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Quick Shag Or Passionate Love Making?

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This is a quick quesition to punters and escorts alike.

Do you normally visit an escort to bang her brains out (forgive the vulgarity) or visit her for an hour of intimacy and getting close. I'd like to visit an escort to form some kind of bond which i believe will give me confidence with other women outside. I'm just not sure if the escort will be a fan of getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc.

Any thoughts on whether it's better to just go in and out or really take some time?

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This is a quick quesition to punters and escorts alike.

Do you normally visit an escort to bang her brains out (forgive the vulgarity) or visit her for an hour of intimacy and getting close. I'd like to visit an escort to form some kind of bond which i believe will give me confidence with other women outside. I'm just not sure if the escort will be a fan of getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc.

Any thoughts on whether it's better to just go in and out or really take some time?

thanks

Again only you can make this decision. My minimum punt length is an hour and a good WG will take things at whatever pace suits you and if she offers deep tongues or DFK as i call it on here thats what you will get. It depends what you mean by bond here, if it means just getting friendly on the punt then fine, anymore than that might be seen as getting too close, a WG is doing the job primarily for money of course so my advice is always bear that in mind. :)

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It's the mix I like in this job! The chatting, flirting and a long build up of mutual foreplay is as much fun as a fast furious banging, they both have their merits and I would struggle to choose if I only had to pick one type of booking to only do!

Saying that, one of the things I do love about this job is meeting new people, hearing about them, their jobs and hobbies and having a good chat. The other thing I love is the copious amount and variety of sex I get to have! :)

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Its completely personal preference.And you can of course do both!

Many escorts are fine with "getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc." as you put it.And on a longer booking it would be pretty much expected.

A feeling of passion and intimacy is gererally what I look for.

It can take time to find someone who offers just what you want.That is the same in all departments of life.

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It depends on you.

For me, there's an optimum intimacy / distance. If he's too distant & treats me like a masturbation aid.... my mind goes to Waitrose. If he wants too much intimacy... I'm on the beach, I can feel the sun against my skin, I hear the waves lapping on the beach, I feel the hot sand beneath me... And yes, I smile - But I WON'T see him again!

Most clients are right in my zone though. I don't make love to my clients, we make like.

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Again only you can make this decision. My minimum punt length is an hour and a good WG will take things at whatever pace suits you and if she offers deep tongues or DFK as i call it on here thats what you will get. It depends what you mean by bond here, if it means just getting friendly on the punt then fine, anymore than that might be seen as getting too close, a WG is doing the job primarily for money of course so my advice is always bear that in mind. :)

thanks smiths. I don't want to be in a position where I get attached to the girl. I want to be able to gain my confidence, be able to talk to girls and have a good time with the girl. Also, being a student i need something to take my mind of revision. And i'm quite shy to talk to all the girls on my course.

It's the mix I like in this job! The chatting, flirting and a long build up of mutual foreplay is as much fun as a fast furious banging, they both have their merits and I would struggle to choose if I only had to pick one type of booking to only do!

Saying that, one of the things I do love about this job is meeting new people, hearing about them, their jobs and hobbies and having a good chat. The other thing I love is the copious amount and variety of sex I get to have! :)

thanks lydia. Do you ever feel that sometimes the bond between you and a punter is more than that of a clienet and service provider?

Its completely personal preference.And you can of course do both!

Many escorts are fine with "getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc." as you put it.And on a longer booking it would be pretty much expected.

A feeling of passion and intimacy is gererally what I look for.

It can take time to find someone who offers just what you want.That is the same in all departments of life.

thanks ringo, i have seen a few girls that i would like to make my booking with but i'm unsure how to narrow them down. Having whatever you want makes choosing just that little bit more difficult!

It depends on you.

For me, there's an optimum intimacy / distance. If he's too distant & treats me like a masturbation aid.... my mind goes to Waitrose. If he wants too much intimacy... I'm on the beach, I can feel the sun against my skin, I hear the waves lapping on the beach, I feel the hot sand beneath me... And yes, I smile - But I WON'T see him again!

