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Girls Without Phone Numbers - Who Visits Them?

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There are lots of girls out there who don't give out a phone number but just have a way of sending a message to them over the net. I never contact them because you never know how long it will take them to get back to you, if they get back to you at all.

Judging by the numbers of them there must be guys who visit them. So how does it work? Do you send the message before the day you're planning to go? How long does it take you to get a reply? Are you always on the net?

I suppose if you have a smart phone you can reply in the daytime even if you're at work, but for me it's a step too far to have my every step logged geographically and on the web and have the two linked together. Since I'm at work in the day it just doesn't seem practical to me without that....

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OK...no-one then...but at least these girls don't have to keep dusting a phone! :D

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There are lots of girls out there who don't give out a phone number but just have a way of sending a message to them over the net. I never contact them because you never know how long it will take them to get back to you, if they get back to you at all. Judging by the numbers of them there must be guys who visit them. So how does it work? Do you send the message before the day you're planning to go? How long does it take you to get a reply? Are you always on the net? I suppose if you have a smart phone you can reply in the daytime even if you're at work, but for me it's a step too far to have my every step logged geographically and on the web and have the two linked together. Since I'm at work in the day it just doesn't seem practical to me without that....

No number no business from me but as some WGs on here have said over the years they get enough punters from email. I usually punt sameday and wont know till i wake up if i fancy a punt and just want to be able to make a call and if still interested book immediately. Some punters dont like using the phone or simply prefer email perhaps followed by a phone chat. Different preferences for different people.

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If I'm not working that day, that week, I don't list a number. They charge a quid a day to list a number.

A lot of women on ** & elsewhere don't work every day.

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When I started I had a full time job and didn't put my phone number up on 'that site'. I used to however give it out if a chap emailed me (nicely). I got all the business I needed at that time. Once I became a full time flooise my number went up and stays there, unless I am away for a few days. I used to be able to respond to my emails fairly quickly because I'd log in via my phone so even if I couldn't see someone that day I at least acknowledged them, but then I had my own office so could do this discreetly, not all people can use their phones at work.

I think many girls do this part time around study, careers and family so they don't need to be available on the phone 24/7, in fact this makes sense- why put a number up you can't respond to fairly quickly?

My advice is don't dismiss someone who hasn't got a number showing, but plan ahead so you can message her and give her a reasonable amount of time to respond. Ladies will also respond better to nice polite emails with a bit of an idea what you're looking for and when; so avoid one liners saying 'When are you free?', 'I want to fuck you' or 'Wots ur no?' and similar. If you say you prefer to speak to a lady before making a booking any reasonable professional woman will give it out and suggest a good time to make contact.

Oh and read her profile properly! She may say her turnaround time for responding to emails or when she is working. We write the things on there for a reason. I have made it quite clear in bold letters that I am away on holiday between x and y dates and still get messages saying 'Can I see you today?'

If you don't get a reply within a certain time then move on.. Of course there will be flakey types, but some of those include girls with numbers- you might be missing a gem, by avoiding those without numbers.

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Some guys do want to set everything up via email, trouble comes if they themselves aren't online all the time, or go off on travels without internet access and miss a vital email finalising things, or getting to the day and whoops we haven't saved the phone number for confirmation.

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I organise practically all my punts via email, I've never had a problem. I usually give a minimum of a couple of days notice before a booking as I'm quite anal about planning. If I don't get a response in that time, I move on. The other site is quite good in that you can see both when a WG has logged in, and if she's read your mail - helps to see how reliable/serious she is about her punters

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I organise practically all my punts via email, I've never had a problem. I usually give a minimum of a couple of days notice before a booking as I'm quite anal about planning. If I don't get a response in that time, I move on. The other site is quite good in that you can see both when a WG has logged in, and if she's read your mail - helps to see how reliable/serious she is about her punters

That is a useful facility indeed. By the way when referring to people going on travels and not having saved phone numbers, I'm actually referring to situations when a profile HAS had a number displayed - so am presuming the incidences, chances of it happening when a number isn't available on the profile is far, far higher.

