goes well!

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If it's something that you want to do then there is nothing at all wrong with explaining your situation to the girl/agency and they will be prepared.

One of my concerns with younger guys punting is the level of expectation they then have for future relationships. You were disappointed with your first encounter outside of punting and may be even more disappointed with your next experience with an every day girl following an encounter with a WG. Is that something you can prepare yourself for?

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You don't have to tell anyone on the phone your age.

An outcall to your parents home is fraught with dangers.

When I lost my virginity, it was awful. I met a lovely guy a few months later, and everything was wonderful. We were together for 2 years.

Your experience isn't that uncommon.

Yes OP your dad could be VERY jealous ! Especially if it's one of HIS regular WG's.

Joking apart, why not go to a parlour ? Go in, choose a girl that takes your fancy, if not walk out. Easier said that done but once you have done it you'll wonder why on earth you were apprehensive about it. I guarantee nobody in there will care one iota about your height, weight, dress sense, hair style, or anything else. Turn up clean and respectful with the right fee and you'll have a good time.

Far from running running away from you the girls will probably be fighting over you as they will have been so used to seeing ageing blokes well past their sell by date !

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taking a humorous slant- you may find thay you are spoilt my friend as your future girl friends won't be swallowing taking it up all holes / swallowing down to ur balls.

mind, i wish i was 18 with what i know now- good luck. so many beautiful women, working or not.

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aaaw thanks lovely slut that was a really nice post, I can see where you got your name, well the lovely part at least hah. There are lots of beautiful women in the world and I'd love to spend time with one but even with the money would one really want to spend time with me. I mean I'm not overweight or anything, on the contray I'm quite skinny but I read some of these escort blogs and they go on about being paid tons of money to have sex with hunky guys. I'm not a hunky guy I'm a skinny 18 year old who looks younger than 18 not some 30 year old stallion hah. Just nerves holding me back but those nerves are really bad.

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Hi Im 18 years old and though Im not a virgin I feel like my first time was horrendous and should make up for it (It was with an ugly girl with an ugly personality, I was only with her so I could stop being a virgin and actually had to stop it half way through). I feel like I should see an escort to help improve my confidence and because I'm very lonely. Luckily I have a free house on saturday and have lots of money ( I never spend any money I earn and I work 2 jobs). I haven't made the appointment yet and If I do I'll do so tommorow however the only problem is that I'm really nervous. I mean I really don't know whether i can go through with it. I look younger than 18 but I have my ID to prove I'm 18 but what happens if she sees me and is horrified and runs away?. I mean I've done research and this is the most reputable agency I can find but I'm still really nervous. I mean I have no idea what to say when I book the appointment or how the women running the agency will react when I call up. My hearts beating so fast right now and I honestly think maybe I should give it a miss and save mym oney but I feel like it'd be beneficial to me... just so many things could go wrong and sorting it out will be so nerve wracking :(. Any advice or personal tales would be duly noted, thankyou.

Welcome to the forum :) I started punting at 19 and still am punting at 47, its mainly great fun but i never just relied on punting which for me is for sex, whereas a relationship can offer so much more, so my advice is go on the pull and if you fancy a punt go for it. Remember its about you having fun so relax takes some deep breaths, its perfectly natural to be nervous. Good luck. :)

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Give it a few years, mate, but if you do decide to take the plunge DO NOT do it at your home.

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you're age doesn't matter hun. i've seen plenty of 18/19 yr olds while working in parlours....they would all pile in around 4am when the clubs closed. so if fear of being judged by the girls is what is stopping you...then that's silly, because that's an irrational fear. they won't care about your age.

i would however consider trying to date first, before jumping straight into punting. i know you say you have been unsuccessful....but you're only 18. still in that trial and error phase. then if it still doesn't work out you can always turn to punting at anytime. it's harder to go the other way though i would imagine. as in it's easier to turn to punting than it is to turn away from it and go back to dating. so maybe try dating first? xx

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You're worried about the wrong things. But since you ask, here's what you say when you make the appointment:

  1. Dial
  2. Say "Hi, I'd like to make an appointment with Sandra"
  3. They'll ask when and for how long
  4. Tell them
  5. Before they ring off to check if she's available, say "I'm 18 and have ID but I look younger. Can you ask Sandra if she's OK with that, otherwise you'd better suggest another girl?"
  6. They'll say "OK, we'll ask her and get back to you" (if not, they're useless, try another agency)
  7. Hang up

The fact is there's nothing more straightforward and businesslike than making an appointment with a WG. They just want to know you're not a timewaster or a loony, so get straight to the point.