Most clients are right in my zone though. I don't make love to my clients, we make like.

thanks lara. When you say he wants too much intimacy, and you won't see him again. Do you mean that you don't see him because you choose not too, or because he doesn't decide to come and see you again?

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I generally book at least an hour and expect to start slowly getting more intimate at the time unfolds. I would be very cross if DFK and OWO were not on the agenda at some stage.

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A couple of hours, bit of chat and I like to massage a girl. Attempt a kiss and if she's not up for it shelve that idea then it's nice slow sex in missionary but a vigorous doggy to produce the goods. Then hopefully she takes over. I don't make love.

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thanks lydia. Do you ever feel that sometimes the bond between you and a punter is more than that of a clienet and service provider?

Not really no! If he's paying to see me then the relationship remains client/Escort. However I have clients that I click with and regular clients I am fond of.

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I agree that 1 hour is the minimum time if you are looking for some social connection as well as sexual. This is why I always enjoy the company of women. for whom english is their first language or an excellent second.

If you can't talk to somebody then you do not get as much out of the appointment. Sometimes the action speeds up and can end in a 'quick shag' but I need to be able to relate to them as a person..

I guess this makes me a devotee of the GFE rather than the PSE.

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Do you normally visit an escort to bang her brains out (forgive the vulgarity) or visit her for an hour of intimacy and getting close. I'd like to visit an escort to form some kind of bond which i believe will give me confidence with other women outside. I'm just not sure if the escort will be a fan of getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc.

I really rather enjoy the physical intimacy of kissing, cuddling and fondling. I like the feeling of being close to a lady and feeling like I'm cared about and so like taking it slow. However, I wouldn't want to discus anything personal or for it to be proper intimacy because I'm the kind of guy who likes to keep fantasy and reality very clear and distinct in my mind, and I'd feel uncomfortable if that line was ever blurred.

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For me it's definitely about taking time and getting to know the person. I get more turned on by just holding a lady in my arms and gently caressing her than almost anything else. Last time I saw my lovely regular lady, we stood up cuddling and gently kissing in our underwear for about 15 minutes. By the time she took my pants off I was so hard and drenched with precum her eyes widended and she sweetly stifled a little gasp with her hands. We both burst out laughing!

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thanks lara. When you say he wants too much intimacy, and you won't see him again. Do you mean that you don't see him because you choose not too, or because he doesn't decide to come and see you again?

I choose not to. There are boundaries, which are generally respected, for both our protection.

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My most enjoyable punts are 2 hours long - even sometimes with a girl I'm seeing for the first time.

Call me a bit of a fluffy if you will but I do like to get to know the girl a little before shagging. Even more to the point I can't orgasm as freely as I once did so a longish sensual build up is what I seek. Two hours usually does it for me.

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I like to take my time, and usually book for two hours - that allows time to chat, get comfortable with each other, and there's no rush. I'm another fan of the kissing, cuddling and exploring each other for a bit before getting to sex, and in fact have had several sessions where I've been happy not to have sex at all, and it's still been a very enjoyable experience.

So I'm certainly not one for just a 'quick shag', that wouldn't suit me at all, but I wouldn't describe it as 'passionate love making' either, that's something different that happens within a relationship. As for which approach is better, well I guess that depends on you.

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This is a quick quesition to punters and escorts alike.

Do you normally visit an escort to bang her brains out (forgive the vulgarity) or visit her for an hour of intimacy and getting close. I'd like to visit an escort to form some kind of bond which i believe will give me confidence with other women outside. I'm just not sure if the escort will be a fan of getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc.

Any thoughts on whether it's better to just go in and out or really take some time?

thanks

If you're visiting an escort in order to establish some kind of bond then I don't think it's something you can plan; it will either happen or it won't. But I guess it definitely won't if you (1) "just go in and out" or (2) have forming a relationship as your plain intention. If you're looking at some practice in establishing relationships with girls is it really an escort you need? What about singles clubs or dating agencies? Best of luck and I do hope you find what you're looking for.