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I prefer to set my punts up a day or two in advance, so don't mind using email at all. In fact I prefer it. Every now and again a WG doesn't reply, but if that's the case, I move onto the next one in the hotlist. Much more often than not though, I get a prompt reply, telephone nos are exchanged and a booking made. It works fine for me.

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I do not display a number and never will.

I get a lot of folk contacting me though, so it is not a problem at all.

I only have messages as my first point of contact, if I feel a gentleman is genuine I will send him my number and we can have a chat then.

I respond quick enough though to e-mails, I pride myself with it in fact.

I do not do on the day meets so having a number displayed is of no importance to me.

Guys who want sex on the day just do not approach someone like myself.

They will only approach a lady who does display a number.

You guys and us ladies all do what is right for us as individuals to do.

Lucy :)

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I do not display a number and never will.

I get a lot of folk contacting me though, so it is not a problem at all.

I only have messages as my first point of contact, if I feel a gentleman is genuine I will send him my number and we can have a chat then.

I respond quick enough though to e-mails, I pride myself with it in fact.

I do not do on the day meets so having a number displayed is of no importance to me.

Guys who want sex on the day just do not approach someone like myself.

They will only approach a lady who does display a number.

You guys and us ladies all do what is right for us as individuals to do.

Lucy :)

I get contacted by guys via email for sameday bookings, and I get the impression they'd be more than happy to set everything up without phoning (no good for me though).

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I get contacted by guys via email for sameday bookings, and I get the impression they'd be more than happy to set everything up without phoning (no good for me though).

I agree. It's always nice to have a telecon first Strawberry. You can judge so much about someone from their voice that doesn't come across via email. I understand why many girls insist on it and am happy to comply as it gives me a chance to assess them as well.

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There are lots of girls out there who don't give out a phone number but just have a way of sending a message to them over the net. I never contact them because you never know how long it will take them to get back to you, if they get back to you at all.

Judging by the numbers of them there must be guys who visit them. So how does it work? Do you send the message before the day you're planning to go? How long does it take you to get a reply? Are you always on the net?

I have done this a number of times over the last couple of years and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. My approach is always to email the escort a few days before I want to see them and give them a deadline (normally the evening of the day before) by which time thay should respond. If they don't respond then I send them another email and move on. If they respond with a friendly email, then I will try to see them at a future date. If they don't respond to the second email then I don't try to see them again.

Once we have contact then I always have telephone conversation with them before the meeting is confirmed.

On the Purple Site in particular there are numerous ladies who are very much part time escorts who just wish to see one or two clients each week. Many have full time jobs. For them, they have no wish to be called at any time of day or night so this approach works very well for them. For me, I have met at least three excellent part time escorts over the last couple of years using this method.

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Interesting thread, particularly as to my situation right now.

Noticed a profile on 'that site' -- pics are 'self pics ' using a mobile phone , mirrors and lighting is deliberately below par so her face is not crysatal clear -- NO PHONE NO..

Anyway,used the internal email facility to say hello etc.Got the lady to send me some of the pics by ordinary email but they were no clearer than the ones on the site. After exchanging emails -- all are pleasant, she gave me her no. Said she was available on weekdays but I noticed I would only get a reply once a day or so to my mails.I dont know why, no explanation given. Says her ordinary email is corrupted, so she cant use that and last night gave the reason for failure to answer her telephone as she noticed it was on 'airplane mode ' ( this is after 10 days of communication )!! She only does hotel outcalls.

I cant make it out.She has put in quite a bit of effort with me in communications and I feel she is interested but the only responding to emails once a day, and having her mobile on airplane mode ( when she has not been flying for 2 weeks ), no very clear pics,all makes me a bit unsure. I like things to flow easily and naturally,. I'm in two minds now .