What you should be worried about is that it's addictive. I don't regret it, but don't kid yourself it'll be easy to give up once you start.

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> What you should be worried about is that it's addictive. I don't regret it, but don't kid yourself it'll be easy to give up once you start.

Dead right. I didn't start until my 40s. I've had some great times, but I'm really glad I didn't start earlier because once the genie is out of the bottle it's very difficult to put it back.

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I trust that very nervous 44 will come back eventually and let us know how he resolved his conundrum.

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Thinking about the OP's dilemma, pehaps I should have started punting at 18. It would have made me more resiliant to becoming cuntstruck with the girlfriends I did have at that age.

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Just booked the appointment, very nervous but glad I did it. It's tommorow so you know hopefully it should go well.

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Well done you. Did it go okay? I mean, obviously cos you have made the booking, but ....em.....details? Lol,am so nosy,charmingly interested in the lives of others.

It's interesting to me that the guys on here, who obviously know what they are talking about, talk about it being addictive, and I'm sure it can be. Very much so when you are younger as well.

Whereas the 19 year old client I saw several times......listen verynervous, he was no Brad Pitt either sweetie. He wasn't very tall, he was skinny, I mean he wasn't a particularly good looking lad, you know? Which was one of the problems he had with girls, said they all wanted what he called 'gym rats and bad boys'. But he was sweet, he was a nice guy, and he was so gentle and tender, so into it, he was lovely to be with, and he made me cum like a fucking volcano. Every time. Which is not common for me.

He has a gf now, he is a good boy and is not unfaithful to her, and I know fine that what I gave him ......was confidence. Demystefied the whole thing a bit. We still say 'hi' online from time to time. And that's what I think you are looking for in part, that confidence and I so, so have my fingers crossed that it's great for you.

Ahem, it is in fact THE LAW, that you have to come back and tell us , lol.

Thinking about the OP's dilemma, pehaps I should have started punting at 18. It would have made me more resiliant to becoming cuntstruck with the girlfriends I did have at that age.

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Oh, and Bert? Cuntstruck? That's awesome and I am stealing it.

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Just booked the appointment, very nervous but glad I did it. It's tommorow so you know hopefully it should go well.

Please let us know how it goes and good luck. :)

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Yeh I was really tempted not to call the agency at first, I was shaking but I just thought back to the comment someone made about how I'm doing this for my own enjoyment and thought how it'd help me. I called the agency up and they were really nice and friendly. Couldn't get to book an appointment with the girl I originally planned on seeing and had to do a bit of time swapping but it alls worked out now. Just need to spend the rest of this evening and tommorow cleaning as much of my house as possible and making myself look presentable. I'm nervous about meeting her but not as nervous as I thought. Hopefully she should help with my confidence. The only problem I have now is how young I look as I look younger than 18. I'm tall for my age (6'2) but I have such a baby face, I have my passport though. Fingers crossed it goes well haha. And Lovely that is exactly what I'm looking for, the confidence. I'm really surprised by how nice everyone is here haha.

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Just booked the appointment, very nervous but glad I did it. It's tommorow so you know hopefully it should go well.

Good luck and good punting!

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It didn't happen or I should be more inclined to say it didn't happen at all like I thought. I showed her my i.d. and that was all fine but she did remark on how young I looked for her age. I was really awkward and I was quite surprised how blunt she was about things but then I don't know what I shouldv'e expected to be honest. Either way we must have chatted for about 5 mins, I noticed she was getting really awkward when she apologised gave my money back and said she couldn't do this. I looked too young and reminded her of someone she knew and whilst I had legitimate I.d. she had to call it off. I was devastated obviously, I felt bad that I'd made her feel uncomfortable and made her drive all that way out to see me. Anyway she left and I texted the agency about what happened and they texted back genuinely concerned that it hadn't worked out for me and offered to make an appointment at another time with another girl closer to my age. I just feel so bad I mean the whole reason I was going to try and have an appointment like thiswas to help with my confidence around women and her leaving kind of was a big knock to what confidence I have anyway. I might book a different person at another time but I honestly don't know if it's all for me. After she left I was properly depressed I just went up stairs, had a shower and fell asleep for a couple of hours. I feel so bad but I appreciate her giving me my money back and suggesting I try another person, that's strong character right there. I was properly nervous when she came round though and that must have killed it so much haha. Oh well, it was a bad first experience but I've just got to keep on going. Sorry that I couldn't come here and tel you guys about how amazing it was. I just hate how young I look you know, maybe I should wait a few years for my face to mature a bit before I see another escort or women in general.

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