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I could ramble on this forever - my blog is proofpositive of that..

but I would say; Both.

I like the illusion of passionate lovemaking, start softly, and escalate into delicious intercourse.

but the sex, good, raw, hot sex, is definitely the cherry on the cake.

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i have seen a few girls that i would like to make my booking with but i'm unsure how to narrow them down. Having whatever you want makes choosing just that little bit more difficult!

In my opinion jp1, if you have a list of girls you think you'll be happy seeing, don't agonise over narrowing it down to the perfect choice. There is no such thing. Give one of them a ring and see what develops.

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My ideal punt would be at least an hour, I'd want to start slow & sensual, kissing & stroking, get to know each other a bit, let the passion build into some energetic lovemaking with maybe a frantic race to the finish, then time to enjoy the afterglow with some tender kissing and chat. So a mixture really.

I'd want to feel that we clicked in some way, some girls are so attractive & welcoming, it's impossible not to start falling for them, so you need to seek out some variety, find a few girls who you seem to click with, so you don't end up fixated on the one, the last thing she needs lovesick puppy.

I would say that seeing some amazing escorts this last 18 months has improved my confidence around women in general. I used to be so in awe of an attractive woman that I found it difficult to strike up a friendly conversation. But having been with so many beautiful WGs and experiencing their easy-going, approachable nature, it has now demystified women for me. I also know that I can get sexual relief if i need it, so it takes away that pressure too. I find myself having really good interactions with all sorts of women, they seem to respond to my new-found confidence, I'm no longer shy about starting a conversation with a good-looking woman and have had some great responses. Hopefully your confidence wiill grow in the same way.

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My ideal punt would be at least an hour, I'd want to start slow & sensual, kissing & stroking, get to know each other a bit, let the passion build into some energetic lovemaking with maybe a frantic race to the finish, then time to enjoy the afterglow with some tender kissing and chat. So a mixture really.

I'd want to feel that we clicked in some way, some girls are so attractive & welcoming, it's impossible not to start falling for them, so you need to seek out some variety, find a few girls who you seem to click with, so you don't end up fixated on the one, the last thing she needs lovesick puppy.

I would say that seeing some amazing escorts this last 18 months has improved my confidence around women in general. I used to be so in awe of an attractive woman that I found it difficult to strike up a friendly conversation. But having been with so many beautiful WGs and experiencing their easy-going, approachable nature, it has now demystified women for me. I also know that I can get sexual relief if i need it, so it takes away that pressure too. I find myself having really good interactions with all sorts of women, they seem to respond to my new-found confidence, I'm no longer shy about starting a conversation with a good-looking woman and have had some great responses. Hopefully your confidence wiill grow in the same way.

This is so sweet baby. So nice. You made me smile, and hope that what I do makes my clients more confident as well.

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This is so sweet baby. So nice. You made me smile, and hope that what I do makes my clients more confident as well.

Why thank you darling!

I'm sure all those checkout girls, waitresses and shop assistants are feeling the effects of your clients' new found confidence too!! Keep spreadin' the love!! :wub:

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It would have to start with kissing and cuddling, and then chattinf to see what could develope, then I hope we would get into some role play and explore some new type of intimacy together, ending with how we began the session.

Does it matter if you cum or not, I dont think it does to me as I can always replay it over again and again in my head.

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This is a quick quesition to punters and escorts alike.

Do you normally visit an escort to bang her brains out (forgive the vulgarity) or visit her for an hour of intimacy and getting close. I'd like to visit an escort to form some kind of bond which i believe will give me confidence with other women outside. I'm just not sure if the escort will be a fan of getting intimate, taking it slow, deep tounges etc.