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As i'm not a same day punter, the lack of a phone number is not a great problem to me. Also, as i'm a little reserved & shy at first, i find it easier when it does come round to a phone chat, if we have already exchanged a few emails. I don't then feel as though i am talking to a complete stranger. I appreciate the problem if you want a sameday appointment but there are thousands of ladies out there who do give numbers. Just move on.

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email is all very well but for that 'emergency punt' you need a phone number.

I think a lot of married guys will suddenly get a window of opportunity and then only girls with phone numbers are worth bothering with as the email process is too slow.

pity adultwank charge for filtering on girls with phone numbers

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email is all very well but for that 'emergency punt' you need a phone number.

I think a lot of married guys will suddenly get a window of opportunity and then only girls with phone numbers are worth bothering with as the email process is too slow.

pity adultwank charge for filtering on girls with phone numbers

I wonder why the other site charge punters so much to see the ladies with displayed phone numbers.

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I wonder why the other site charge punters so much to see the ladies with displayed phone numbers.

I wasn't aware they did, is this true?

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I wasn't aware they did, is this true?

No! Arse about face! That site charges ladies a quid a day to display their telephone numbers. The punter pays nothing whatsoever to see profiles. He (she??) does pay to look at a lady's "Private Gallery" where she doesn't show her telephone number!

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I wasn't aware they did, is this true?

When using the search on the purple site as a client it is possible to specify that your results only show SPs who list a phone number. But to do so one must subscribe to the "telephone directory" which costs from 2 credits for a 30 minute subscription or 5 credits for 24 hours up to 60 credits for a 6 month subscription. That seems like an excessive expenditure to me just to save a few minutes of extra browsing finding the profiles with a phone number for yourself out of your standard search results but presumably some people do use it.

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I am happy to make initial contact by e-mail, since I like to plan ahead. However, in my first mail I always ask for a phone number so we can chat and sort out any particular details. If no number is sent back, I move on. I realise that I may be missing the odd gem but that's a chance I am prepared to take.

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I do not display a number and never will.

I get a lot of folk contacting me though, so it is not a problem at all.

I only have messages as my first point of contact, if I feel a gentleman is genuine I will send him my number and we can have a chat then.

I respond quick enough though to e-mails, I pride myself with it in fact.

Maybe I'll try again, I was put off in the past by not getting responses, but perhaps I will persevere.

I think if girls said in their description that they reply to messages quickly with a phone number I would be happy to email or send a message. Or do you not say that as a way to filter out the wrong types? What a good thing these little rules we all have vary or there would be a thundering stampede of punters arriving at the door of a single WG...

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As i live in the arse end of nowhere it's almost impossible to do same day punts so I arrange things in advance using email to start with. Some girls are quick to respond, others only seem to check once a day. If any questions I have are answered to my satisfaction then I move on to a telephone call to finish arranging things. I've never had to ask for a number, most ladies I've contacted normally volunteer one in the first few mails.

From what I've gathered speaking to different WGs they don't display their numbers mainly down to timewasters.

As someone above said, with the growing popularity of smart phones you can get your emails wherever you are instantly

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As someone above said, with the growing popularity of smart phones you can get your emails wherever you are instantly

I guess that would have been me in my opening post, pointing out that that I wasn't about to do that.

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As i live in the arse end of nowhere it's almost impossible to do same day punts so I arrange things in advance using email to start with. Some girls are quick to respond, others only seem to check once a day. If any questions I have are answered to my satisfaction then I move on to a telephone call to finish arranging things. I've never had to ask for a number, most ladies I've contacted normally volunteer one in the first few mails.

From what I've gathered speaking to different WGs they don't display their numbers mainly down to timewasters.

As someone above said, with the growing popularity of smart phones you can get your emails wherever you are instantly

Correct however not all day to day activities allow for constantly attending to a mobile phone. Things such as driving, at a gym class, being with clients in actual bookings, spending time with friends, out for a meal with family are generally not compatible with replying to messages. Also mobile signal isn't always very good for internet access in quite a few areas still. I use email to communicate in several areas of my life, and my experience is that the average response time for most people and businesses is around 24 hours.

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