Any thoughts on whether it's better to just go in and out or really take some time?

thanks

Somedays I feel for dirty sex. Someday for slow and lovemaking type. Some day I have healthy meal and sometimes junk food. Some times I watch Sports and sometimes movies. Some movies I like have only comedy, some only drama, some both. Some have history and drama but best is titanic which has history drama and kates boobs to watch too. Really waiting for 3D version on titanic. Did they manage to give the real lift to kates boobs in the painting scene?

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My ideal punt would be at least an hour, I'd want to start slow & sensual, kissing & stroking, get to know each other a bit, let the passion build into some energetic lovemaking with maybe a frantic race to the finish, then time to enjoy the afterglow with some tender kissing and chat. So a mixture really.

I'd want to feel that we clicked in some way, some girls are so attractive & welcoming, it's impossible not to start falling for them, so you need to seek out some variety, find a few girls who you seem to click with, so you don't end up fixated on the one, the last thing she needs lovesick puppy.

I would say that seeing some amazing escorts this last 18 months has improved my confidence around women in general. I used to be so in awe of an attractive woman that I found it difficult to strike up a friendly conversation. But having been with so many beautiful WGs and experiencing their easy-going, approachable nature, it has now demystified women for me. I also know that I can get sexual relief if i need it, so it takes away that pressure too. I find myself having really good interactions with all sorts of women, they seem to respond to my new-found confidence, I'm no longer shy about starting a conversation with a good-looking woman and have had some great responses. Hopefully your confidence wiill grow in the same way.

I concur, I noticed the same result, prior to punting, I only had sex with one women(7 in looks) by the time I was 20, so my confidence level was quite low when it comes to dealing with attractive women, I would be more confident around cute chicks or average looking: but very attractive ones like 10's, I would be nervous around them and scared to spark a conversations, I still had insecurities such as " I'm probably not that good in bed, since I only had sex with one girl" or " I wonder if this girl might say something harsh about my sexual skills in bed, since I got very little experiences in bed" etc etc.

When I turned 21, I became totally transformed through the experiences of having sex with variation of beautiful WG's , my confidence level went through the roof, my swagger was on whole another threshold, I remember one time I had punted with Eva( from soho), I was walking through Central London: Like a king is destined to wear a crown in my head. I don't know why prostitution is considered a taboo, well I have had lovely experiences, which has helped me alot when it comes to dealing with average chicks, I remember couple weeks ago, I would talk to chick from South america, I couldn't believe myself: how much confidence I had in me, the level of tranquillity while talking to regular chick, I was shocked :D .

My Empirical Results from Punting:

- Boosted my sexual confidence in bed: exceedingly improved my sexual skills

-Higher level of Confidence & ultra swagger, each good punt, lead to higher level of confidence :D

-More relaxed talking to very attractive chicks

- Impervious to rejections when it comes to the dating scene, I went to O2 arena club, I took more than 4 rejections with ease :D , still approached other ladies,eventually,I had resplendent dance with attractive chick :lol:

Reason why I could handle rejections just like bullet proof can handle bullets: all I had to do is to reflect on the good moment I had with better looking WG than the regular chicks that rejected me haha :)

I APPRECIATE THE HONEST WG'S :wub: FOR HELPING ME BECOMING THE SMOOTH,SUAVE AND RAW CONFIDENT MALE

STAAAAAAAAAAAAY PUNTING HA HA

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I think the last post was actually a reply to the @what has punting done for you@ thread, but never mind.

Don't plan too closely for what will happen in a punt, but do try and select the kind of girl who you think will give you what you want. Not the best looking one who might/might not.

And passionate lovemaking does not normally happen on a punt. Great sex often does though, and they are not the same. I would say the girls are never more comfortable than when you are not trying to make love to them. but simply having some good sex. Most like to keep a bit of distance between themselves and their clients, pace lara.

There are intimate moments though. When anyone has a climax, especially the girl, thats still very intimate. Me, i just chuck the muck anywhere, wipe my dick on the curtains, and walk out

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